The Weekly Hot Spot Cock Radio

Today’s episode is inspired by several pets who acted surprised to hear that Mistress Olivia likes pain play and rough kink. 

It starts with this quote from one submissive:
“You are just such a nice person. And you have a sweet natural demeanor. Even though you can turn into a firm Domme in the blink of an eye, I didn’t think pain play was a fun thing for you.”

Both ladies talk about being a Femdom and a sensual sadist.  

You’ll hear answers to these questions from another treasured pet and listener who wants to hear more about sadism and masochism. Michael asks:
How common is it for a sensual dom to also have a little bit of a sadistic streak?
and
Is it typical for this to be a frequent activity in a loving and nurturing relationship? 

Topics include:
Sharing experiences with the S/m part of BDSM
Various expectation of a Mistress
How do you know you’re correct about your assumptions of her, who she is and what she likes?
How can you tell if a sensual Femdom also enjoys rough kink?
How does consent work with risk aware BDSM and kink?

This is a peek behind the scenes as each Femdom talks about BDSM scenes gone awry when a sub doesn’t obey, how each lady feels when that happens and how it changes her feelings towards the bratty sub. By the end of the episode you'll know that in scene domination is different from the podcast and both ladies love delivering an intense kink session that includes pain play.

Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

What happens when a Dominant Woman decides to feminize a submissive?
Sometimes the subby is coerced into sissy training, maybe even before realizing what’s going on and then it’s really too late because full on sissy training is underway.

How does a Femdom Mistress train a sissy submissive?
Listen to feminization Mistresses talking about how they do coerced feminization, sissy training and use a combination of praise, punishment, pain and pleasure to ensure the creation of the best sissy!

This episode is inspired by comments from various listeners. And, while the ladies start off talking about sissification and coerced feminization - much of the conversation about using pain and punishment on a submissive applies to crossdressers and transwomen who are submissive but might not be sissies.

The role of discipline to enforce who is in charge is always a favorite topic and an opportunity to talk about the paradox of BDSM where pain is pleasure.



Mistress Olivia's blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika's blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

The conversation starts out with the enduring fascination with “bad girls” - the women who are non-traditional, often sex workers or women that claim their social and/or sexual autonomy. 

Jane talks about the role of sex and sex workers in shaping the culture … especially in terms of fetish wear going mainstream with leather and latex being featured in couture lines. Fashion is never “only” about covering the body. 

The ladies all talk about how their personal and professional experiences with kink have changed them.

Conversation includes:
** the Paradox of BDSM: pain is pleasure, bondage is freedom, etc.
** dominant or powerful women who tend to have a thirst for knowledge and want to grow as people
** the very particular skills of a Pro Domme, whether as an in person Dominatrix or Distance Domination (and phone sex).
** the relationship between submissive and Dominant
** consent
 ** merging the personal and professional in erotic spaces
** the role of money - in society, in relationships, as a symbol of power
** and so much more.

This episode uses quotes from the BDSM book, Edge Play to explore the nuances of culture, societal roles, and more. 

Edge Play by Jane Boonhttps://www.janeboon.com/
Twitter:  @JaneEBoon

Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

This is called the Sissy Pageant because it’s a short title but the hosts want you to know that the Pageant is open to anyone interested in feminization and femme style: crossdressers, transwomen, pantybois, and, of course, sissies!

Goddess Skylar is today’s guest because she’s the one that sort of resurrected the Sissy Pageant.

The ladies go over the Sissy Pageant rules and details.
The short version is: submit 3 photos, answer 4 questions and boom you’re in the running!

 Now, how do you DO all that?

Sissy Pageant details:
** Join EnchantrixEmpire.com if you’re not already a member. EE is our free adult social networking site.
** There is a Sissy Pageant Group in the Enchantrix Empire. Join the group.
** Upload three photos for the competition. (Include your EE name on a paper in the photos).
** After uploading your contestant photos, you’ll get access to the four questions to answer.
** HAVE FUN!

LDW Mistresses will judge the Pageant and pick the top three winners.

The judges will be evaluating for best:
** legs/ass
** sex appeal
** style
** and your answers to four questions about your feminization and/or sissy journey.

In today’s podcast, the ladies will answer the pageant questions so you’ll hear the questions and our answers.

Important dates:

By June 15th:  photos and answers submitted

Friday June 28th at 8pm eastern: Celebration and winner announcements in the chatroom at communitykink.com. 

The celebration is also free and will have lots of Mistresses and general shenanigans. Goddess Skylar will put a link in the chat room that you can click to actually hear the show.

What do the winners get? Free time with the Mistress of your choice!
** 2nd runner up 20 free minutes.
** 1st runner up, 30 free minutes.
** Sissy Pageant Grand Prize winner: 60 free minutes.

There will be lots of fun leading up to the Pageant, community and conversations, the celebration party and then free phone sex with the Mistress of your choice!

Are you ready?  Let’s have some fun!

Enchantrix Empire:  https://enchantrixempire.com/
Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/
Goddess Skylar’s blog: https://yourkinkadvisor.com/

How in the world did a PhD in industrial engineering end up on The Weekly Hot Spot talking about BDSM and the world of Pro Dommes? In addition to professional experience in engineering and journalism, today’s guest, Jane Boon, is the author of Edge Play.

This episode description is actually difficult to write because what do you say about someone who is able to effortlessly blend the worlds of unethical investment banking bro culture and the BDSM learning curve of an accidental Pro Domme?  Both cultures deliver a fantastic ass fucking but only the Femdoms do it after getting consent. Jane jokes that her novel Edge Play is Fifty Shades of Grey meets The Big Short.

Edge Play is a fantastic read – it’s an exciting financial thriller - add in the “learning to be a Dominatrix” element and you have one of the best fiction books ever written about Femdom, kink culture and one element of sex work. 

This novel about an accidental Pro Domme rings true for the Femdom hosts. The conversation explores profound shifts in understanding about men, power, control, what it means to be a woman in an area where men dominate, what it means to be a woman who dominates men and the evolution of a woman who comes into her own power.

Enjoy this fascinating conversation with Jane Boon, a brilliant woman who embraces the motto “more please.”

Get. The. Book. ….. now.

Edge Play by Jane Boonhttps://www.janeboon.com/
Twitter:  @JaneEBoon
Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/
Mistress Erika’s blog:  https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

It’s Masturbation Month and time for the girly girls to celebrate with a sissygasm! 
This episode is inspired by several conversations and emails about this distinct kind of orgasm.

Your Femdom hosts touch on various aspects of this sexy topic, including:
** Why is it called a sissygasm?
** How is a sissygasm different from a male orgasm?
** What to expect with a sissygasm.

Many feminized friends aren’t sure how to have a sissygasm or even if they have experienced one.

Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika have some specific suggestions about:
** How to mentally prepare
** Using chastity as feminization and sissy training
** Suggestions for different positions that are popular for sissygasm success.
** How and where to find you P spot
** What is prostate milking and how does that work with sissy training?

All this an more. Enjoy and tell us about your sissygasms!

Mistress Olivia’s blog:  https://www.experiencedmistress.com/

Mistress Erika’s blog: https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/

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