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For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.

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    • 4.9 • 128 Ratings

For people who see through the veil of the civilized paradigm.

    Jamie Thompson — Dissecting the Madonna Whore Complex

    Jamie Thompson — Dissecting the Madonna Whore Complex

    Loving his partner and desiring another woman; the duality of men.

    According to Sigmund Freud's theory named The Madonna-whore Complex, there can be no love in man's desire and vice versa. To discuss and dive better into this psychological complex, the sex and relationship coach, Jamie Elizabeth Thompson, will join us in this episode.

    You will learn how to communicate your desires as a couple, why men suffer from this complex, and how to solve it.

    Could any man in the world love and desire his partner at the same time? Let's hear what Jaime has to say.

    ABOUT JAMIE ELIZABETH THOMPSON

    Jamie helps high-caliber people to navigate intimate desires and differences with loving, open communication. She believes people deserve to be completely met, deeply connected, and profoundly satisfied in their relationship and sex life.

    CONNECT WITH JAMIE

    Website: https://awakenedwoman.life/paths/erotic-muse/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticsexcoach/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/missjamieelizabeth

    WHAT YOU'LL HEAR

    [2:55] Who's Jamie Thompson

    [4:18] What does embodying our erotic expression mean?

    [8:23] Celebrate your desires while respecting your partner's.

    [16:22] What's the Madonna-whore Complex?

    [26:22] Why does this complex prevent you from sexually desiring your partner?

    [30:27] Does this complex also exist in men?

    [39:02] How does this complex play out in relationships?

    [43:24] How do personal differences affect relationships?

    [50:31] How to connect with Jamie?

    If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.


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    • 54 min
    Doing the work is not selfish with Traver Boehm

    Doing the work is not selfish with Traver Boehm

     This is a major block for so many men — and it shouldn’t be.

    Doing personal work, growth work, and/or healing work is the furthest thing from selfish.

    In fact, it’s the opposite. The stronger and healthier you make yourself, the more you can provide and guide those around you.

    In this quick and dirty solo episode, I dive into all of this. If it lands, please share it with one man in your life.

    Cheers,
    Traver

    If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.


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    Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

    • 7 min
    What would you ask the Elders of your clan?

    What would you ask the Elders of your clan?

    In this extraordinary episode, The UNcivilized Nation Elder Council, Duey Freeman and Mark Sylvester chime in live from the Uncivilized Men’s Initiation where they share their journey as fathers, grandfathers, healers, businessmen, and elders.

    They also field questions directly from the men at the event. This is one of the most profound conversations I’ve ever heard in my life and is a must listen.

    If you’re a human, you need to listen to this episode.

    Enjoy,

    Traver

    If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.


    Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado.
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    • 1 hr 2 min
    Jayaji — The contemplative life of fatherhood and the spiritual path.


    Jayaji — The contemplative life of fatherhood and the spiritual path.


    Imagine growing up with the talent of teaching and advising your parents from a very young age; this is the story of today's guest, Jayaji.

    An unusual story and life.

    It all started when his mother's psychic friend predicted his future at first sight. After many years, that vision became a reality because today, Jayaji is a yoga teacher and spiritual guide.

    From Australia to Guatemala, he still has a long way to go and hundreds of people to guide.

    Don't miss Jayaji's story! I'm sure you're going to love it.

    ABOUT JAYAJI

    Founder of Sound Ceremony, Jayā Saraswatī, Floresta Atitlan, and co-owner of the Yoga Forest.

    Author of more than five published books and two hymns (medicine hymn books).

    CONNECT WITH JAYAJI

    Website: https://linktr.ee/jayajii

    Instagram: @jayajii

    WHAT YOU'LL HEAR

    [3:14] Who's Jayaji.

    [4:50] Influenced by music and new age culture.

    [9:24] Thinking outside the box.

    [11:05] Where does true spiritual awakening come from?

    [16:00] Marrying music and spirituality.

    [23:04] The challenges of moving to a foreign country.

    [29:20] The relationship with the word practice.

    [37:30] A healthy relationship with our emotions.

    [40:07] Contemplating what it means to exist in the world as a man.

    [45:28] The male and female roles in marriage.

    If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.


    Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado.
    Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course. 
    Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

    • 54 min
    Duey Freeman and Michael Gay - The urgency and importance of in person work for men

    Duey Freeman and Michael Gay - The urgency and importance of in person work for men

    In this episode Duey Freeman, Michael Gay and I sit down and break down what we learned after four intense days with 30 men in a workshop. We dive into the power of loneliness and the intense ways it affects men. We chat about the necessity of having a relationship with the land under your feet and how so many men truly do want to be better partners and fathers. And how all of this gets shifted, understood, and deepened when men work together, in person.

    If you’re a man, you need to listen to this episode.

    Enjoy,

    Traver

    If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.


    Click here for dates and to signup for Summer Initiation in Colorado.
    Click here to sign up for the Kill the Nice Guy course. 
    Get a copy of my book, Man UNcivilized

    • 30 min
    Why do you train? With Traver Boehm

    Why do you train? With Traver Boehm

    In this solo episode I break down why every man needs to have a physical training regimen. From running to lifting weights to Jiu Jitsu, it matters little.

    What matters most is that each man understands it is his RESPONSIBILITY to be in shape, strong and capable.

    Enjoy,

    Traver

    If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the uncivilized community, and connect with me on my website, YouTube, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.


    Join the Nation, registration is open now, AND it closes today. JOIN HERE
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    • 10 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
128 Ratings

128 Ratings

CocoNala1974 ,

Life Authentic lives.

This podcast sits at the intersection of where you are and where you want to and could be. Men living authentically with softness, strength, desire, fear, anticipation and so much more. Non judgement based living and loving as a man.

cap sabs ,

Wonderful podcast!

He truly wants to help people become better! Such a light house in this storm!

TerrenceJon ,

One of the best podcasts out there.

Traver (and his guests) always bring such incredible information and valuable messages.
I learn more and more about myself every episode. Thank you Traver!

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