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For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm Traver Boehm

    • Education
    • 4.9 • 163 Ratings

For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.

    Nice Guys —why trying to belong is strangling your authenticity with Traver Boehm

    Nice Guys —why trying to belong is strangling your authenticity with Traver Boehm

    I’ve often talked about and taught the notion of Attachment vs Authenticity when it comes to Nice Guy work. And the idea of attachment is real — but it’s taken me a few years of working with it and hearing about it quite often for it truly to stick.

    Thus I’m now shifting to talking about Belonging vs Authenticity — especially with but not exclusive to Nice Guys.

    In this short solo episode I break down why your need to belong may be strangling you of your authentic expression and I give you three steps on how to begin to shift the tides

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 20 min
    UNcivilized masculinity vs Traditional masculinity with Traver Boehm

    UNcivilized masculinity vs Traditional masculinity with Traver Boehm

    An Instagram follower asked me the difference between aspects of Traditional Masculinity and our UNcivilized Masculinity and rather than write him back a novel, I decided to record this solo episode for you.

    In it, I jump right to the point and outline what’s great about Traditional Masculinity and — what needed to be upgraded about it. Thus the creation of UNcivilized Masculinity.

    I outline what makes us different and why…key word — relationship.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 12 min
    Francis Weller — Living a soulfully UNcivilized life.

    Francis Weller — Living a soulfully UNcivilized life.

    Francis Weller has been an inspiration for me for years now. The way he speaks and shares his work around initiation and living a soulful life hits me in my core. It stops my frantic mind and makes me feel like the world is going to be okay…even if it may not be.

    In this episode I get to sit down with Francis and have a frank conversation about men, about getting in touch with our deeper parts, and with what we need to do to make sure we as a species don’t got extinct. 

    You know, light fluffy stuff.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 1 hr
    Three massive changes I’ve had from men’s work with Traver Boehm

    Three massive changes I’ve had from men’s work with Traver Boehm

    In this short and punchy solo episode, I answer another question from Instagram:
    “What were the most transformative parts of men’s work for you?”

    I dive into the top three for you so you can decide for yourself if these are pieces you want to try on yourself.


    Outgrowing substances like alcohol, weed, and porn
    Getting to be authentically me in men’s groups
    Having Michael Gay say, “Set the tone…” and turning the embodiment lightbulb on

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 15 min
    Where to begin your men’s work journey with Traver Boehm.

    Where to begin your men’s work journey with Traver Boehm.

    Last week I was on a call with a man who asked me this profound question, “Where do I begin my men’s work journey? There are so many places I can start from?”In this episode I break down a great starting point for you if you’re about to embark on your men’s work journey, or where to return to if you’ve currently been on a break and aren’t sure where to pick back up.



    I also share a new frame for you that takes the edge and anxiety out of how overwhelming the decision may be.

    Enjoy.Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty.

    Cheers,

    Traver



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 16 min
    What to do when you struggle finding your purpose with Traver Boehm.

    What to do when you struggle finding your purpose with Traver Boehm.

    In this short solo episode, I break down the two main blocks I see when people try to figure out their purpose.

    Knowing why you’re here and what you’re here to do is a BIG deal. And being stuck without knowing either can lead to a lot of undue suffering.

    This episode will help ease that suffering and give you a path forward when you’re in between major chapters of your life.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 18 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
163 Ratings

163 Ratings

Iron shiek ,

Content Heavy

Stop and take a listen, you will NOT be disappointed

sd gifting ,

STOP!!!

Stop and listen, this guy gets it. The struggles we men face, the internal battles we have with ourselves, the external forces that pull us apart, but most importantly, what we can do to better ourselves.
I recommend this to everyone, but especially to those men who are seeking better Mental Health and Emotional intelligence for themselves, their families, and friends.

JRoseland ,

F-bombs with a side of wisdom

When I first saw UNcivilized on itunes, I thought "that's dumb - do we really need another podcast about being impulsive, hedonistic, selfish, and shortsighted?" - uncivilized in a word! But I hit play, listened, and learned.
Dive into the recent series of Traver being interviewed by his staff - some very touching ah-ha moments in there.
A warning: being uncivilized, the host cusses A LOT (even when it's not necessary) - if you don't like that, pass on this show.
And, I love that it's not interrupted with A LOT of mid-roll ads!

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