68 episodes

A podcast about fluid sexuality, gender, masculinity and femininity, intimacy,
relationships and more -- hosted by two bi guys.

Two Bi Guys Rob Cohen and Alex Boyd

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 170 Ratings

A podcast about fluid sexuality, gender, masculinity and femininity, intimacy,
relationships and more -- hosted by two bi guys.

    Dear Bi Men: J.R. Yussuf is Back

    Dear Bi Men: J.R. Yussuf is Back

    Welcome back to Bi+ book season! We're picking up right where we left off, interviewing 4 more Bi+ authors about their new bisexual-themed books, and this week I'm so excited to reunite with J.R. Yussuf to discuss his new book, Dear Bi Men: A Black Man's Perspective on Power, Consent, Breaking Down Binaries, and Combating Erasure [https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/739250/dear-bi-men-by-jr-yussuf/]. J.R. was one of the first ever guests on this podcast, and it was amazing to hear how much has evolved – for both of us – since that first interview. We chatted about too many things to list, and you won't want to miss it!

    There are over 25 minutes of bonus content with J.R. – and full video of the entire interview – on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohen]. 

    Purchase Dear Bi Men [https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/739250/dear-bi-men-by-jr-yussuf/]

    Visit J.R.'s website [https://jryussuf.com/] 

    Additional resources to complement J.R.'s book [https://jryussuf.com/additionals] 

    Buy my book, Bisexual Married Men [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260]

    Visit my website [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/] 

    Learn more about my coaching practice [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/coaching] 

    • 1 hr 12 min
    Bisexual Married Men: Rene

    Bisexual Married Men: Rene

    It's the final interview (for real!) in this series on Bi+ married men. But first -- I'm starting a coaching practice! I specialize in helping LGBT+, queer, questioning, and non-monogamous people navigate their identity and relationships, but I can coach you in any area of your life in which you feel stuck. For the first 20 minutes of this episode, I give an overview of my new practice, what coaching is and isn't, how I can help you create awareness and meaningful change, and how to sign up for a free intro call if you're interested. (TLDR: visit my website [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/coaching])

    After that, enjoy an interview with Rene (aka Nelson), another subject in my book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260] (out now), back on Two Bi Guys for the second time. Rene's story is unique and layered, but it also features common threads that many Bi+ men have experienced – though we often feel like we're alone.

    There are 20 minutes of bonus content with Rene, plus full video of this interview and entire series, on Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohen].

    Thanks for listening to this series on Bi+ married men and for the lovely feedback on my book. (If you're enjoying it, please leave a review on Amazon or wherever you bought it!) Stay tuned for the continuation of book season with a few more Bi+ authors. Thanks for listening and supporting my work!

    Order "Bisexual Married Men" [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260]

    Visit my website to learn more about the book, press, and events [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/bisexualmarriedmen]

    • 55 min
    Bisexual Married Men: Austin

    Bisexual Married Men: Austin

    Here's the last interview in my series on Bi+ married men. (Or maybe the penultimate! I'm still waiting to hear back from someone. I'll do a wrap-up episode either way.) This week I interviewed Austin, aka "Quentin" in my book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260] (out now) -- back on Two Bi Guys for the second time (first time was season 2!) with lots of updates and new insights. Austin's story is unique and layered, perhaps even more layered than any other (and I've learned so much from peeling back those layers), but it also features common threads that many Bi+ men have experienced – though we often feel like we're alone.

    There are 18 minutes of bonus content with Austin, plus full video of the entire interview, on my Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohen]!

    Thanks for listening! I'll be wrapping up this Bi+ married men series next episode and then finishing up Book Season with a few more Bi+ authors (and then taking a break...). But more bonus content will continue to be featured on Patreon, especially on hiatus.

    Order "Bisexual Married Men" [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260]

    Visit my website to learn more about the book, press, and events [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/bisexualmarriedmen]

    • 47 min
    Bisexual Married Men: Nana

    Bisexual Married Men: Nana

    Happy new year! Here's another interview from this special series on bisexual men who are married to women. This week I interviewed Nana, another subject in my book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260] (out now). Nana's story is unique and layered, especially because he was the only interviewee with a military background (which intersected heavily with his Bi+ identity...), but it also features common threads that many Bi+ men have experienced – though we often feel like we're alone.

    There are 20 minutes of bonus content with Nana, plus FULL LENGTH VIDEO of the interview, only on my Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohen]-- enjoy!

    Stay tuned for a few more interviews with Bi+ married men. Thanks for listening and supporting my work!

    Order "Bisexual Married Men" [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260]

    Visit my website to learn more about the book, press, and events [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/bisexualmarriedmen]

    • 54 min
    Bisexual Married Men: Cassidy

    Bisexual Married Men: Cassidy

    We're back with more in this special series on bisexual men who are married to women! This week I interviewed Cassidy, another subject in my new oral history book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260] – out now! Cassidy's story is unique and layered, especially because he abandoned his "straight" label early on as a teenager, but it also features common threads that many Bi+ men have experienced – though we often feel like we're alone.

    There are 11 minutes of bonus content with Cassidy, plus FULL LENGTH VIDEO of the interview, only on my Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohen]-- enjoy!

    Stay tuned for a few more interviews with Bi+ married men! Thanks for listening and supporting my work.

    Order "Bisexual Married Men" [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260]

    Visit my website to learn more about the book, press, and events [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/bisexualmarriedmen]

    • 49 min
    Bisexual Married Men: Charles

    Bisexual Married Men: Charles

    Welcome back to this special series on bisexual men who are married to women! This week I interviewed Charles, another subject in my new oral history book, Bisexual Married Men: Stories of Relationships, Acceptance, and Authenticity – out now! Charles' story is unique and layered, but it also features common threads that many Bi+ men have experienced – though we often feel like we're alone.

    There are 13 minutes of bonus content with Charles only on my Patreon [https://www.patreon.com/robertbrookscohen]-- enjoy! (Note: there is no video of Charles for this episode.)

    Stay tuned for more interviews with Bi+ married men weekly in December! Thanks for listening and supporting my work.

    Order "Bisexual Married Men" [https://www.anrdoezrs.net/click-100985243-14472606?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.routledge.com%2FBisexual-Married-Men-Stories-of-Relationships-Acceptance-and-Authenticity%2FCohen%2Fp%2Fbook%2F9781032473260]

    Visit my website to learn more about the book, press, and events [https://www.robertbrookscohen.com/bisexualmarriedmen]

    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
170 Ratings

170 Ratings

Andrew from Providence ,

Buying the book

I am an avid listener of Bisexual Behavior. I have also listened to this excellent podcast but had not yet heard about the book. Your informative and thought provoking work and conversation with Talia have me the incentive to buy the book. I just ordered it! Keep up the bitacular work! Andrew Prescott

Philmarken ,

I’m here

Alex and Rob,
Thank you so much for what you are doing. I’ve only listened to a few episodes so far, and am feeling so seen/understood. I have much more I could share about my own story, suffice it to say that I have been looking for this extended community (and didn’t know it) for years. Just from hearing you guys share I’ve already been able to articulate parts of my own story with the people I care about in open, clear, unabashed ways that I didn’t know possible before now. So much shame/confusion/uncertainty, gone.
I’m so excited to be able to have you guys around with me.
Much love,
Philip

Jonny K 😎 ,

Refreshing

Bi-and-married-to-a-woman, man here. I wish I had found this years ago. It would have made my journey to now - which is a life I love - more open and honest and consequently more free, which is like a spice to life!

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