The Labia Lounge

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The juiciest podcast on the internet!Join me, Freya Graf - a Yoni Mapping Therapist & Holistic Sex Coach - in The Labia Lounge to yarn about all things sexuality, womanhood, holistic health and everything in between...your legs! (Couldn‘t help myself!)Buckle up, you‘re about to receive the sex-ed you never had, from the girlfriend you now have, and have a bloody good laugh while you‘re at it!This poddy is full of real chats, with real people, about real shit. So give it a spin if you dare!My intention with The Labia Lounge is to demystify & de-stigmatise; empower & educate; laugh & get vulnerable while helping dismantle the shame around g******s, pleasure, and being a sexual woman through juicy conversations.It‘s a judgement & shame-free space that aims to normalise the aspects of being a human that we often feel alone in or too afraid to talk about, and reassure you that you‘re not broken!So pop ya feet up and let‘s flappin‘ do this!Freya. xxx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 4D AGO

    Reshaping Your Relationship To Porn with Dr Sarah Ashton

    This week in The Labia Lounge I chat with founder of SHIPS (Sexual Health and Intimacy Psychological Services) and the Institute of Sexual Health Psychology Australia (ISHPA), Sarah Ashton. Dr Sarah Ashton is a sexual health psychologist and author with over 18 years’ experience working in trauma-informed sexual health, attachment, and complex sexual issues, so she's the perfect person to break down the topic of this episode with! The topic being PORN. We discuss porn’s potential for both positive self-discovery as well as its more challenging effects, tackling questions around porn addiction, “problematic use,” how it changes our brains, and why it’s so difficult to moderate in the age of smartphones and algorithm-driven content. The conversation also accounts for neurodivergent experiences and the societal forces that make porn so accessible, addictive and insidious. Key topics covered: Sarah's PhD research into young women's experiences with porn, including the impact on self-image, pleasure, and consent.Indicators of problematic porn use and why so many people (neurodiverse or not) find it a slippery slope.Porn's unique power due to anonymity, unlimited access, algorithmic escalation, and cultural shame around sexuality.The neurological impact of habitual porn use—how it rewires our arousal blueprint, hijacks pair bonding, and affects dopamine pathways.Hopeful strategies for re-establishing a healthier, more intentional relationship with porn, including embodied self-pleasure, imagination, and practical tools for “detoxing” and recalibrating.How societal norms and gender roles are shaped (and sometimes amplified or warped) by porn, especially for young people just starting to explore their sexuality.Support resources: a self-guided course on reclaiming your relationship with porn (with a discount code for listeners!), and Sarah's upcoming book, "When Trauma Affects Sex." If you’ve ever struggled with your relationship to porn or wondered how it truly affects your mind, body, and relationships, this episode brings compassion, evidence, and practical tools to help you navigate this stuff. You’re definitely not alone—and, as Sarah reminds us in this episode, recovery and empowerment are possible! Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge! sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 16m
  2. 5D AGO · BONUS

    Coming Out, Cucking and Sex Tapes - part 5 of Chats with Dan

    In this fifth installment of my mini-series with our sex-positive guest, Dan, we talk about his coming out story, puberty, kinks, porn, queer explorations, sugar daddies, and more. Dan shares the complex emotional process of coming out as a teenager, from navigating difficult parental reactions, household dynamics, and his first gay relationship—including the infamous hickey incident. You’ll hear how his family moved from confusion and discomfort to acceptance and genuine allyship, plus loads of fun little anecdotes that come out in conversation as we go - cos he just can't help himself and is a genuine goldmine of epic TMI stories! Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    30 min
  3. MAR 1

    Understanding The Vagina-Gut Connection to Heal Recurrent Vaginal Infections & Dysbiosis with The Yoni Nutritionist

    This week in The Labia Lounge I welcome the incredible Adrienne - AKA The Yoni Nutritionist - back on the pod! As a certified holistic nutritionist, women's health coach, and sexual health educator, Adrienne is renowned for her empowering work around vaginal and sexual health, with a particular focus on gut health, nutrition, and the emotional impact of chronic vaginal conditions. This episode dives deep into: The emotional, social, and physical impact of recurring vaginal infections.Myths and truths about vaginal infections: from thrush and BV to herpes, HPV, and UTIs.The crucial gut-vagina connection and how gut health shapes your vaginal microbiome.Root causes of infection recurrence — immune suppression, hormone imbalance, diet, antibiotics, stress, and more.Why quick fixes often fail, and the power of a holistic approach.Tips, common mistakes, and practical food swaps for vulva-owners facing recurrent infections.The stigma, shame, gendered burdens, and the journey to self-empowerment and body literacy. Adrienne also shares her personal journey, recent experiences, and offers tons of validation for anyone feeling isolated in their struggles. Key Topics & TakeawaysWhy Women Bear the Brunt: Anatomy, social conditioning, and medical system biases put more pressure and stigma on vagina-owners to self-manage infections and disclose them.The Emotional Toll: Recurring infections can be demoralising and isolating, often leading to shame, anxiety, and self-doubt.Gut-Vagina Connection: Chronic infections often signal deeper gut imbalances, unresolved trauma, stress, or dietary factors—not "dirtiness" or personal failure.Root Causes:Immune suppressionNervous system dysregulationBlood sugar and hormone imbalancesGut dysbiosis, inflammation, and dietary patternsAntibiotics & "The Rebound Effect": Why symptoms return after antibiotics, the role of biofilms, and the importance of healing both the root cause and aftercare.What Science and Doctors Miss: Many gynos still downplay the impact of diet and gut health—an outdated and harmful approach.What to Avoid & What to Embrace: The biggest culprits—sugar, gluten, dairy, processed/fake foods, and poor fats. Fill your plate with whole foods, quality proteins, fat and fiber.Healing is Possible: we both share our personal stories of overcoming chronic infections and regaining food freedom.Don’t Go It Alone: The value of guidance, support, and individualized plans—especially for those navigating information overwhelm and emotional eating triggers.BV & Herpes Connection: How BV and genital herpes often go hand-in-hand due to immune and microbiome shifts. Why it's not your fault and what you can do. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge! sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 11m
  4. FEB 28 · BONUS

    Masturbating With Food and Sex-ed Fails - Part 4 of Chats with Dan

    In this special bonus episode, I continue my mini-series with my dear friend Dan — bringing you the fourth installment of our hilarious, candid, and totally TMI conversation. If you’re just tuning in, this ongoing series is sprinkled between regular episodes, offering bite-sized chunks packed with sex-positivity and hilariously entertaining stories and musings. Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    41 min
  5. FEB 21 · BONUS

    Glory Holes, Piss Gremlins and Melbourne's Infamous Fake Seizure Guy with Dan

    This week in The Labia Lounge I've got part 3 of my candid mini-series with my delightfully sex-positive friend Dan. If you haven’t caught the first two parts yet, don't worry—you’ll still enjoy this episode, though you might want to check out the earlier conversations for the full ride. True to form, we deliver another informal, hilarious, and revealing chat, touching on everything from wild school camp stories (including the infamous “homo work” email) to creative DIY glory hole setups, erotic adventures, and fascinating tales from Melbourne’s underground scene—including the fake seizure guy! Please leave a comment or review if you're into these episodes. Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    37 min
  6. FEB 15

    The Missing Link: Fascia’s Role in Hormones, Libido & Reproductive Health with Founder of Block Therapy, Deanna Hansen

    This week in The Labia Lounge we dive deep into the world of fascia, fascia decompression, and how these integral tissues affect our physical, emotional, and even sexual health. I welcome pioneer and Block Therapy founder Deanna Hansen onto the couch to discuss her journey, the science of fascia, and practical steps to unlock pain, trauma, and stagnation in the body. Key topics include why modern life is working against our bodies, how posture, trauma, and beauty standards impact pelvic health, and what you can do to restore alignment and vitality. Expect holistic wisdom, relatable personal stories, and actionable tools for self-healing. Key Highlights: Deanna's personal healing journey that led her to create Block Therapy and the importance of healthy fascia.What fascia actually is and why it’s so vital for not only posture and pain but also for blood flow, hormones, and pleasure.How modern lifestyle habits (like sitting, phone use, high heels/most shoes, and sucking in our bellies) are negatively impacting posture, pain, and sexual function.The link between fascia health, pelvic floor function, and pleasure—plus why blood flow is the unsung hero of sexual health.The overlooked importance of foot health and its effect on pelvic alignment and sexual vitality.Releasing adhesions and scar tissue:Deanna explains the difference between surface-level “fascia release” and true “fascia decompression” (as practiced in Block Therapy).Real-life transformation stories, including healing from trauma, injury recovery, improved libido, and more.Emotional and energetic healing: how trauma and anxiety are stored (and can be released) through the fascia with proper breath and decompression practices.Simple, at-home starter tips—including foot and pelvic floor exercises using household items like rolled towels. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge! Check out Deanna's work and Block Therapy here: www.blocktherapy.com https://www.youtube.com/@Fluidisometrics https://www.instagram.com/blocktherapy/ Begin supporting your fascia health today with this comprehensive 9-Part instructional video series. $9 ($47 value) https://blocktherapy.com/sampler-program/ Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 17m
  7. FEB 8

    The Bedroom Gap: Why Women’s Sexual & Relational Satisfaction Still Gets Left Behind with Dr. Maria Sophocles

    In this juicy episode of The Labia Lounge I chat with Dr. Maria Sophocles—a pioneer in women's healthcare, menopause management, and female sexual health—for a deep dive into the "bedroom gap," gender equality, and how societal, historical, and medical factors impact sex and intimacy. Dr. Maria coined the term "bedroom gap," now recognized by Oprah and taught in psychology classes, to describe the wide-ranging sexual discrepancies in relationships—including differences in expectations, abilities, satisfaction, and the impact of history and culture. Her new book, The Bedroom Gap, explores these issues and offers actionable advice to help women reclaim agency over their pleasure. Some of the Topics we Covered:The Bedroom Gap: What it means, why it’s more than just the "orgasm gap," and its roots in history, culture, and health care.Origins & Recognition: How the term gained traction and is now influencing psychology education.Women’s Sexual Agency: Empowerment, shame, and overcoming scripts focused on male pleasure.Healthcare System Disparities: How medications like Viagra shifted sexual norms and left women behind, and the slow fight for parity in sexual health treatments.Impact of Poor Sex Education: Funny and sad patient anecdotes highlight how misinformation and shame keep women from pleasure.Intimacy After Illness or Aging: Navigating sex when bodies and health change, including disability, menopause, and chronic conditions.Communication in Relationships: The importance of talking about sex, what blocks most couples, and tools for opening up.Redefining Sex: Moving beyond penetrative sex as the main event and exploring pleasure in many forms. Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge! Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! Follow maria's work and order her new book here: Official Website: mariasophoclesmd.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mariasophoclesmd/ Ted Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/maria_sophocles_what_happens_to_sex_in_midlife_a_look_at_the_bedroom_gap Book: https://www.amazon.com/Bedroom-Gap-Rewrite-Rules-Roles/dp/0306837404 *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 7m
  8. FEB 7 · BONUS

    Early Puberty, Sugar Babying, & Abraham Lincoln Pubes with Dan

    In this second installment of my little series with my mate Dan, we chat about how he went through early puberty at the age of 8, got teased about his pubes, tried his hand at being a sugar baby, and had a shady surprise at an air BnB with his partner. Among other hilarious stories! Make sure you're subscribed for more LL action, and it'd absolutely warm my heart and tickle my c**t if you'd leave a gushing review or five star rating for the poddy! *** Join my Labia Lounge Facebook group for extra content, Q & As, freebies from my guests, discounts and to be part of a rad and supportive community of labial legends! www.facebook.com/groups/thelabialounge/ Get my FREE mini-course P*ssy Pleasure Secrets - Your Roadmap to Bedroom Bliss here: https://freya-graf.xperiencify.io/expiring-mini-course/order/ Grab a P*ssy Magnet and check out the new Labia Lounge MERCH over here (there's even fanny packs if the standard tote bags and tees ain't cuttin' it for ya!): https://www.freyagraf.com/productsonline-trainings And chuck me a follow here: https://www.instagram.com/freyagraf_thelabialounge/ AND here: (my backup account cos I keep offending the Algorithms-that-be) https://www.instagram.com/freya.graf/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freyagraf?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc And on my YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@freyagraf_thelabialounge Or support me and the poddy by buying me an extra hot soy chai latte (yes, that is my coffee order cos I'm a bit of a tosser like that) here: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/freyagraf Or at my Patreon here: https://patreon.com/freyagraf?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    37 min
5
out of 5
21 Ratings

About

The juiciest podcast on the internet!Join me, Freya Graf - a Yoni Mapping Therapist & Holistic Sex Coach - in The Labia Lounge to yarn about all things sexuality, womanhood, holistic health and everything in between...your legs! (Couldn‘t help myself!)Buckle up, you‘re about to receive the sex-ed you never had, from the girlfriend you now have, and have a bloody good laugh while you‘re at it!This poddy is full of real chats, with real people, about real shit. So give it a spin if you dare!My intention with The Labia Lounge is to demystify & de-stigmatise; empower & educate; laugh & get vulnerable while helping dismantle the shame around g******s, pleasure, and being a sexual woman through juicy conversations.It‘s a judgement & shame-free space that aims to normalise the aspects of being a human that we often feel alone in or too afraid to talk about, and reassure you that you‘re not broken!So pop ya feet up and let‘s flappin‘ do this!Freya. xxx Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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