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A podcast hosted by Robert Smythe and Rafael Mantesso, two autistic artists having fun talking about being neuro-atypical. Only when they were well into adulthood did Mantesso and Smythe learn they are autistic; Mantesso was in his 30s and Smythe in his 50s. Their diagnoses explained a lot, but it wasn't until they met that each finally had the experience of talking to someone who thought just like them. Their freewheeling conversations have helped other people, autistics and neurotypicals alike, understand more about seeing and thinking about the world differently.

Instagram: @ateampodcast

A TEAM Robert Smythe and Rafael Mantesso

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 7 Ratings

A podcast hosted by Robert Smythe and Rafael Mantesso, two autistic artists having fun talking about being neuro-atypical. Only when they were well into adulthood did Mantesso and Smythe learn they are autistic; Mantesso was in his 30s and Smythe in his 50s. Their diagnoses explained a lot, but it wasn't until they met that each finally had the experience of talking to someone who thought just like them. Their freewheeling conversations have helped other people, autistics and neurotypicals alike, understand more about seeing and thinking about the world differently.

Instagram: @ateampodcast

    5.7 Emotional Immaturity

    5.7 Emotional Immaturity

    Hello and welcome to A Team Podcast. In this conversation, we discuss bakery news, the complexities of maturity, transactional relationships, Cynicism vs realism, and cat cults.  Thanks for listening.



    ISKA World


    Private Schools and Public School Achievement



    What is the difference between naive cynicism and naive realism? - Psychology & Neuroscience Stack Exchange


    The Great British Baking Show | Shows | PBS Food


    Azores - Wikipedia


    World Heritage List


    What Is Ecotourism


    Prosopagnosia (Face Blindness): What It Is & Symptoms


    The Holy Rosary


    Bart Simpson - Wikipedia


    Our Lady of Lourdes - Wikipedia


    Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents


    Solipsism - Wikipedia


    Transactional Relationships: Definition & How to Recognize Them


    Why Narcissistic Parents Infantilize Their Adult Children

    • 1 hr 54 min
    5.6 Myk Bilokonsky, Guest

    5.6 Myk Bilokonsky, Guest

    Hi, welcome to A Team Podcast.  Today we have a special guest, Myk Bilokonsky.  The team gets deep in discussion with Myk about Autistic Identity Trauma, Shamanism, attachment wounds, neuroqueer identity, and Bartleby who would prefer not to. Thanks for listening.
    Public Neurodiversity Support Center · Myk's Digital Garden
    Occupational therapist - Wikipedia
    DSM-5 - Wikipedia
    Terra Vance, Author at NeuroClastic
    The Identity Theory of Autism: How Autistic Identity Is Experienced Differently » NeuroClastic
    An Owner's Guide to the Vagus Nerve | Psychology Today
    Shamanism - Wikipedia
    Maree Martinovich | NZCCP
    Cold Reader Tips: How Cold Reading Works - 2023 - MasterClass
    Spirituality - Wikipedia
    Astrology - Wikipedia
    The Fool’s Journey: Tarot’s Major Arcana | Astrology.com
    Tree of Life (Kabbalah) - Wikipedia
    Introduction to the Eight Concepts
    The Matrix - Wikipedia
    Karpman drama triangle - Wikipedia
    Understanding Narcissistic Injury | Psychology Today
    The Trauma Experience: Attachment Wounds - How Emotional Trauma Impacts Us
    Co-regulation - The OT Toolbox
    Lithium in the Natural Waters of the South East of Ireland - PMC
    Bartleby, the Scrivener - Wikipedia
    Bell hooks | Biography, Books, & Facts | Britannica
    NEUROQUEER
    In autism, brain doesn't 'prune' extra synapses - Futurity
    Autistic Burnout vs Depression — Insights of a Neurodivergent Clinician
    About Iain
    Ayn Rand - Wikipedia
    Stranger Than We Can Imagine – John Higgs
    Post

    • 1 hr 59 min
    5.5 Self Regulation

    5.5 Self Regulation

    In this episode, we discuss childhood camping trauma, disability porn, rage bait, self-protective mechanisms, and Wild Horse.


    Prosopagnosia | National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke


    Letterkenny (TV series) - Wikipedia


    https://compostingconsciousness.podia.com/


    Treating the Effects of Childhood Trauma


    Recreational fishing - Wikipedia


    Catch and release - Wikipedia


    Social justice warrior - Wikipedia


    How Narcissists Virtue Signal - Narcissisms.Com.


    Emotional and Psychological Trauma - HelpGuide.org


    Ableism: Types, examples, impact, and anti-ableism


    Rage farming - Wikipedia


    Self-Protective Mechanism - an overview | ScienceDirect Topics


    Outer Banks - Wikipedia


    Banker horse - Wikipedia


    Williamsburg, Virginia - Wikipedia

    • 1 hr 55 min
    5.4 Learning Environments

    5.4 Learning Environments

    In this conversation, we discuss learning environments for autistic people, multiple intelligences, energetic boundaries, self-forgiveness, and a penguin in a box.



    Doodling
    Doodling 101: What is Doodle Art? •



    Teaching and learning styles
    7 types of learning styles and how you can to teach them


    Connect for Success: Matching Teaching and Learning Styles | The League for Innovation in the Community College



    Eric Gardner, Multiple Intelligences
    Gardner's Theory of Multiple Intelligences



    Pedagogy
    Pedagogy - Wikipedia



    Abandonment and neglect
    Identifying and Managing Abandonment Issues


    People pleasing
    People-Pleasing | Psychology Today



    The Drama Triangle
    Breaking out of the Drama Triangle



    Processing time
    Processing Speed - Cognitive Skill



    Hannah Gadsby penguin in a box
    How Hannah Gadsby's High-Functioning Autism Works | Netflix Is A Joke



    Self regulate
    What is Self-Regulation? (+95 Skills and Strategies)


    Classroom management
    What Is Classroom Management?


    Point Profits from a Hat - ghost wrote by Robert
    Amazon.com: Pulling Profits Out of a Hat: Adding Zeros to Your Company Isn't Magic


    Outlawing plastic bags
    https://www.forbes.com/sites/trevornace/2018/09/20/heres-a-list-of-every-city-in-the-us-to-ban-plastic-bags-will-your-city-be-next/?sh=4b4edbcd3243


    Outsourcing American wealth
    3. What Americans see as contributors to economic inequality


    Jack Welch
    Jack Welch - Wikipedia



    Profit sharing
    What Is Profit Sharing? Pros and Cons



    Virtue signaling
    Virtue signalling - Wikipedia


    Hyperfocus
    Hyperfixation vs. Hyperfocus: ADHD, Autism, and Mental Illness | Self Care

    • 2 hr 13 min
    5.3 Creative Practice

    5.3 Creative Practice

    In this conversation, Tango, Michael, and Julie discuss the intersection of creativity and technology, Standpoint theory, pattern recognition, smelling colors, and Cephalopods.
    Dysregulation
    Dysregulation: Definition, Symptoms, Traits, Causes, Treatment
    Dissociated 
    Dissociation: Causes, Diagnosis, Symptoms, and Treatment
    Rumination
    The Complete Beginner’s Guide To Adobe After Effects
    Social beings need to coregulate with others
    Co-regulation - Wikipedia
    Stimming
    Stimming: What It Is and Why People Do It
    Creative Process
    Models of the Creative Process: Past, Present and Future
    Synethsesia   
    Synesthesia - Wikipedia
    Memory and association
    Memory and Association - Psychologist World
    Auras
    https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-an-aura
    Microaggressions
    What Are Microaggressions? 3 Main Types
    Feminist theory
    Standpoint theory - listen to marginalized people
    Standpoint theory - Wikipedia
     Pattern recognition
    Autistic Brain Excels at Recognizing Patterns - Autism
    Cephalopods
    https://ocean.si.edu/ocean-life/invertebrates/cephalopods
    The Drama Triangle
    Karpman drama triangle - Wikipedia
    Emotional disengagement
    Emotional detachment - Wikipedia
    The Four Agreements book
    Amazon.com: The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)
    The Four Agreements Summary and Study Guide | SuperSummary

    • 1 hr 12 min
    5.2 Speaking of Science

    5.2 Speaking of Science

    4.13 Speaking of Science
    Astrology and Quantum Mechanics, role-playing games,  Michael's unreadable book, yoga, and deep-fried dollars.


    Quantum mechanics - Wikipedia
    https://www.brucelipton.com/
    https://www.brucelipton.com/what-the-cosmic-joke/
    Lithium in the Natural Waters of the South East of Ireland
    Caliban and the Witch - Wikipedia
    Devon Price - Wikipedia
    Florida's transgender-affirming care ban is now law. Here's what SB 254 does
    Polyvagal Theory: An Approach to Understanding Trauma | Psychology Today
    (PDF) Self-Regulation vs Automatic Regulation
    Stop Being the Victim, Savior, or Persecutor in Your Life | Psychology Today.
    Karpman drama triangle - Wikipedia
    How to compost your victimhood (SoS vol.1)
    Bikram Yoga - Wikipedia
    Yoga, Cannabis, and You: 6 Best Practices for Pairing Yoga With Marijuana | Leafly
    Motor difficulties in autism explained | Spectrum
    Role-playing game - Wikipedia

    • 2 hr 8 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
7 Ratings

7 Ratings

T1883 ,

It’s Keeping Me Going

So grateful I found you!

Jesse_Dylan ,

Best podcast for Autistic adults

This is a wonderful podcast hosted by two Autistic adults. They're not going to demean you and judge you or push you. If you're anything like me, you'll be so relieved to find some comfort and security in shared experience, something that is difficult for us to find with other humans sometimes.

I feel like I've tried out nearly every podcast, and I nearly gave up. Someone on Reddit mentioned this podcast to me, and it changed my life!

Most of the podcasts I tried were clearly targeted at parents, often having no Autistic people. I felt judged and pushed by many of them. For instance, a guest on one said there shouldn't be Autism hour at super markets because it teaches Autistic people that things will be catered to them. The person with this opinion was Autistic! I'd like to hear what Raf has to say about that one. ;)

Other podcasts were good but didn't really engage me, although some were interesting.

This is more what you think of when you think of a podcast, people sharing a deep and meaningful conversation. That's what's happening here, and if you're Autistic or care about anyone whom is, I think it will impact you deeply.

The hosts are two of the most interesting, multi-faceted, brilliant folks you could imagine. They have had a life and wealth of experience, trauma, thought, both diagnosed late in life. If you've been diagnosed late in life, here again, this is your podcast.

They joke about their lack of diversity (both white men), but Rafael is in Brazil. English is not his native language, which just makes him even more fascinating, because he has to use a limited vocabulary to express complicated concepts. He knocks it out of the park every time and makes me think in new ways, even just about his usage. I find myself adopting some of his interesting ways of using English! I hope he would know this is out of fondness (and echolalia!). Raf (probably wouldn't like me calling him Raf, but at least I'm not saying "Rafina"!) is a famous artist and lives in nature. He had a long route carving out his own life, and now he's happy.

Robert has done many things in life at a high level; you will wish that he could be your mentor. He (like Rafael) is full of compassion, thoughtfulness, insight. Among other things, he's been a college professor, is currently a dessert chef, ran a theater company. He has fiercely pursued his passions, again not without a share of struggle.

They both realize that not all Autistic folks are able to end up in good positions and are sensitive to that fact. They are advocates speaking for us with the full forces of their beings. They want their guests to represent the entire spectrum in all its diversity. We are still in the beginning stages, but their guests have all been fascinating.

I think you'll find just as much love, comfort, interest, commonality, and hope here as me. I listened to the current episode, reviewed, then binged every single episode. I have now written a better review, which is what it deserved. :)

123ChickenMan123 ,

A great new podcast

This is a really good podcast – two entertaining hosts with frank and engaging and very charming discussion about an important topic!

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