The Queer Stuff Pod

Max Emerson
The Queer Stuff Pod

Adolescence sucks for everyone, but especially for queer kids. In a world that is openly hostile to queer people, The Queer Stuff Pod hosted by Max Emerson is here to help. From questioning, to coming out, to navigating the perils of sex/drugs/emoji filled texts, this survival guide promises to be a crucial resource and wellspring of joy for anyone currently going through it. Although curated from a gay man’s perspective, this project aims to include resources for all members of the LGBTQIA+ community. NEW EPISODES EVERY MONDAY!

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    Out & Proud In Corporate America | Blake Danner

    23: What does it take to build some of the most talked-about hotels in the world — and do it while proudly representing the LGBTQ+ community at the top levels of corporate leadership? Blake Danner, COO of aka Hotels and Hotel Residences, joins us to share his journey from nightclub-loving hotel rookie to the executive suite, shaping brands like NoMad, The Line, and Freehand along the way. Blake opens up about the risks that shaped his career, the power of mentorship, and what it means to lead authentically — even in industries not always known for diversity. Whether you’re chasing a career in hospitality or just love bold leadership stories, this episode is packed with real talk and hard-earned advice. Topics Discussed: Breaking into hospitality Lessons from building iconic hotel brands Being out in corporate America Mentorship & diversity in leadership Leading teams through crisis Career advice for young professionals Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:36 - Who the Hell Are You? 00:05:57 - Why Work in Hotels? 00:08:31 - Blake’s First Job 00:11:33 - Risk-Taking & Delano Hotels 00:13:56 - Dallas vs. New York Nightlife in the 90s 00:15:59 - Coming Out in Corporate America 00:19:59 - Max & Blake’s Friendship 00:22:30 - Leading People in the Corporate World 00:25:06 - Being a Visible Queer Leader 00:29:58 - Advice for Young Professionals 00:33:37 - Biggest Mistakes in Corporate America 00:35:27 - Managing Hotels Through COVID 00:38:24 - Keeping Employees Happy and Motivated 00:40:15 - Why Blake Joined AKA Hotels 00:43:42 - Mentoring & Fostering Growth in Others 00:45:36 - Fight Me! New York vs LA  Sponsored By:  Scandinavian Bio-Labs | Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Go to ScandinavianBiolab.com Max’s Patreon | Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori | Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Sparkle Club | https://maxismsmedia.com/the-sparkle-club Check Out Blake:  Instagram  Website Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok Thank you to all my patreon subscribers!  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

    49 min

  2. FEB 24

    Where In The World Is Chris Colfer?

    22: Chris Colfer is a Golden Globe-winning actor, bestselling author, screenwriter, and producer, known for his role as Kurt Hummel on Glee, for which he earned numerous accolades, including a Golden Globe and two Emmy nominations. He is the author of the Land of Stories series, which has sold millions of copies worldwide and spent over 100 weeks on the New York Times bestseller list. In 2024, he launched a new middle grade series, Roswell Johnson Saves the World!, which became an instant bestseller. Colfer is also an award-winning audio narrator and has narrated all of his books, including the bestselling Stranger than Fanfiction. His other projects include Netflix's Ridley Jones and the upcoming animated musical feature The Potters. Based in Los Angeles, Colfer's work spans television, film, and literature, with a unique blend of humor, heart, and imagination. Sponsored By: CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori  Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:11 - Who The Hell Are You 00:08:24 - Being a baby gay and becoming an actor 00:10:43 - Breaking into television and booking Glee 00:16:20 - Self tapes and auditioning 00:17:32 - Glee and coming out on Chelsea Handler 00:19:53 - Getting outed in a magazine 00:21:14 - Being closeted on television 00:24:47 - Challenges that come with activism 00:28:20 - SNL and bucket list career moments 00:29:18 - Best parts of Glee 00:30:46 - Dating as an out actor 00:34:29 - Slash Fiction 00:36:33 - “The Land of Stories” 00:39:38 - How writing saved his life 00:41:00 - Creative energy and writing strategy 00:44:46 - Most challenging writing project 00:46:50 - Advice regarding social anxiety 00:48:34 - Fight Me! Check Out Chris: https://thelandofstories.com/ Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok

    52 min

  3. FEB 17

    Dogs, Clout & Coming Out | Joey Graceffa

    21: Today, I’m joined by none other than Joey Graceffa. With over 2.9 billion views and a career spanning back to 2007, Joey has built an empire of engaging content, from gaming and vlogs to his hit web series Escape the Night. Joey shares his experience coming out online, his creative inspirations, and his journey as a writer.   Episode Highlights: Joey’s rise to YouTube fame & Escape the Night Coming out online & the “Are You Gay” quiz Writing In Real Life & Children of Eden Mental health, self-care & online fame Vlogging, breakups & digital legacy Sponsored By: Scandinavian Bio Labs Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Go to ScandinavianBiolabs.com. Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori  Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction 00:02:09 - Who The Hell Are You? 00:08:04 - Starting youtube  00:09:41 - Escape the night  00:11:59 - How to start a youtube channel  00:13:57 - Coming out on youtube  00:14:51 - Creative inspiration  00:18:57 - Joey’s memoir  00:20:43 - Children Of Eden  00:21:44 - Special Ed & Gifted classes  00:23:41 - The BIG 3 zodiac signs  00:24:16 - Mental health & self care 00:26:51 - Are you gay quiz 00:30:01 - Joey’s coming out journey 00:31:45 - Vlogging & the break up video 00:34:47 - Dream collabs & legacy  00:36:04 - Take doggie supplements  00:37:31 - Fight Me!  Check Out Joey: Books Youtube Instagram Tale Pets  Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

    41 min

  4. FEB 10

    From Army Officer to Bodybuilder | Roberto Portales

    20: In today’s episode, I'm joined by Roberto, a Tampa native and fellow Florida man. Roberto’s journey is nothing short of incredible—he's a West Point grad, a former Army Officer, and a leader in counterintelligence. After his time in the military, he dove into the fitness world, even launching his own app to help others get in shape. These days, he works as an IT Services Client Executive for a global tech company (and yes, he’s still in incredible shape, ready to flex at any moment). When he’s not working or hitting the gym, Roberto also dabbles in acting for commercials, TV, and film. Today, we're talking about everything from military life to body-building, and everything in between. Tune in for some great insights and a whole lot of fun! Sponsored By: Scandinavian Biolabs Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from ScandinavianBiolabs.com using code MAXEMERSON.. Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Puori  Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code maxemerson Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction 00:01:30 - Who the Hell Are You?! 00:06:12 - West Point Experience 00:10:55 - Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell 00:12:06 - West Point vs Naval Academy 00:13:33 - Key Takeaways from Army Life 00:14:44 - Transitioning to Civilian Life 00:18:30 - Command Time vs Staff Time 00:21:03 - Corporate Speak & Military Skills Crossover 00:22:46 - Veteran Hiring Insights 00:23:22 - Struggles Finding Work After the Military 00:26:58 - Getting Into Bodybuilding 00:31:34 - The Role of Performance Enhancers 00:35:41 - Crafting Your Ideal Workout Routine 00:40:57 - Workout Splits & Gym Playlist 00:42:26 - Nutrition, Meal Prep & Staying on Track 00:43:07 - Chest Training & Building Muscle 00:46:58 - Fight Me! Check Out Roberto: Instagram Linktree Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

    50 min

  5. FEB 3

    Queer Travel Guide | AMA

    In today’s episode, I’m talking all about travel! You’ve asked about everything from the logistics of frequent flying to how I maintain some sense of stability while constantly on the go. This episode is all about practical tips and how I manage to make travel work—both for my career and my personal life. We’ll discuss: How I balance work and travel  The best ways to handle turbulence My approach to booking flights Who watches Sarge when I’m away How I pack for long trips Sponsored By: CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:01:21 - Window vs aisle seat  00:02:03 - Travel with me? + booking  00:03:03 - Travel nonnegotiables  00:03:54 - Who watches Sarge?  00:06:30 - Which airline is the best?  00:07:06 - Mexico and New Zealand  00:07:30 - Turbulence & staying hydrated  00:09:40 - Travel itinerary  00:11:05 - Work vs vacation  00:12:14 - Rainbow surf & gay bars  00:13:08 - Underwear & threesomes?  00:13:59 - Hawaii  00:15:37 - Working internationally  00:16:04 - First class is a scam + packing  00:17:02 - Travel wish list  00:18:01 - How to pack a suitcase  Show Links:  Kindred | Go to https://livekindred.com/ and use code MAX.ISMS to skip the waitlist.  OGIO Luggage  Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok  Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

    20 min

  6. JAN 27

    What To Do Post-Election | Brian Sims

    In this episode, I chat with Brian Sims, a pioneering LGBTQ+ advocate and former Pennsylvania state legislator, who continues the fight for equality as the CEO of Agenda PAC. Brian shares his experiences as the first openly LGBTQ+ member of the Pennsylvania General Assembly, and as the only NCAA football captain to come out publicly while still active. We discuss his journey through politics, the importance of staying true to your values, and navigating challenges like discrimination and anti-queer legislation. Brian also reflects on the significance of intersectionality, the need for genuine allyship, and his advice for those wanting to get into politics. Highlights: Breaking barriers as an LGBTQ+ leader in politics and sports The challenges of being openly queer in traditionally conservative spaces Intersectionality and its role in advocacy How to engage with anti-equality politicians Staying grounded while leading a movement Advice for aspiring political activists Listen now for a powerful conversation on leadership, equality, and making change in the world. Sponsored By: Scandinavian Biolabs  Go to Scandinavianbiolabs.com and start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON.  Kindred Go to livekindred.com/ and:Use code MAX.ISMS to skip the waitlist.  Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps: 00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:46 - Who The Hell Are You?  00:09:15 - Closeted legislatures  00:11:14 - Choosing to stay closeted  00:12:13 - Discrimination and representation  00:15:25 - Challenges of getting elected  00:20:57 - Staying calm when debating  00:22:06 - Brain’s campaign  00:23:53 - Sticking to the issues, not being defined by your queerness/identity  00:25:30 - Intersectionality  00:28:08 - Allyship & avoiding white savior complex 00:29:47 - Handling antiqueer legislators  00:36:11 -  Staying grounded - reword  00:38:30 - Leaving office  00:40:58 - Marriage equalities  00:43:46 - Post election advice  00:47:02 - Advice for getting into politics  00:48:44 - Fight Me!!!  Show Links:  Chris Colfer Episode coming soon!  Check Out Brian Sims: Instagram  X  Check Out Max: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

    52 min

  7. JAN 20

    Busting Skincare Myths: Accutane, Retinol, + Acne Treatment | CLEARSTEM

    In this episode, I’m joined by Danielle Gronich and Kayleigh Christina, the co-founders of CLEARSTEM Skincare, to talk about everything from acne myths and skincare scams to gut health and the importance of clean, effective ingredients. Danielle, a licensed clinical esthetician, and Kayleigh, an integrative health practitioner, share their expert insights on managing acne, debunking common skincare misconceptions, and why it’s so important to be mindful of what’s in the products we use. We also discuss the impact of diet on skin health and how they approach both acne and anti-aging without using pore-clogging ingredients. Sponsored By:  CLEARSTEM Discover the CLEARSTEM difference and experience clear, healthy skin for life. Go to CLEARSTEM.com/MAX and use code MAX at checkout for 15% off your first order. Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:23 - Who The Hell Are You?  00:07:58 - What kids today know about skincare  00:09:51 - Acne commercials & sharing bathrooms  00:10:57 - Sharing bathrooms  00:11:45 - Educating about acne  00:16:28 - Acne myths and social media  00:19:02 - Skincare scams and red flags  00:21:27 - What is acne?  00:23:44 - The future of clean skincare  00:26:48 - Why CLEARSTEM?  00:29:23 - Voting with your dollar 00:30:27 - Issues with acne prescriptions  00:33:43 - Managing cystic acne  00:35:09 - Acne education  00:35:18 - Gut health, sugar, and skin  00:37:50 - Skin health musts  00:40:19 - Antiaging skincare at a young age  00:45:21 - HOT PEOPLE GET ACNE  00:47:20 - Fight Me! Check Out CLEARSTEM: Website  Check Out Max Emerson: Instagram YouTube TikTok Special thank you to the following:  Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

    51 min

  8. JAN 6

    Sex, Relationships + Personal Growth | Zach Noe Towers

    In this episode, stand-up comedian Zach Noe Towers opens up about his bold and unapologetic approach to comedy, podcasting, and life. Zach, co-host of Confidently Insecure, shares insights into his journey from musical theater to comedy, how sobriety has influenced his career, and his unfiltered takes on sex, relationships, and personal growth. He also talks about what it’s like to push boundaries on stage, work with big names like Taylor Tomlinson and Bob The Drag Queen, and offers advice to aspiring comedians. Sponsored By:  Scandinavian Biolabs Start today with 20% off the Hair Activation Routine and any other products from Scandinavian Biolabs using code MAXEMERSON. Go to ScandinavianBiolabs.com Nutrisense Click here and use code MAXEMERSON for $50 off of your first month Puori Go to Puori.com/maxemerson and use code MAXEMERSON for 20% off  Max’s Patreon  Join today and make the internet more colorful Timestamps:  00:00:00 - Introduction  00:02:40 - Who The Hell Are You?  00:10:58 - Deciding to work in entertainment  00:12:13 - Sobriety  00:13:02 - Musical Theatre Degree and experimentation  00:17:21 - Getting into show business  00:19:18 - Writing for different genres and platforms  00:24:19 - Hosting different red carpets  00:29:24 - Unapologetic and raw comedy  00:31:48 - Overstepping and pushing boundaries  00:33:43 - Comedy idols  00:34:43 - Podcasting 00:36:33 - Fetishes and plague  00:40:25 - Advice for inspiring comedians  00:41:57 - Where to find Zach Check Out ZNT:  Instagram Linktree Website Check Out Max:  Instagram YouTube TikTok Special Thank You To The Following: Nate Heffel, Tobin Schiller ,James M, Christopher Neefus, Heskel, Michael Carpentiere, Timothy Cardoso, Shane Ouyang, Brian Joaquin, Carabalda, Brendan Saunders, Jeff Jay, James LEE, Andy, 正 , George Acosta, Michael Rice, Nathan Filip, Linda Johnson, Stephen Weathers, Kean Phan, James Powell, Landy Manderson

    47 min
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Adolescence sucks for everyone, but especially for queer kids. In a world that is openly hostile to queer people, The Queer Stuff Pod hosted by Max Emerson is here to help. From questioning, to coming out, to navigating the perils of sex/drugs/emoji filled texts, this survival guide promises to be a crucial resource and wellspring of joy for anyone currently going through it. Although curated from a gay man’s perspective, this project aims to include resources for all members of the LGBTQIA+ community. NEW EPISODES EVERY MONDAY!

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  • Creator
    Max Emerson
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Max Emerson 2024

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