Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

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Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

Join The Pleasure Mechanics for explicit, honest & soulful conversations about every facet of human sexuality. Chris and Charlotte are your guides into the complex terrain of sexuality, and each episode equips you with erotic knowledge and know-how so you can experience more pleasure, joy and connection.

  1. OCT 12

    Rethinking Refractory Myths

    Let’s bust the myths around the refractory period that self-limit so many of our erotic experiences. Join us for this myth-busting episode where we cover the basics and beyond of the refractory period and all the myths about it that get in our way. Learn how: Ejaculation and Orgasm are NOT the same physiological event, and Ejaculation does NOT have to result in a refractory period! In addition, experiencing a refractory period does NOT have to be the end of that sexual encounter! Thanks To Our Episode Sponsor * JOYMODE combines 4 powerful ingredients to increase blood flow, sensation and stamina. Go to TryJoyMode.com and use the code MECHANICS for 20% off your order! * Train Your Touch & Uplevel Your Sexual Skills in our Foreplay Mastery Online Course Continue The Conversation With These Speaking of Sex Episodes: * Afterglow * Expanding Erotic Horizons

    26 min

  2. OCT 4

    Lasting Longer In Bed

    Want to last longer in bed so you can keep the pleasure going longer? Want to satisfy your partner and offer the kind of endurance they crave? You are not alone! We get a ton of emails from people wanting to make sex last longer and experience more satisfying intercourse. This Best Of Episode is full of strategies and techniques to support you in lasting longer in bed and having the stamina you want. * JOYMODE combines 4 powerful ingredients to increase blood flow, sensation and stamina. Go to TryJoyMode.com and use the code MECHANICS for 20% off your order! * Train your touch and level up your skills with our bestselling online course Foreplay Mastery Share your wins, aha! moments or questions for future episodes by leaving us a voicemail at PleasureMechanics.com/hello

    29 min

  3. SEP 27

    Building Stamina

    Here’s how to last longer, go harder and enjoy MORE of the pleasures you enjoy. Stamina is as much about sustained focus and managing distractions as it is an athletic feat, and the skills of stamina can be built with practice! This episode offers practical strategies for building your stamina for life’s greatest pleasures, in and out of bed! Big thanks to our sponsor for this episode! * JOYMODE combines 4 powerful ingredients to increase blood flow, sensation and stamina. Go to TryJoyMode.com and use the code MECHANICS for 20% off your order! Train Your Touch & Expand Your Erotic Horizons : Enroll in our online erotic touch training and master the art of foreplay! Continue The Conversation With More Speaking of Sex Episodes * Getting Off Script * Getting The Touch You Want

    26 min

  4. SEP 20

    Responsive Giving

    How we offer and give our time, gifts and attention matter in all of our relationships. And when we cultivate the skillset of becoming responsive givers of erotic pleasure we are able to offer our lovers more specifically what they want and enjoy and can then offer more sexually satisfying experiences to our lovers. In this podcast episode we cover what we can train ourselves to payattention to in order to become more responsive givers. And when weare receivers of pleasure, how do we practice authenticallycommunicating what feels good to us instead of exaggerating ourpleasure. This way we can give genuine information to our lovers thatallow them to be responsive to our authentic pleasure so they canlearn specifically what builds our pleasure and sexual satisfaction. However you currently experience your skillset of giving pleasure,cultivating your responsive giving skills can create more satisfyingand pleasurable experiences with your lover in bed as well as in yourother relationships outside of the bedroom. Thanks to Our Episode Sponsor: Find discounts and offers from all of our sponsors at PleasureMechanics.com/Toolbox Soaking Wet probiotic supplements use the code PLEASURE for 20% off Continue The Conversation With These Speaking of Sex Episodes * Episode 388: Before Pleasure Comes Safety

    38 min

  5. SEP 16

    Tough and Tender

    How do you like it – Tough, or Tender? For many of us, what we truly crave is an exquisite blend of Tough & Tender, Rough & Romantic, Intense & Intimate. Tough & Tender don’t have to be opposite ends of a spectrum or mutually exclusive – we can revel in the delicious combinations of erotic energies, types of touch, relational styles and love languages. True satisfaction can only be found when we get real about the true complexity of what we crave! Thanks to Our Episode Sponsor: Find discounts and offers from all of our sponsors at PleasureMechanics.com/Toolbox Soaking Wet probiotic supplements use the code PLEASURE for 20% off In this episode we unpack how we can each choose to notice and exploreour own relationship to tough and tender erotic play. We look at wherewe may limit our own erotic expression because of our self-permissionand habits, and invite us to notice which end of the range of tough totender erotic play may feel more vulnerable for us to ask for, orexperience. We invite you to explore what specific combinations oftender and tough erotic energies and play we need, want and findappealing. When we understand our own erotic specificity we can moreeasily find a pathway to our sexual satisfaction. As always, we hopethat the conversation on this Speaking of Sex with the PleasureMechanics episode gives you some more vocabulary, inspiration andpermission to keep expanding your erotic possibilities at your ownpace, in your own way. Continue The Conversation With These Speaking of Sex Episodes * Episode 48:Like It Rough * Episode 367: Fucking Vs Making Love

    23 min

  6. SEP 7

    Getting Real About STIs with Dr. Ina Park

    Join us in conversation with Dr. Ina Park, author of Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs In this essential episode we cover how to talk about sexual safety without stigma, the real risks and rewards we navigate as sexually active adults, and how we can all create a healthier, more joyful sexual culture for ourselves and future generations! Learn more about Dr. Ina Park on her website inapark.net, follow her on Instagram and treat yourself to a copy of her book. Resources Mentioned On This Episode: * Soaking Wet probiotic supplements use the code PLEASURE for 20% off * Western Blot Tests and Consultations from Westover Clinic

    36 min

  7. AUG 14

    Mindful Kink

    In this Best Of Pleasure Mechanics episode, we explore bringing the foundational attitudes of mindfulness into erotic exploration, getting kinky and expanding our sense of sexual self. One of our coaching clients told us that this episode was a game-changer for them, allowing them to approach bringing kink into a relationship after FIFTY years of vanilla marriage! Now, they are feeling vibrant, free and more deeply connected than ever. Tune In, Turn On & Level Up Your Erotic Life – we are here with you every step of the way! Ready for your next erotic adventure? Our online courses offer you the skills, strategies and support you need to broaden your horizons, safely. Enroll now & explore from the privacy of your own home, with our support always a click away.

    28 min

  8. JUL 22

    Safer Sexier Oral Play with Melanie Cristol

    Join us to explore how to enjoy safer sexier oral play in this Pleasure Mechanics interview with CEO and founder of Lorals, Melanie Cristol. * Add Lorals to your Pleasure Toolbox for safer, sexier oral play! Use the code PLEASURE_MECHANICS for 10% off your order * DipseaStories : Explore an audio library of immersive erotic soundscapes, explicit stories and more. Use code PLEASURE for 30 day free trial Ready to uplevel your experience of oral? Join our Oral Mastery Course for an immersive, experiential course in oral pleasure for all bodies! More About Lorals: Lorals has revolutionized oral sex. Slip into their silky latex lingerie and have carefree, uninhibited, maximum-pleasure oral every time. Wear Lorals as fetish wear for BDSM and kink, to play with more people at play parties, or wear them to experience oral and rimming without worries – about STIs, scratchy facial hair, period fluids, sensory concerns, dysphoria, or anything that’s holding you back. Let’s inform ourselves on the basics on oral sex safety so we can make informed choices about where and how we use our mouths! The bottom line: all oral contact, including kissing, can transmit infections. These STIs include chancroid, cytomegalovirus, gonorrhea, hepatitis A & B, herpes, human papilloma virus (HPV), syphilis, and, more rarely, HIV and chlamydia. The good news! There are tools to provide protection and many people find exploring these tools opens up new possibilities for oral play! Lorals are ultra thin sexy sheer latex panties for protection & comfort during oral sex and rimming play. Unlubricated condoms or flavored condoms can be used for protection during blowjobs – or try non-latex condoms by Skyn for a neutral flavor and try adding a touch of your own favorite flavored lube.

    34 min
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