The Jerry Wise Show

Jerry Wise
The Jerry Wise Show Podcast

Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life coach. He as been helping people for 40 years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral counselor, pastor, speaker, chemical dependency counselor, executive coach, and organization coach. jerrywise5@gmail.com | jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com | (317) 919-6264 | Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

  1. 09/10/2023

    Narcissistic Parents Behaviors that Cause Deep-Rooted LONELINESS

    Discover how narcissistic parents' behaviors lead to deep and lasting loneliness in you. This video breaks down key traits and their impact. 👇🏼Join 'The Scapegoat Recovery Workshop' on December 2nd👇🏼https://join.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/scapegoat-recovery-workshop/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=scapegoat+workshop&utm_content=a62 Other ways I can help you👇🏼 🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The Differentiated-Self You Were Never Allowed To Have!" https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a62 🔥🔥🔥 Join the 'Self-Differentiation Recovery' Program: Get your family of origin of you and stand strong as your differentiated SELF in relationships and life. https://program.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/welcome/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=YNRTS&utm_content=a62 🔥🔥🔥 Coaching packages & solutions: https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/book-online?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=coaching&utm_content=a62 🌐 More free recourses on my website: www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com ➡️ Recommended Playlists: Outgrowing dysfunctional family Patterns- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2Eu-hOf7YkDY7xD-zVq-BR Break Free From Narcissistic Parents & Families- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W172vXggx0taH1_eHfNDq2a Adult Children of Alcoholics: Heal & Change The Pattern - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2hxQ_UzQsKEm2d39X8B2hH ➡️ You can find me also on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrytwise/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jerrytwise Twitter: https://twitter.com/Jerrytwise Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82?si=4a5987b4b8064a39 For over 45 Years, Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has helped 1000s of People in the Same Situation as You… As a family system and self-differentiation coach, he uses his knowledge to help clients permanently get unstuck from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships and build a true sense of self. DISCLAIMER: This video is not intended to substitute for professional counseling help. Be sure to consult a professional in helping you with these integrate and utilize these concepts. 🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The Differentiated-Self You Were Never Allowed To Have!" https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a62 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

    15 min
  2. 05/10/2023

    Narcissistic Parent Tactics That Cause Childhood Trauma and CPTSD

    Narcissistic parents often use tactics that lead to CPTSD, childhood trauma and can have long-lasting effects on you as an adult. This is how I can help you 👇🏼 🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The REAL SELF You Were Never Allowed To Have!" https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a59 🔥🔥🔥 Join 'Your New Road To SELF': Break free from toxic family patterns, heal your relationships, and discover your true self! https://program.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/welcome/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=YNRTS&utm_content=a59 🔥🔥🔥 Coaching packages & solutions: https://www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com/book-online?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=coaching&utm_content=a59 🌐 More free recourses on my website: www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com ➡️ Recommended Playlists: Outgrowing dysfunctional family Patterns- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2Eu-hOf7YkDY7xD-zVq-BR Break Free From Narcissistic Parents & Families- https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W172vXggx0taH1_eHfNDq2a Adult Children of Alcoholics: Heal & Change The Pattern - https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoYQTW09i3W2hxQ_UzQsKEm2d39X8B2hH ➡️ You can find me also on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrytwise/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jerrytwise Twitter: https://twitter.com/Jerrytwise Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82?si=4a5987b4b8064a39 For over 45 Years, Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has helped 1000s of People in the Same Situation as You… As a family system and self-differentiation coach, he uses his knowledge to help clients permanently get unstuck from family-of-origin dysfunction, cultivate healthy relationships and build a true sense of self. DISCLAIMER: This video is not intended to substitute for professional counseling help. Be sure to consult a professional in helping you with these integrate and utilize these concepts. 🔥Access my FREE Training - "Build The REAL SELF You Were Never Allowed To Have!" https://jerrywise.ewebinar.com/webinar/free-training-10027?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=video&utm_campaign=free+training&utm_content=a59 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

    26 min
  3. 25/07/2022

    5 Keys for Getting the Narcissist Out of You

    Are you having trouble getting the narcissist out of you?   Jerry Wise is a life and relationship coach and been helping people for over 40 years using a family systems approach to recovery and healing.    In this video he shares 5 keys for helping you get the narcissist out of you.  He talks about using a paradoxical acceptance tool, unlocking the interlocking relationships in the past with the narcissist, stopping systems behaviors and resisting systems feelings, resisting and overcoming obsessive thinking, and turning your obsession to self love.  To work with Jerry Wise contact him at: www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com 317-919-6264  jerrywise5@gmail.com  Join Jerry's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZWHfOsTVegeEFEXV56llWA Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JerryWiseRS  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrywise.rs/ #invisible #feelinginvisible #narcissism #jerrywise #stages #stagesofresistance #resistance #courage #consistency #patience #self #boundaries #boundary #lovebombing #lovebomb #familylovebombing #family #excessive #emotional #dysfunctionalfamily #dysfunctional #boundaries #worry #disrespect #jerrywise #needyoursupport #god #ideal #compliments #stringsattached #deeds #emotions #familyselfvsrealself #anxiety #reactivity #selfabandonment #selfdenial #selfpowerlessness #selfborrowing #selfhelp #self #beliefs #feelings #actions #emotionalprocess #maturity #dysfunctional #dysfunctionalfamily #foo #family #parents #calm #calmness #selfcare #selfdifferentiation #jerrywise #narcissism #youtubevideo #yt #youtubeexplore #narcissist #narcissism #empathy #learning #learn #youtube #trending #trend #boundaries #acoa #acon #bowenfamilysystems #bowentherapy #trauma #narcissisticfamilies #wise #superpower #superpowers #relationship #relationships #views #familyoforigin #inside #abuse #abusiverelationships #abusiverelationship #familyissues #wise #wiser #narcissistic #narcisismo #narcisista #famous #blowthisup #youtuber #viral #viralvideo #convert #selfhelpvideos #selfhelp #innerchild #reparenting #selfdifferentiation #keys #jerrywise #podcast #spotifypodcasts --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

    25 min
  4. "Resists the Forces to Fit in with the Group" 6 of 7

    08/12/2020

    "Resists the Forces to Fit in with the Group" 6 of 7

    -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy mature inner adult?   Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.     KEY POINT: "Resists the forces to fit in with the group ethos when it contradicts their values"  Number 6 of the 7 part series  Our aim is to resist group think, group feel, the family superself, the workplace superself, and following the herd.  Stating I-positions without reactivity, with calmness, and focusing on Self when dealing with others and the group ethos (values, morals, opinions).  Staying in contact means we do not retreat nor do we attack or become reactive in relationships in which we disagree with others.     Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up".  He explains each one.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and life and relationship coach.  He and his team work with individuals, couples, and families and businesses to become strong self-differentiating people and leaders.   To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com 317-919-6264 jerrywise5@gmail.com Join Jerry's YouTube Channel,   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JerryWiseRS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrywise.rs/   Also all of his videos are on Spotify and Anchor.fm for online and offline listening. You can take them with you in your car or at work.  "Not How but When" by Jerry Wise  https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

    13 min
  5. "Doesn't Expect to be Rescued by Others and Refrains from Taking Over for Others." 5/7 and 7/7

    08/12/2020

    "Doesn't Expect to be Rescued by Others and Refrains from Taking Over for Others." 5/7 and 7/7

    -What are the healthy characteristics of a healthy inner adult?    Many have never learn what is normal for a healthy adult self, especially growing up in a dysfunctional home.    KEY POINT: "Doesn't Expect to be Rescued by Others and Refrains from Taking Over for Others."  Number 5 of 7 part series  Jerry Wise Life and Relationship Coach explains what it means to be rescued by others and taking over for others.  Using Bowen Family Systems Theory he describes the sharing of Self with others.  Giving and taking of self is common in dysfunctional relationships.  He explains how we can identify and avoid this so we can be self-differentiated.       Jerry Wise is presenting a seven part series of videos on the 7 Characteristics of a Healthy Inner Adult listed in the book by Jenny Brown, "Growing Yourself Up".  He explains each one.  Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC has been a family therapist and life and relationship coach. To work with Jerry Wise contact him at www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com 317-919-6264 jerrywise5@gmail.com   Join Jerry's YouTube Channel,   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JerryWiseConsulting/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JerryWiseRS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jerrywise.rs/   Also all of his videos are on Spotify and Anchor.fm for online and offline listening. You can take them with you in your car or at work.  "Not How but When" by Jerry Wise  https://open.spotify.com/show/3DKjGLpV4bBB2oCZpetM82 --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

    11 min

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Jerry Wise, MA, MS, CLC is a relationship expert, self-specialist, life coach. He as been helping people for 40 years. He was a marriage and family therapist, pastoral counselor, pastor, speaker, chemical dependency counselor, executive coach, and organization coach. jerrywise5@gmail.com | jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com | (317) 919-6264 | Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jerry-wise/support

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