The Undomestic Mom Podcast

Taran Conwell

Taran Conwell is on a mission to dismantle the cringey and watered-down version of self-care in motherhood. By teaching millennial moms to expect more and do less, she helps them create and implement their own restorative self-care routines. After having an identity crisis, this mom of 3 became passionate about helping other women find fulfillment outside of motherhood. Join her every Tuesday as she examines all facets of millennial motherhood and the hurdles it presents to their self-care.

  1. 06/27/2023

    109 | Let's Use ChatGPT to Manage Mom Life Mayhem

    Today, we're playing around with an unexpected hero in our everyday life - ChatGPT. (Personally, I use Jasper, but ChatGPT is the free version so that's what I'm linking for you!) p]:inline-block [&>p]:align-top [&>p]:-mt-6 [&>p]:p-0 [&>p]:mb-4" style= "box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px solid rgb(229, 231, 235); --tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-color: rgba(63,131,248,.5); --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 #0000; position: relative;"> Summer Schedule Planning: We start by asking ChatGPT to plan our summer schedule. We'll give it a few qualifiers and I'll be amazed at its results.  p]:inline-block [&>p]:align-top [&>p]:-mt-6 [&>p]:p-0 [&>p]:mb-4" style= "box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px solid rgb(229, 231, 235); --tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-color: rgba(63,131,248,.5); --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 #0000; position: relative; --tw-space-y-reverse: 0; margin-top: calc(-.5rem * calc(1 - var(--tw-space-y-reverse))); margin-bottom: calc(-.5rem * var(--tw-space-y-reverse));"> Meal Planning: Next, we dive into the world of meal planning. If you're tired of answering the question, "What's for dinner?", ChatGPT is here to help. We'll talk about how it can assist in planning meals for the week or even the month, considering dietary restrictions and preferences. p]:inline-block [&>p]:align-top [&>p]:-mt-6 [&>p]:p-0 [&>p]:mb-4" style= "box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px solid rgb(229, 231, 235); --tw-border-spacing-x: 0; --tw-border-spacing-y: 0; --tw-translate-x: 0; --tw-translate-y: 0; --tw-rotate: 0; --tw-skew-x: 0; --tw-skew-y: 0; --tw-scale-x: 1; --tw-scale-y: 1; --tw-scroll-snap-strictness: proximity; --tw-ring-offset-width: 0px; --tw-ring-offset-color: #fff; --tw-ring-color: rgba(63,131,248,.5); --tw-ring-offset-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-ring-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow: 0 0 #0000; --tw-shadow-colored: 0 0 #0000; position: relative; --tw-space-y-reverse: 0; margin-top: calc(-.5rem * calc(1 - var(--tw-space-y-reverse))); margin-bottom: calc(-.5rem * var(--tw-space-y-reverse));"> Girls' Night Out: Finally, we'll explore how ChatGPT can help plan much-needed downtime. I'll ask it to plan a relaxing and fun girls' night out. Listen on to discover how good of a job it actually did! Whether you are a working mom, a stay-at-home mom, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with useful tips to help you navigate motherhood's sometimes chaotic world more efficiently. Mentioned in this episode: Find me on Instagram Email me: taran (at) undomesticmom (dot) com applesauceandadhd TikTok Post Partum Anxiety and Meds: My Journey

    30 min
  2. 06/20/2023

    Channeling 90s Moms: 5 Strategies I'm Embracing from the Past

    In today's show, I'll dive into the world of 90s moms and discuss some timeless parenting strategies I've decided to embrace. Join me as I share these five valuable lessons from the past that can help us become better moms today.   Letting Go of Worry I'll share how 90s moms managed to worry less about every little detail and how adopting this mindset can lead to a more relaxed and enjoyable parenting experience for you and me. Taking Time for Ourselves We'll discover the importance of self-care and setting aside time for ourselves as moms. I'll discuss how 90s moms prioritized their well-being and how we can do the same today. Prioritizing Our Marriages Let's explore how 90s moms maintained strong relationships with their partners and why we must prioritize our marriages alongside our parenting responsibilities. Opting Out of the Mommy Wars Do you remember a time before social media-fueled "mommy wars"? I'll discuss how 90s moms avoided the pitfalls of comparing themselves to others and focused on what truly mattered in their parenting journeys. Banishing Mom Guilt Finally, let's tackle mom guilt head-on by taking inspiration from 90s moms who refused to let it hold them back. I'll share strategies for eliminating guilt and embracing our unique parenting styles. Join me in this nostalgic trip down memory lane as we uncover the timeless wisdom of 90s moms and learn how we can apply these strategies to become more confident and effective parents today.    Find me on Instagram.

    19 min
  3. 05/02/2023

    The Number One Marriage Tip My Couple's Therapist Taught Me

    In today's episode, I share the top strategy my couple's therapist taught me over the past two years. This episode discusses the importance of creating fair fighting rules with your spouse to avoid lengthy arguments and ensure a healthy marriage. Why Create Fair Fighting Rules? Arguments in relationships are normal, but they can quickly escalate and damage a marriage if not handled correctly. By creating fair fighting rules with your spouse, you both establish clear guidelines for approaching and resolving conflicts respectfully and healthily. What Are Fair Fighting Rules? Fair fighting rules are the agreed-upon guidelines couples create to ensure arguments stay constructive and respectful. These rules can include not using hurtful language or bringing up past issues, taking a break when emotions run high, and actively listening to each other's  perspectives How to Create Fair Fighting Rules? To create fair fighting rules, both partners should come to the table with an open mind and a willingness to listen. Identify your personal triggers and share them with your partner, and establish guidelines for communication that honor both perspectives. Benefits of Fair Fighting Rules By establishing fair fighting rules, couples can resolve conflicts more quickly and effectively, leading to a healthier and happier marriage. They also help couples keep arguments from being drawn out and emotionally charged. Mentioned in This Episode: Find me on Instagram Email Me: taran (at) undomesticmom (dot) com

    33 min
4.8
out of 5
18 Ratings

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Taran Conwell is on a mission to dismantle the cringey and watered-down version of self-care in motherhood. By teaching millennial moms to expect more and do less, she helps them create and implement their own restorative self-care routines. After having an identity crisis, this mom of 3 became passionate about helping other women find fulfillment outside of motherhood. Join her every Tuesday as she examines all facets of millennial motherhood and the hurdles it presents to their self-care.