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Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 63 Ratings

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

    There Doesn't Need To Be A "Strong One" In The Relationship

    There Doesn't Need To Be A "Strong One" In The Relationship

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling burnt out by work and unsupported by their partner.
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    • 38 min
    We're Moving In Together & I'm Spiraling!

    We're Moving In Together & I'm Spiraling!

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is moving in with her partner and is panicking about it! 
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    • 32 min
    Forgiveness Is Morally Neutral

    Forgiveness Is Morally Neutral

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was dumped over something he thought wasn't a big deal.
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    • 38 min
    This Isn't The Ending To Every Story

    This Isn't The Ending To Every Story

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is anxious about her partner having crushes.
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    • 28 min
    Feeling Healed? Visit Your Family.

    Feeling Healed? Visit Your Family.

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is suffocating from the weight of her family's unsolicited advice.
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    • 39 min
    My Boyfriend Isn't Curious About Me

    My Boyfriend Isn't Curious About Me

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose curiosity about her partner doesn't feel reciprocated.
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    • 32 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
63 Ratings

63 Ratings

iz63738293 ,

Never miss an episode!

Just break up has helped me grow so much as a human and changed the way I move through life. Sam, Sierra and Spencer all feel like dear friends. Forever making me laugh, cry and learn. I never miss an episode or the opportunity to pass this gift on to someone else, via recommendation.

ruby.rose.r ,

So much more than the title

This podcast is just a warm hug to listen to, Sierra and Sam have some incredibly insightful and empathetic commentary around love and relationships. I’d take their advice any day.

Ruby555555 ,

My favorite podcast

I honestly recommend this podcast to everyone, and am always referencing it in conversations. Sam and Sierra are kind, smart, funny, queer and engaging. Listening to them gives me so much insight and comfort. Thank you JBU

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