Jewish Women Talk About Midlife

Devora Krasnianski
Jewish Women Talk About Midlife

Welcome to Jewish Women Talk About Midlife. Hi, I'm Devora Krasnianski and I've been coaching women for a long time in all areas of life. And more recently in midlife. This time of midlife is exciting, but sometimes also confusing. And so I invite experts to come here to discuss all things midlife. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife Visit the website: www.jewishmidlife.com Reach Devora: jewishmidlife@gmail.com

  1. Managing a Difficult or Abusive Marriage: Steps Forward [with Dr. Shana Frydman]

    11 DE SET.

    Managing a Difficult or Abusive Marriage: Steps Forward [with Dr. Shana Frydman]

    In this episode, we delve into the critical topic of difficult marriages and domestic violence within the Jewish community. I once again had the opportunity to speak with Dr. Shana Frydman, the esteemed Executive Director of Shalom Task Force, who shares her extensive knowledge and experience in supporting individuals in challenging marriages, fostering healthy relationships, and providing guidance for those in abusive situations. We explore the nuances of domestic violence, the importance of understanding the dynamics of power and control, and how these differ from a difficult marriage—and whether that distinction makes a difference. Midlife often prompts reflection, especially as our children grow and life dynamics shift. It's during this time that many women assess the state of their marriage and consider their options if their relationships are difficult or abusive. Dr. Frydman emphasizes the possibilities for moving forward, focusing on how to navigate these situations rather than only advocating for dissolving the marriage. She discusses the possibilities women can consider and how friends, family, and the community can offer support. Join us for this vital conversation that aims to educate, empower, and promote safety and well-being within our communities. This is an important episode. -- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ www.facebook.com/groups/JewishWomenTalkAboutMidlife 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ -- To reach Shalom Task Force: Website: https://shalomtaskforce.org/ email: info@shalomtaskforce.org Hotline (text/whatsapp/call) 888-883-2323 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shalomtaskforce/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShalomTaskForceSTF/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@shalomtaskforce3338 --- 02:49 When there are challenges in midlife marriages 3:17 What is the definition of domestic violence in a marriage 10:43 Considering leaving an abusive relationship at this point 16:42 Just because she stayed in the marriage for 20+ years doesn’t mean everything was OK 18:44 Dealing with hormonal changes 20:11 Role of therapy and support systems 24:56 Client-Centered Approach 27:06 Understanding Domestic Violence dynamics 32:48 Is it possible for the one being hurt to find a different life? 34:38 Midlife reflections and wanting changes 37:26 Resources and support systems

    46min
  2. When Kids Grow Up: Parenting Adult Children [with Julie Devora Brown]

    27 DE AGO.

    When Kids Grow Up: Parenting Adult Children [with Julie Devora Brown]

    In this episode of JewishMidlife, I speak with Julie Devora Brown about the evolving role of parenting adult children. As our children grow into adults and have lives and responsibilities of their own, our roles shift. We’re finished raising them, and now what is our role when they have their own priorities, choices, and mistakes. How do we handle situations where we think or know their choices will be harmful? And if they follow a path different from our Plan A for them? What if they don't call or visit as often as we wish? And then there’s the grandchildren. We discuss all this and also about tuning into ourselves, and the life we get to live when our children are adults and out of the house. Join us for this insightful conversation that explores the complexities and rewards of parenting adult children. -- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: www.facebook.com/groups/JewishWomenTalkAboutMidlife 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ -- To reach Julie Devora Brown: website: www.juliedevorabrown.com email: juliedevorabrown@gmail.com -- 02:50 Parenting adult children: freedom and trust 08:07 Redefining our role of motherhood at this point in life 13:30 Midlife is a great time to remarry your spouse 13:58 Get a life separate from your adult children 15:40 Building relationships with grandchildren 16:52 Tuning into yourself 21:53 Navigating family expectations 25:02 Balancing traditions and modern parenting 28:39 Understanding ego and acceptance 34:09 The power of prayer and gratitude 36:22 Balancing personal wishes and family dynamics 39:32 Wrapping up

    41min
  3. Loving our Midlife [with Michelle Freedman]

    5 DE AGO.

    Loving our Midlife [with Michelle Freedman]

    In this episode, I speak with Michelle Freedman, an empowerment lab coach, about Loving Our Midlife. We dive into adding more purpose and fun to our midlife. We explore bucket lists, anti-bucket lists, dreams, and the excitement of new hobbies, adding new things into our lives, from small changes like trying new foods to larger endeavors like picking up new hobbies. A key point we touch on is that our lives are only as expansive or interesting as our comfort zones. By intentionally stretching these boundaries, we can incorporate more joy and experiences into our lives. We also discuss the value and importance of meeting new people regularly, as these interactions can open doors to fresh opportunities and perspectives. We share lots of ideas for having fun and expanding in our midlife. Enjoy the episode! ---- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: ⁠ ⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife⁠⁠ 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ ---- To reach Michelle Freedman: Website: https://www.michellefreedmancoaching.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michellefreedmancoaching ---- 02:46 Finding Purpose in Midlife (and Retirement) 08:09 The Importance of Social Interaction 18:27 Trying New Things and Expanding Horizons 30:50 Stretching our Comfort Zone 38:54 The Power of Words and Positive Framing 41:40 Wrapping up

    43min
  4. Your Marriage as a Priority [with Faigy Pollock]

    17 DE JUL.

    Your Marriage as a Priority [with Faigy Pollock]

    In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that's often whispered about but rarely openly discussed: the complexities of intimacy in midlife. This conversation with Faigy Pollock, an expert on marriage and intimacy, delves into the dynamics of relationships during the midlife years. As family dynamics shift—whether it's the empty nest, more time, less time, or the changes in our bodies, hormones, and libido—Faigy provides valuable insights. We explore the importance of maintaining a physical relationship throughout life and how it’s never too late to cultivate meaningful and fulfilling intimacy. -- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: ⁠ ⁠ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife⁠ 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ -- To reach Faigy Pollock: email: faigy@unblockyourway.co.il course: https://unblockyourwaytooneness.lpages.co/unblock-your-way-to-oneness-evergreen-new-2024/ -- 07:39 Sexual Intimacy vs Intimacy in General 12:49 The Marriage Relationship in Midlife (What Is Menopause?) 16:16 Challenges for Intimacy in Midlife 24:51 Emotional and Physical Aspects of Intimacy 36:37 Shifts That May Happen Around Midlife 41:10 The Jewish Approach to Marriage and Intimacy 43:12 The Dangers of Faking Intimacy and The Power of Real Vulnerability 50:18 Navigating Emotional Vulnerability in Marriage 55:24 When Your Libido Is Low 1:10:28 The Difference Between Arousal and Desire 1:15:03 Making the Marriage a Priority

    1h21min
  5. Taking Care of our Pelvic Floor and Core [with Susan Winograd]

    8 DE JUL.

    Taking Care of our Pelvic Floor and Core [with Susan Winograd]

    In this episode, we're diving into pelvic floor health during midlife with Susan Winograd from Pelvicore Rehab in Boca Raton, FL. Our pelvic floor is crucial, performing five key functions, so keeping it strong is essential. Did you know that breathing is key to keeping our pelvic floor and core strong? And that there are many other exercises besides Kegels for our pelvic floor? Susan talks about the five pillars of health for keeping our pelvic floor strong. And about tuning into our body's "check engine lights"—signals that something needs attention. We also discuss how aging doesn't mean we must accept our bodies slowing down. Even if we haven't taken care of our pelvic floor before, there's so much we can do to get it to optimal health. As Susan says, "It's always too late to procrastinate. It's never too late to start." Join us as we explore strategies and insights to maintain a robust pelvic floor and enhance your quality of life. --- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: ⁠ ⁠ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife⁠ 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ -- To reach Susan Winograd and Pelvicore Rehab website: https://www.pelvicorerehab.com/ email: pt@pelvicorerehab.com Youtube: www.youtube.com/@PelvicHealthWellness Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pelvicorerehabandwellness/ Facebook: facebook.com/pelvicorerehab -- 02:12 What is the Pelvic Floor and its functions 06:06 Taking care of our Pelvic Floor 09:47 Check Engine Lights for Pelvic Health: the four Ps. 12:01 Leakage is never normal – at any age. 14:05 Pelvic Health in Men 18:10 5 Pillars of Health 20:13 The Importance of Breathing for our Pelvic Floor 29:05 Pelvic Floor Health in Midlife 32:33 Hormonal Changes and Their Impact 38:13 Bone Health and the Pelvic Floor Exercises 39:29 Visiting a Pelvic Floor Specialist 43:21 Reaching Susan Winograd

    46min
  6. Organizing and Decluttering all that Stuff [with Rebekah Saltzman]

    1 DE JUL.

    Organizing and Decluttering all that Stuff [with Rebekah Saltzman]

    In this episode, I’m spoke with Rebekka Saltzman of BalaganBeGone about organizing and decluttering our stuff. By the time we reach midlife, most of us have accumulated a lot of stuff. Even if it is organized, it's still a lot of stuff, and all that can clutter our homes and even our minds. We might have our stuff, our kids' stuff, and sometimes even stuff we inherited. In other words, lots of stuff. Some of it we need, but much of it is "just in case," or things we haven't gotten around to sifting through in years. Rebekka shares some important practical tips and mindset shifts about holding on to or passing on our stuff. She guides us on what to keep, what to let go of, and how to store everything efficiently so we can find them quickly when we need them. We explored various scenarios like holding onto our kids' belongings, saving items for future grandchildren, and what makes sense to buy in bulk even when there are fewer people at home, and what doesn't. Enjoy the episode! -- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: ⁠ ⁠ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife⁠ 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ --- To reach Rebekah Saltzman of BalaganBeGone Website: https://balaganbegone.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/balaganbegone/?hl=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BalaganBeGone/ Email: BalaganBeGone@gmail.com --- 01:58 The philosophy of decluttering. 04:29 All the stuff we have accumulated by the time we get to midlife. 07:07 Curating a meaningful collection. 19:41 Getting rid of the stuff in our house. 26:04 Capsule wardrobes. And shopping. 30:11 Saving things for the next generation. 37:03 Balancing preparedness and hoarding. 39:33 Buying in bulk. 49:04 Keeping our kids’ stuff in our house. 58:26 Knowing where our things are. 1:03:09 Wrapping up.

    1h5min
  7. Crystals for Midlife: Healing, Menopause Relief, and Empowerment [with Gila Slonim]

    23 DE JUN.

    Crystals for Midlife: Healing, Menopause Relief, and Empowerment [with Gila Slonim]

    In this episode of Jewish Midlife, we explore the fascinating world of crystals and their remarkable ability to enhance our lives. Join me as I chat with Gila Slonim, an expert from Israel, who shares her profound knowledge about the healing powers of crystals. Discover how these natural wonders can offer support for menopause symptoms such as hot flashes and irregular periods, boost confidence, manage negative energy, and address various life challenges. Whether you're a crystal novice like I was or already a believer in their power, this conversation with Gila is packed with valuable insights and practical tips. Tune in and uncover the incredible potential of crystals to transform your midlife journey! -- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: ⁠ ⁠ ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife⁠ 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ -- To reach Gila Slonim: website: https://www.gilaslonim.com/ email: info@gilaslonim.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gilacrystals/ -- SHOW NOTES 02:12 Crystals are aligned with Torah 04:27 How crystals work 12:52 Different ways crystal work 21:53 Trusting your intuition with crystals 27:21 Choosing crystals 35:34 Crystals for peri-menopause 04:20 Crystals for specific symptoms 41:27 How fast do the crystals work? 05:20 Consultations remotely 46:53 Crystals for menopause symptoms 50:05 Wrapping up

    54min
  8. Healing Our Past & Enhancing Our Lives [with Chaya Sara Gurewicz]

    5 DE JUN.

    Healing Our Past & Enhancing Our Lives [with Chaya Sara Gurewicz]

    In this episode, I am thrilled to have Chaya Sara Gurewicz join me to speak about expanding consciousness and personal growth. Chaya Sara brings a wealth of experience and a deep passion for helping people heal and transform their lives. In our conversation, she shares her unique approach to coaching, which focuses on exploring past experiences and transcending the ego for true healing. We dive into the powerful techniques of breathwork, crying, screaming, dancing, and the importance of community in the healing process. We also explore the profound beauty of solitude for fostering genuine self-connection and self-discovery. Join us for this insightful and inspiring conversation as we uncover the paths to healing, growth, and embracing our true selves. -- 📌Visit our website: ⁠⁠www.jewishmidlife.com⁠ ⁠ 📌Join us for more conversations and resources for midlifers: ⁠ ⁠ https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife 📌If you’d like to have a conversation about your midlife or anything else on your mind, you can reach Devora Krasnianski at ⁠⁠jewishmidlife@gmail.com⁠⁠ -- To reach Chaya Sara Gurewicz website: https://www.theawakeningretreat.org/ email: jwaretreats@gmail.com   --- 02:20 Exploring Different Healing Modalities 04:35 The Power of Breath Work 16:11 Emotional Release Through Crying and Screaming 19:02 The Importance of Anger and Sadness 22:42 Screaming, Punching, Dancing Can be a Great Release 28:32 A Story of Healing 33:54 The Power of Community for Healing 37:50 Exploring Solitude and Self-Discovery 42:42 Power of Retreats and the Followup Check Ins 48:06 Debating the Term 'Healing' 59:59 Wrapping Up

    1h3min

Sobre

Welcome to Jewish Women Talk About Midlife. Hi, I'm Devora Krasnianski and I've been coaching women for a long time in all areas of life. And more recently in midlife. This time of midlife is exciting, but sometimes also confusing. And so I invite experts to come here to discuss all things midlife. Join us at https://www.facebook.com/groups/jewishwomentalkaboutmidlife Visit the website: www.jewishmidlife.com Reach Devora: jewishmidlife@gmail.com

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