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Love Life with Matthew Hussey Matthew Hussey
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4.7 • 299 Ratings
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Relationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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253: What To Do When The Attraction Isn’t Strong Enough…
Have you ever been there? You meet someone online, the connection sparks, and attraction starts to grow with every conversation. But then, when you meet in person, something‘s off. Maybe their height isn‘t quite what the pictures showed, or their photos were way outdated. And even though you try to push past it, the initial spark is gone.
And now you feel stuck . . . You know you‘re not interested, but the thought of letting them down fills you with fear and anxiety.
If this sounds familiar, you won‘t want to miss this episode. Audrey and Matt discuss how to navigate this situation if you‘re a people pleaser or struggle with guilt when delivering bad news.
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(Matt Monday): 7 Things Narcissists Do That’ll Never Make Sense to You
What is a relationship with a narcissist really like?
If you’re an empathetic person, it can make you feel crazy: You doubt yourself constantly. You’re always second-guessing. Your boundaries and sense of self are slowly broken down by emotional manipulation and gaslighting.
Whether you’re still feeling the wounds from a past narcissistic relationship, or are trying to figure out if you’re in a relationship with a narcissist right now, today’s episode is your next step. I walk you through the 7 signs you're dating a narcissist and show you how to spot these traits faster in your next relationship.
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(Rewind): How to Get Over Someone You STILL Can't Get Over
What if you’ve been dating someone with whom you feel a truly unique and natural connection, but they have a fatal flaw that means a relationship is impossible?
There is a real danger to the feeling that this person is irreplaceable, when you tell yourself “I can’t find this connection with anyone else”.
If we never make space for something new, never let go, and always hold onto hope of what might have been, we can get stuck on an old relationship forever.
So if you’re ready to truly move on and get over “the one that got away”, this video will help you move forward with confidence and certainty.
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253: “How Do I Get Him to Try Harder?”
Theresa says, “I feel like I’m his lowest priority”. Even though the guy she’s dating long-distance says all the right things, he is constantly busy and now she feels like an obligation to him rather than someone he’s excited to see. “He doesn’t want to lose me”, she says, “but he doesn’t want to try either”.
In this episode, Matt and Audrey talk about how to handle this on-the-fence situation, when someone says they want to see you but isn’t able or truly willing to fulfil your needs, and whether you should date someone who is too busy to make you their priority right now.
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(Matt Monday): Feel Like You’ve Lost “The One”?
Have you felt the heartbreak of losing the “love of your life,” and now you want them back? Or perhaps you feel trapped in sadness after a breakup and don’t know how to move on.
Either way, this is the first aid you need right now.
In today’s episode, I explain the #1 thing that defines our reality during a breakup, and show how the obsession we might feel during a breakup can have its roots in the early days of dating someone. And if you’re on the fence about getting back with your ex, the 3 steps I share today can help you make that decision.
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(Rewind): 4 Dangerous Reasons You Fall In Love Too Fast
Joe met Lisa on a trip to the Bahamas.
He saw her sipping a cocktail and asked her what she was drinking. (It was a Mai Tai.) He ordered a Whisky Sour.
Then it was on to talking all night. They kissed, they danced, and he told her after a few days that he had never met anyone like her.
Now Lisa had a weird feeling: “Uh-oh, I’ve fallen for this guy…”
She thought about him every day when she got home, remembering that perfect moment on the boat trip when he took her hand and pulled her tight to him.
But then... he never called…(I know, it’s horrible, right?)
The truth is, this often happens because of some very simple mistakes we make when it comes to falling in love.
In this week’s rewind episode, I’ll show you how to avoid them...
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Matthew and Stephen Hussey, Jameson and Audrey, I can’t tell you how helpful and your videos and content have been. I only discovered you a short time ago and if I had listened before my last ‘situationship’ I would have saved myself a whole world of pain. So many lightbulbs I could be in a disco. Thank you, Ellie
EVERY WORD IS A WORD OF WISDOM
Hey guys, thanks so much I have built my self worth back & you have taught me so much. I can’t thank you enough. I was in a 30 year relationship & I didn’t know I had permission to walk away. Life is amazing now because of you with or without a romantic relationship.
I love how real this talk is
My light bulb moment from listening to this: separating feelings from the path of intention. So much gold and wisdom in this podcast. 💙💙