31 episodes

Two girl friends in open marriages explore unconventional sex: including swinging, sex toys, kink, hall passes, unicorns, impact play, swinger / lifestyle parties, bdsm, hot wife experiences, BDSM, threesomes, cosplay, nude resorts and more!

In each episode, they choose a sexy experience: live it, love it, f**k it (or not!), and tell you how it goes.

Website: www.2hotwives.com
Instagram / Twitter: @2hotwives
Email: info@2hotwives.com

2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex Ams & Kat

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 160 Ratings

Two girl friends in open marriages explore unconventional sex: including swinging, sex toys, kink, hall passes, unicorns, impact play, swinger / lifestyle parties, bdsm, hot wife experiences, BDSM, threesomes, cosplay, nude resorts and more!

In each episode, they choose a sexy experience: live it, love it, f**k it (or not!), and tell you how it goes.

Website: www.2hotwives.com
Instagram / Twitter: @2hotwives
Email: info@2hotwives.com

    Squirting (aka: Busting Myths on Female Ejaculation)

    Squirting (aka: Busting Myths on Female Ejaculation)

    What’s the big deal about squirting?  Is it the same thing as female ejaculation? Does it always happen during orgasm?  Can every woman squirt? Is squirt just pee?  If someone gushes or dribbles, is that still considered squirting?  What’s squirt made up of anyway?  The Wives answer these questions and more, including an interview with Lola Jean, the Squirting Queen.
    But first, it’s ORGY time!, Sip this episode’s juicy cocktail, the Mango Rum Spritzer, while listening to both Wives share their favorite orgy experience with two super-hot couples in Mexico. 
    Next, the Wives bust some myths on squirting: no, it’s not just pee, it doesn’t always include orgasm, it comes from the urethra, not the vagina.  And, despite what you see in porn, squirt doesn’t necessarily shoot across the room!  
    To get a sexpert’s opinion, the Wives interview Lola Jean, the world record holder in squirting volume. 
    Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: Kat and Mr. Kat are going to work on their g-spot stimulation techniques, while Ams schedules some “me” time to explore squirting: using a Womanizer Duo toy. 
    About Lola Jean 
    Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Wrestler, Pro Domme, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. 
    Mentioned in this Episode
    Casual Toys - Womanizer Duo
    Wanderlust Swinger Podcast
    Travel with the 2HotWives!
    PCAP
    Desire
    Bliss

    Want to Learn More About Squirting?
    https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/
    https://www.verywellhealth.com/skene-gland-5207878 
    https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/squirting?c=392364918709 
    https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27008344/how-to-make-a-woman-squirt/
    https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like
    https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm
    https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/female-ejaculation
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

    • 1 hr 9 min
    Squirting Part 2

    Squirting Part 2

    Did the 2HotWives succeed with their sexy homework on squirting?  Tune in to Squirting Part 2 to find out.  First, start with a pitcher of the episode’s cocktail, Strawberry Mango Sangria.  We suggest that you make it a day ahead to let the fruits infuse their flavor. Then, Kat recalls a particularly juicy hot tale while on the Bliss Cruise: a MFM threesome.  
    Then, the Wives share the ups and downs of their sexy homework: Ams takes the advice of sexpert Lola Jean and starts with masturbation, while Kat and Mr. Kat focus on lots of g-spot foreplay. 
    Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore squirting, either solo or with a partner. 
    Did we wet your appetite for sexual exploration?  Check out www.2hotwives.com for articles, advice, drink recipes and more. 
    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Casual Toys – Womanizer Duo
    Wanderlust Swinger Podcast
    TRAVEL WITH THE 2HOTWIVES Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including:
    Podcast a Palooza: June 2022
    Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022
    Bliss Cruise: November 2022
    Keep checking back for new events. 
    WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT SQUIRTING? Check out these articles and references if you are curious about female ejaculation. 
    https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/a19971929/make-yourself-squirt/
    https://www.verywellhealth.com/skene-gland-5207878 
    https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/squirting?c=392364918709 
    https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a27008344/how-to-make-a-woman-squirt/
    https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/lets-talk-about-squirting-why-is-it-important-what-does-it-feel-like
    https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-squirting-orgasm
    https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/female-ejaculation
    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6522945/

    • 45 min
    Swolly (aka: Swinging With "the Feels")

    Swolly (aka: Swinging With "the Feels")

    If you and your partner enjoy recreational sex and emotional intimacy, you might be Swolly!
    Swolly is a form of consensual non-monogamy where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamorous relationships.  Are you Swolly?  Tune in to find out. 
    But first, mix up a Tennessee Peach, this episode's sweet and sophisticated cocktail while Ams fan girls over Bridgerton and shares her hot tale of a total mindfuck with a smart and sexy new partner.  Next, the Wives explore the difference between swinging and polyamory, including this middle ground of Swolly.
    Swolly is a person who identifies as both a swinger and a member of the polyamorous community in that they have multiple relationships simultaneously and also enjoy recreational sex. The term is a portmanteau of the words swinger and polyamorous. Ken Haslam of the Kinsey Institute originally coined the term Swolly. 
    Here are some key components to Swolly:
    The foundation is a marriage/committed couple.  That relationship takes precedence over all other polysexual and polyamorous relationships 
    The couple is open to polysexual relationship and may  seek out casual sexual encounters or sex with "friends" that don't involve deep connections. 
    The couple is also open to polyamorous relationships that involve both physical and emotional intimacy. 
    The level of intimacy can vary between relationships (some relationships are purely polysexual, polysexual with friendship, or polyamorous). 
    Polysexual relationships are less complicated and involve less commitment.  You have a responsibility to make sure your partner is well taken care of during a sexual encounter (consent, pleasure, aftercare, the basic “camp-fire rule”), but you don’t have responsibility toward that person outside of the sexual encounter.  You might be friendly, you might be friends, that aspect might ebb and flow, but you don’t have a responsibility to build on anything outside of the bedroom.
    In Polyamorous relationships, you agree to share emotional intimacy, which means that you are committing to be an emotional support for this partner. These relationships can be more meaningful and rewarding, but also a lot of work.   
    To get a sexpert’s opinion, the Wives interview Dr. Elisabeth "Eli", Sheff, expert witness, researcher, educator & relationship coach with expertise in polyamorous culture. 
    Finally, the Wives assign themselves sexy homework: The Wives and the Misters are going to explore more emotionally intimate relationships with some of their swinger friends, including solo dates and lots of talk about "feelings".
    Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date.  Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. 
    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE 
    We Gotta Thing Podcast
    Ultimate Guide to Seduction and
    Foreplay
    Types of Non-Monogamy 
     
    Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including:
    Podcast a Palooza: June 2022
    Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022
    Bliss Cruise: November 2022
    Keep checking back for new events. 
    WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT POLYAMORY?
    Check out these articles and

    • 1 hr 23 min
    Swolly Part 2

    Swolly Part 2

    Can the 2HotWives walk that middle path between polyamory and swinging?   Tune in to Swolly Part 2 to find out.  First, start with the episode’s cocktail, the Blackberry Peach Fizz while Kat updates us on her sexy play time with a single guy.  If you dig a little upscale restraint play, this hot tale is for you. 

    Then, the Wives go deep on their journey toward Swolly. 
    Swolly is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where a couple is open to both polysexual and polyamory extramarital relationships. 
    Both Ams and Kat started their open marriage journey as "social swingers" with their husbands: they were looking for casual sexual experiences with other couples who were (or could be) friends, but emotionally intimate connections were off the table. 
    As time went on, a deeper connection developed between the Wives and their husbands, which led to a lot of excitement, but also a lot of drama. In this episode, the Wives discuss that struggle openly to each other for the first time.  
    Next, the Wives report back on their sexy homework: exploring independent dating and opening up to "the feels".
    Finally, it’s Just the Tips for anyone who wants to explore swolly. 
    Want to learn more about Polyamory?  Check out our interview with Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, author of The Polyamorists Next Door. 
    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE The Monogamish Marriage 
    We Gotta Thing
    TRAVEL WITH THE 2HOTWIVES Check out our EVENTS PAGE, for a chance to meet the 2HotWives in person, including:
    Podcast a Palooza: June 2022
    Desire Riviera Maya: August 2022
    Bliss Cruise: November 2022

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Anal Play Part 2 (aka: 2HotWives Do Butt Stuff)

    Anal Play Part 2 (aka: 2HotWives Do Butt Stuff)

    Ams and Kat recap their experiences with Anal Play.   Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the Cherry Mule, while Kat let’s her dominatrix side run wild in this episode’s hot tale.  Next Ams shares the ups and downs of fitting ass training into a suburban MILF’s busy schedule (Ams, did you wear a butt plug to book club???) but after a false start, anal sex leads to “a whole new world” of pleasure. 
    Then Kat shares her experience of giving anal sex another try.  After a second attempt at anal sex leads to more discomfort than pleasure, Kat hits the sex toy shop and finds the perfect fit for anal play.    
    And finally, the Wives share Just the Tips to help you and your partner have better anal sex right now!
    Featured on this episode:
    Shameless Sex
    Desire RM
    Bliss Cruise
    CalExotics - Silicone Double Rider
    Learn more about Anal Play:
    https://www.them.us/story/guide-to-bottoming-part-2 
    https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/2016/5/25/17-tips-happier-healthier-bottoming#media-gallery-media-4 
    https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/anal-play-for-women/
    https://bawdybookworms.com/beginner-basics-anal-play/
    Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events 
    We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! 
    How to find the 2HotWives:
    Website
    Instagram
    Twitter

    • 54 min
    Seduction & Foreplay! (aka: 50 Ways to Please Your Lover)

    Seduction & Foreplay! (aka: 50 Ways to Please Your Lover)

    How is your flirt game?  When’s the last time you seduced your partner?  If sex is starting to feel a little routine, it’s time to brush up on your Seduction and Foreplay skills.  The 2HotWives put the fun in fundamentals with the sexy self-help book, The Ultimate Guide to Seduction and Foreplay. 
    First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Peach Bourbon Sprizter, when listening to this episode’s Hot Tale! We know that you’ve been wanting all the details on the Wives’ recent house party and Ams gives a little taste of her play experience with a sexy friend from PCAP. 
    Next, the Wives interview sexuality experts Jessica O’Reilly, PhD (Sex with Dr. Jess) and Marla Renee Stewart, MA (Sex Down South), authors of the Ultimate Guide to Seduction on Foreplay. 
    Finally, the Wives assign sexy homework for the next episode, including full body orgasms and erogenous zone mapping.
    About the Book:
    Wouldn’t you like to tune into your own desires, become a better communicator, and be a more confident, passionate, and attentive lover?
    Let this book take you on a journey of sexual exploration. As you explore your own learning and seduction styles (and your lover’s), you’ll discover and experiment with new and exciting ways to stimulate arousal and deepen intimacy: verbal, emotional, and digital seduction, foreplay, eroticizing daily actions, games, fantasy play, mindfulness, and more. Packed with practical exercises, techniques, and creative ideas, this inclusive guide is a surefire way for folks of all genders to master the art of seduction. 
    Approach your lovers with the confidence and comfort you deserve! Whether you are adding to your repertoire for later or striving to please your current lover, you’ll discover thrilling new pathways to pleasure and intimacy.
    We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories.  We may feature you on the show! 
    Featured on this episode:
    Desire RM
    Bliss Cruise
    Sex with Dr. Jess
    Sex Down South
    How to find the 2HotWives:
    Website
    Instagram
    Twitter

    • 1 hr 3 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
160 Ratings

160 Ratings

Cowboy and Muffin ,

Sexy, Fun and Informative

I feel like this podcast is tailored for women, but as a man I’m really enjoy listening. I feel like I’m getting the inside scoop from the ladies in the lifestyle. There are great topics for beginners and experienced people in the lifestyle. Give this podcast a listen, it’s sexy, fun and informative.
-@CowboyandMuffin

Specialperson333 ,

Where did you go?

Did I miss something, in the podcast and not hear that you guys were going off the air so to speak?? I really enjoyed you ladies & your take and your stories and I hope to see future podcasts from you!!

a_love77! ,

Good vibe… informative.

I have enjoyed this podcast. My boyfriend would be into this lifestyle if I was open to it. I am A sexual. I am attracted to someone’s personality. That can be confusing to him. I have no desire in sharing the person I love. And I don’t judge. It all comes down to every person is different and sees things differently.

I sought out podcasts like this for personal development and to understand him.

I would really love for you guys to touch on couples where one couple wants this lifestyle and the other one doesn’t. If it’s safe and not detrimental for them to enter these kind of situations where one isn’t comfortable and ready and the other one does. Sometimes we feel pressure and want to make our lover happy we people please and say we will be “open” how do you know when you’re ready?

Please touch on this situation. Some of us feel alone and need some advice from different perspectives from someone who also understands the other side.

Thank you ❤️

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