Business Coach Desi Creswell Shares How to Build Trust in Yourself - Episode 240

Desi Creswell is a business coach who specializes in working with interior designers. As a coach, Desi doesn’t tell you what to do. She asks high-quality questions to help you uncover what you know to be true for yourself that aligns with what you want to create for your business. As she draws that out of you, you will learn to do it for yourself. 

In a coaching relationship, you tend to view your coach as a parental figure—someone who has all the answers and knows what’s best. But Desi doesn’t want her clients to solely rely on her for decision-making. She wants to equip her clients with the tools to make empowered decisions about their own businesses. That starts by learning to trust yourself. She shares why this is so important in this episode of Wingnut Social! 

What You’ll Hear On This Episode of Wingnut Social

• [0:49] Brought to you by Wingnut Social!
• [2:05] Mini News Sesh: IGTV is no more
• [5:13] Learn to ask yourself quality questions
• [9:24] How to determine when you need help
• [12:18] Why you need to trust your gut
• [18:39] How Wingnut Social can help YOU
• [20:24] How to navigate mastermind groups
• [23:01] How many opinions should you seek out?
• [32:00] Desi’s What Up Wingnut answers!
• [34:47] How to connect with Desi Creswell
• [38:20] Blooper Reel!

Connect with Desi Creswell

• Desi’s Coaching Website
• Get on Desi Creswell’s Coaching waitlist
• Take back control of your day with Desi’s Daily Planner
• Have a conversation with Desi on Instagram
• Connect with Desi on LinkedIn

Resources & People Mentioned

• Episode #172: Desi Creswell Shares How to Cultivate a Healthy Mindset
• Effortless by Greg McKeown

Why you need to trust your gut

If you’re researching between project management tools, you talk to people who use the systems to see how the product works for them, right? Does it do what it needs to for their business? What are the best parts of the software? Ultimately, you have to make the decision. But you may continue to find yourself asking questions, hoping someone else makes the decision for you. The problem becomes that you’re seeking something externally that you need to provide for yourself internally. 

The struggle is that as soon as you make a decision, there’s something at stake. It can be scary. You may question your decision or get an outcome you didn’t like. The #1 reason people don’t want to make a decision is that they’re afraid of the backlash they’ll get from themselves if they make the “wrong decision.” Will you beat yourself up? The truth is that you will make bad decisions—in life and business. So how will you handle it? 

Build trust in yourself by taking baby steps

Desi suggests practicing decision-making with little things. Trust yourself in the little decisions, even something as simple as what you’re eating for lunch. It allows you to build the muscle and apply it to bigger decisions. Then, once the decision is made, trust that you made the right decision no matter what unfolds afterward. 

You can decide that there are no bad decisions. There are just decisions that you make, you get results from them, you learn from them, and you move on. When you allocate the responsibility to someone else, you’re blaming them for t