Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

  1. (Matt Monday): Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut

    1 DAY AGO

    (Matt Monday): Feeling Behind? 4 Powerful Mindsets to Get Out of a Rut

    “I thought by this point in my life I definitely would have . . .” can be a dangerous phrase. Whether we’re “feeling behind” because we’ve never gotten married, had kids, or owned a house, or just wish we were further along in our career, it can be demoralizing. It’s the same feeling when you go through a breakup and feel like you just “wasted” all that time with someone. But this thinking is a trap. If you’ve caught yourself feeling “I’m so behind compared to everyone else,” use the four powerful mindset reframes I share in today’s episode to get out of your rut and start moving forward again. ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

    24 min
  2. (Rewind): What Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Person Looks Like

    4 DAYS AGO

    (Rewind): What Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Person Looks Like

    Can you relate to this? You start dating someone who seems too good to be true. Maybe they treat you like no one ever has before, or they check all the boxes you’ve been looking for, or maybe it’s their success or status that makes you feel like the luckiest person just to have their attention (as in today’s example). But here’s the catch: they’re sending you mixed signals when it comes to commitment. You keep spending time together, but you’re still unsure of what they actually want. It’s a tricky situation. Even though you can sense something is off, the fear of losing them—and the uncertainty of finding someone as amazing as they seem—makes it nearly impossible to set boundaries or create distance. You’re stuck, holding onto something that might not be what you thought it was. If this sounds familiar, don’t miss today’s episode—it’s a rewind you won’t want to miss. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

    19 min
  3. 279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025

    6 DAYS AGO

    279: Do THIS If You Want To Reach Your Relationship Goals In 2025

    In this episode, Matthew and Audrey explore the problem of waiting to find love until the "perfect time", and how this thinking can hold us back from living fully and achieving our goals. Whether you're contemplating a life-changing decision, trying to date amidst personal challenges, or simply struggling to move forward, this episode will give you the tools and mindset shifts to take action today. Topics Covered: The pressure of starting fresh in January and why it can be counterproductive. The challenge of single motherhood and facing fears about dating with children. The concept of "Nel Mezzo" (in the middle): Living life amidst its chaos. Common mental traps: Waiting for the ideal time, trying to avoid pain, and over-planning. The role of self-compassion when dealing with setbacks or unproductive days. Redefining the idea of a “new chapter” and leaning into life’s ongoing conversations. Practical steps to challenge limiting beliefs about what’s possible in life and relationships.   ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

    45 min
  4. (Matt Monday): Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New...

    13 JAN

    (Matt Monday): Avoid This Dangerous Habit When You Date Someone New...

    After a really good date or two, have you ever found yourself scrolling through the other person’s social media pages . . . to a slightly unhealthy degree? Maybe you’ve even tried to find their exes’ profiles to see how you compare with them? (It’s OK, we’ve all been there.) This is often bad for our mental health. And it doesn’t help when we’re trying to build an organic relationship while secretly stalking every part of someone’s life. In today’s new episode, I share practical strategies you can use when you feel the urge to keep checking your date’s social media pages . . . and how you can redirect your attention in a way that will make you even more attractive. ►► Join The "Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat" In Miami, October 18-19. Grab Your Early Bird Ticket Before Prices Go Up! → https://matthewhussey.com/weekend-retreat-25-eb/ ►►Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

    22 min
  5. (Rewind): The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart

    10 JAN

    (Rewind): The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart

    I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had. If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain. We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food. It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me... --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

    10 min
  6. 278: How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki

    8 JAN

    278: How To Know You're In The Wrong Relationship w/ Jillian Turecki

    In this episode, Matthew sits down for a conversation with Jillian Turecki (@jillianturecki)—renowned relationship coach, teacher, and author of It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life. Over the last two decades, Jillian has empowered thousands to transform their relationships, starting with the most important one: the relationship with themselves. She also hosts the popular Jillian on Love podcast. Topics Covered: The most common dating patterns that hold people back—and how to break them. How to know when you should accept someone's flaws vs. when they are fatal to the relationship. The danger of “playing house” in early relationships and how to have the difficult conversations. Moving past unchallenged limiting beliefs, including “I’m not lovable” or “all men cheat.” The crucial difference between chemistry and character—and how to avoid falling for the wrong people. What you should do in the first 5 dates to test compatibility How to make peace with your past, including complicated relationships with parents, to find freedom in your love life. How to move on from heartbreak and embrace the possibility of love again. The art of setting boundaries and recognizing when a partner's behavior doesn’t meet your needs. ✨ Follow Jillian Turecki online: Follow Jillian on Instagram: @jillianturecki Order Jillian's new book: It Begins with You: Nine Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life Listen to Jillian's podcast: Jillian on Love

    1h 7m
  7. (Matt Monday): How to Find Love & Level Up Your Confidence With These 7 Simple Steps

    6 JAN

    (Matt Monday): How to Find Love & Level Up Your Confidence With These 7 Simple Steps

    Wondering how to make 2025 your best year yet? In this brand-new episode, I share 7 subtle habits you can implement without needing to turn your life upside down. These small shifts have the power to:  • Boost your chances of finding love. • Make you a better conversationalist. • Get you out of your comfort zone (in a good way).  • Increase your love for life.   Whether you want to be a little less shy or just want to level up in your social life, this is a must-listen. And it shouldn’t feel like work! It should get you excited and inspired.    Let’s do this together.   ►► Transform Your Relationship With Life Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Retreat at . . .→ http://www.MHRetreat.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com

    25 min
  8. (Rewind): Don't Even Think About Rekindling With Your Ex Until You Watch This...

    3 JAN

    (Rewind): Don't Even Think About Rekindling With Your Ex Until You Watch This...

    Ever felt like you lost a relationship with someone that you couldn’t replace? It’s a profound form of mental torture. All kinds of fears enter your mind. Most scary of all: “What if I’ll never be as happy again?”, “Have I ruined my chance at true love?” If you find yourself constantly thinking about how to invite someone back into your life… Or if you have an old flame who keeps coming in and out of your life… Please… watch this before you do anything else. --- ►► Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question for Free Now at. . . → http://www.AskMH.com ►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com ►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com

    7 min
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Relationships are for heroes. Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself. In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are. About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.

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