Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges

Heather Frazier
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Pivot Parenting: Expert Tips for Navigating Teen and Tween Challenges

Welcome to Pivot Parenting, the podcast designed to help you thrive in the ever-changing landscape of raising teens, tweens and young adults. Hosted by Heather Frazier, a triple-certified life coach and mother of four, this show is your go-to resource for expert advice, practical strategies, and compassionate support. Each episode dives deep into the complex world of adolescent development, tackling everything from effective communication and setting boundaries to managing emotional turbulence and fostering independence. Heather draws from her extensive experience to offer insights into the latest parenting trends, research-backed methods, and real-life stories that resonate with parents everywhere. Whether you're struggling with your teen's mood swings, navigating the complexities of social media, or simply looking to strengthen your family bonds, Pivot Parenting provides the tools you need to pivot from frustration and uncertainty to confidence and connection. Our goal is to equip you with the knowledge and skills to not only survive but thrive during these pivotal years. Join us as we explore topics like building trust with your teens, dealing with peer pressure, helping them with mental illness challenges, understanding the teenage brain, and much more. With a focus on empathy and resilience, Heather guides you through the highs and lows of parenting, helping you find peace of mind and joy in the journey. Subscribe now and become part of our community of parents who are dedicated to raising happy, healthy, and well-adjusted young adults. Don't miss out on essential parenting wisdom that will empower you to create a nurturing and supportive home environment. Pivot Parenting—because every moment is an opportunity to grow and connect with your kids when you're confident in your parental abilities.

  1. 250. Trying Not to Damage Your Kids

    1 DAY AGO

    250. Trying Not to Damage Your Kids

    As parents, it’s natural to worry about the impact you’re having on your kids. Thoughts like, “I just don’t want to damage my kids,” or, “My parents messed me up, and I don’t want to repeat that cycle,” are incredibly common. But what does this fear of “damaging” your child actually mean? How does it affect the way we parent, and what can we do to minimize harm while fostering connection and growth? In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the fears and beliefs around parenting “damage.” We’ll explore how these thoughts manifest in everyday parenting decisions, why they might be holding you back, and actionable steps to focus on what your child truly needs instead. Parenting doesn’t have to be perfect—progress, awareness, and intention matter far more. If you’d like personalized support in parenting with more peace and less fear, book a free Peaceful Parenting call HERE to start creating the family dynamic you’ve been striving for.

    21 min
  2. 249. How Much Freedom do Teens Need?

    JAN 7

    249. How Much Freedom do Teens Need?

    Parenting teens can feel like a constant push and pull. They want freedom, you want safety. They crave independence, you crave reassurance they’re ready. So how much freedom do teens actually need—and how do you know if you’re giving too much or too little? In this episode, I break down what’s really happening when teens push for independence and how to guide them without shutting them down. We’ll explore how to build trust, set boundaries that make sense for your family, and equip your teen with the skills they need to make good choices. Spoiler: It’s not about being the “fun” or “strict” parent—it’s about fostering growth and connection. If you’re tired of second-guessing yourself or feeling stuck in battles over freedom, let’s tackle it together. Book a Peaceful Parenting Call today, and let’s create a plan that works for your family. Your peace—and your teen’s future—are worth it.

    32 min
  3. 248. When Your Teen Blames Everyone Else

    12/31/2024

    248. When Your Teen Blames Everyone Else

    Does it feel like your teen has a knack for dodging responsibility? Whether they're blaming siblings, friends, or even you for their mistakes, it can leave you frustrated, concerned, and questioning if they'll ever learn accountability. The blame game can trigger fears about their future, making you wonder if you're raising someone who won't grow into a responsible adult. In this episode, we uncover why teens deflect responsibility and how parents can respond in ways that foster growth and emotional maturity. Learn actionable strategies to teach your teen the value of accountability without nagging, lecturing, or constant conflict. Need personalized support to handle this and other parenting challenges? Schedule a Peaceful Parenting Consult Call and gain the tools to parent with confidence and peace. Let's raise capable, accountable teens together—book your call now.

    28 min
  4. 247. Receiving Joy Amidst Holiday Strife

    12/24/2024

    247. Receiving Joy Amidst Holiday Strife

    The holiday season is meant to bring joy, but for many families, it comes with its fair share of stress, strife, and unmet expectations. In this episode, we tackle the emotional and practical challenges of the season head-on. Discover helpful phrasing for navigating touchy conversations and how the timeless Christmas story can provide profound parenting lessons for modern families. Learn simple yet powerful tools to manage your expectations, reduce stress, and create meaningful, joyful moments—no matter the circumstances. We'll also reveal one top-tier strategy that has the power to transform your holiday experience and help you find joy, even in the most unpredictable of times. If you're ready to make this holiday season your most peaceful and fulfilling one yet, listen in and start creating memories you'll cherish. For more personalized guidance, book your Peaceful Parenting Call today. Joy is waiting—you just have to claim it! About my Guest: Amy Armstrong is a pioneer in the arena of conflict resolution for families, businesses, and schools. She founded of The Center for Family Resolution (CFR) in Columbus, Ohio, and uses coaching to break through entrenched polarization, power imbalances and divisiveness. Her vision expanded to coach education to inspire coaches everywhere to use their coach skills to make a huge impact for Good.  https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachamyarmstrong/   Tik Tok: amyarmstrongconflictfree   IG: amyarmstrong_conflict_free

    29 min
  5. 246. Helping Your Teen With "Mean" Friends

    12/17/2024

    246. Helping Your Teen With "Mean" Friends

    It’s gut-wrenching to watch your teen navigate friendships with kids who gossip, exclude, or treat them with passive-aggressive behavior. You’re heartbroken and frustrated as you wonder why they continue to seek validation and connection from people who hurt them. Why can’t they just walk away? In this episode, we dive into the complex emotions and dynamics behind toxic teenage friendships and how to support your child without overstepping. Learn strategies to help your teen build confidence, recognize their worth, and navigate these challenging relationships while staying true to themselves. If you’ve ever felt powerless watching your teen cling to mean friends, this episode offers the tools and insight you need to guide them toward healthier, more fulfilling connections. Tune in to understand the psychology behind teen friendships and how you can empower your child to make choices that align with their happiness and values. Key Takeaways: Why teens tolerate toxic behavior from friends and how to address it with empathy. Practical ways to help your child set boundaries while maintaining their social confidence. How to encourage self-worth and resilience so they can make healthier friendship choices. Don’t miss this impactful conversation—it’s the guidance every parent needs to navigate the murky waters of teenage friendships. And for effective efficiency in applying what you'll learn, please book a free Peaceful Parenting Strategy call to discuss your situation and how to streamline helping your teen HERE.

    29 min
  6. 245. How to Motivate a Teen Who Doesn't Care

    12/10/2024

    245. How to Motivate a Teen Who Doesn't Care

    Is your teen stuck in a cycle of apathy, showing little motivation for school, hobbies, or life in general? This episode takes a deeper dive into what’s going on beneath the surface and how you, as a parent, can help. Building on Episode 100, Apathetic Teens, this conversation explores deeper insights, new perspectives, and actionable strategies to address your teen’s lack of drive. If apathy is a recurring challenge in your home, listening to both episodes will give you a comprehensive toolkit to support your teen effectively. For personalized support, don’t forget to book your free Peaceful Parenting Strategy Session today! It’s the perfect opportunity to learn how to tailor these strategies to your family. Ready for more support? Book your free Peaceful Parenting Strategy Session today and start creating positive change.

    34 min
  7. 244. How to Connect With Your Teen

    12/03/2024

    244. How to Connect With Your Teen

    Every parent wants to feel more connected with their teen—sharing more, laughing together, and even enjoying those rare, peaceful silences. Connection and peace go hand-in-hand, and they’re often at the top of every family’s wish list. In today’s episode, I’m sharing three simple yet powerful strategies to strengthen your bond with your teen. These easy-to-apply tips will help you create more connection and bring lasting peace to your home. Need help implementing what you learn or tackling deeper challenges? Book your free 30-minute Peaceful Parenting Strategy Call HERE and take the first step toward transforming your family dynamic.

    21 min
  8. 243. Why Parents Grasp For Control

    11/26/2024

    243. Why Parents Grasp For Control

    Feeling overwhelmed by the need to control your teen’s grades, friends, and future? This episode is for you. Discover a simple 3-step process to let go of control and foster a loving, connected relationship with your teenager. In this episode, you'll learn: How to recognize if your need for control is damaging your relationship. The ripple effects of this control dynamic on your family. Practical strategies to create trust and connection instead. Want to fast-track peace in your parenting? Book a free Peaceful Parent Strategy Call and gain actionable insights to transform your home. It’s 30 minutes that will change how you show up as a parent. Book your call HERE

    18 min
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Welcome to Pivot Parenting, the podcast designed to help you thrive in the ever-changing landscape of raising teens, tweens and young adults. Hosted by Heather Frazier, a triple-certified life coach and mother of four, this show is your go-to resource for expert advice, practical strategies, and compassionate support. Each episode dives deep into the complex world of adolescent development, tackling everything from effective communication and setting boundaries to managing emotional turbulence and fostering independence. Heather draws from her extensive experience to offer insights into the latest parenting trends, research-backed methods, and real-life stories that resonate with parents everywhere. Whether you're struggling with your teen's mood swings, navigating the complexities of social media, or simply looking to strengthen your family bonds, Pivot Parenting provides the tools you need to pivot from frustration and uncertainty to confidence and connection. Our goal is to equip you with the knowledge and skills to not only survive but thrive during these pivotal years. Join us as we explore topics like building trust with your teens, dealing with peer pressure, helping them with mental illness challenges, understanding the teenage brain, and much more. With a focus on empathy and resilience, Heather guides you through the highs and lows of parenting, helping you find peace of mind and joy in the journey. Subscribe now and become part of our community of parents who are dedicated to raising happy, healthy, and well-adjusted young adults. Don't miss out on essential parenting wisdom that will empower you to create a nurturing and supportive home environment. Pivot Parenting—because every moment is an opportunity to grow and connect with your kids when you're confident in your parental abilities.

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