SLP 436: Flow with Love not Force with Lisa Spencer

“I became so comfortable with what I have to offer. And, that what I had to offer wasn’t something that I needed to do, it was who I was and who I could be. And it just allowed so much comfort and ease to come into the whole dating space where I just knew that if I leaned back and I allowed men to come towards me, that it could just be so much of a more pleasurable experience that we could have much more beautiful conversations… but I would let it flow rather than trying to force it.” ~ Lisa Spencer

In this intimate interview, Lisa discusses the concept of ‘Grand Love’ – a journey of how to heal her body and mind, how she surrenders her feminine and learns to be healthy masculine in committed love. Lisa learns and embodies the things that have completely changed. Together, Kim and Lisa explore the importance of love, growth, dating and healing.
Lisa supports women who have been holding it all, to surrender into their feminine and find and learn to be held by the healthy masculine in committed love.

She has built her business and offerings based on all the things most transformative to her on her incredible journey of healing her body of an incurable condition, healing her mind from past sexual trauma and finally healing her heart to find her “grand love”.

Lisa is obsessed with all things love and relationships, particularly the highly polarised kind with a strong masculine and divine feminine dynamic.

She had a realisation in 2021 when she was a ‘forever single’ 35-year-old woman that she would happily burn her business and life to the ground to have the love she desired and be able to share her life with that someone special.

What a turning point.

Lisa immersed herself in learning all about love and relationships to help her understand exactly what she wanted & who she needed to be to create it.

Without what she learned and the unique approach she took, she knows for certain that she would still be single today.

Instead, within 3 months of dating she met George and within a year, he got down on one knee and proposed. They married 8 months later, in October 2023 and welcomed their little girl into the world in January 2024.

As Lisa learns and embodies the things that have completely changed everything for her, she can’t help but share the gold with all the women in her world.
Join Kim Morrison for a delightful and exciting conversation with Lisa in this inspiring, healing and most inspiring episode. Lisa shares her journey and how she became the person she is today: a feminine expert, a businesswoman, a wife and a loving mother to Emerald.

Social Media Links:
Website: https://www.goldenthreadcollective.com/
Facebook:  Lisa Reene Spencer
Instagram:  lisareenespencer

Her definition of Self Love is:
To trust in myself and have faith that everything will be ok. I think that trust is something that deepens as I get older and getting to know who I am more deeply. It just builds this love inside of you.  I look back at all of the challenges that I’ve had and can see that I have come out the other side as a better person, a person that I love more deeply and respect because of how I’ve been able to move through and show up. And yeah, this self-love will continue to grow.

Her favourite quote is:
‘Many women want a strong, masculine man, but they’re too busy being a strong masculine man.’

Links to follow:
Website: Golden Thread Collective
Instagram: lisareenespencer
Facebook: Lisa Reene Spencer

Quotes:
It is about building a deep trust in self.
If there’s a pattern showing up in my life, I am the common denominator.
I need to create the changes.
The independence that I had was actually a trauma response, and what I thought was a place of power.
I became so comfortable with what I had to offer.
When we want to control the situation, it’s often coming from a place of fear.
It creates this energy that is very subtle, but it is felt.
Trust and have faith in God or a higher power.
Love is energy, it radiates from our body, and people can feel it.
You can channel that energy into something that creates good things.
I loved my life and my business, but I would trade it all for love.
Boundaries allow you to be safe.
Purposefully go on dates. Create standards and weed out quickly!
Sometimes the rules in dating can allow you to feel safe enough to just let go.
It’s beautiful when you finally find it, it’s just the most wonderful feeling.
It was very intentional of nature not to have those labels on the relationship.
Many women want a strong, masculine man, but they’re too busy being a strong masculine man.
Trust in myself and have faith.
That trust deepens as I get older and getting to know me more deeply.
I love more deeply and that continues to grow.
 

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MUSIC INTRO & OUTRO
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