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For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.

The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm Traver Boehm

    • Education
    • 4.9 • 163 Ratings

For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.

    How to step into your relationship more powerfully — a LIVE Coaching Call.

    How to step into your relationship more powerfully — a LIVE Coaching Call.

    In this edition of the UNcivilized Podcast, I have a man from my Kill The Nice Guy community who has stepped into a brand new role — he’s the step father of two teenage twin boys.
    He also wants to show up powerfully for himself, his fiancé, and the boys in the family. 

    We talk about how his Nice Guy patterns are holding him back and keeping him from fully engaging with both his woman, and her kids. And we give him some concrete steps on how to be more powerful while also staying out of the dictatorial role and in the relational role.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver

    • 40 min
    How to keep your hard earned transformation with Danya River

    How to keep your hard earned transformation with Danya River

    In this episode of our live show UNcivilized UNplugged, you get to sit in with our studio audience as I chat with Danya River on how you can keep all of your hard earned transformations.

    Danya is a master of the human nervous system as well as a high sought out executive coach. I know because I was someone who once sought her out and have worked with her for years now.

    In this episode not only will Danya share with you ways you can work with your nervous system as opposed to working against it, stay tuned for the end when she puts you through a live experience to show you how to do this for yourself.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    My two best techniques for building an incredible life — with Traver Boehm

    My two best techniques for building an incredible life — with Traver Boehm

    Last week I talked about getting your vision board to become your reality and closing the gap between the life you want to be living and the life you are living.

    AND — many of you reached out and asked for techniques that you can use if you don’t have a community around you and you can’t afford to hire a coach or a consultant.
    I get it. In this short solo episode I share my two favorite techniques for building an amazing life — ones I still use to this day.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 16 min
    Do you need permission to live the life you want to — with Traver Boehm

    Do you need permission to live the life you want to — with Traver Boehm

    In my experience of over twenty years of coaching humans, most of you will get stuck in one place — needing permission.

    Whether that’s to write your book, start your business, or even just be the healthiest one in your family, permission is a big wall for many people to climb.

    And — it may not be the only wall. 



    In this short, potent solo episode I break down the three reasons why most people don’t achieve their dreams and how you can start to change that immediately.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 14 min
    Art, Jiujitsu, and the UNconventional Life with Chris Haueter

    Art, Jiujitsu, and the UNconventional Life with Chris Haueter

    Chris Haueter is one of the dirty dozen — the first 12 non Brazilian, Brazilian Jiujitsu Black Belts. He’s also a philosopher poet, an incredible historian, and a teacher.

    He’s also my old instructor and my old corner man.

    In this episode we get to catch up after nearly two decades and Chris shares his thoughts on a number of topics including how he built a life around teaching the art he loves.

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships.



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Developing these attributes will change your life with Traver Boehm

    Developing these attributes will change your life with Traver Boehm

    After coaching humans for over 20 years through the good times and the challenges of their lives, I know people and what helps us get past our blocks, our heartbreaks, and our limiting beliefs.

    In this solo episode I’ll break down the six attributes I feel you need to either get through a hard time, or engage in a challenging endeavor like building a business, learning to surf, or creating the UNcivilized life of your dreams.

    They are:

    —Resilience

    — Tenacity

    — Faith

    — Curiosity

    — Humor

    — Community

    Enjoy.
    Please do share this with one person in your life, or twenty. 

    Cheers,

    Traver



    ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.



    If you look at the civilized world and think, "No thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode!

    Also, join the uncivilized community and connect with me on ⁠⁠⁠⁠my website⁠⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, or⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.

    Get a copy of one of my books,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Man UNcivilized⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Today I Rise⁠.

    • 32 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
163 Ratings

163 Ratings

Iron shiek ,

Content Heavy

Stop and take a listen, you will NOT be disappointed

sd gifting ,

STOP!!!

Stop and listen, this guy gets it. The struggles we men face, the internal battles we have with ourselves, the external forces that pull us apart, but most importantly, what we can do to better ourselves.
I recommend this to everyone, but especially to those men who are seeking better Mental Health and Emotional intelligence for themselves, their families, and friends.

JRoseland ,

F-bombs with a side of wisdom

When I first saw UNcivilized on itunes, I thought "that's dumb - do we really need another podcast about being impulsive, hedonistic, selfish, and shortsighted?" - uncivilized in a word! But I hit play, listened, and learned.
Dive into the recent series of Traver being interviewed by his staff - some very touching ah-ha moments in there.
A warning: being uncivilized, the host cusses A LOT (even when it's not necessary) - if you don't like that, pass on this show.
And, I love that it's not interrupted with A LOT of mid-roll ads!

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