61 episodes

The At Peace Parents Podcast is your source for all things related to understanding, supporting, accommodating, and advocating for your demand avoidant or PDA child. It will completely transform the way you think about your PDA child's brain, behavior, and parenting, and support you in finding your path to more peace and stability in the home. For more information see www.atpeaceparents.com

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    • Kids & Family
    • 4.9 • 251 Ratings

The At Peace Parents Podcast is your source for all things related to understanding, supporting, accommodating, and advocating for your demand avoidant or PDA child. It will completely transform the way you think about your PDA child's brain, behavior, and parenting, and support you in finding your path to more peace and stability in the home. For more information see www.atpeaceparents.com

    Ep. 61 - Kendahl Damashek: Expert Coach for Parents of 2E PDAers

    Ep. 61 - Kendahl Damashek: Expert Coach for Parents of 2E PDAers

    In this episode I talk with At Peace Parents coach Kendahl Damashek about parenting twice exceptional children - who are both gifted and PDA. Kendahl shares her personal experience being 2E and raising 2E children.
    You can learn more about her and her coaching services at https://www.atpeaceparents.com/kendahl-private-coaching-1
    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.
    You can also connect with me on:
    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents
    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents
    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents
    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com
    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.
    xoxo,
    Casey

    • 56 min
    Ep. 60 - Polyvagal Theory and Parenting a PDA Child or Teen

    Ep. 60 - Polyvagal Theory and Parenting a PDA Child or Teen

    In this episode I share how Polyvagal Theory - cutting edge understanding of how the human nervous system works - can help us parent our PDA children and teens. Specifically, I look at how it helps us answer the following paradoxical questions:
    1 - Why do things seem to get worse after I dive in on accommodating?
    2 - How can my child turn their responses on or off if the behaviors truly aren't under their conscious control?
    3 - Similarly, how can equalizing be social in nature if not under their control?
    4 - Why, after making so much progress with my PDA child, do I personally feel so awful in my own nervous system?
    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.
    You can also connect with me on:
    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents
    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents
    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents
    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com
    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.
    xoxo,
    Casey

    • 30 min
    Ep. 59 - Angry and Exhausted from Advocating for Your PDA Child? These ideas can help.

    Ep. 59 - Angry and Exhausted from Advocating for Your PDA Child? These ideas can help.

    In this episode I share the lessons I learned THE HARD WAY about advocating for my PDA son. Because you are truly not alone if you're feeling angry and exhausted after trying to convince teachers, doctors, therapists, grandparents, even spouses what your child needs and why - I've worked with hundreds of families who have gone through this.
    I share these lessons in the hope that it will short cut the process for you, so you can preserve some of your limited energy.
    Interested in the two books I mention - Non-Violent Communication and Boundary Boss. You can find links to both on our resources page, and if you buy through those links a commission will go towards our scholarship program. www.atpeaceparents.com/resources
    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.
    You can also connect with me on:
    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents
    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents
    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents
    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com
    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.
    xoxo,
    Casey

    • 33 min
    Ep. 58 - How Polyvagal Theory Explains Masking in PDA Children

    Ep. 58 - How Polyvagal Theory Explains Masking in PDA Children

    Parents often ask me how their three-year-old PDA child could possibly be masking before they've even started preschsool and seen much of how other kids behave. It's a great question, and one I asked many times as well.
    In this episode I dig into the answer, according to Polyvagal Theory.
    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.
    You can also connect with me on:
    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents
    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents
    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents
    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com
    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.
    xoxo,
    Casey

    • 28 min
    Ep. 57 - Conversation with Dr. Alex Klein, Clinical Psychologist

    Ep. 57 - Conversation with Dr. Alex Klein, Clinical Psychologist

    In this episode Dr. Alex Klein and I answer questions that families submitted. If you'd like to submit a question for one of our future conversations, here is where you can do so: https://www.atpeaceparents.com/submit-question-klein-ehrlich
    Here's some of the questions we took on for this episode:
    How do you know if the behavior you are observing as a parent is from ADHD or PDA? What are the differences and similarities?Why are psychologists so resistant to recognizing PDA? (Asked as “What is wrong with Psychologists that they can’t see this as a neurotype!?!” 😊)Are psychologists helpful at all if they aren’t PDA themselves? Is it even worth trying to find a psychologist?What do you do if ABA is recommended by a doctor, but intuitively you don't think it is the right fit? 
    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.
    You can also connect with me on:
    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents
    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents
    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents
    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com
    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.
    xoxo,
    Casey

    • 46 min
    Ep. 56 - PDA Children Avoiding Writing and Drawing

    Ep. 56 - PDA Children Avoiding Writing and Drawing

    Does your child refuses to write or draw? In this episode I share my story of my son's avoidance of both and how supporting his nervous with PDA accommodations enabled him to come back to them over time.
    The story also illustrates the general logic of supporting a child through and out of burnout.
    To learn more about and figure out if your child or teen is PDA, you can take my FREE Clarity Masterclass at www.atpeaceparents.com.
    You can also connect with me on:
    Instagram - www.instagram/atpeaceparents
    TikTok - www.tiktok.com/@atpeaceparents
    Facebook - www.facebook.com/atpeaceparents
    YouTube - www.youtube.com/@atpeaceparents
    And information on my Courses, Programs, and Coaching is at my At Peace Parents website, www.atpeaceparents.com
    Thanks for listening! You are an amazing parent.
    xoxo,
    Casey

    • 20 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
251 Ratings

251 Ratings

kensler316 ,

Life changing

When I heard Casey talking about PDA finally felt seen and validated. Her honesty is appreciated. This is a place where you feel you won’t be judged. I have been learning about autism and 2e but there was always a piece missing, it was PDA. Learning about equalizing has been life changing. Desde el fondo de mi corazón mil gracias.

PDA grams ,

Amazing mentorship!

Casey is an inspiring mentor in the PDA parenting community. Having raised two PDA children without the knowledge, experience and wisdom Casey brings, I can guarantee that implementing her strategies will cause a “shift” in your lives. Even in the lives of adult children.

Monalisasmile607 ,

Journey Roadmap

My family has been on a journey since my son was born almost 10 years ago. With each new diagnosis we’d find ourselves pivoting, finding some suggestions that seemed to help but often didn’t seem to fit our unique kid. Finally my searching lead me to the @Peace Parents podcast and I’ve had more aha! moments in the few episodes I’ve already consumed than in the past 10 years bouncing from one diagnosis to the next. I finally feel like this is the right path, these are the correct answers and someone finally handed me a roadmap that makes sense. While the journey as it’s been laid out is daunting, at least I am finally starting to feel confident that we will arrive together as a family. Thank you.

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