Sexuality, Male Trauma, and Healing Through Rough and Tumble Play | Rafe Kelley

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In this episode I’m joined by Rafe Kelley of Evolve, Move, Play. We delve deep into the transformative power of rough-and-tumble play and its role in sexual expression and healing trauma. 

Rafe shares intimate personal stories of childhood trauma, addressing issues of sexual and emotional abuse, and his journey into the martial arts and using movement as a tool to heal and evolve. We also discuss the interplay between the body and emotional trauma, the importance of touch, consent, and attunement in adult relationships (from friendly to romantic). 

Join us as we explore the significance of grappling with constraints, pain and adversity on the path to freedom and healing in this candid and insightful conversation.

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// CHAPTERS //

00:00 Kinetix Summer School Announcement

01:03 Rafe’s Background and Interests

4:41 Childhood and Family History

21:07 Early Experiences with Violence and Martial Arts

27:45 Navigating Personal Trauma and Healing

41:02 Struggles in Marriage and Therapy

50:23 New Beginnings

01:06:09 Healing through Rough and Tumble Play

01:16:18 Impact of Birth Stories

01:23:29 Why Adults Need Play + Sexual Dynamics

01:29:14 Boundaries, Consent and Safety in Relationships

01:44:27 Touch Literacy

01:49:42 The Moral Fabric of Society

02:00:44 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

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