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Welcome to the Dateology Coach Dating Advice podcast. My co-host Sarah and I provide unflinching dating advice to singles navigating today’s often traumatic dating scene and remind those opting out of it that staying single is a valid - and sometimes optimal - choice.

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Dateology Coach Podcast Dateology

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.3 • 76 Ratings

Welcome to the Dateology Coach Dating Advice podcast. My co-host Sarah and I provide unflinching dating advice to singles navigating today’s often traumatic dating scene and remind those opting out of it that staying single is a valid - and sometimes optimal - choice.

Send your dating questions to hello@dateologycoach.com and follow us on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.

You can find links in the episode description. Become a Substack subscriber for $5 a month and get two Nugget episodes on Mondays and Wednesdays and one full-length episode on Fridays.

Listen to full episodes & subscribe at https://dateologycoach.substack.com

Instagram https://instagram.com/dateologypod & https://instagram.com/dateologypod

TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@dateologycoach

Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCL5iTMQHvcH8YwDw6JLk2ew

    Oscars, Breakups & How To Scare The Wrong Men Off

    Oscars, Breakups & How To Scare The Wrong Men Off

    IN THIS EPISODE:

    A man lectures women on how they should dress at the gym and immediately regrets it.

    If you've spent time on social media this week, you've probably seen clips of Ryan Gosling singing "I'm Just Ken" at The Oscars. We discuss the performance, John Mullaney's infidelity, and why Cillian Murphy's win made me cry.

    A woman has a brilliant idea of wearing statement t-shirts on first dates to let men know we won't accept low-effort nonsense.
    Ariana Grande's new song, "We Can't Be Friends," aptly describes trying to move on from a breakup.

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    • 46 min
    Mistress Mayhem & Normalizing Women's Anger

    Mistress Mayhem & Normalizing Women's Anger

    I was quoted in an article about the dangers of Are We Dating The Same Guy groups. The article interviews women who have been stalked or harassed after posting to the groups.

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    A woman wants to know if she should tell her man's mistress he's not as rich as he'd led her to believe.

    The critical reason you need to ditch your frenemies.

    We hop in the time machine and discuss the Dave Coulier/Alannis Morissette relationship, how he found out he inspired the album, and how You Oughta Know impacted women.

    We're making an Angry Lady Playlist. Leave your suggestions in the comments of our Patreon.

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    • 6 min
    Is Her Husband The Troll Harassing Her Online?

    Is Her Husband The Troll Harassing Her Online?

    An author thinks her writer husband is trolling her online and leaving negative reviews on her latest book. After some Googling, Sarah and I suspect that the woman who wrote the letter about her husband harassing her online and the columnist providing advice are the same person.

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    Also in the episode:

    Green flags you should never ignore when you first start dating someone that are actual green flags and not just a guy doing the bare minimum.

    Why are we drawn to the same type of person, and when does it become problematic?

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    • 54 min
    Law & Order FTG: This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

    Law & Order FTG: This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

    It was only a matter of time. Are We Dating The Same Girl groups are cropping up across Facebook. Women make these groups to ensure they're not dating a cheater or abuser. Men create them to whine about women who call them on their creepy behavior.

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    In This Episode:

    A listener tells a story about being posted in an AWDTSGirl group that proves men lack boundaries and feel entitled to women's bodies.
    A Tiktok creator teaches women how to identify and avoid Red Pill men.
    How to properly delete your dating apps when you decide to be exclusive.
    A woman snoops around her new boyfriend's bathroom and immediately regrets it.

    • 1 hr 4 min
    Men Did Not Bring Their A Game This Week

    Men Did Not Bring Their A Game This Week

    A man claimed men know when they've met a great woman, and they don't let her get away. LOL. K.

    We revisit the topic of publicly dissing your ex and how, if you make it your brand, it could interfere with your relationships.
    A beautiful woman catches her VERY mid-looking boyfriend cheating and he proceeds to gaslight her until she calls his mistress.
    A man is creeped out by his girlfriend's constant nudity around her dog.
    A listener wants to know if she handled a male co-worker's awkward behavior.

    Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube for more free content.

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    • 42 min
    First Date Green Flags & Dating App Depression

    First Date Green Flags & Dating App Depression

    We reviewed a list of First Date Green Flags and debates, which are good signs and which praise people for doing the bare minimum.

    Are dating apps over? That's what some experts are saying.

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    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

4.3 out of 5
76 Ratings

76 Ratings

pinacoloda ,

Honest & direct!

Love the fun banter btw the hosts, & great advice without all the fluff !! Thank you!

shaknxhdjwd ,

Thank you!

Excellent content. Thank you for sharing your insight and experience. I have already learned so much and look forward to each episode. Christian and Sarah shine a bright light on the ups and downs of dating today and empower women to make the choices instead of waiting to be someone’s choice. Keep it up!!

Hellsbellarina ,

Needs a new hobby

So confused as to why this woman is stalking another woman who says she is being stalked. I can’t listen to her when she doesn’t get that she has an unhealthy obsession and it carries over to her podcast and probably real life. I think she would be much better served as a person and coach if she were to stick to dating. The U of I stuff she is going on about is weird too. She can’t stand when anyone disagrees with her and calls them names. Something not quite right with this lady.

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