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Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

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Relationships are for heroes.

Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.

In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.

About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

    (Rewind): Long-Distance Relationships: The Brutal Truth About How To Make Them Work

    (Rewind): Long-Distance Relationships: The Brutal Truth About How To Make Them Work

    For a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic.

    But now, I realize the reason is obvious: In 2022, more of us are doing long-distance relationships than ever.

    You meet a great guy on Instagram who doesn’t live in the same country...

    You start dating the perfect man in your city, only to find out he’s been offered a new job 1000 miles away…

    And suddenly, you find yourself having “Skype dates”, and you now spend half your work day sending silly photos to each other on Whatsapp.

    You feel like you’re falling in love with this guy – but can it actually work long term??

    Should you follow your heart and go for it, or should you listen to your head and call it quits? What’s the answer?

    These are big questions, so I decided this it was time to be super honest about long-distance and my thoughts on it.

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    • 7 min
    194: 5 Reasons You’re Still Single

    194: 5 Reasons You’re Still Single

    You might feel like you’re seeing all your friends in couples, and you wonder why it hasn’t happened to you yet.
     
    Although we can’t control the exact moment we’ll meet “the one”, there are things we can do that make it MUCH more likely we’ll find a great relationship by having the right habits and mindset.
     
    So in this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss 5 reasons you’re still single and what you can do TODAY to maximize your chances of getting the partner you desire.

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    • 1 hr 9 min
    (Matt Monday): This Dangerous Guy Keeps You Single

    (Matt Monday): This Dangerous Guy Keeps You Single

    I’m curious if you can relate to this . . .
     
    You know you have a lot to offer someone, but you can’t seem to get out of the cycle of dating the wrong people—bouncing from one emotionally unavailable guy to the next.
     
    What you may not notice is that—without even realizing it—you’ve likely conditioned yourself to attract those types of guys. While a casual fling with someone like that may feel harmless, you may be surprised to learn just how much it can shift the way you approach dating.
     
    In today’s brand-new episode, I unpack the dangers of settling for casual relationships and how they can rewire your mindset in a way that has a lasting effect on your love life. Then, most importantly, I share how you can get out of that crazy loop and actually see the potential that’s waiting for you.
     
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    • 14 min
    (Rewind): How To Recover When Your Ex Moves On Too Fast…

    (Rewind): How To Recover When Your Ex Moves On Too Fast…

    Breakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up.
    You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yourself for your deficiencies. You retrace the steps of the relationship like a detective on a mission to find out where you screwed up.
    And so we meet Roy, the subject of our clip today. Now you know Roy’s story. What can he do to wake from this fever dream? Let’s find out.
    Please share this episode someone who needs to hear this message.
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    • 8 min
    193: How To Handle A Toxic Relationship You Don’t Want To Lose

    193: How To Handle A Toxic Relationship You Don’t Want To Lose

    Do you have a relationship that you are unwilling to lose, but that causes you daily resentment and frustration? Where you feel like you are giving, but not getting much in return?
    In this solo episode, Matt explains how to take a step back and reassess a toxic or difficult relationship we want to keep in our lives, whether it’s reasonable to expect someone to change, and what we can do to protect ourselves if we are going to endure relationships that drain our energy.
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    • 19 min
    (Matt Monday): Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean)

    (Matt Monday): Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean)

    “Let’s just take it day by day.”
     “We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?”
     “I like you too much to be with you . . .”
    Any of these sound familiar?
    Trying to decode the excuses guys give for the reason why they don’t want an exclusive relationship can get incredibly confusing. How is it that you can have great communication with a guy in nearly every area . . . yet when it comes to talking about the relationship, you feel like you’re speaking different languages?
    For today’s brand-new episode, I asked you to send me the “most confusing thing a guy’s ever said to you,” and you didn’t disappoint. 
    From classic excuses to creative new ones, you’ll learn how to figure out whether what he’s saying is actually a red flag indicating that he’s just looking for something casual with you, or whether it’s safe to proceed. Together we’ll walk through 9 of the top excuses so you know how to spot them in the future and avoid unnecessary pain.
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    • 17 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
255 Ratings

255 Ratings

Devilish_Babi ,

Confidence abound now

Found Matthew whilst I was listening to Matt Boggs actually and since incorporating him
Into my podcasts about relationships I’ve noticed my confidence to say what I’m feeling getting stronger and I’ve been able to have more success in my dating life.
I’m now 6 weeks in with a guy I’m enjoying spending time with and I never feel like I’m doubting myself. In previous relationships I’ve second guessed myself and worried about saying the wrong thing.

The best advice I’ve heard is that if you’re with the right person you won’t scare him off by saying the wrong thing..

Thank you Matthew

Tiffennie ,

Thank the lord he broke up with me

After being with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, things came to an end that no one saw coming… Or so I thought... Long story short, he broke up with me in the car and cried hysterically saying he "no longer loved me, and didn't know why” and had this feeling for over month, meaning he felt like this through out the celebration of my birthday. What's funny was that I didn’t shed a tear, I just smiled and comforted him because that was the first time I’d ever seen him cry and I knew in my gut feeling that he felt that way for weeks. Family and friends were all shocked and upset and all wanted “answers” so naturally that led to my
regret that I wasn’t able to say my piece to “save” our relationship or to find “closure”, but I’m glad I didn’t.

A month flew by and I stumbled across one of Matthews Youtube video where he spoke to a woman who went through the EXACT same break up as me. His advice to her really helped me learn to heal from it and move on with my own closure.

It's been 6 months since then and I’ve listened to almost every single episode. After being continuously knocked down with life, with the passing of two loved ones, this podcast has honestly saved me. It has not only made me reflect on my past life and actions, it has also taught me how to love myself, to communicate better and has helped me build stronger relationships with my friends and family.

I've never felt more excited for the next chapter in my life, and all of this would have never happened if it weren't for the breakup.

MotherMind ,

2022 has been a wild ride.

2022 has included the whole kit & kaboodle for me… Heart break, rebound, disappointment & excitement. Feeling so grateful my sister recommended your podcast to me as it has been integral to my healing. I’m coming out of 2022 not the same way I came in (in a good way.. I think) and I have ya’ll (😜) to thank. THANK YOU! Also, Audrey’s giggle is so damn cute!

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