Heal from Infidelity

I have been in and out of therapy since 1978, when I learned of my husband's first betrayal. Trust me, we have done it all. What I didn’t realize, and was not taught, is that I must know my bottom line, I must take my power, I must be clear about what I want and what I do not want. We have managed to stay together for 50 years. Each type of therapy helped enough to keep us together, but not enough to keep me safe and secure. I’m finally grabbing what I am entitled to in my marriage with both hands and claiming it. He is also listening to Andrea and learning a ton. The key thing Andrea has, that none of my therapists possessed, is sharing the same experience. She really understands the levels of complexity that surround marrying a man with neglect, abandonment and shame issues. And she is so concrete about her recommendations. Even if you are not dealing with betrayal, try this podcast, it is for everyone. It is about growing up.

Both working with Andrea and listening to her podcast has given me hope for what I thought was an impossible situation. I didn’t have the capacity or the voice to advocate or change my path and I felt helpless. If you have no idea what to do and feel lost, Andrea can help you make sense of a senseless situation and know what steps to take next. Honestly, I don’t know where I would be and what I would be doing without her. Andrea speaks from experience, understands exactly what we are going through, and is such a compassionate listener as well as wise counsel. Her relationship knowledge and advice is able to be immediately applied. I am so grateful for her.

Thank you Andrea! You are a true expert on all things healing and moving forward, trust, decision making. Plus you are so relatable. I love all the little nuggets and practical tools I get in each episode.

Andrea is helping with a very painful situation. Most women are too ashamed to ask for help with this topic, but Andrea is here to help you and you can do it from the privacy of your home!!