The Successfully In Love Podcast

Katarina Polonska
The Successfully In Love Podcast

Creating and keeping a healthy, meaningful, and fulfilling relationship can feel extra hard for high-achievers, especially when you're a career-driven professional with limited time, emotional bandwidth, and a lot on your plate. And of course, you want to maintain high standards for yourself. Join high-performance relationship coach and gender dynamics social scientist Katarina Polonska (University of Oxford M.St, ICF ACC NLP IAT) as she delves into the complexities of having true healthy love, discerning whether to stay or go, and levelling up to create your ultimate relationship. If you are an ambitious professional who knows you deserve more in life but can't seem to figure out your relationships - whether that's improving your current partnership, getting clarity on what you should do, finding the love of your life, or breaking free from the painful patterns of your past - this show is for you. Each episode contains powerful insights into the Behavioral Science of Attraction, the proven science-based methodology to help you create your best relationship yet, and live your best life. Watch my FREE Masterclass on how the Behavioral Science of Attraction will fix your relationship here: https://programs.katarinapolonska.com/SILREPLAYO Discover more at: www.katarinapolonska.com @katarinapolonska on Instagram www.linkedin.com/in/katarina-polonsky/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 4D AGO

    This Fear is DESTROYING Your Relationships!

    If you’ve ever worried that people only want a relationship with you for what you can give — money, status, connections — you’re not alone. In this episode, I dive deep into the hidden fears that successful people carry about being used, manipulated, or betrayed. Whether you’re a high-achieving entrepreneur, or someone burned before, this episode is for you. I unpack why trust issues form, how past experiences shape your subconscious beliefs, and how those beliefs silently attract the very dynamics you’re trying to avoid. More importantly, we explore how to heal trust wounds and rebuild authentic, safe relationships — starting by learning to trust yourself. When you stop second-guessing your intuition and start setting clear emotional boundaries, everything shifts: your romantic life, your friendships, and even your career. If you’re ready to stop living in fear of being used and start connecting from a place of confidence and clarity, be sure to listen! ------- Watch my FREE Masterclass on how the Behavioral Science of Attraction will fix your relationship here: https://www.successfullyinlove.com/program Discover more of me at: Website - https://www.katarinapolonska.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/katarinapolonska LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/katarina-polonsky Timecode: 0:00 - Intro 0:29 - The fear that people are using you 3:12 - Why do we have this fear? 5:05 - You're the reason this is happening 10:59 - How do we change these beliefs? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    20 min
  2. APR 2

    How Do I Rekindle Intimacy And Reconnect With My Partner When Things Are Hard? (w/ Briony McKenzie)

    Briony makes a comeback in this longer episode where we talk about all things romantic relationships, how to navigate the power struggle as a couple who work together, how to overcome blocks in the relationship, and how to reconnect. She shares some of her favorite intimacy tips (as do I) and we have a pretty incredible conversation packed with intimacy insights. Watch my FREE Masterclass on how the Behavioral Science of Attraction will fix your relationship here: https://www.successfullyinlove.com/program Discover more of me at: Website - https://www.katarinapolonska.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/katarinapolonska/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/katarina-polonsky/ ----- Briony McKenzie is a former solicitor who left behind her corporate law career to embrace her true calling as a coach. She is the Co-Founder of Untapped, an education and coaching company that helps impact-driven thought leaders take their mission to the next level by supporting them to scale their business with ease. Find more of Briony: instagram.com/untappedhq untapped.nz Timecodes: 0:00:00 - Guest introduction 0:01:09 - How did Briony meet her partner? 0:04:58 - How did Katarina meet her partner? 0:09:11 - When do you understand you found the right partner? 0:10:54 - How to make first dates effective? 0:14:54 - Every relationship is not perfect 0:21:22 - How past relationships can ruin your current one? 0:24:38 - 3 main factors to become a better partner 0:26:24 - About "easy" relationships 0:28:41 - What is Briony going through right now? 0:31:46 - How to deal with conflicts? 0:37:12 - How mental blocks can affect your life? 0:43:45 - How to learn how to share vulnerability? 0:54:34 - What to do if you feel disconnected from your partner? 1:03:03 - How do you deal with resentment towards your partner? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 21m
  3. JAN 29

    How do I Manifest What I Want? (w/ Joe Vitale)

    In today's episode, I'm with the brilliant Dr. Joe Vitale, the bestselling author behind a myriad of manifestation and happiness books. He specializes in helping folks live their best lives yet, from having the abundance they seek, to the happiness, health, relationships and life experiences. He’s also written many more books on marketing and business. We talk about his very own rags to riches true life story, how manifestation works, why harnessing the subconscious mind is critical to your success, and how to improve your life overall - starting today. This is a fab episode for upleveling your life with someone who's helped thousands of people. Watch my FREE Masterclass on how the Behavioral Science of Attraction will fix your relationship here: successfullyinlove.com/program Discover more of me at: katarinapolonska.com @katarinapolonska on Instagram linkedin.com/in/katarina-polonsky/ ------ Dr. Joe Vitale is the author of far too many books to mention here. Here are just a few of them: He wrote the bestseller, The Attractor Factor: 5 Easy Steps for Creating Wealth (or anything else) from the inside out. It became a #1 bestseller twice, even beating the latest Harry Potter book. He also wrote Life’s Missing Instruction Manual: The Guidebook You Should Have Been Given at Birth. It, too, became a #1 bestseller and was picked up by WalMart. One of his most popular titles, Zero Limits: The Secret Hawaiian System for Wealth, Health, Peace, and More reflects an ancient Hawaiian practice, known as Ho’oponopono. A fan favorite, Joe has hosted multiple live events on the subject, nation-wide, and he has created quite a following on this title alone. Find more of Joe: instagram.com/drjoevitale miraclescoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    41 min
  4. JAN 15

    Why Do Dating Apps Not Work For Me? (w/ Stacy Thomson)

    Today's powerful episode is on the dating landscape and future of relationships with the founder of Reddi, a matchmaking dating app specializing in attachment theory. Stacy and I discuss why dating has changed over the years, how the apps have made life harder, and what to do about it. We explore human connection, capitalism, and the future of dating. This is a deep and insightful conversation that we'd love for you to hear - and chime into! Drop me a message at info@katarinapolonska.com to share your thoughts. Watch my FREE Masterclass on how the Behavioral Science of Attraction will fix your relationship here: programs.katarinapolonska.com/SILREPLAYO Discover more of me at: katarinapolonska.com @katarinapolonska on Instagram linkedin.com/in/katarina-polonsky/ ------ Stacy Thomson founded Reddi, the first exclusive private matchmaking dating app that uses attachment theory to match people who want great relationships. Reddi serves as a global open network, and they headhunt for the world’s most successful matchmakers. They don’t use addictive technology, and they aim to encourage slow dating reducing the dopamine addiction created by other consumer products. At Reddi, they believe that as orchestrators of relationships, they also need to be socially responsible and address the challenges and opportunities that our current and future generations face in finding and keeping meaningful connection. Find more of Stacy: linkedin.com/in/stacythomson instagram.com/thestacythomson iamreddi.com Get a month free on the Reddi app by putting Katarina Polonska as your referral. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    55 min
  5. JAN 2

    How I Became Securely Attached in Less Than 6 Months (w/ Karla Lloyd)

    Today, I'm with the lovely Karla Lloyd, a client, friend, and fellow coach. She talks about how and why she joined my Successfully in Love coaching program, even though she works with the subconscious mind in her own practice. She shares how the program helped her become securely attached and gave her different techniques to the ones she uses with her own clients to achieve results she was previously unable to get, all in in less than 6 months! We talk about how virtually all of life's problems can be traced back to relationships and why relationships are the most important aspect to improve if you want to level up your reality. Watch my FREE Masterclass on how the Behavioral Science of Attraction will fix your relationship here: programs.katarinapolonska.com/SILREPLAYO Discover more of me at: katarinapolonska.com @katarinapolonska on Instagram linkedin.com/in/katarina-polonsky/ ------ Karla Lloyd is a Master certified hypnotherapist and coach at AOVC. She helps clients unlock their true potential by releasing the negative emotions, behaviors, and mechanisms that hinder their well-being. She specializes in working with individuals who have experienced childhood trauma, life challenges, or impactful events, and who are ready and willing to embark on a transformative journey of personal growth and change. She is also a sales coach, closer, manager and has led sales teams from low to high consistency in conversion rates. A true digital nomad, she is currently in Bali though is typically based in San Diego, California. Find more of Karla: @karla_awesome on Instagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    36 min

Ratings & Reviews

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Creating and keeping a healthy, meaningful, and fulfilling relationship can feel extra hard for high-achievers, especially when you're a career-driven professional with limited time, emotional bandwidth, and a lot on your plate. And of course, you want to maintain high standards for yourself. Join high-performance relationship coach and gender dynamics social scientist Katarina Polonska (University of Oxford M.St, ICF ACC NLP IAT) as she delves into the complexities of having true healthy love, discerning whether to stay or go, and levelling up to create your ultimate relationship. If you are an ambitious professional who knows you deserve more in life but can't seem to figure out your relationships - whether that's improving your current partnership, getting clarity on what you should do, finding the love of your life, or breaking free from the painful patterns of your past - this show is for you. Each episode contains powerful insights into the Behavioral Science of Attraction, the proven science-based methodology to help you create your best relationship yet, and live your best life. Watch my FREE Masterclass on how the Behavioral Science of Attraction will fix your relationship here: https://programs.katarinapolonska.com/SILREPLAYO Discover more at: www.katarinapolonska.com @katarinapolonska on Instagram www.linkedin.com/in/katarina-polonsky/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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