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Dateology Coach Podcast Dateology Coach Podcast
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4.3 • 76 Ratings
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My co-host Sarah and I provide incisive - sometimes unflinching - dating advice that reminds you that sometimes the love of your life is the love of your life. We also cover trending pop culture and social media moments that touch on dating, relationships, and single life.
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Troll Twists, First Date Lateness & Name Changes
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Genuine Response or Polite Blow-Off? - Listener Submitted Letter (06:55)
I asked a woman out the other day and asked if maybe she wanted to go to dinner. She texted me back the following day and said she had dental surgery this week and she may not be able to eat. We can touch base next week. What does this mean?
His Fiance Wants His Ex To Change Her Last Name (09:19)
"My ex-husband is insisting I change my last name back to my name before marriage because his new fiancé, a 24-year-old woman, feels it will be awkward for her and me to have the same last name. Am I the a*****e for refusing to change it?" Uh, NO.
Troll Twist on Dating Apps - Listener Submitted Letter (19:01)
I’ve noticed an uptick in men accusing women on dating apps that they believe the women’s pictures are AI. What do you think? Is this another example of a way to attack women?
How Late Is Too Late To Show Up For A First Date? (24:08)
Her date was ten minutes late. She left. Did she overreact? This is why you should never go on a date with someone you're lukewarm about.
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Are Men Using Therapy To Get Laid?
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She Was Ready (00:22)
If you follow me on social media, you probably know that our third Golden Girl, Luca, crossed the Rainbow Bridge on Monday. We talked about how going through this with Luca helped me confront my avoidant nature and fear of anticipatory grief.
Are More Men Going To Therapy? (12:21)
Emily McCombs, a former xoJane columnist, recently shared her thoughts on the resurgence of dating apps. In her article, she side-eyes the increasing number of men embracing therapy, a trend that I find both fascinating and encouraging.
Would You Date Someone That Worked In A Pizza Parlor? (28:16)
Influencer Hope xxx was roasted this week for remarks about not wanting to date someone who worked in a pizza parlor. We talk about whether or not this preference is classist and how men are never raked over the coals for their superficial preferences.
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Mr. Hyde, Single Stigmas & Offensive Texts
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Jekyll and Hyde (01:00)
Tiktok is full of performative white men who pander to women. We talk about one man in particular who expertly plays the Good Guy until a woman questions him. That's when Mr. Hyde appears.
"You Need A Dick" (05:40)
Certain people need to learn that accusing someone of being single or celibate isn't an insult. We discuss this antiquated retort and remind people asexuality is a thing.
"Men Are Trash." (24:10)
A woman found texts her husband wrote when they first met and was horrified to learn he told people she was ugly and desperate.
Single Is A State of Mind (33:45)
A woman went viral for revealing she was in her forties and had never had a romantic relationship. Sarah and I discuss why women place more emphasis on romantic relationships over any other. We also address the dangers of making your singlehood your entire personality.
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Financial Abuse, Instagram Shadiness & Ugly Breakups
You're not being overly sensitive. He's a dick. (01:15)
A woman questions if she's overreacting to her boyfriend's lack of appreciation for a celebration party she had organized for him. He further exacerbated the situation by posting on Instagram, not about her, but about a female friend.
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Men are stupid, and we don't respect them. (14:10)
A man acknowledges he knowingly wasted two years of a woman's life and wants to break up with as little fallout as possible. All because he couldn't be alone. BOOOOOOOOOO to you, sir.
Aidan was a Petty Betty. (24:40)
When we talk about Carrie's most toxic moments, many of us recall the episode where she barges into Charlotte's Park Avenue apartment, asking why Charlotte didn't offer her the money to buy her co-op. What we never talk about is the pettiness and financial abuse involved with Aidan's demand that Carrie buy him out of the apartment HE chose to purchase.
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Carrie Bradshaw's Most Toxic Moments
We kick things off with a discussion about ADHD medicine shortage and how it's affecting us. Hint: Not well.
The rest of the episode is dedicated to the viral Tiktok trend asking people to share Carrie Bradshaw's most toxic moments.
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Masking, Passing & Jack Black's Hotness Explained
Be sure to listen until the end. We cover a story about a psychopath and how they can mask FOR YEARS without showing signs they're dangerous.
QUESTIONS ANSWERED IN THE EPISODE
Why do women find Jack Black attractive, and why does the answer bother so many men?
What's the proper response when someone asks, "What's your nationality/ethnicity/race?
Is it possible to live with someone for years and not know they're a psychopath?
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Customer Reviews
Honest & direct!
Love the fun banter btw the hosts, & great advice without all the fluff !! Thank you!
Thank you!
Excellent content. Thank you for sharing your insight and experience. I have already learned so much and look forward to each episode. Christian and Sarah shine a bright light on the ups and downs of dating today and empower women to make the choices instead of waiting to be someone’s choice. Keep it up!!
Needs a new hobby
So confused as to why this woman is stalking another woman who says she is being stalked. I can’t listen to her when she doesn’t get that she has an unhealthy obsession and it carries over to her podcast and probably real life. I think she would be much better served as a person and coach if she were to stick to dating. The U of I stuff she is going on about is weird too. She can’t stand when anyone disagrees with her and calls them names. Something not quite right with this lady.