101 episodes

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.

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We're Having Gay Sex Ashley Gavin & Studio71

    • Comedy
    • 4.9 • 1.7K Ratings

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.

We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 
For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com   
Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

    Tien Tran Breaks Your Teeth in Heat

    Tien Tran Breaks Your Teeth in Heat

    Tien Tran (How I Met Your Father) is a riveting lesbian stand-up who has performed on Comedy Central and more, but today she is calling in straight from the mid-west for some cybering in the apartment! We discuss accidental injury in bed, terrible exes, and the intense historical rivalry between France and rural Illinois. Ashley encounters a “poly supremacist.” Kate has a subway stand-off.         

    Tien can be found @hanktina on IG,
    And you can watch her on “How I Met Your Father,” streaming exclusively on Hulu; new episodes release every Tuesday. 

    Want to hear more? Check out the following links:
    Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch
    Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates
    Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast
    @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.
    @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter

    Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS

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    • 1 hr 10 min
    Franqi French Eats You Out in Public

    Franqi French Eats You Out in Public

    Hilarious queer comedian Franqi French (Stand Up NBC, Curb Your Enthusiasm) has been on a meteoric rise, but today she has decided to come BACK the apartment for more hijinks, laughs, and gay sex. We discuss public sex acts, late vs. early bloomers, and maybe accidentally getting too high before work. Kate prepares to lose their virginity. Ashley performs for geriatric swingers.

    Franqi can be found @franqifrench on IG and Twitter,
    And see her live while she is headlining the DC Comedy Loft on April 8th -9th! Follow her on social media for more info, or visit https://franqifrench.com/
     
    Want to hear more? Check out the following links:
    Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch
    Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates
    Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast
    @ashgavs on IG and Twitter; @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.
    @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter

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    Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS

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    • 1 hr 3 min
    Gus Constantellis is Sparta; His Hookups 300

    Gus Constantellis is Sparta; His Hookups 300

    Gus Constantellis is a 1st generation Greek-American stand-up/writer, a hysterical human, and the viral “Greek Mom” who has performed across the tri-state area, California, and your TikTok feed, but today he has settled into the apartment to get wet and wild! We discuss immigrant parents, spontaneous sexuality, and MILF metaphysics. Ashley finds “mommy.” Kate gets down and dirty, literally.   

    Gus can be found across the internet on IG, Twitter, and TikTok at: @constantlygus

    Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch
    Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates
    Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast
    @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.
    @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter

    Support WHGS on Patreon, and get access to exclusive content like bonus episodes, uncut podcasts, stand-up live streams, and more!: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS

    Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/1PIgkGth300
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    • 1 hr 9 min
    Casey Tanner & Your Queer Relationship Questions

    Casey Tanner & Your Queer Relationship Questions

    Fan-favorite Casey Tanner, AASECT, is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, a queer-affirming therapy group that provides consultation and clinical work to individuals and institutions alike. But, today she is BACK in the apartment to answer questions and drive Ashley crazy. We discuss the complexities of queer identity, unpacking trauma, and why Ashley can’t stop simping. Ashley just wants her book back. Kate watches porn for the first time.

    You can find Casey on:
    IG: @queersextherapy, 
    And you can learn more about her practice, as well as find LGBTQ counseling and gender therapy, on her organization’s website: https://www.theexpansivegroup.com/

    Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch
    Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates
    Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast
    @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.
    @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter

    Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgs

    Use Truebill to manage finances, cancel subscriptions, and save money by visiting https://www.truebill.com/ashley

    Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5gKExymsCA0
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    • 1 hr 7 min
    Brian Bahe Enjoys a Surprise Fisting Party

    Brian Bahe Enjoys a Surprise Fisting Party

    Brian Bahe is a hilarious Indigenous comedian, writer, and gay man who has been written up by NPR, Vulture, and the Los Angeles Times, and has an upcoming stand-up set on Comedy Central. However, thanks to the Covid-19 Omicron variant, the gang is avoiding the apartment this week and doing some cybering! We discuss coming out in school, underground sex parties, and getting horny via Pavlovian conditioning. Ashley charts her ups, downs, tops, and bottoms. Kate’s MILF fantasies go awry.       

    Brian can be found on: 
    IG & Twitter: @brian_bahe,
    And his upcoming solo show, “Reading From My Phone,” plays on 1/23/22 at Union Hall in Brooklyn! Tickets can be purchased at: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/brian-bahe-reading-from-my-phone-tickets-221756408387, and you can learn about upcoming shows on his IG, or brianbahe.com.

    Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch
    Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates
    Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast
    @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.
    @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter

    Subscribe to our Patreon for bonus content, uncut episodes, stand-up live streams, and more!: www.patreon.com/whgs

    Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fNdT9u90U0I
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    • 1 hr 7 min
    Kevin McHale and Austin McKenzie are Sleeping Beauties

    Kevin McHale and Austin McKenzie are Sleeping Beauties

    Kevin McHale (Glee, Virtually Famous) and Austin McKenzie (Spring Awakening, When We Rise) are an absolute power couple taking the world by storm, best known for their numerous performances across television, film, theatre, and music, but today they slow down to get intimate in the apartment. We discuss the dynamics of sleep kink, the ins-and-outs of topping, and… *ahem*… the 2nd Amendment. Ashley confronts toxic masculinity. Kate gets a lesbian circumcision.

    Kevin McHale can be found on:
    IG: @kevinmchale,
    Twitter: @druidDUDE,
    And more exciting projects to be announced soon!

    Austin McKenzie can be found on:
    IG: @austineyes,
    Twitter: @apm_official,
    And you can stream his music on: 
    Spotify, (https://open.spotify.com/artist/1POOtj6nQMh8veKXfQMZee)
    Apple Music, (https://music.apple.com/us/artist/austin-p-mckenzie/1205567214)
    Or wherever you listen!

    Merch: www.werehavinggaysex.com/merch
    Ashley's Tour: ashleygavin.com/tourdates
    Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast
    @ashgavs on IG and Twitter. @ashgavscomedy on TikTok.
    @thekatesisk on IG and Twitter

    Use Truebill to manage unwanted subscriptions, lower bills, and save money by visiting www.truebill.com/ashley 

    Prefer to see what’s happening inside of the room? Watch the video version of the episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iVpQtj_Euqs
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    • 1 hr 4 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
1.7K Ratings

1.7K Ratings

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i can’t stop listening

if you need to laugh and just enjoy life and feel normal being the perv you know you are, this is the podcast for you! i never miss it. they help me get through work and just let my mind unwind and gives me a break from the stress that is life.

Complete garbage 101 ,

Must listen for straight women

I listened to this podcast, passed out laughing, came to in the middle of coming out as a lesbian to my parents. Highly recommend 🤙

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Literally just spit out my food from laughing

So funny, so sincere, so what I need on a bad day or a good day. 💜

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