Your Yes Filled Life

Brenda Winkle
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What happens when highly empathic women stop managing everyone else’s emotions and start trusting their own inner knowing? Hosted by somatic leadership coach and intuitive guide Brenda Winkle, Your Yes Filled Life explores how deeply perceptive women can live, decide, and grow without losing connection to themselves. If you’ve ever felt: responsible for how everyone feels exhausted by overthinking decisions aware of subtle emotional shifts others don’t seem to notice pulled between honoring yourself and maintaining harmony you are not alone. Each episode blends nervous system wisdom, intuitive insight, and grounded real-life application to help you: trust yourself more consistently stop carrying what isn’t yours feel steady in emotionally complex situations make decisions without second-guessing yourself navigate growth and change with more ease Because the goal isn’t to feel less. It’s to feel deeply without feeling responsible for everything. New episodes every Sunday and Wednesday. Get clear on what's actually fueling and draining you with a free energy audit. Grab yours at https://www.brendawinkle.com/audit

  1. The Empathy Hangover: When You Knew… and Overrode It Anyway #257

    13H AGO

    The Empathy Hangover: When You Knew… and Overrode It Anyway #257

    Have you ever walked away from a situation thinking: 👉 “I knew it… Why didn’t I listen to myself?” That feeling has a name. Brenda calls it an empathy hangover. In this deeply personal episode, Brenda shares a real-time experience where she overrode her intuition during a vulnerable moment and what it revealed about how empathy can quietly override self-trust. This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness, nervous system patterns, and learning how to stay with yourself — even when it’s uncomfortable. Inside this episode: what an empathy hangover actually is (and why it happens) the subtle signs you’re overriding your intuition how being under-resourced impacts your decision-making the real cost of over-accommodating (it’s not just time or money) how to repair self-trust in real time why “I’ll never do this again” isn’t the goal the identity shift required to stop abandoning yourself Brenda also shares: • a personal story involving a business agreement that didn’t feel right • the moment she realized she overrode her own gut • how she navigated the repair without shame Reflection Questions: • Where did I know… and override? • What did I feel in my body? • What did I tell myself to stay? • What would choosing differently look like next time? Ready to go deeper? ✨ Join the Empowered Empath Collective (practice this in real time) https://www.skool.com/empoweredempathcollective/about  🔥 Get on the waitlist and apply for the Ignite Retreat (limited to 10 spots) https://www.brendawinkle.com/igniteretreat  🎧 Listen now and start rebuilding self-trust from the inside out Keywords: Brenda Winkle, Your Yes Filled Life, energetic leadership guide, psychic medium, somatic coach, ambitious leaders, trust intuition, embody vision, live gifts, empathy, intuition, personal story, cleaning company, Facebook group, yellow flags, emotional intelligence, boundaries, under-resourced, vulnerable, support, coaching, trade of services, oracle cards, tarot cards, crystals, compassionate people, visibility, coaching contract, deep clean, bait and switch, self-trust, empathy hangover, gut check, resentment, empowerment, transformational work, Empowered Empath Collective, retreats, Ignite Retreat, reflection questions, choose differently, deep empathy, compassion

    32 min
  2. You’re Not Stuck - Your Identity Just Hasn’t Caught Up Yet #256

    4D AGO

    You’re Not Stuck - Your Identity Just Hasn’t Caught Up Yet #256

    There’s a version of you that feels real, familiar… and true. It’s how you describe yourself. How others know you. How you make decisions. But what if that version of you is also the reason you can’t see what you actually want? In this episode, we explore the intersection of identity and nervous system safety — and how your current identity might be quietly limiting what feels possible for you. Because this isn’t about whether you can have what you want. 👉 It’s about whether you can see it as available to you Inside this episode: • how identity shapes what feels realistic, safe, and “like you” • why you might dismiss opportunities or talk yourself out of things that excite you • the nervous system patterns behind procrastination, overthinking, and self-sabotage • why affirmations don’t work (and what to do instead) • how to begin shifting identity in a way your body can actually support Plus, Brenda shares personal stories about: • transitioning from teacher → entrepreneur • claiming identity (and the resistance that comes with it) • continuing to show up during grief and emotional intensity Powerful reflection questions from this episode: • What if this was available to me? • What version of me would say yes to this? • Where am I defaulting to who I’ve been instead of who I’m becoming? Ways to go deeper: ✨ Join the Empowered Empath Collective https://www.skool.com/empoweredempathcollective/about  🎙 Explore more episodes of Your Yes Filled Life  🔥 Get on the waitlist for the Ignite Retreat https://www.brendawinkle.com/igniteretreat  💫 Apply for private coaching https://www.brendawinkle.com/coaching  Keywords: Brenda Winkle, Your Yes Filled Life, leadership guide, psychic, medium, somatic coach, nervous system safety, personal identity, identity shifts, ambitious leaders, intuition, embodying vision, freedom, self-awareness, personal growth, self-care, identity mismatch, internal resistance, self-sabotage, business owner mindset, affirmations, subconscious mind, nervous system regulation, survival responses, procrastination, executive dysfunction, somatic practices, societal conditioning, reflective questions, identity expansion, emotional regulation, breathwork, tapping, Empowered Empath Collective, Ignite Retreat, transformation, compassion, curiosity, daily practices, gifts.

    35 min
  3. You Don’t Need More Time - You Need This Instead #255

    APR 26

    You Don’t Need More Time - You Need This Instead #255

    If you’ve ever told yourself, “I just need more time…” this episode is going to shift something for you. Because the truth is, more time isn’t what creates change. In this episode, we explore: why your nervous system can block you from doing what you know you want how “should” thinking creates pressure and shuts down momentum what’s actually happening when things are going well… and you still can’t follow through why enjoying your life can feel uncomfortable (and how to change that) the difference between understanding something and actually living it You’ll also learn: a simple way to rethink your time and energy how to recognize when your nervous system is reading growth as a threat why self-trust isn’t built through more effort but through different action This is the work of becoming someone who can hold what she wants. Mentioned in this episode: Empowered Empath Collective (ongoing support + practice) https://www.skool.com/empoweredempathcollective/about  IGNITE Retreat waitlist - https://www.brendawinkle.com/igniteretreat Energy Audit: https://www.brendawinkle.com/audit    Next Step: If this resonates, come practice this work with us inside the membership. This episode is also personal. This week has been incredibly hard. My dog has been struggling with anxiety, chronic pain, and reactivity, and we had to take him in for bloodwork because his pain isn’t being managed. And in that appointment, our vet saw me. Really saw how hard things have been. And I cried… through the rest of the appointment and all the way home. At the same time, my daughter’s dog—our former family dog—took an unexpected turn and passed away. So this isn’t a conversation about being perfectly regulated or “handling life well.” This is about something much more real: 👉 building a strong enough internal baseline so you can feel everything and still stay with yourself through it Keywords:  self trust, nervous system regulation, empath burnout, emotional overwhelm, somatic healing, personal growth for women, intuitive decision making, self trust for empaths, nervous system and productivity, why I procrastinate, emotional regulation tools, feeling stuck in life, mindset and nervous system, self sabotage patterns, overthinking and anxiety, capacity for success, fear of success, expansion mindset, holding more in life, high achieving women burnout

    29 min
  4. How to Trust Yourself Again: A Simple Way to Hear Your Body’s Yes and No #254

    APR 22

    How to Trust Yourself Again: A Simple Way to Hear Your Body’s Yes and No #254

    Many empathic women don’t struggle to know what they want — they struggle to trust what they know. When you naturally sense emotional dynamics, anticipate reactions, and consider everyone else’s needs, your own internal signal can start to feel quieter. Decisions that should feel simple begin to feel layered. In this episode, we explore a practical, body-based tool for rebuilding self-trust: muscle testing. Muscle testing helps you reconnect with your body’s natural yes and no responses so decisions feel clearer, steadier, and more aligned. This is not about outsourcing your intuition or becoming someone different. It’s about learning how to listen to signals your body has been giving you all along. You’ll learn: • why empathic women often second-guess themselves • how your nervous system processes information before conscious thought • why self-trust requires internal safety • what muscle testing is and how it works • step-by-step instructions for reliable muscle testing • common mistakes that create false results • how to use muscle testing in everyday decisions • why practicing on small decisions builds confidence for bigger ones • how body awareness strengthens intuition Self-trust is built through repetition, not pressure. Your body already knows how to communicate with you. This episode helps you begin hearing those signals again. Resources Mentioned Blink – Malcolm Gladwell The Gift of Fear – Gavin de Becker Continue the Work Inside the Empowered Empath Collective, we practice applying tools like this in real life situations with support and structure. Join the waitlist for the IGNITE Retreat: brendawinkle.com/igniteretreat Keywords self trust, intuition development, muscle testing, empathic women, nervous system awareness, embodied intuition, somatic decision making, emotional intelligence, highly sensitive person, inner knowing, intuitive development YOUTUBE DESCRIPTION (SEO optimized) How do you know when something is truly right for you? Many empathic women don’t struggle with clarity — they struggle with trusting their own knowing. Years of considering others’ needs, anticipating reactions, and trying to maintain harmony can cause your internal signal to feel quieter. In this episode of Your Yes Filled Life, Brenda Winkle teaches a simple and practical method to rebuild self-trust using muscle testing. Muscle testing helps you reconnect with your body’s yes and no responses so decisions feel more grounded, clear, and aligned. In this episode: • why empathic women second guess themselves • how intuition actually works in the body • why the nervous system influences decision making • how to muscle test step by step • mistakes to avoid when muscle testing • how to begin strengthening your inner knowing Self-trust grows when you learn how to stay connected to yourself — even when decisions feel emotionally complex. Resources mentioned: Blink – Malcolm Gladwell - https://a.co/d/0hIefrUd (affiliate link) The Gift of Fear – Gavin de Becker - https://a.co/d/01DAWghh (affiliate link) Explore deeper support: Empowered Empath Collective - https://www.skool.com/empoweredempathcollective  IGNITE Retreat waitlist: https://www.brendawinkle.com/igniteretreat  Subscribe for weekly conversations on intuition, nervous system wisdom, and living fully as an empathic woman. #youryesfilledlife #selftrust #intuitiondevelopment #empathicwomen #nervoussystem

    25 min
  5. Why Empathic Women Struggle to Put Themselves First - And Why It Matters Right Now #253

    APR 19

    Why Empathic Women Struggle to Put Themselves First - And Why It Matters Right Now #253

    Many empathic women are taught to prioritize others’ needs automatically, often without realizing the personal cost. In this episode of Your Yes Filled Life, Brenda Winkle explores why highly empathic women often feel responsible for emotional harmony, how this pattern develops, and why learning to build internal boundaries is essential for sustainable self-trust. With cultural conversations intensifying around power, autonomy, and safety, this episode offers a grounded perspective on how empathy can remain a strength without leading to self-abandonment. Brenda shares personal insight from her experience as a single mother healing from CPTSD, revealing how over-functioning for others can quietly disconnect women from themselves. You’ll learn why discomfort does not equal harm, why empathy without internal boundaries creates emotional exhaustion, and how nervous system regulation allows you to care deeply without losing yourself. If you have ever felt responsible for everyone’s emotions, struggled to prioritize yourself, or sensed the weight of unspoken expectations, this conversation will help you understand why and what actually helps. Enrollment for POWER closes April 20. https://www.brendawinkle.com/power  In this episode, we explore: why empathic women often feel responsible for emotional harmony the hidden cost of constantly putting others first how self-abandonment can look like kindness why discomfort does not equal harm the role of nervous system regulation in self-trust how internal boundaries support emotional clarity why empathy is a strength when supported properly how caring deeply does not require disappearing Download your energy audit here: https://www.brendawinkle.com/audit  Mentioned: Melissa Hogenboom, BBC Journalist and author https://melissahogenboom.substack.com/  Keywords empathic women, highly sensitive people, self trust, emotional boundaries, nervous system regulation, somatic coaching, emotional intelligence, people pleasing, self abandonment, trauma informed coaching, intuition development, internal boundaries, overgiving, emotional overwhelm, personal growth podcast, self trust podcast, healing from trauma, identity transition, confidence for sensitive women, empath burnout

    32 min
  6. When You Know What You Want… But Someone Else Might Be Hurt #252

    APR 15

    When You Know What You Want… But Someone Else Might Be Hurt #252

    When You Know What You Want… But Someone Else Might Be Hurt Many empathic women don’t struggle to know what they want. They struggle to feel okay wanting it when they sense it might affect someone else. You may already feel clear about a decision, direction, or change... but the moment you imagine how someone might respond, everything can suddenly feel heavier. Not because you're unsure. Because you care. Highly perceptive women often process relational impact quickly. You may find yourself anticipating reactions, imagining disappointment, or managing emotional outcomes before anything has even happened. Over time, this can make even simple decisions feel complex. In this episode, we explore why empathy can make clarity harder to act on — and why discomfort in others does not automatically mean something is wrong. You’ll learn why self-trust often requires allowing space for others to have their own emotional process without immediately taking responsibility for it. We also explore a simple but powerful analogy: the way we offer healthy choices to children without making their preferences mean something about our worth — and how this same dynamic often shows up in adult relationships. This episode will help you understand: why knowing what you want can still feel emotionally complicated why empathic women often anticipate disappointment before making decisions the difference between discomfort and harm why traditional boundary advice often feels difficult to apply how internal boundaries support steadiness in meaningful conversations why caring deeply does not require carrying emotional outcomes Empathy is not the problem. Over-carrying is. When internal boundaries strengthen, decisions begin to feel clearer, cleaner, and more sustainable. POWER is a 6-week program for empathic women navigating growth and transition who want to trust themselves without overriding what they know is true. Enrollment open through April 20. Learn more: https://www.brendawinkle.com/power    Keywords: emotional intelligence, Brenda Winkle, Your Yes Filled Life, Intuition, Empathy, Empath, internal boundaries.

    26 min
  7. Why Helping Isn’t Always Helpful: The Hidden Cost of Over-Giving for Empathic Women #251

    APR 12

    Why Helping Isn’t Always Helpful: The Hidden Cost of Over-Giving for Empathic Women #251

    Many empathic women are known as the helpers, the steady ones, the people others rely on. But what happens when helping becomes automatic… and self-trust quietly weakens? In this episode of Your Yes Filled Life, Brenda Winkle explores the subtle difference between compassion and responsibility — and why over-helping can actually disconnect you from your own clarity. If you often: feel responsible for how others feel jump in quickly to fix, solve, or ease tension replay conversations wondering if you said too much or not enough feel emotionally drained after interactions struggle to trust yourself in high-stakes moments this episode will help you understand why. You’ll learn: why empathic women often override their own knowing the hidden nervous system response behind over-giving the difference between caring and carrying how advice-giving can weaken self-trust (even when well intentioned) why internal boundaries create more ease than external boundaries alone how to stay connected to yourself without disconnecting from others You don’t need to stop caring. But you may need to stop carrying everything for everyone. Enrollment is now open for POWER: Self-Trust for Empathic Women  through April 20. (April 21 – June 2). This 6-week program helps highly empathic women: trust their inner knowing make clean decisions stop absorbing emotional pressure feel steady during growth and transition Learn more: https://www.brendawinkle.com/power  Download the free Energy Audit: www.brendawinkle.com/audit  Share this episode with someone who feels deeply. Because empathy is not the problem. Lack of energetic boundaries is. Keywords: Brenda Winkle, leadership guide, psychic, medium, somatic coach, empathic leaders, compassionate leaders, helping isn't always helpful, high empathy, unsolicited advice, self-trust, setting boundaries, nervous system work, breathwork, somatic movement, emotional processing, rest, small actions, advice-giving, empathy, space-holders, automatic helping, listening, relationship dynamics, interrupting, emotional comfort, clear boundaries, safety, self-trust for empathic women, Power program, supporting without solving, intentional helping, personal stories, professional insights, gaslighting, emotional awareness, nurturing relationships, trust-building, self-care, healing practices, personal growth, leadership skills, community dynamics.

    46 min
  8. Why You Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Emotions (and How to Stop) #250

    APR 8

    Why You Feel Responsible for Everyone’s Emotions (and How to Stop) #250

    Many empathic women were taught that caring means being accommodating, flexible, understanding, and supportive. But over time, caring can quietly become carrying. And carrying becomes exhausting. In this episode, Brenda Winkle explores the subtle but important difference between compassion and self-abandonment — especially during periods of growth and transition. If you feel responsible for how others feel… if decisions feel heavier than they “should”… if you often put yourself last even when you know what you need… this conversation will help you understand why. You’ll learn: how empathy can unintentionally lead to emotional over-responsibility why highly empathic women often override their own needs the difference between compassion and self-abandonment how stress responses like people-pleasing, over-functioning, freezing, or over-learning can appear why growth and life transitions can intensify these patterns how to care deeply without losing connection to yourself Many empathic women don’t struggle with clarity. They struggle with the emotional complexity of change. When relationships shift… roles evolve… identity expands… the desire to avoid disappointing others can make decisions feel overwhelming. This episode will help you recognize when empathy becomes over-carrying — and how to return to self-trust. Links mentioned Learn more about POWER: Self-trust for empathic women navigating growth and transition https://www.brendawinkle.com/power  Enrollment open through April 20 Program begins April 21 Download the free Energy Audit: https://brendawinkle.com/audit Keywords:  Brenda Winkle, Your Yes Filled Life, leadership guide, psychic, medium, somatic coach, empathic women, self-abandonment, emotional overwhelm, self-honor, self-trust, personal development, energy work, compassion, caring vs carrying, boundaries, emotional intelligence, growth and transition, empty nesting, aging parents, career changes, Power framework, self-care, over-giving, over-committing, over-accommodating, stress responses, presence, optimize, wisdom, body, renew, self-awareness, personal experiences, emotional complexity, navigating challenges, support, kindness, self-neglect, ambitious leaders, intuition, vision, freedom, relationships, identity shifts, burnout, resentment, people-pleasing, podcast, coaching programs, empower, unique presence, clarity, freedom. empathic women, self-trust, emotional boundaries, people pleasing, highly sensitive person, intuitive women, personal growth, life transitions, identity shifts , emotional overwhelm, nervous system regulation, self abandonment, empathy burnout

    22 min
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What happens when highly empathic women stop managing everyone else’s emotions and start trusting their own inner knowing? Hosted by somatic leadership coach and intuitive guide Brenda Winkle, Your Yes Filled Life explores how deeply perceptive women can live, decide, and grow without losing connection to themselves. If you’ve ever felt: responsible for how everyone feels exhausted by overthinking decisions aware of subtle emotional shifts others don’t seem to notice pulled between honoring yourself and maintaining harmony you are not alone. Each episode blends nervous system wisdom, intuitive insight, and grounded real-life application to help you: trust yourself more consistently stop carrying what isn’t yours feel steady in emotionally complex situations make decisions without second-guessing yourself navigate growth and change with more ease Because the goal isn’t to feel less. It’s to feel deeply without feeling responsible for everything. New episodes every Sunday and Wednesday. Get clear on what's actually fueling and draining you with a free energy audit. Grab yours at https://www.brendawinkle.com/audit

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  • Creator
    Brenda Winkle
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    259
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Brenda Winkle Empowerment, LLC
  • Show Website
    Your Yes Filled Life

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