The Gently Used Human with Dr. Scott Lyons Dr. Scott Lyons

Have you ever considered how comedy can transcend its status as a form of entertainment to become a powerful tool for connection and healing? Or how a comedian's journey intertwines with personal growth, relationships, and the challenges of being a public figure?
Joining Dr Scott to discuss all things funny is Laura Clery, an actress, influencer, and comedian celebrated for her distinct style and ability to connect with millions across social media platforms. She is also the author of Idiot: Life Stories from the Creator of Help Helen Smash and Idiots: Marriage, Motherhood, Milk & Mistakes.
Together, they reflect on Laura’s journey and why laughter truly is the best medicine (in more ways than one). Laura opens up about her rise in comedy, from discovering her knack for making people laugh at a young age to mastering the art of online content creation. She delves into how comedy serves as her medicine, helping process challenging experiences and navigate the intricacies of dating and relationships.
Prepare to be entertained and enlightened as they deconstruct the power of humor in creating joy and connection, the role of social media in reaching a global audience, and the importance of self-awareness in personal and romantic relationships. Laura also shares insights into maintaining privacy as a public figure and the transformative journey of understanding one's own protective strategies and insecurities.
Join us for a conversation filled with thoughtful insights and plenty of good laughs. 
Topics We Break Down:
Systemic inequities in show business and how creating your own content can be used to reclaim power and agency.The role of fear in overthinking and the creativity that can stem from underthinking.Appreciating different types of humor and the art of making people laugh.The therapeutic effects of laughter: stimulating the vagal nervous system and its calming impact on the body.The duality of impulsivity: a source of both humor and creativity, yet also a double-edged sword.Navigating public divorce, finding humor in adversity, and exploring the triggers within romantic relationships.Deconstructing comedy's components: incongruity, timing, relief theory, status shifts, sarcasm, irony, and exaggeration.

In a world brimming with information, why is it that the dialogue around our sexual well-being remains so stifled? Have you ever wondered why conversations about sex and pleasure often feel like navigating a minefield of awkwardness and taboo? How can we break through the barriers of silence to cultivate relationships that thrive on open communication and profound pleasure?
To help answer these questions, Dr. Scott is joined by Dr. Emily Morse, the bestselling author of Hot Sex and Smart Sex and host of the number one sexuality podcast, Sex with Emily. Emily has dedicated her career to demystifying the world of sex and pleasure, advocating for honest and open communication as the cornerstone for a vibrant sexual relationship. 
Together, they explore the reasons behind our collective hesitation to talk about sex, the benefits of expanding our understanding of what sex can do, and the practical steps we can take to enhance intimacy and pleasure in our lives. They tackle how to address pleasure thieves like stress, trauma, and shame and discuss the power of mindfulness in creating a safe space for those important conversations. Whether you're curious about navigating your desires, exploring fantasies, or simply looking to enrich the sexual aspects of your relationship, you're in the right place. 
Let's get it on.
Topics We Break Down: 
Boundaries that keep us from talking about sex in a safe, shame-free environment. What it looks like to define sex for ourselves instead of following the scripts handed to us. Communication is lubrication: why learning to talk about sex is the best thing for our sex lives.Reframing sex as an opportunity to expand the experiential horizons of your relationship.Transformative tools to break down common barriers preventing us from having fulfilling sexual experiences.How mindful masturbation can revolutionize your solo and partnered encounters. What it might look like to overcome the humor and awkwardness of role play. 

Have you ever noticed how, as the seasons change, it’s not just the world around us that changes but also our inner landscapes?
In this episode, Dr. Scott is joined by Dr. Greg Hammer, a Professor at Stanford University School of Medicine, Paediatric Intensive Care Physician, Paediatric Anaesthesiologist, and Mindfulness Expert. Together, they navigate the essentials of physical wellness, including the rejuvenating power of sleep, the vitality found in movement, and the nourishment provided by mindful eating. Dr. Hammer invites us to explore the spiritual scaffolding supporting our well-being built on the pillars of gratitude, acceptance, intention, and non-judgment. 
This conversation is brimming with insights that promise to illuminate the path to wellness through the changing seasons and beyond with the wise and wonderful Dr Greg Hammer as our guide. 
Topics We Break Down: 
How the components of spiritual and physical health intertwine to support holistic wellness.Neutralizing negativity bias by prioritizing physical and spiritual well-being.Foundations of nutrition to support our defense against low-grade stress.A simple definition of burnout and how to develop a plan to mitigate the stressors contributing to it.Discerning between elements that fall within our control and outside of it and how to embrace mindfulness to stay in the present moment.Embracing a practice of accepting and embracing pain in order to reduce suffering.How embracing non-judgment supports self-acceptance and kindness towards others.

Have you ever questioned the deep-seated expectations you hold for your children? And for yourself as a parent? Or wonder how the expectations of your own parents affects you now? There are so many parent experts out there - so which one will actually help you to unlock the exact formula for raising strong, resilient kids?
In this insightful episode, Dr. Scott sits down with Dr. Shefali, a renowned clinical psychologist and author known for her groundbreaking work in conscious parenting and family dynamics. Together, they discuss the impact of societal expectations and social comparisons on parenting and the significance of focusing on your child’s self-worth instead of their achievements. They unpack the daily practice of challenging your own expectations, the importance of fostering a sense of self-worth for both parent and child, the value of allowing your children the space to explore their own destiny, the outcomes of fear-based parenting, and much more.
Are you ready for the joy and ease that comes when we let go of control and accept our children for who they truly are? Then this episode is for you.
Topics We Break Down
Explore the nuances between conscious and unconscious parenting.The hidden expectations intertwined with unconscious parenting approaches.Why parents need to surrender to their authentic selves.Strategies to guide children in aligning with their inherent nature and essence.Removing toxic patterns and replacing them with authentic connections.Understand the influence and repercussions of the parental ego on children.The characteristics of a spiritual warrior in parenting and beyond.Allowing your children the space to be disruptive and discover themselves.Signs of a healthy parent-child dynamic and the value of conflict.Learn the path to gentle feedback between parent and child.

Have you ever considered the power of laughter in battling anxiety? What if anxiety was not just a state of mind but also a condition deeply rooted in our bodies? Could we unravel the complexities of anxiety and find solace in the present moment? Dr. Russell Kennedy, also known as Anxiety MD, joins Dr. Scott today to share his unique blend of expertise in medicine, neuroscience, and stand-up comedy. 
Offering a revolutionary understanding and approach to overcoming anxiety, Dr. Kennedy shares insights from his personal journey, revealing the counterphobic tool of comedy and how this intersects with his medical practice. Together, they challenge the conventional view of anxiety, redefining it as a physical state of alarm that often stems from unresolved trauma. 
Dr. Kennedy guides us through techniques to connect with our inner self and find a sense of safety in the present moment, and together, we explore the essential difference between everyday discomfort and lingering trauma and how focusing on the body’s alarm signals can pave the way to healing. 
Topics We Break DownHow applying a new understanding to anxiety can facilitate a deeper treatment of its root causes.What it might look like to replace dissociative responses with meaningful attention.Reframing anxiety as both a mind-body separation and an adult self-child self separation. The complex relationship between cognitive and somatic work.How technology facilitates disconnection and results in an inability to metabolize difficult emotions.The journey of influencing your internal perception of the external world through expressing emotion. Prioritizing self-connection and witnessing the traumatized child as a roadmap to healing anxiety. Why the cost of never addressing the pain of your formative years is too high to bear.

Ever wondered what lies behind the curtain of the nutritional wellness industry, or considered how the act of cooking is not just preparing a meal, but also a profound expression of self care and creativity?
In this episode, Desiree Nielsen joins Dr. Scott in conversation to share a wealth of wisdom from her experiences as a registered dietician. Desiree is an expert in the world of plant-based nutrition and an author of several best-selling cookbooks, including the newly published Plant Magic. Together, they’ll discuss the impact of social media on diet trends, the importance of tailoring nutrition to the individual, and the need for a critical eye toward the wellness narratives that dominate our culture. 
Desiree offers her insights into the complex layers of nutrition, debunking myths, and teaching us how to sift through the noise to find evidence-based advice that truly benefits our health. This episode serves up insight and laughter, proving that the best meals are not just about what’s on the plate, but also about the conversations that happen around the table. Let’s dig in!
Topics We Break Down: 
How food can act as the metronome of life before diet culture infiltrates our thinking. The opportunity that mealtimes present to inject happiness and pleasure into an otherwise stressful life.What it might look like to strip food of its moral value and embrace flexibility.Why a ‘one problem, one solution’ approach to nutrition is fundamentally problematic.What it truly means to have a holistic perspective that is in step with evidence-based thinking.Redefining healthy eating in a way that focuses on our actions. The radical idea that sometimes wellness makes us feel worse.Sifting through the plethora of conflicting health advice online to find what works for you.