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Relationship Theory with Tom Bilyeu Extra Impact
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Join power couple Tom and Lisa Bilyeu on an extraordinary journey with "Relationship Theory," a podcast playlist showcasing their secrets to a successful relationship and entrepreneurial triumph. Having co-founded Quest Nutrition, sold for $1 billion, and built Impact Theory together, Tom and Lisa's partnership extends beyond their 20-year marriage into groundbreaking business achievements. In this exclusive playlist, they open up about their journey, sharing candid advice and personal experiences that delve into the art of balancing love, life, and business. Each episode features insightful conversations on crucial relationship topics—from maintaining strong bonds in challenging times to nurturing mutual growth and respect. Ideal for couples striving for both romantic and professional success, this playlist is a goldmine of practical wisdom and inspiring stories. Tune in and learn from Tom and Lisa's unique perspective on building a powerful relationship that stands the test of time and triumphs in the entrepreneurial world. Embrace their strategies, ignite your partnership, and embark on a path to creating your own extraordinary legacy together!
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How Good Sex Will Help Your Relationship and Your Mental Health
More than half of all teenagers are totally uncomfortable discussing the same thing that nearly a third of adults are uncomfortable discussing. Sex! The question that Tom and Lisa tackle today is if waiting to have sex before marriage is the right thing. Yes, there are religious and cultural beliefs that will provide the answer and wisdom you need should you subscribe to those beliefs, but in this episode Tom and Lisa take a practical perspective about sex before marriage, living together first, and discovering compatibility and a common baseline in one of the most important aspects of your relationship. Their advice for a long-term healthy and happy relationship acknowledges the importance of feeling safe physically and emotionally, but more importantly being open to communicate and discuss sex together. [Original air date: April 23, 2021].
SHOW NOTES:
Sex Before Marriage | Tom why waiting for marriage to have sex is madness [0:35]
Living Together | Tom explains why living together 1st is a best practice for longevity [1:25]
No Fireworks | Lisa on the disappoint of first sexual experience and missing the fireworks [3:41]
Safe Exploration | Connecting and having safety to physically and emotionally explore [5:28]
Compatibility | Being on the same page, shared electricity, and know your sex flavor [8:05]
Frequency | Having open communication about frequency and feeling neglected [9:02]
Orgasmic | Tom on the neuro chemistry and power orgasm has for antidepressant [11:33]
Fetishes | Important of openly discussing fetishes and having no judgement [13:07]
Growing | Tom shares the value evolving in the sexual relationship and journey together [15:27]
Real Talk | Real time communication Tom’s intention vs. Lisa’s values on “experiment” [16:06]
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How To Get Over Your Ex In 45 Minutes
In this week’s episode of Relationship Theory, Tom and Lisa discuss getting into a relationship and whether or not your sexual history should hinder your relationship future.
[Original air date: July 27, 2018].
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How to Establish if Your Relationship is a Priority
Do you struggle with fulfilling the expectations of your partner and your responsibilities in other life areas? In this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down and share how they managed to make their relationship the number one priority while achieving success in other life areas.. After watching this episode, you’ll know why knowing your value system is the key to balancing work with your relationship and how Tom is able to manage both his business and his relationship successfully. They explain why knowing your partner´s expectations isessential for a lasting relationship and why communication in relationships can be learned even if it doesn´t come naturally to you, and much more. [Original air date: March 28, 2021].
SHOW NOTES:
Why knowing your value system is the key to balancing work with your relationship. [00:39]
How Tom is able to manage both his business and his relationship successfully. [3:15]
Why knowing your partner´s expectations is essential for a lasting relationship. [4:36]
Tom´s highest priority is Lisa, yet he went on a business trip when she needed him most; here´s why. [7:23]
Avoid this mistake if your partner makes a decision you don´t like. [9:45]
Why communication in relationships can be learned even if it doesn´t come naturally to you. [10:50]
The rules Lisa and Tom set up that allows Tom to go hard in his business while being there for Lisa when she needs him. [11:44]
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Relationship Sacrifices: What You Should and Shouldn't Give Up In A Relationship
No doubt there are things you sacrifice in every relationship. Sometimes the sacrifices are mutual and other times they tend to be more one sided. The time comes when you have to ask yourself, who’s the sacrifice for? Is it for you or for your partner? You can't be annoyed if your sacrifice is not appreciated or well received. Tom and Lisa share several of their own examples and explain why it may be better to give the gift your partner values and wants to receive, or accept that the sacrifice is something you’re doing to align with your own identity and reasons with no expectations. [Original air date: August 8, 2021]. a
Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.
SHOW NOTES:
Mutual Sacrifice | How to employ daily or weekly sacrifices for each other in relationship [0:29]
Compromise | Tom shares why compromise is like sacrifice [1:06] Small Sacrifices | Lisa explains why the small sacrifices matter [1:32]
Physical Sacrifice | Tom explains how he takes on physical sacrifice for Lisa [2:01]
Time Sacrifice | Lisa shares how time is sacrificed for ambition and support [3:38]
One Sided Sacrifice | How self-imposed sacrifices can go not well received or appreciated [4:53]
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Leveraging Alpha and Beta Roles in Your Partnership
Tom Bilyeu and Lisa Bilyeu (@lisabilyeu) discuss topics such as: using neuroscience to better cater to your partner emotionally and how to have healthy arguments in this episode of Relationship Theory. [Original air date: Jun 21, 2017].
Tom Bilyeu is the co-founder of 2014 Inc. 500 company Quest Nutrition — a unicorn startup valued at over $1 billion — and the co-founder and host of Impact Theory. Impact Theory is a first-of-its-kind company designed to facilitate global change through the incubation of mission-based businesses and the cultivation of empowering content. Every piece of content Impact Theory creates is meant to underscore the company mission to free people from The Matrix and help them unlock their true potential. Impact Theory exists to inspire the next generation of game-changing companies and creators that will make a true and lasting impact on the world.
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How to Rebuild Trust After it's Broken
The road to recovery once trust has been broken in a relationship can be long and painful for everyone involved. In this episode Tom and Lisa take a look from both sides of the one betrayed and the betrayer. Healing is a process and once that cannot be rushed, but is it more painful for the person who needs to forgive or the person that needs to earn back the trust that has been damaged? Regardless what side of the fence you are on, this conversation offers hard truths on both sides to consider. Letting go is easier said than done, and necessary if there is to be any recovery and future there after. [Original air date: April 4, 2021].
SHOW NOTES:
Getting past betrayal requires you to let it go [1:12]
The challenge of being remorseful and changing your behavior [2:08]
What the cycle of not letting go potentially looks like for the average person [3:22]
Knowing how to actually let it go [4:29]
Holding on to betrayal and not allowing yourself to heal [5:54]
Taking ownership of the betrayal to regain your power and not be the victim [6:32]
How to deal with letting go when it’s stills fresh [7:32]
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