28 episodes

Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 57 Ratings

Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

    How To Better Understand Men with Elise Michaels

    How To Better Understand Men with Elise Michaels

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    In Episode 15 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," host Eli Vasquez welcomes Elise Michaels, a trauma-informed men's coach dedicated to helping men navigate their emotional landscapes and heal from subconscious trauma. Elise discusses the challenges men face in acknowledging and expressing their emotions, emphasizing the need for healing both father and mother wounds. She explores how societal expectations often stifle men’s emotional expressions, advocating for emotional vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness. Through this episode, Elise offers insights into breaking the cycle of emotional suppression to build healthier relationships and improve self-image, providing valuable strategies for personal growth and genuine connections.
     
    00:00 Intro02:26 Exploring Emotional Vulnerability and Healing04:10 Deep Dive into Men's Emotional Health and Healing08:04 Understanding Attachment Styles and Emotional Wounds10:59 Navigating Relationships and Emotional Availability14:14 Addressing Childhood Wounds and Their Impact17:28 Confronting Avoidance and Healing from Toxic Relationships19:55 Unpacking Toxic Relationships: It Takes Two to Tango22:15 Breaking Down Emotional Vulnerability in Men24:07 The Power of Emotional Regulation and Self-Work26:47 Strategies for Women: Fostering Emotional Openness32:30 The Impact of Men's Mental Health on Relationships35:51 Closing Thoughts: The Future of Men's Mental Health38:46 Outro
     
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    • 40 min
    How To Know You're In A Situationship And What To Do About It

    How To Know You're In A Situationship And What To Do About It

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    In Episode 14 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli tackles the challenges of being in a situationship or "rent-a-girlfriend" arrangement, where a man strings a woman along without committing to a serious relationship. Eli delves into the psychological impacts of being in these grey zones, discussing how to identify if you're being treated as a placeholder and what to do about it. He emphasizes the importance of self-respect, setting clear boundaries, and recognizing one's worth to break free from toxic cycles and move towards healthier, fulfilling relationships.
     
    00:00 Cold open00:32 Intro01:09 Eli's Personal Journey05:02 What is a 'Rent-a-Girlfriend'?10:04 The Reality of Situationships17:28 Gameboy Girlfriends26:44 Moving On33:09 Outro
     
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    • 34 min
    Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?

    Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater?

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    In Episode 13 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," host Eli Vasquez dives into the delicate topic of infidelity, asking the provocative question, "Is once a cheater always a cheater?" This episode explores the psychology of cheating, discussing both the perspective of the cheater and the experiences of those who have been cheated on. Eli dissects the reasons behind cheating, its impact on relationships, and the crucial decisions individuals need to make when confronted with infidelity. He provides insights into why some might choose to stay in a relationship and the emotional and psychological dynamics at play.
     
    00:00 Cold open00:28 Intro01:13 Check-in: Bridesmaid Adventure02:38 Understanding Cheaters06:55 From Hurt to Healing14:07 Forgiveness and Moving Forward22:59 Self-Worth & Future Possibilities26:34 Outro
     
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    • 27 min
    Navigating Love in the Digital Age: The Dating App Survival Guide

    Navigating Love in the Digital Age: The Dating App Survival Guide

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    In Episode 12 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli delves into the world of dating apps, sharing candid advice and personal experiences to help listeners navigate this digital dating era. He discusses the superficial nature of app swiping and the mindset differences between men and women when using these platforms. Eli offers practical tips for crafting an authentic and engaging dating profile that truly reflects the individual's personality and desires. He emphasizes that dating apps are just tools, not solutions, and advises listeners not to place their self-worth in app interactions but to use them wisely as part of a broader dating strategy. Additionally, Eli underscores the importance of taking breaks from apps if feeling overwhelmed and maintaining a positive, self-respecting attitude throughout the dating process.
     
    00:16 Intro: The Dating App Survival Guide01:49 Navigating the Digital Dating Era08:02 How Men Use Dating Apps10:08 Crafting the Perfect Dating Profile14:37 Take A Break If You Need To!25:29 Outro
     
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    • 27 min
    How To Regain Your Power After Betrayal with Personal Development Coach Katelynn Smith

    How To Regain Your Power After Betrayal with Personal Development Coach Katelynn Smith

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    In Episode 11 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez hosts Katelynn Smith, a personal development coach specializing in trauma healing. Katelynn shares her journey from experiencing profound loss and betrayal to finding healing and purpose. She recounts the pain of losing a child and dealing with her ex-husband's betrayal, and how these experiences led her to help others navigate their healing journeys. Eli and Katelynn discuss the importance of self-worth, forgiveness, and moving beyond victimhood, offering listeners insights into transforming pain into empowerment. The episode emphasizes authenticity, the power of sharing one's story, and the importance of self-reflection and growth following life’s hardest challenges.
     
    00:16 Intro00:45 Katelynn's Journey: From Loss to Healing03:00 The Power of Sharing Your Story06:12 Embracing Forgiveness and Self-Worth in the Healing Process14:26 The Impact of Authenticity in Coaching and Personal Growth17:44 The Mutual Benefit of Coaching23:50 The Power of Authenticity in Healing24:50 Embracing Emotions and Finding Your Passion32:22 The Challenge of Authentic Connections33:24 Finding Community in a Digital Age35:06 Outro
     
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    • 39 min
    Texting Red Flags: Signs They're Not That Into You

    Texting Red Flags: Signs They're Not That Into You

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    In Episode 10 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli tackles the nuanced world of texting and dating, providing insight into behaviors that signify interest or disinterest. He navigates through the anxious phases of early dating, highlighting the importance of recognizing red flags in text communication and advocating for a more controlled and self-aware approach to new relationships. Eli encourages listeners to maintain their self-worth, question uncertain texting patterns, and not settle for less than they deserve. He emphasizes the significance of clear communication, respect, and setting boundaries, ensuring that personal values align with dating experiences. 
     
    00:19 Intro00:27 Diving Into Texting and Dating Dynamics02:17 Texting Etiquette in Early Dating05:54 Decoding Texting Behavior: Interest vs. Disinterest09:38 Understanding Time and Effort in Texting12:51 Navigating Physical Intentions and Respect in Texting19:30 Anxiety & Texting26:01 Outro
     
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    • 27 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
57 Ratings

57 Ratings

Alyssa Daisy ,

Need Eli in your life!!!

Love this podcast! He tells it like it is! He’s your guy best friend and tells you from a guys point of view! Keep it up Eli!

_kylielin ,

Tuning in every episode!

Wow! Easy to listen episodes and flows really well. Eli is that guy friend you can count on when you’re going through tough times in relationships or breakups. The way he delivers validation is authentic and straight to the point, no sugar coating but through a positive tone and reminds you of your worth when you’re being too hard on yourself after dealing with people who don’t deserve your energy.

Vulfmon Stratton ,

Wooo!! It’s back!!

So excited self hype is back!! Just subscribed to the Patreon happy support Eli 🙌

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