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I don’t want your money, I don’t need to be taken care of, I don’t need to be spoiled with gifts. Make me laugh, respect my choices, and be a gentleman, some of us don’t ask much. 
我不要你的钱，我也不需要被照顾，我也不需要太多的礼物被你宠坏。我就只要你让我大笑，尊重我的决定，然后成为一个绅士。我们有些人要求并不多。
（7:29 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 7:29）
单词记忆：
1. Spoil 宠
2. Respect 尊敬
Is it okay to ask them to pay for dates? Well, you know, every culture is a little bit different, and even within Western cultures, people have very different opinions of that. Generally speaking, it's commonly accepted, at least in the United States where I live, that the man typically takes the lead on that and asks the woman out and therefore pays for the date. Now, there's an ever-growing trend with more and more women that want to contribute and pay for half the date, but I'm kind of an old-school person. I always, you know, unless they absolutely insist, and even then, I still pretty much prefer that I just pay for the date. 
可以要求美国男人支付约会费用吗？好吧，你知道，每种文化都有点不同，即使在西方文化中，人们对此也有非常不同的看法。一般而言，人们普遍认为，至少在我居住的美国，男人通常会带头约女人出去，并支付约会费用。现在，越来越多的女性想要贡献并支付一半约会的费用，这是一种不断增长的趋势，但我是一个守旧派的人。我总是，除非他们绝对坚持，即使那样，我仍然宁愿我来支付约会的费用。
3. Opinion 意见
4. Accept 接受
5. Take the lead 带头主动
6. Trend 趋势
7. Contribute 贡献
8. Old-school 守旧的
9. Insist 坚持
10. Prefer 宁愿、偏好
结论：我觉得男生在首次约会的时候主动付款是一个非常绅士的表现！
我想不会有人不喜欢会为女生买单的女权主义者。我记得和Omar初次约会的时候，一整天他买单了两次，第三次我就坚持买单了！后面他都会坚持要买单，除非是我找他出去吃饭，或者感谢他给我的帮忙，当然我也会主动说要给他煮饭，我当然不会计较买菜的钱！
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“In the end there doesn’t have to be anyone who understands you. There just has to be someone who wants to.” 一段时间过去后，其实你不需要有人了解你，只需要有人愿意去了解你。
（19：46 完整英语的访谈｜English Interview starts at 19:46）
Hello everybody, you are listening to the Fly with Lily podcast here. And then right now beside me is Omar. Omar is visiting me in Taiwan and we just had a couple of days here. He is visiting here and enjoying food and traveling around Taiwan island. And we also talked about doing a podcast together. So we have come up with this idea of like bad first date question. How do we turn them into good first date question? Because I have a lot of students, they want to date foreigners, but they don't know how to. Usually they don't know what to ask. Or the questions I heard were pretty ridiculous. So I would like to help my audience on that. So Omar, say hi to our audience. Hello everyone, glad to be here with you and with Lily. Yay! So, let's get started. Alright.
大家好，你正在收听 Fly with Lily 播客。然后现在在我旁边的是Omar。Omar正在台湾拜访我，我们刚刚在这里待了几天。他正在这里参观，享受美食并环游台湾岛。我们还讨论了一起做一个播客。所以我们想出了糟糕的第一次约会问题的想法。我们如何将它们变成好的初次约会问题？因为我有很多学生，他们想和外国人约会，但他们不知道怎么办。通常他们不知道该问什么。或者我听到的问题非常荒谬。所以我想在这方面帮助我的听众。Omar，向我们的听众问好。大家好，很高兴和你们在一起，和莉莉在一起。耶！那么，让我们开始吧。
1. foreigners 外国人｜Westerners 西方人
2. ridiculous 荒谬
3. audience 听众/观众
Okay, the first one is, usually this is pretty common, women (are) attracted to success. So they want to know, like, how much is your salary? Yeah, so at least in Western culture, that's not really an appropriate question to ask. It's just very personal, and a lot of people may find offense to that. But it still is an important thing to know. But there's a lot of other subtle ways that you can ask that where you'll still get the answer you need, but you won't really offend someone. So a way that you can ask is are, what are your career goals? Or where do you see your career in the next five years? And based on those answers, you can probably ascertain about where that person's career is headed and what kind of lifestyle they live. 
好吧。好的，第一个是，通常这很常见，女性被成功所吸引。所以他们想知道，比如，你的薪水是多少？是的，所以至少在西方文化中，这不是一个合适的问题。这是非常私人的，很多人可能会觉得冒犯。但这仍然是一件重要的事情。但是还有很多其他微妙的方式来问，仍然会得到你需要的答案，但你不会真正冒犯别人。所以你可以问的一种方式是，你的职业目标是什么？或者你如何看待未来五年的职业生涯？根据这些答案，你可能可以确定此人的职业发展方向以及他们过着什么样的生活方式。
***比起“How much is your salary?”更好的问题是“what are your career goals? Or where do you see your career in the next five years?”
4. are attracted to 被…吸引
5. salary 薪水
6. Western culture 西方文化
7. offense/offend/offensive 冒犯
8. subtle 微妙的
9. career goals 职涯目标
10. ascertain 弄清、确定
Okay, so can we do an example? Yes, so for example, yeah, so like if you're on a date and someone says, well, you know, I don't really have any career goals, I'm just happy working as a janitor cleaning toilets. There's no disrespect in that positio

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The best way to predict the future is to create it. 最好预测未来的方式就是去创造它。
About Money/Career 关于Lily的金钱和职涯的运势
Bella: So you're gonna have very intense year. So I think you're gonna have a lot of, once that planet moves out of your money making house, you're gonna have a lot more money. Money making opportunities. And then Pluto. So Pluto is a planet that changes signs every 20 years. So it's been in Capricorn for 20 years and it's moving into Aquarius. And Pluto is the planet of power, of intensity, of transformation, of just anything that's very deep and transformative and death and rebirth. And it's moving into Aquarius, which rules your money house. So I'm very interested to see how that plays out for you because I think that you could gain a lot of power and make crazy amounts of money. I don't know, there could be a lot of opportunities. Your whole relationship with money is gonna transform the way you think about it, how you earn it. There's a lot of potential for you. It's gonna get a lot better. Cuz I feel like it might have been just not fun and more of a struggle in the past since the pandemicish when Saturn moved into Aquarius. Cuz that's your money house. I feel like money has not been flowing. You want it. So yeah, pay attention to that cuz that could really change.
所以你会度过非常激烈的一年。一旦那颗行星离开你的赚钱宫，你就会有更多赚钱的机会。然后是冥王星。冥王星是一颗每 20 年改变一次星座的行星。所以它在摩羯座已经20年了，它正在进入水瓶座。冥王星是代表力量、强度、转变的行星，代表任何非常深刻和转变、死亡和重生的事物。它正在进入水瓶座，它掌管着你的金钱宫。所以我很想知道这对你有什么影响，因为我认为你可以获得很多权力并赚到非常多的钱。我是不知道啦，但你可能会有很多机会。你与金钱的整个关系将改变你对金钱的看法，以及你赚钱的方式。你会有很大的潜力，而且会变得更好。因为我觉得自从土星进入水瓶座和这场大流行以来，这在过去对你来说赚钱可能并不是轻松有趣的事，更多的是一场斗争。因为那是你的钱宫。我感觉你的钱一直没有流动。所以注意下接下来可能会有很大的变化。
Lily: Exactly! What I actually feel that because I've just registered this business in Europe and then I used to have all my money in China and then now they change policy and then China's becoming really difficult. And then yeah, you are right. My money wasn't flowing. But I do feel like ever since I registered this business and I'm thinking about expanding my morning club, my coaching business, and I have this new product I'm going to launch soon. So I'm just really, really excited and I feel like there's so many different opportunities. And now I'm doing this new podcast series, introducing my friends and then talking about really positive stuff. 真的耶！我的真实感受是，因为我刚刚在欧洲注册了这家公司，我之前是把所有的钱都放在中国，然后现在他们改变了政策，然后我在中国赚钱变得非常困难。然后是的，你是对的。我的钱并没有流动。但我确实觉得，自从我注册了这家公司，我就在考虑扩大我的早起具乐部、我的教练业务，而且我很快就会推出一款新产品。所以我真的非常非常兴奋，我觉得有很多不同的机会。现在我正在做这个新的播客系列，介绍我的朋友，然后谈论非常积极的东西。
Bella: That’s really exciting. Oh my god, I see that. Yeah. So by March things are gonna start flowing a lot better. And then by May you're gonna have chance for love and romance. But it's like, it's not jus

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If you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans. 如果你想要让老天爷笑，你就告诉他你的计划。
Everything will be alright in the end. If it’s not alright; it’s not the end. 事情最终都会好的。如果不好，代表还不是终点。
God doesn’t give us what we want; he gives us what we need. 老天爷不会给我们要的；他给我们需要的。
（English Interview from 9:23）
What about love??? Lily2023年的爱情运势呢？
Bella: That sounds like it makes sense. See what's going on currently with the planets. Oh, there'll be plenty of opportunities for love for you. Plenty. But they might not come right away, to be honest. You might have to wait a little bit. Let's see, you might have to wait a little bit. I think now you're really focused on, so when Capricorn season starts, you are gonna be shining. You're gonna be the best version of yourself. You're gonna be glowing because all the planets are moving into your first house of self. You're gonna have Venus there. So you're gonna look more beautiful. You're gonna be more radiant than ever. People are gonna be drawn to you. So this could be a good time for flirtation, for putting yourself out there for having fun. People will be very drawn to you and magnetized to you. So it could be a good thing.
这听起来很有道理。查看行星当前正在发生的事情。哦，你会有很多爱的机会。很多。但老实说，他们可能不会马上来。 你可能需要稍等片刻。让我们看看，你可能需要稍等片刻。我想现在你真的很专注，所以当摩羯座季节开始时，你会发光。 你会成为最好的自己。 你会发光，因为所有的行星都在进入你的第一宫。 你会在那里有金星守护。 所以你会看起来更漂亮。你会比以往任何时候都更加容光焕发。人们会被你吸引。因此，这可能是调情的好时机，让自己尽情享受乐趣。 人们会被你深深吸引。 所以这可能是一件好事。
But I would say that now you are gonna be focused on your business, very much so. You may have had… you may have felt like money wasn't flowing as easily as maybe you would want it to, or maybe as easily as it was in a pastime that's gonna change next year because you had something blocking your money house, which was kind of frustrating for you. So maybe you weren't getting cash flow as easily. But once this Saturn leaves your house of wealth, you're gonna start to see more abundance in your life, more success. You're gonna also wanna be thinking about putting down roots somewhere. Do you think that you're gonna keep traveling for a while? Or are you focusing on maybe staying in one place?
但我要说的是，现在你将专注于你的事业。你可能有过这样的经历，你可能觉得钱不像你希望的那样容易流动，或者可能像过去一样容易流动，明年（2023年）会改变，因为你有一些东西阻碍了你的金钱宫，这让你有点沮丧。所以也许你没有那么容易地获得现金流。但是一旦土星离开你的财富宫，你就会开始看到你的生活更加丰富，更加成功。你也会想在某个地方扎根。 你认为你会继续旅行一段时间吗？ 还是你专注于待在一个地方？
Lily: I’m going to travel. Yeah. Oh, I have listed all the countries that I want to travel next year already.我要去旅行。 是的。 哦，我已经把明年想去的国家都列出来了。
Bella: Really? Oh, what are they? 真的吗？是哪些呢？
Lily: Five, six countries in Asia. So I'm leaving Guatemala before Christmas. So I'm going back to Iceland for a couple days, hanging out with my friends, celebrating Christmas. And then I will go to Japan. And from Japan, three months in Japan, probably one or two months in Korea. I want to move do

"When you know yourself you are empowered. When you accept yourself you are invincible.”
当你认识自己你就变得有力量了。当你接受自己你就无敌了！
Lily’s birth Chart
Lily: so you have something for me, right? 你有东西要给我对不对？
Bella: I do. I actually pulled up your birth chart. Yay. Because I wanted to know more about you now, what a birth chart is. It is a map of the stars and the planets on in the moment that you took your first breath on this planet on earth. So it's showing where the planets were exactly in that moment with the time, the date, the location, everything. And this birth chart can tell you a lot about who you are as a person. And as you know, you are a Sagittarius Sun. You were born during Sagittarius season when the sun was in that sign. But what's really interesting about it is we have three zodiac signs that really define who we are, which are called our big three, which is the sun, the moon, and the rising. So the moon, where the moon was on that particular day also gives you insight on who you are as a person. Now your moon was in Capricorn on the day you were born, and based on the time you were born, your rising sign is also Capricorn. So have you ever felt like you were not a full Sagittarius?
对的。 事实上我调出了你的出生图。 因为我现在想更多地了解你。出生图是什么？它是您在地球上的这个星球上第一次呼吸时的恒星和行星地图。 所以它显示了行星在那个时刻的确切位置以及时间、日期、位置和所有内容。 这个出生图可以告诉你很多关于你是谁的信息。 就所知，您是射手座太阳。 您出生在射手座季节，当时太阳在射手座。 但真正有趣的是，我们有三个真正定义我们是谁的星座，它们被称为我们的三大星座，即太阳、月亮和上升。 所以月亮，那个特定日子的月亮也让你洞察到你是谁。 现在你出生那天月亮在摩羯座，根据你出生的时间，你的上升星座也是摩羯座。 那么你有没有觉得自己不是十足的射手座呢？
Lily: Yes, exactly. I know I have a lot of Capricorns in my life. 是的，我知道在我的生命里（星盘）有很多的摩羯座。
Bella: You have a lot of planets in Capricorn, which is great because that's Capricorn is an earth sign. And that makes you super grounded, super practical, super ambitious. Someone who's going to go after the thing that they want. Ok. So you have an advantage, , you have an advantage. And it's interesting though, because Sagittarius is one of the most optimistic signs. But Capricorn on the other hand is more of a pessimist, . So you could go both ways, , but that's good because it's like you're not too overly positive and optimistic. Your Capricorn energy comes in and puts things in check. So you're very grounded. Capricorn is a self-starter. They're all about starting new things, new ideas, projects, putting things into action. So it's very interesting how your Sagittarius sun with a Capricorn rising and moon and your rising sign is also how you look. And the thing about Capricorn risings, they get hotter and hotter as they age. They look better and better. , I actually made a video about that, about Capricorn Risings, they’re the ones who are gonna be flirting by the time they're gonna reach their prime when they're in their eighties , they're gonna be flirting with everyone at the
你有很多的行星落在摩羯座，这很好，因为摩羯座是土象星座。 这让你超级脚踏实地，超级实用，超级雄心勃勃。 会去追求他们想要的东西的人。  所以你有优势，你有优势。 不过这很有趣，因为射手座是最乐观的星座之一。 但另一方面，摩羯座更像是一个悲观主义者。 所以你可以两全其美，但这很好，因为你似乎并不过分积极和乐观。 你的摩羯座能量进来并控制一切。 所以你很接地气。 摩