The Dr CK Bray Show

Dr. CK Bray
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The Dr. CK Bray Show is a 20-minute science and research-based podcast that aims to provide the information you need to create a better life and career. Dr. Bray shares the latest research findings in the areas of business, personal excellence and achievement, resilience and thriving, career, learning, leadership, change, and health. He also provides a one-stop resource for actionable advice and tools to cover every aspect of your life. Be prepared to be simultaneously educated and entertained.

  1. 4D AGO

    Episode 617: Why Your Brain is Ruining Your Life

    Your brain may be ruining your life, not in obvious ways, but quietly and consistently. In this episode, Dr. Bray explores how everyday thinking patterns like overanalyzing, constant anticipation, and mental replay can slowly undermine performance, relationships, and well-being without us realizing it's happening. Rather than blaming stress, circumstances, or other people, Dr. Bray looks at how the brain's natural drive to protect and prepare often works against us in modern life. He explains how outdated survival patterns show up in work, leadership, and personal relationships, and why so many capable people feel mentally exhausted, stuck, or unable to fully enjoy success. If you've ever felt like your own thoughts are getting in the way of the life you want, this episode will challenge how you think about thinking. It offers a powerful reframe for understanding your mind, not as something to fight or fix, but as something that needs better guidance before it quietly takes over.   Quotes by Dr. Bray "Your brain did not evolve to make you calm or happy or fulfilled. It evolved to keep you alive."   "Just because your brain produces a thought doesn't mean it's true, useful, or worth your attention."   "Is this information — or is this imagination?"   "A delayed response becomes rejection. A brief comment becomes criticism. Silence becomes meaning."

    15 min

  2. FEB 17

    Episode 616: Why You Like People Less at Work Than You Used To

    Have you ever caught yourself feeling more irritated with people at work than you used to be, even when nothing obvious has changed? In this episode, Dr. Bray explores why so many capable, well-intentioned professionals find themselves feeling less patient, less generous, and more easily annoyed by coworkers than they remember being. Rather than blaming personalities or workplace culture, Dr. Bray unpacks what constant pressure, overload, and unfinished interactions do to the brain, and how a stressed system quietly turns ordinary people into sources of friction. He explains why the issue is often not the people themselves, but the state our brains are operating in day after day. This conversation offers a fresh and surprisingly relieving perspective on workplace relationships, along with practical ways to reduce irritation, reset perspective, and make work feel lighter again. If you've ever wondered why people feel harder to work with lately, this episode will help you see the situation and your coworkers in a very different way. Quotes by Dr. Bray "Once stress lowers, if the irritation fades fast, it was state-driven — not person-driven." "Sometimes the problem isn't them. It's the story your tired brain won't stop telling you." "When you understand rumination, you regain space, perspective, and a lot more patience with people." "It's not because people have gotten worse. It's because your brain is tired — and when the brain is tired, it tells the worst stories."

    12 min

  3. FEB 9

    Episode 615: Why More Effort Isn't Working

    Most of us have been taught the same rule for success: when things get hard, try harder. Put in more hours. Push a little more. Stay more available. For a long time, that rule worked. In this episode, Dr. Bray turns that idea upside down and explores why it doesn't anymore. We talk about why so many capable, driven people feel mentally stretched thin despite working harder than ever, and why effort alone is no longer the lever it used to be. This conversation looks beneath the surface of modern work to unpack what pressure, overload, and constant urgency are doing to how we think, decide, and relate to others. This is not an episode about motivation or productivity hacks. It is about understanding how the brain actually responds to effort, stress, and speed, and why pushing more can quietly make things worse. If you've ever wondered why focus feels harder, why progress feels heavier, or why work seems to take more out of you than it used to, this episode will give you a new lens and a sense that you are not alone. It might just change how you think about effort altogether. Quotes by Dr. Bray "This is not because you're weak, and it's not because you lack discipline… It is because the rules that once rewarded effort have changed — and our brains have not been redesigned to keep up." "Ask yourself one honest question: am I adding effort, or am I improving capacity?" "The future of performance is not about pushing harder. It's about building brains that can sustain clarity, focus, and emotional steadiness under pressure." "When capacity increases, effort finally starts working again."

    13 min

  4. FEB 2

    Episode 614: Brain First, Technology Second

    We were promised that better tools would make work easier. Faster. More efficient. So why do so many smart, capable people feel more overwhelmed, distracted, and mentally drained than ever before? In this episode, Dr. Bray explores what is really happening beneath the surface of modern work and why the problem is not motivation, discipline, or effort. It is how the brain is responding to the way work is designed today. He talks about why thinking feels harder even with better technology, how stress and speed quietly reshape decision making, and what it actually takes to stay clear, focused, and human in a high-pressure world. This conversation is not about doing more or optimizing harder. It is about rethinking how we work so our brains can do what they are designed to do. If work feels heavier than it should and you cannot quite explain why, this episode will give you a new lens and a few powerful insights and tools to help you maximize your brain.   Quotes by Dr. Bray "The real scarcity at work is not time. The real constraint is your cognitive capacity." "The future of work will not be won by people who can do more. It will be won by people who can protect how they think." "Speed feels productive. Focus creates value."  "Adaptability requires the ability to calm the system quickly enough that the brain can stay flexible."

    15 min

  5. JAN 26

    Episode 613: Why Do So Many People Think I'm Stupid?

    Most people do not procrastinate because they are lazy or unmotivated. They procrastinate because something feels heavy beneath the surface. In this episode of the Dr. CK Bray show, Dr. Bray unpacks why putting things off is often a form of self-protection rather than self-sabotage. He explores what is really happening in the brain when you avoid starting even the things that matter most and why more discipline is rarely the answer. If you have ever wondered why you know what to do but still struggle to begin this conversation is for you. This episode presents a more compassionate and practical approach to understanding procrastination. You will learn how emotional weight, uncertainty, and self-pressure can quietly stall progress and discover what actually helps the brain feel safe enough to move forward. Instead of fighting yourself or waiting for motivation, you will learn simple ways to lower friction, reduce overwhelm, and start where you are. Procrastination is not a flaw to fix. It is a signal to listen to. And when you do, progress often follows more naturally than you expect. Alice Boyes, HBR May-June 2022 Quotes by Dr. Bray "Coaching is received either as support or as condescension, and perception determines which one it becomes."   "People don't resist improvement—they resist being treated as incapable."   "When you design systems that respect intelligence, people rise to the occasion."

    7 min

  6. JAN 19

    Episode 612: The Brain Science of Procrastination

    Most people do not procrastinate because they are lazy or unmotivated. They procrastinate because something feels heavy beneath the surface. In this episode of the Dr. CK Bray show, Dr. Bray unpacks why putting things off is often a form of self-protection rather than self-sabotage. He explores what is really happening in the brain when you avoid starting even the things that matter most and why more discipline is rarely the answer. If you have ever wondered why you know what to do but still struggle to begin this conversation is for you. This episode presents a more compassionate and practical approach to understanding procrastination. You will learn how emotional weight, uncertainty, and self-pressure can quietly stall progress and discover what actually helps the brain feel safe enough to move forward. Instead of fighting yourself or waiting for motivation, you will learn simple ways to lower friction, reduce overwhelm, and start where you are. Procrastination is not a flaw to fix. It is a signal to listen to. And when you do, progress often follows more naturally than you expect. Alice Boyes, HBR May-June 2022 Quotes by Dr. Bray "Procrastination doesn't mean that something is wrong with you. It doesn't mean that you need to change."   "Strong habits reduce our need for self-control because those habits just kick in."   "We tend to avoid tasks that stir up negative emotions, and avoidance is a major driver of procrastination." "Accurately identifying your emotions—what we call emotional granularity—helps you manage them."

    11 min

  7. JAN 12

    Episode 611: Why 40 Million People Quit Their Job in 2024

    What if loving your job has nothing to do with passion, purpose, or perks and everything to do with how often you get to be yourself at work? In this interesting episode with Dr. Bray, he unpacks a powerful idea from Marcus Buckingham that challenges how leaders think about engagement, retention, and performance. Most people are not burned out because they work too hard. They are burned out because they rarely get to do the parts of the job that give them energy. The moments where time disappears. The conversations that feel natural. The problems they solve instinctively. Those moments are not fluff. They are signals. This episode is for leaders who care deeply about their people but sense something is missing. We explore how work can be redesigned in small, meaningful ways that help people experience more energy without changing titles, budgets, or roles. You will hear why engagement surveys often miss the point and how one simple question can unlock stronger performance, deeper connection, and greater resilience on your team. Loving your job is not about doing what you love all day. It is about alignment. And alignment is something every leader can learn to create. You will look at how you work and lead in 2026.  Marcus Buckingham June-July HBR 2022 Quotes by Dr. Bray "The most powerful predictors of engagement and retention are not pay, location, or even belief in the mission—it's whether people are excited to do the work itself." "Helping people find love—or meaning—in some of what they do every day is one of the most important things leaders can do." "You don't need to love 100% of your job. If you love even 50–60% of it, people are far more engaged and far more likely to stay."

    15 min

  8. JAN 5

    Episode 610: This is the Year You STOP!

    As the year comes to a close, many people feel it. A mix of relief, pressure, and a quiet sense that something needs to change. Not because they failed, but because despite doing many things right, the year felt heavier than expected. In this episode, Dr. Christopher K. Bray explores a different way to approach the New Year. Instead of setting bigger goals or trying to fix yourself, he invites you to stop and look at two things that may be quietly holding you back. The first is the automatic behavior that shows up when you are under pressure. How you communicate. How you protect yourself. How you react when you feel stressed, misunderstood, or emotionally charged. The second is how you are carrying the harder parts of life, like loneliness, uncertainty, past hurt, or the feeling that progress has stalled. Blending neuroscience, psychology, and deeply human insight, this conversation explains why these patterns exist, how the brain holds onto them, and why they may no longer be serving you. More importantly, it offers a compassionate path forward that does not require becoming someone new, but letting go of what no longer fits. If you want 2026 to feel lighter, more grounded, and more aligned, this episode offers a powerful place to start. Not by doing more, but by stopping the right things. Quotes by Dr. Bray "Most people aren't stuck because they lack motivation; they're stuck because they keep carrying the same patterns into every new season." "Real transformation doesn't begin with doing more; it begins with stopping what no longer serves you." "When emotional weight is carried silently, the brain stays in a low-level threat state." "Under stress, the brain doesn't choose the best response—it chooses the most familiar one."

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The Dr. CK Bray Show is a 20-minute science and research-based podcast that aims to provide the information you need to create a better life and career. Dr. Bray shares the latest research findings in the areas of business, personal excellence and achievement, resilience and thriving, career, learning, leadership, change, and health. He also provides a one-stop resource for actionable advice and tools to cover every aspect of your life. Be prepared to be simultaneously educated and entertained.

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  • Creator
    Dr. CK Bray
  • Years Active
    2014 - 2026
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Clean
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    The Dr CK Bray Show

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