56 episodes

Welcome to Mother Mayhem: A Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast for Daughters. Join me, Heather Gray, a licensed therapist and expert in narcissistic abuse recovery, as I help you heal from childhood trauma.

Listen to the first 8 episodes in order. They provide a paced framework for your healing. Use the resources linked in the show notes.

Understand the impact of your experience. Establish healthy boundaries. Gain a better relationship with yourself and others.

Listener questions are valued. Submit yours. Listen in as I guide fellow daughters. They're in it with you. I am, too.

Mother Mayhem: Narcissistic Abuse Recovery for Daughters Heather Gray, LICSW

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    • 4.9 • 7 Ratings

Welcome to Mother Mayhem: A Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast for Daughters. Join me, Heather Gray, a licensed therapist and expert in narcissistic abuse recovery, as I help you heal from childhood trauma.

Listen to the first 8 episodes in order. They provide a paced framework for your healing. Use the resources linked in the show notes.

Understand the impact of your experience. Establish healthy boundaries. Gain a better relationship with yourself and others.

Listener questions are valued. Submit yours. Listen in as I guide fellow daughters. They're in it with you. I am, too.

    49. The Aging Narcissist: Daughters’ Decisions & Boundaries in Caregiving

    49. The Aging Narcissist: Daughters’ Decisions & Boundaries in Caregiving

    In this episode, we delve into the complex maze faced by daughters of narcissistic mothers when it comes to making decisions about caregiving for their aging parents. 

    Offering guidance on  navigating boundaries, deciding what’s best for yourselves,  and managing the emotional minefield all of this creates. 

    Question for the show: Heather@DaughtersNPD.com

    Find me over on Instagram where we talk about all of things Mayhem Monday through Friday: @DaughtersNPD

    70+ challenging conversations in life, love, and work.


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    • 38 min
    Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things

    Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things

    Introducing: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things.

    (Link below for those that don't have a live link)



    Simple Scripts gives you instant access to the words you need to say hard things in life, love, or work.


    If an ebook isn’t really your thing but you want to support Mayhem and the work we have been doing, please know that I would consider any purchase of this book to be a sign of sponsorship for the show.



    Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things

    Link for those who can't open the ones above: https://heathergrayconsulting.mvsite.app/products/courses/view/1064315


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    • 11 min
    48. Stepping Back: Daughters' Path to Low Contact with Narcissistic Mothers

    48. Stepping Back: Daughters' Path to Low Contact with Narcissistic Mothers

    In all likelihood, you will feel it in your bodies when you are ready to go low contact but it can be hard to navigate what your boundary will be and how to communicate it.

    Listen in for ways of organizing this decision for yourselves. 

    Do you think it’s time to go low contact but are struggling with how? 

    Write in with your question or situation: Heather@DaughtersNPD.com

    I’ll share advice and direction over on Instagram. 

    You can follow me there: @DaughtersNPD

    If we get a significant number of questions, I will offer a bonus episode of the show.


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    • 23 min
    47. From Doubt to Confidence: Navigating Chronic Anxiety After Childhood Trauma

    47. From Doubt to Confidence: Navigating Chronic Anxiety After Childhood Trauma

    Today, ‘Coral’ shares her story in her own words and in her own voice.

    Daughters of narcissistic mothers know all too well what it is like to always second guess yourself, to not want your mother’s opinion but to also feel like you need it. It is not at all uncommon for those who’ve experienced relational trauma as kids to suffer from chronic anxiety as an adult.Coral shares her story, shares so much of her healing, and also shares the struggles she has today. Listen in and hear my thoughts, directions, and insights.


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    • 45 min
    46. Narcissistic Mother’s Day Mayhem: A Guide for Daughters

    46. Narcissistic Mother’s Day Mayhem: A Guide for Daughters

    In this episode of 'Mother Mayhem,' we tackle the unique challenges faced by daughters of narcissistic mothers on and around Mother’s Day. 

    Learn strategies for coping, finding resilience, and fostering healing during this often triggering time.

    We discuss the emotional complexities and triggers that daughters of narcissistic mothers often experience during Mother's Day.

    Learn coping strategies and gain practical tips to help you all navigate the day with greater ease and self-care.


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    • 31 min
    This is Me. All In.

    This is Me. All In.

    Last November, I experienced a devastating friend breakup—a story I wasn't sure I'd ever share here. After finding solace in my favorite podcast, It's Going to Be OK, I opened up to their team.

    I thought the story would stay there until I shared  it with a Mayhem listener and she encouraged me to let the rest of you in on it.

    Then, two other listeners stumbled upon it by happenstance since I’ve recommended the podcast to all of you, a few times. They recognized me in the story and shared how meaningful they found it.

    They, too, thought it belonged here. 

    I knew though, that I couldn't share that episode if I didn't also share my own Mayhem story with you and that's what I am doing here with all of you today.

    So here I am, sharing my Mayhem story and also:

    'Already Enough and… A Bit Much.', It's Going to Be OK Podcast on Apple

    'Already Enough and A Bit Much on Spotify

    This episode features a poem titled 'A Bit Much' by Lyndsay Rush—a piece that grabbed my heart, helped me feel seen, and ultimately helped me accept myself a little bit more.


    This is Me. All In.


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    • 24 min

Customer Reviews

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7 Ratings

TawnyS14 ,

A Light at the End of a Dark Tunnel

Heather of Mother Mayhem has finally put words to my feelings and experiences that I have never been able to understand. She has brought calm to my storm and a sense of community that I have never felt in this area of my life before.
-Tawny

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