Mental Selling: The Sales Performance Podcast

Mental Selling
Mental Selling: The Sales Performance Podcast

Mental Selling: The Sales Performance Podcast is a show for motivated problem solvers in sales, leadership and customer service. Each episode features a conversation with sales leaders and industry experts who understand the importance of the mindset and skill set needed to be exceptional at building trusted customer relationships. In this podcast, we get below the surface, tapping into the emotional and psychological drivers of lasting sales and service success. You’ll hear stories and insights about overcoming the self-limiting beliefs that hold salespeople back, how to unlock the full potential in every salesperson, the complexities of today’s B2B buying cycles, and the rise of today’s virtual selling environment. We help you understand the mental and emotional aspects of sales performance that will empower you to deliver amazing customer experiences and get the results you want. Welcome to Mental Selling!

  1. 15 HR. AGO

    Ep 099 The Best of Mental Selling in 2024

    Sales is more than just closing deals. It’s about the journey, the connections made, and the lessons learned along the way. In this special year-end episode, host Will Milano looks back at the most impactful conversations of 2024 on Mental Selling, highlighting the episodes and ideas that shaped a year of growth and discovery. From uncovering the power of purpose-driven selling to navigating workplace conflict and fostering authentic relationships, this reflection brings together the strategies and stories that have resonated with sales professionals everywhere. Will revisits the key takeaways from guests who brought fresh perspectives to the art of selling and shares what these insights mean for the future of sales. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. How to build trust through authentic communication: Active listening and showing genuine care in every interaction lay the groundwork for trust and credibility with clients and colleagues. 2. Strategies for embracing conflict: Healthy conflict with clients or coworkers can lead to better solutions, stronger relationships, and a reputation for integrity. 3. Using confidence to fuel success: Confidence isn’t just about what you sell—it’s about knowing your value as a salesperson and creating meaningful connections through authentic selling. 4. Mastering the art of proactive engagement: Engaging early in the buyer’s journey helps you frame problems and position yourself as a trusted advisor, creating more predictable and successful outcomes. Resources: Listen to Sell: How Your Mindset, Skillset, and Human Connections Unlock Sales Performance: www.listentosellbook.com Learn more about Integrity Solutions: www.integritysolutions.com/ Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Introduction (01:02) The core themes of 2024 (03:37) Lisa Earle McLeod on purpose-driven selling (05:25) William Vanderbloemen discusses habits of standout sellers (07:36) Meshell R Baker on confidence and value-first selling (09:58) Liane Davey on effective conflict resolution in sales (12:06) Matt Heinz shares strategies for engaging modern buyers (14:13) Allison Shapira on using authenticity to build trust in sales (15:56) Closing reflections and looking ahead to 2025 For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at www.integritysolutions.com/

    17 min
  2. DEC 11

    Ep 098 Taking Control of Your Success in Sales

    Sales is an unpredictable profession, but success comes from focusing on what you can control. In this episode, Elizabeth Lotardo, VP of Client Services at McLeod & More, Inc., shares insights from her latest book, Leading Yourself. She provides a guide for how sales professionals can navigate ambitious targets, manage challenging workplace dynamics, and handle imperfect bosses. Elizabeth also explains how sellers can take charge of their careers by demonstrating initiative and intentionality about professional development. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. How to lead yourself to success — Find meaning in your role through self-leadership and build momentum in your sales career. 2. Mindset shifts that help you show up as your best self — Instead of worrying about lofty sales goals, focus your attention on actionable behaviors that can help you succeed. 3. Strategies for dealing with difficult managers — Learn to create a proactive relationship that fosters trust and autonomy with your managers. Resources: Elizabeth Lotardo’s LinkedIn: ww.linkedin.com/in/elizabethlotardo/ Leading Yourself: Find More Joy, Meaning, and Opportunities in the Job You Already Have: www.elizabethlotardo.com/writing Learn more about McLeod & More, Inc.: www.mcleodandmore.com/ Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Meet Elizabeth Lotardo (02:22) The four qualities of self leaders (06:07) Managing ambitious sales quotas (09:45) How to build trust with micromanagers (11:07) Overcoming fear and anxiety in sales (15:48) The disagree and commit framework (17:59) Plan your own career trajectory (21:23) Taking ownership of your professional development (29:14) Employee engagement vs retention For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at www.integritysolutions.com/

    34 min
  3. NOV 28

    Ep 097 Proven Methods for Building Trust in Sales

    People don’t buy from brands they don’t trust. So how can you build the trust that drives sales? David Horsager, CEO of the Trust Edge Leadership Institute, shares why trust is the ultimate driver of sales success. With insights from his book Trust Matters More Than Ever, David explains the eight pillars of trust and how to build it at every touchpoint. In this episode, you’ll hear how to avoid the common mistakes that break trust and practical tips about genuinely connecting with your team and prospects. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. Trust as a Sales Foundation — Why trust is the core factor in successful sales, influencing everything from client relationships to team dynamics. 2. The Power of Consistency — How small, consistent actions outperform occasional big wins and build lasting credibility with clients. 3. Authenticity Over Perfection — Why being genuine in your sales interactions creates stronger, trust-based connections with prospects. Resources: David Horsager’’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dhorsager/ Trust Edge Leadership Institute: https://trustedge.com/ Trust Matters More than Ever: 40 Proven Tools to Lead Better, Grow Faster & Build Trust Now!: https://davidhorsager.com/books/ Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Meet David Horsager (02:01) Sales is always about trust (06:56) People trust clear messaging (11:00) Remove distractions to connect with prospects (13:10) The 8 pillars of trust (15:36) How to demonstrate integrity and good character (19:32) How to repair trust when it’s been broken (23:48) Building trust within your team For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at www.integritysolutions.com/

    29 min
  4. NOV 14

    Ep 096 Building Your Personal Brand in Sales

    LinkedIn has evolved beyond being just a digital resume for job hunting. It’s now a powerful tool for building your personal brand. Natasha Walstra, Founder and CEO of NearPoint Strategies, shares how sales professionals can leverage online platforms to build trust, connect with prospects, and increase sales. She shares her own journey, from struggling as an introverted salesperson to becoming a credible thought leader in her industry by building a strong online presence. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. Beyond Surface-Level Personalization — Why superficial outreach in sales just doesn't cut it, and how deeper personalization can help you connect better with prospects. 2. Mastering LinkedIn Consistency — The essential role of LinkedIn in building your personal brand, and how consistency is key to doing that. 3. Embracing Empathy and Integrity in Sales — How understanding your prospects helps build long-lasting relationships and trust. Resources: Natasha Walstra’s LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ndwalstra/ NearPoint Strategies: www.nearpointstrategies.com/ Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Introduction to the Mental Selling podcast with host Will Milano and guest Natasha Walstra (01:55) Natasha's journey into sales (06:37) Benefits of being an introvert in sales (08:22) How to create your personal brand (12:58) Authentic selling and thought leadership (16:16) Building credibility through a strong online presence (23:23) Mistakes salespeople make when using LinkedIn (29:11) The importance of empathy and integrity in sales For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at www.integritysolutions.com/

    34 min
  5. OCT 31

    Ep 095 How Sellers Can Stay Relevant in the Digital Age

    How can sellers stay relevant in this digital age? Shama Hyder, Founder and CEO of Zen Media, shares the behaviors of modern buyers and how sellers can adapt. Since 95% of potential clients aren’t actively ready to buy, staying top-of-mind is more important than ever. Shama shares strategies for building a personal brand and fostering trust through consistent, value-driven engagement. Sellers might be tempted to use tactics that offer quick wins, but Shama believes every effort should focus on building long-term relationships in today’s buyer-driven market. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. The Modern Buyer Journey — How buyer behavior has drastically changed in the digital age and how buyers conduct extensive research before ever engaging with sales. 2. Branding and Trust Over Sales Pitches — These are crucial in modern sales because consumers value credibility over mere product features. 3. Sales and Marketing Synergy — While marketing focuses on long-term buyer education, sales should efficiently handle the final stages of the buying journey. Resources: Shama Hyder’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shamahyder/ Shama Hyder’s X: https://x.com/Shama Zen Media: https://zenmedia.com/ Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Introduction to the Mental Selling podcast with host Will Milano and guest Shama Hyder (03:23) Nurture customer relationships early (07:32) The 95-5 Rule (11:51) Different motivations for B2B and B2C buyers (15:27) Distribution and visibility for sales success (22:12) Misconceptions about sales enablement and ABM (26:44) “Build your brand before you need it” For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at www.integritysolutions.com/

    31 min
  6. OCT 17

    Ep 094 Building High-Performance Sales Teams Through Coaching

    All high-performing sales teams have one thing in common—conflict. When handled thoughtfully, conflict can actually strengthen teams and drive success. Darcy Luoma, CEO of Darcy Luoma Coaching & Consulting, discusses the key elements that set thriving sales teams apart. It’s important to clearly define roles and responsibilities, allowing team members to contribute meaningfully according to their unique expertise. Understanding team dynamics is crucial to achieving this, and that’s where coaching comes into play. Darcy also introduces the Thoughtfully Fit framework, a tool to help salespeople navigate challenges and setbacks with resilience. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. Why Conflict is Key to Success – Learn why thoughtful disagreement is essential for innovation and success. 2. Strategies for Managing Team Dynamics - Find out how assigning team roles based on individual strengths boosts productivity and collaboration. 3. The Role of Coaching in Elevating Sales Teams – Discover how coaching can transform team dynamics and improve results. Resources: Darcy Luoma’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/darcyluoma/ Darcy Luoma Coaching & Consulting: https://darcyluoma.com/ Thoughtfully Fit: Your Training Plan for Life and Business Success: https://www.amazon.com/Thoughtfully-Fit-Training-Business-Success/dp/0785244824 Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Introduction to the Mental Selling podcast with host Will Milano and guest Darcy Luoma (01:12) Characteristics of high-performing sales teams (04:27) Embracing the growth mindset in sales (07:09) The four stages of team development (11:46) The Thoughtfully Fit framework (15:24) Coaching to enhance sales performance (18:53) Training for teamwork (27:16) How to pivot and deal with unexpected challenges For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at www.integritysolutions.com/

    33 min
  7. OCT 3

    Ep 093 Core Sales Skills for the Next Generation of Buyers

    Sales is rapidly changing as younger buyers and larger, more complex buying committees become the norm. In this episode, Matt Heinz, Founder and President of Heinz Marketing, explains how the growing influence of millennial and Gen Z decision-makers is driving sales teams to change their communication styles. Despite these shifts, foundational skills like proactive outreach and early engagement remain essential for sales success, regardless of the target audience. Matt also talks about how crucial it is to respect the buyer’s journey. Instead of forcing people through the sales process, he suggests sellers focus on becoming trusted experts and connectors. By doing this, they can build credibility and trust in their industry. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. Adapting Sales to Younger Buyers – Learn why building authentic, trust-based relationships is now critical to overcoming skepticism from younger buyers. 2. Early Engagement for Long-Term Success – Understand the value of engaging buyers early in their journey to influence the decision-making process. 3. The Importance of Brand in Modern Sales – Explore how strong personal and company branding helps salespeople stay top-of-mind throughout the buyer’s journey. Resources: Matt Heinz’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mattheinz Heinz Marketing: https://www.heinzmarketing.com/ Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Introduction to the Mental Selling podcast with host Will Milano and guest Matt Heinz (01:31) Building trust with skeptical buyers (05:52) The fluidity of the buyer’s journey (07:47) How to leverage the first mover advantage (10:22) Understanding your ideal customer profile (13:15) What is a “poised” prospect? (21:25) The role of buying committees in sales success (24:56) The “double thank you” framework (34:17) The role and value of brand in sales For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at https://www.integritysolutions.com/

    36 min
  8. SEP 19

    Ep 092 What The Future of Sales Holds

    What’s the future of sales? Many say there’s never been a better time to be in Sales. But how is it evolving as a profession, and what will its future hold? Meet Alexine Mudawar, CEO of Women in Sales and a powerhouse in sales leadership and community support. In this episode, Alexine joins host Will Milano to discuss the challenges of enterprise sales and the importance of trust. They discuss the need for a more extensive, well-managed pipeline, critical sales metrics, and strategies for alleviating the mental pressures of the job. Listen to this episode for strategies and a renewed perspective on your sales approach. In this episode, you’ll learn: 1. Why the Traditional Sales Funnel No Longer Fits Every Buyer’s Journey: Hear how the buying process has become increasingly nonlinear, making it crucial for salespeople to focus on adding value at every touch point. 2. The Critical Role of Community Support and Resources for Salespeople: Learn why building a community and utilizing resources can empower salespeople, helping them tackle the pressures of their role. 3. The Increasing Complexity of Enterprise Sales: Learn why enterprise sales isn't for everyone. Resources: Alexine Mudawar’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexine-mudawar/ Women in Sales: https://www.women-in-sales.com/ Jump into the conversation: (00:00) Introduction to the Mental Selling podcast with host Will Milano and guest Alexine Mudawar (05:28) The evolution of the sales profession and adapting to self-service preferences among buyers (14:44) The mental health crisis in sales and the added challenges for women in the profession (22:53) Navigating the challenges of enterprise sales with multiple stakeholders (28:14) Conversations around women in sales (32:51) Handling emotional and mental pressures in sales For more related content and information about improving sales performance, visit us at https://www.integritysolutions.com/.

    38 min
4.8
out of 5
46 Ratings

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Mental Selling: The Sales Performance Podcast is a show for motivated problem solvers in sales, leadership and customer service. Each episode features a conversation with sales leaders and industry experts who understand the importance of the mindset and skill set needed to be exceptional at building trusted customer relationships. In this podcast, we get below the surface, tapping into the emotional and psychological drivers of lasting sales and service success. You’ll hear stories and insights about overcoming the self-limiting beliefs that hold salespeople back, how to unlock the full potential in every salesperson, the complexities of today’s B2B buying cycles, and the rise of today’s virtual selling environment. We help you understand the mental and emotional aspects of sales performance that will empower you to deliver amazing customer experiences and get the results you want. Welcome to Mental Selling!

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