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Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily by emailing feedback@sexwithemily.com. For more sexy fun, including blogs, photos, videos or to stream this show, visit sexwithemily.com.     
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Sex With Emily Dr. Emily Morse

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Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily by emailing feedback@sexwithemily.com. For more sexy fun, including blogs, photos, videos or to stream this show, visit sexwithemily.com.     
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    It’s Open (Relationship) Season w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

    It’s Open (Relationship) Season w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

    Let’s talk about non-monogamy! In the nearly two decades since I’ve been doing the show, I’ve never gotten so much interest in this topic as I am right now. Which is why I’m joined today by cultural anthropologist Dr. Wednesday Martin, who in addition to researching non-monogamy for her books and articles, has first-hand experience opening up her own marriage. 
    On today’s episode, Wednesday reveals what modern sex research shows about female sexuality and long-term, monogamous relationships: a woman’s desire typically wanes between year 1 to 4. In addition, Wednesday and I discuss the difference between non-monogamy, swinging and polyamory, how to go about finding a partner outside of your primary relationship, how to set rules, and the surprising ways opening up improved her own partnership. 
    Show Notes:
    More Wednesday Martin: Website | Instagram | Twitter | YoutubeUntrue by Wednesday Martin7 Myths of Non-MonogamyFeeldOpening Up by Tristan TaorminoOpen Monogamy: A Guide to Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement by Tammy NelsonThe Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual PossibilitiesOpen Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open RelationshipsCrazy on the Inside: A Memoir of Nobody SpecialPolysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non MonogamyThe Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy: Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting GoMore Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory 

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    • 1 hr 9 min
    All About Anal

    All About Anal

    Have you ever tried anal play? Anal sex? Because if not, here’s my question to you…what’s holding you back?
    For most folks, the answer is fear. We’re scared it will hurt, scared that we don’t know what we’re doing, scared we’ll feel ashamed if we just so happen to love it. That’s why I’ve got two of the anal pleasure experts on the show today, to help demystify and destigmatize anal play, and help you open up yet another pathway to pleasure. Dr. Evan Goldstein and Alicia Sinclair talk to me about anal orgasms (not a myth), the importance of anal training, how to prepare hygienically, and how to strengthen the mind-booty connection for a successful, erotic anal experience. 
    Show Notes:
    Anal Play: A Beginner's Guide OR Prostate Play 101More Evan Goldstein: Website | Instagram | Bespoke Surgical | Future MethodMore B-vibe: Website | Instagram


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    • 45 min
    Babe, Let’s Talk About Our Sex Life

    Babe, Let’s Talk About Our Sex Life

    If you’ve never talked about your sex life with your partner before, there’s a good chance they’ll push back. Why? Because most of us go into fight or flight mode when talking about sex: it’s not normalized in our culture, we get defensive, we feel like we’re being criticized. But never fear – you can create a culture of sex communication in your relationship, one talk at a time. Be the change, is what I’m saying.
    On today’s hotline show, I take your calls about having a sex talk. Like: telling your wife you want her to massage your prostate. Or telling a partner you want your vanilla sex to be a little spicier. How to relax into oral and give your partner tips to make you scream, and how to tell your partner: “you know what? I need to be seduced a little before we jump into penetration.” If we can talk about sex like we talk about dinner, everyone wins! So take a listen to this episode, and see if your next sex talk isn’t a little bit easier. 
    Show Notes:
    Embodied is The New Sexy: 5 Benefits of Living a Radically Embodied Life A+ Oral Sex for VulvasEverybody Loves OralAsk Emily: How Do I Better Enjoy Oral Sex? Mind-Blowing Oral Sex in Under 5 Minutes: The Kivin Method


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    • 22 min
    Break Your Bad Dating Habits

    Break Your Bad Dating Habits

    Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and how can you break them?
    I asked you to tell me what negative dating patterns you’re trying to change, and you all delivered! On today’s show, I’m addressing your top dating problems so we can solve them together. Having sex too soon, trying to “fix” less-than-ideal partners, fear of asserting yourself, having misaligned expectations, the tendency to audition people for the role of life partner – we’re covering it all, so you can feel empowered with new partners and have an amazing time with existing partners. 
    Show Notes:
    Ask Emily: Tips for French Kissing Am I Dating a Narcissist? w/ Dr RamaniHow to Not Die Alone w/ Logan UryOrgasms and Oral (No Penetration Required) More About EMDR Therapy

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    • 41 min
    Ejaculate Responsibly w/ Gabrielle Blair

    Ejaculate Responsibly w/ Gabrielle Blair

    When it comes to sex, why was the world set up so that vulva owners are the ones in charge of preventing a pregnancy? That’s the central question of a Twitter thread that went viral in 2018, and on today’s show I’ve got Gabrielle Stanley Blair, the author of that thread – and a forthcoming book, Ejaculate Responsibly – here to talk about it. I’m also joined by anthropologist, author, and my dear friend Dr. Wednesday Martin, to unpack this fascinating topic. 
    In a post-Roe world, Gabrielle is calling for a wholesale shift in the way we think about pregnancy prevention: namely, by inviting penis owners and their bodies into the conversation. On today’s show, we talk condoms and sexual pleasure, how society pressures vulva owners to become mothers, how to talk to young men about ejaculating responsibly, why MORE sex ed leads to LESS unwanted pregnancies, and why Gabrielle – mother of six and a Mormon – is passionate about arguing that women’s lives matter, and so does their pleasure. 
    Show Notes:
    More Gabrielle Blair: Instagram | Twitter  | Website Gabrielle’s Viral Twitter ThreadMore information about her forthcoming book: Ejaculate ResponsiblyMore Dr Wednesday Martin: Instagram | Twitter  | Website The Secret to Better Sex? Talking About It

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    • 57 min
    Talkin’ Sex w/ My Therapist Dr Anadel Barbour

    Talkin’ Sex w/ My Therapist Dr Anadel Barbour

    Anxiety, depression and low self-worth all block our sexual pleasure. But on a more fundamental level, they block us from showing up in the world the way we’d like: as confident, happy, sexy people. That’s why I invited my own therapist, Dr. Anadel Barbour, to talk to us through healing those intrusive thoughts. If you’re ready, your internal work starts today. 
    On this best-of episode, Dr. Barbour and I discuss EMDR therapy, the four foundations of mindfulness, how to physically move through trauma, healing shame, and how to know if you’re in constant fight or flight. We also touch on sex and pain, and mindfulness in and out of the bedroom. If you’ve ever considered therapy but are on the fence about it, I hope this episode gives you some encouragement – because healing emotional wounds can truly transform your sex life.

    Show Notes:
    More Dr Anadel Barbour: Website | Instagram | Twitter Sex In Sobriety by Dr Anadel BarbourMore About EMDR TherapyOvercoming 4 Common Sex Fears


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    • 49 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
5.4K Ratings

5.4K Ratings

great show but cuts people orf ,

Great show but cuts people off

Makes talking about sex really approachable and has great insight and advice - I particularly liked the boundaries episode. However, when she brings on guests or callers she has a tendency to cut them off or not let them finish their thought before moving onto the next topic or ending the conversation altogether.

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Toxic to Men

Sorry but after listening for a year and wondering if this woman is being purposely toxic towards men or not, the Gabrielle Blair episode sealed the deal for me. Listen to the first 10 mins and prove me wrong. Disgusting.

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Jenny Mollen episode

Loved the Jenny episode. So real and funny

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