46 episodes

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her snowflake-sidekick Gara, a non-binary, pansexual, 23-year-old “youth in the soundbooth”, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.

We're Having Gay Sex Ashley Gavin

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    • 4.9 • 1K Ratings

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her snowflake-sidekick Gara, a non-binary, pansexual, 23-year-old “youth in the soundbooth”, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.

    Georgia Bridgers Names Names

    Georgia Bridgers Names Names

    Georgia Bridgers (YouTube, ok anyway podcast) guests on the pod this week and brings *major* star power and leo energy. We discuss the first time she *did it*, coming out on YouTube, and being bi but losing her gay virginity first. Ashley's ex fights with her new girlfriend. Gara needs chapstick.Georgia Bridgers can be found on IG and Twitter @georgiabridgers, Georgia Bridgers on YouTube, and @georgialynnrose on TikTokNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Demi Burnett Wants The Meatloaf

    Demi Burnett Wants The Meatloaf

    HOLY SH*T DEMI BURNETT IS ON THE PODCAST!!!! On this episode we talk about coming out on national TV (Demi is a Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise alum) her big top energy and the people who can top her, meatloaf, and that time Ruby Rose slid into her DMs. Ashley thinks she's using lube, but turns out, it was not lube. Gara tries to find agent 0069. Demi Burnett can be found on IG @demi_not_lovato , @demi_burnett on twitter, and @demlia on TikTokNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.

    • 55 min
    Chris Sapphire Gets Lonely, Drunk, and Plays Avril Lavigne

    Chris Sapphire Gets Lonely, Drunk, and Plays Avril Lavigne

    Chris Sapphire (Netflix's The Circle) brings all the energy on this episode and we're here for it. We talk about why hook up life wasn't right for him, being gay *and* spiritual, and loving yourself while single. Ashley has a weird connection with a girl on a cruise. Gara comes out to a gay friend in church at 3 am.Chris Sapphire is a treasure so go check out his work on IG (mrchrissapphire) and Twitter (chrissapphire)Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.

    • 58 min
    Lorelei Ramirez Starring in BUM BUM TIME!

    Lorelei Ramirez Starring in BUM BUM TIME!

    Lorelei Ramirez (Los Espookys on HBO, and the New York Times) joins us for an incredibly avant garde, poignant episode where we get into codependency and boundaries to keep relationships healthy. Ashley sustains a sexual injury to her jaw. Gara reviews Happiest Season. Lorelei is not only a comedian but works in many other mediums. Follow their instagram @pileoftears, their twitch show https://www.twitch.tv/lramirez8095, and their art ig account @pileoftears_art. They have a full special on YouTube as well: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3uDEg_gwoY&feature=youtu.beNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.

    • 1 hr
    Jared Freid is the Straight Ambassador of Male Ass Play (JTrain & U Up?)

    Jared Freid is the Straight Ambassador of Male Ass Play (JTrain & U Up?)

    Jared Freid (JTrain Podcast & U Up? Podcast) might be our first ever straight male guest, but his official title is the ambassador of male ass play. We talk toxic masculinity, and the differences between dating queer and dating straight. Ashley takes a finger up her butt. Gara enjoys some morning wood. Jared is a podcasting king. Follow JTrain and U Up? He's also a BRILLIANT comedian so go follow him on IG and watch his "live screams" of the bachelor. @jaredfreidNewsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Breanne Williamson: Eat, Bre, Out (The Bre-peat)

    Breanne Williamson: Eat, Bre, Out (The Bre-peat)

    Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain Podcast) is back for a BRE-peat episode and it's even better than the first. Breanne talks about the time she nearly died using ice cubes in bed. Jen (@jenparkerdavis on ig and tiktok) makes a cameo to talk with Ashley about fake orgasms. Gara talks about sex music and what happens when you reach the end of your sex playlist.Breanne has a fabulous YouTube channel under her name and can be found on ig @breannewilliamson and tiktok @breannewilliamson_Newsletter & Live Events: bit.ly/WHGSPodcast@ashgavs on ig and twitter. @ashgavscomedy on tiktok.@garararararara on ig. @queerdancebaby on tiktok.

    • 57 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
1K Ratings

1K Ratings

cchriss :) ,

This show makes me feel validated lol

As a queer with hardly any queer friends i NEEDED these conversations to keep me sane in this heteronormative world

Vicky52773919107 ,

Do yourself a favor!!

I joined the train a little late and had a bunch of episodes to plow through. Now I’m all caught up and don’t know what to do with myself. Never thought I would eagerly await Monday’s when new episodes come out.
Thank you Ashley and Gera

bulma DBZ ,

Best podcast ever!

Must listen!! Amazing podcast!

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