How To Feel

Anastasia Holland
How To Feel Podcast

Words and stories on what it feels like to be human. Join your host, Anastasia Holland, as she has conversations with colleagues, friends, family, and strangers that explore How To Feel...abortion, chronic illness, ancestral trauma, fear, miscarriage, creativity, heartbreak, and so much more.

Episodes

  1. 28/10/2020

    006. How To Feel Pleasure | Ann Nguyen

    I try my best not to scroll Instagram, but when I do I find myself absorbed by one woman's posts: Ann Nguyen. She's a sexual empowerment coach for women and her posts say things like, What Would Your Pussy Choose To Wear Today?... How I Orgasamed My Way To Promotion In The Corporate World.  Her content always leaves me feeling excited and inspired. When I think of pleasure, I think of Ann, so I knew that I wanted to have her on the podcast to share her journey of becoming an advocate for women to reclaim their sexuality and lives. From previously reading her story, I knew that pleasure didn't always come easy and that this path has entailed many years of healing trauma and conditioning. We discuss it all in this episode. As Ann states, "Pleasure is one of the most delicious forms of resistance," and we get into why women feeling pleasure will not only transform their personal lives, but also the world. I can't wait for you to listen. What we cover in this episode: + Ann's personal journey of feeling safe to feel pleasure and becoming an advocate and coach for others to feel the same + How women and femmes can reclaim pleasure as something for themselves, versus their pleasure and their existence being something that is here to serve others + Redefining pleasure and all of the multiple flavors of pleasure + How making things just 5% more pleasurable can be revolutionary and transformative + Pleasure and capitalism + The power of Pussy and practices to connect to the Pussy archetype + Body love and taking our power back to create a new narrative about our bodies + Pleasure as resistance in the revolution + Pleasure showing up as pain And so much more! Born and raised in California as a first-generation Vietnamese American woman, Ann has lived her whole life following two main things: her curiosity and her urge to question everything with “but why?”. These curiosities and questions have led her down a dynamic path from graduating with a B.S. in Neuroscience at the University of California, Santa Barbara, to working in various jobs in the tech industry at Google, Facebook & YouTube. Most recently, she’s trained at the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality to embark on her latest endeavor – being a Women's Sexual Empowerment Coach. Her work is in service to changing the way that women relate to their pleasure and rewriting the narrative of sexuality in our modern times, and creating safer spaces for women of color to pursue their healing and thriving. Through her coaching and online programs, she reconnects women to the power of their sexuality and facilitates deep transformation for sexual reclamation. You can find her work at www.theannnguyen.com. Find more about the How To Feel podcast here: www.anastasiaholland.com

    46 min
  2. 27/05/2020

    003. How To Feel Heartbreak | Michelle D'Avella

    Author and Breathwork Facilitator, Michelle D'Avella, shares what led her to write her book The Bright Side of a Broken Heart and her journey with feeling (and healing) heartbreak.  In 2017 I experienced a seriously real heartbreak after ending a five year on and off again relationship. It was the kind that swallowed me whole and left me in a pit of my own grief. It can be confusing grieving someone who is still alive, missing someone who is still out there. It can be so painful when heartbreak leads us to feeling unlovable and unwanted. But it was that exact heartbreak that launched me straight toward my soul. My self. My trauma. My desires. My truth. Eventually landing me more in love than I've ever been.  In the thick of it all I found a book that I read in one sitting. The Brightside of A Broken Heart by Michelle D’Avella. Her words normalized everything I was going through. She captured my broken heart in her pages. She never let go or gave up. On herself or me. I knew that when I created How To Feel I had to have a heartbreak episode. My friends often joke that I've been heartbroken since I was 14. Heartbreak and I know each other well and I knew that I had to have Michelle on to talk all about it. Out of all the heartbreak things I’ve read, listened to and watched, Michelle’s book is my favorite. She’s also such an awesome person. ​My intention with this episode of How To Feel Heartbreak is to normalize the range of emotions and experiences that come with heartbreak and to maybe, if you’re heartbroken right now, give you some hope for your journey. Michelle certainly did that for me and I think her story and words will do the same for you. ​In this episode we talk about... ​ Michelle's journey with heartbreak and how a blindsiding break up led her to write her book The emotional range of heartbreak and how heartbreak isn't just one type of feeling Closure and how writing a letter to our ex is sometimes what we need to do, even if we never hear anything back Why a heartbreak can be so hard and how it's ok and normal to grieve when we are heartbroken Why we often want to rush our healing, especially when it comes to moving on from a relationship, but how it's the slowing down where we find transformation How Michelle's painful heartbreak led her to reclaim lost parts of herself Michelle's explanation of her quote, "Now I know I had to lose him to find myself” A ton more! More about Michelle:  Michelle D’Avella is an author, certified Breathwork facilitator, and mentor. She helps her clients transform painful experiences into valuable life lessons and create sustainable change through inner exploration, processing repressed emotions, and somatic release. Michelle is an advocate for reclaiming your power, showing up for yourself, and honoring the healing process. She has been featured in Forbes, W Magazine, MyDomaine, and more. Learn more about Michelle and her work at pushingbeauty.com. www.anastasiaholland.com

    59 min

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Words and stories on what it feels like to be human. Join your host, Anastasia Holland, as she has conversations with colleagues, friends, family, and strangers that explore How To Feel...abortion, chronic illness, ancestral trauma, fear, miscarriage, creativity, heartbreak, and so much more.

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