37 episodes

Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 64 Ratings

Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.

    What Questions You Need To Ask To Know If You're Wasting Time

    What Questions You Need To Ask To Know If You're Wasting Time

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    In Episode 24 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli dives into the nuances of asking the right questions during the dating phase to ensure you're not wasting time and building potential relationships on a solid foundation. He emphasizes the importance of intentionality in questions that probe beyond superficial qualities to understand a person's core values and long-term goals. Eli discusses setting boundaries through these questions, using them as a filtration system to sift through potential partners, ensuring they align with your personal values and lifestyle aspirations.
     
    00:00 Cold Open00:26 Welcome to the Show00:58 Asking the Right Questions02:20 Understanding Your Intentions05:11 Are You Ready for a Relationship?08:49 Defining Your Ideal Partner11:15 Navigating the Dating Scene13:20 Intentional Communication19:24 Emotional Intimacy26:12 Final Thoughts
     
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    • 27 min
    How To Keep Moving In Moments Of Hardship w/ Coach Madison Ciccone

    How To Keep Moving In Moments Of Hardship w/ Coach Madison Ciccone

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    In Episode 23 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli sits down with Madison Ciccone, a former party girl turned top SoulCycle instructor and motivational coach. Their discussion illuminates Madison's transformative journey from Hollywood's fast-paced nightlife to leading fitness classes and inspiring others through her podcast and coaching. They delve into the profound impact of hitting rock bottom and the pivotal changes it spurred in Madison's life, emphasizing the power of resilience and the importance of embracing one's true self to foster personal growth and meaningful connections. Through her story, Madison inspires listeners to pursue self-discovery and harness the therapeutic power of storytelling and personal expression in overcoming life's challenges.
     
    00:00 Cold Open00:18 Intro00:52 From Party Girl to SoulCycle Instructor04:35 Rock Bottom in LA09:02 The SoulCycle Opportunity14:45 Moving to Boston and Embracing Change19:56 Confidence and Authenticity23:43 Helping Others26:54 Embracing Negative Emotions31:49 Running Your Own Race41:00 Building a Community44:30 Madison's Favorite Superheroes46:58 Where to Follow and Support Madison48:43 Final Thoughts
     
     
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    • 50 min
    The Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide

    The Long Distance Relationship Survival Guide

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    In Episode 22 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez tackles the topic of long-distance relationships, offering listeners a survival guide based on his own experiences and the advice of those who have successfully maintained such relationships. He discusses the romantic allure and the inherent challenges of being physically apart, emphasizing the importance of setting clear expectations and maintaining regular, meaningful communication. Eli stresses the necessity of having a definitive plan for eventually living in the same location, as without a concrete end goal, long-distance relationships are often unsustainable. The episode provides practical tips for keeping the relationship vibrant and emphasizes the importance of intentional date nights and emotional check-ins to foster closeness despite the distance.
     
    00:00 Cold Open00:27 Welcome to The Self Hype Podcast00:56 Eli's Long Distance Experience03:31 The Hard Truth07:35 Non-Negotiable Date Nights10:07 Emotional Check-ins12:45 Planning Your Next Visit14:50 Encouragement16:45 Outro
     
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    • 18 min
    Importance Of Mental Health In Love w/ Licensed Therapist Adriana Alejandra

    Importance Of Mental Health In Love w/ Licensed Therapist Adriana Alejandra

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    In Episode 21 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli explores the power of acknowledging and overcoming imposter syndrome with therapist and speaker Adriana Alejandra. They delve into the pressures and mental health stigmas within the BIPOC community, discussing how embracing joy and balancing work and play can combat feelings of inadequacy. The conversation also covers understanding attachment styles and how they affect relationships, providing listeners with strategies to ask the hard questions and address personal mental health challenges effectively. Through her work, including the Latinx Therapy platform, Adriana offers vital resources for mental health support and education, aiming to destigmatize the conversation around mental health issues in the Latinx and broader BIPOC communities.
     
    00:00 Introduction01:35 Personal Therapy Experiences02:28 Mental Health Stigmas05:34 Understanding Attachment Styles15:33 Imposter Syndrome23:12 Coping with Anxiety29:24 Personal Healing Techniques31:51 Reflective Questions for Growth34:48 Ambiguous Loss37:43 Latinx Therapy: A Journey44:16 The Power of Vulnerability48:33 Supporting Latinx Therapy
     
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    • 49 min
    How I Went From F Boy To Personal Wellness Coach

    How I Went From F Boy To Personal Wellness Coach

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    In Episode 20 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez shares his personal journey from a self-proclaimed "former F boy" to a personal development coach. He reflects on his past behaviors, the lessons learned, and his transformation into a more self-aware individual. Eli discusses the importance of self-reflection, accountability, and taking proactive steps towards personal growth. He emphasizes the impact of therapy in his life, how it helped him confront his issues, and encouraged self-improvement. Throughout the episode, Eli aims to inspire listeners to embrace their past, seek growth, and pursue a path of healing and betterment.
     
    00:00 Introduction08:13 The Nerdy Beginnings12:49 College Life and the Rise of the F-Boy18:48 The Turning Point: Embracing Self-Help22:19 Facing the Consequences of Cheating24:21 Breaking Generational Trauma35:43 Redefining Relationships42:33 Turning Pain into Motivation46:12 Outro
     
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    • 47 min
    Connecting With Ourselves To Connect With Others w/ Chris Rivas

    Connecting With Ourselves To Connect With Others w/ Chris Rivas

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    In Episode 19 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli sits down with Chris Rivas, an actor, author, and PhD in expressive arts, known for his work on a Fox series and his insightful books on social identity. The episode delves into the transformative power of storytelling and the arts in personal growth and self-discovery. Chris shares his journey from acting to writing, exploring themes of identity, race, and self-acceptance. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding one's emotions and the role of art in shaping personal narratives and connecting with others. Through his stories and experiences, Christopher inspires listeners to embrace their own stories and the feelings they wish to cultivate in their lives.
     
    00:00 Intro02:57 Christopher Rivas on Curiosity and Self-Discovery06:25 The Journey of Creating 'Brown Enough'10:05 The Struggle and Beauty of Authenticity15:58 Navigating Masculinity and Vulnerability19:24 The Work of Love and Partnership20:53 Life as a Continuous Ceremony31:59 Outro
     
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    • 35 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
64 Ratings

64 Ratings

KeariaB ,

Amazing

I listen to this podcast every day ! It has truly help me to rethink my choices and thought process .

Jenjen3849 ,

The best

I love this podcast! Definitely so glad Eli started doing this!

Alyssa Daisy ,

Need Eli in your life!!!

Love this podcast! He tells it like it is! He’s your guy best friend and tells you from a guys point of view! Keep it up Eli!

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