260 episodes

Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with To Love, Honor and Vacuum--the blog!

Bare Marriage Sheila Gregoire

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.6 • 1K Ratings

Tired of Christian pat answers about marriage? The podcast that goes in-depth into marriage, parenting, and even sex--to see how we can live the passionate life we were meant for. Paired with To Love, Honor and Vacuum--the blog!

    Episode 243: Modesty vs. Vanity: Maybe We Need to Shift the Conversation!

    Episode 243: Modesty vs. Vanity: Maybe We Need to Shift the Conversation!

    The evangelical church spends a lot of time giving modesty messages to girls. But we hardly ever talk about vanity--even though the Bible condemns it. Could it be that in all our talk about modesty, we're inadvertently promoting vanity? And perhaps we can't call out vanity, because our messages to boys essentially enable vanity. Join Rebecca and Sheila as we hash this one out!With thanks to our sponsor:If church was your place of deepest hurt, can you find peace and healing with Christ? Check...

    • 57 min
    Episode 242: Spot the Propaganda and Logical Fallacies feat. Scott Coley

    Episode 242: Spot the Propaganda and Logical Fallacies feat. Scott Coley

    Ever heard people say, "The Bible is crystal clear" or "if you don't believe that, you don't believe the Bible?" Quite often people equate their interpretation of the Bible with the Bible itself--with bad results. Today Scott Coley joins us to talk about his new book Ministers of Propaganda, and to look at how many evangelical leaders have used logical fallacies to keep themselves at the top of the power hierarchy. Plus let's look at how to get back to the way of Jesus!With thanks to our spon...

    • 1 hr
    Episode 241: Both Hurt and Healed by the Church

    Episode 241: Both Hurt and Healed by the Church

    What if the church hurt you terribly? Can you still heal? Today Ryan George joins us to talk about how his fundamentalist family covers up his father’s sexual abuse of others—and how Ryan eventually learned the truth and turned his father in. And then Ryan deconstructed so much of what he had been taught—and found the real Jesus. Join us as Ryan George talks about his book Hurt and Healed by the Church.About Ryan's BookRyan’s book Hurt and Healed by the Church Find all of Ryan's booksTo ...

    • 1 hr 7 min
    Episode 240: Breaking Away from Christian Patriarchy (feat. Cait West) plus Why People Deconstruct

    Episode 240: Breaking Away from Christian Patriarchy (feat. Cait West) plus Why People Deconstruct

    What happens when your family gets sucked into fundamentalism, and your father insists on controlling your life, including who you will marry? You grow up under Christian patriarchy, and you experience serious emotional abuse. Today Cait West joins us to talk about her absolutely beautiful memoir Rift, about how and why she had to break free. Then Keith and I talk about why people are deconstructing, and why it’s so desperately important to listen to stories like Cait’s.About Cait West:Find C...

    • 1 hr 14 min
    Episode 239: Who Are Exvangelicals? feat. Sarah McCammon

    Episode 239: Who Are Exvangelicals? feat. Sarah McCammon

    People who deconstruct are often accused of never believing in the first place, or of just wanting to sin. But those who deconstruct are often those who have been hurt the most by toxic teachings. Today Sarah McCammon joins us to talk about who are “ex-vangelicals”, and her own story of deconstruction. And then Keith and I talk about what it means to create a safe and just community that honors people’s fears, betrayals, and concerns.About Sarah McCammon:Find Sarah's book The Exvangelicals on...

    • 58 min
    Episode 238: The Problems with Lies Young Women Believe by Dannah Gresh and Nancy Wolgemuth

    Episode 238: The Problems with Lies Young Women Believe by Dannah Gresh and Nancy Wolgemuth

    Why is a frequenty-used book in teen girls' Bible studies focusing on Satan and not Jesus?A deep dive into the book Lies Young Women Believe by Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth and Dannah Gresh. Let's see what is being taught to teen girls--and why it's so problematic. We can do better, church!Get our Downloadable One Sheet of the problems with the book Lies Young Women Believe: Thanks to our sponsor, the book The Sex Talk You Never Got by Sam Jolman And listen to our interview with Sam about the ...

    • 1 hr 41 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
1K Ratings

1K Ratings

Woot2348 ,

So good!

I love this podcast! As a former Christian who had a mostly positive experience of the church, it shocks me to hear how some of these male church leaders speak (and write) about women. It's also inspiring and heartwarming to see the Bare Marriage group coming together to build something that expresses the positive spirit of Christianity. I feel like they are living the basic values I was taught in Sunday school, the stuff that makes me glad I was raised Christian. Looking forward to listening through the archive!

letterwriter21 ,

One of my favorites!

Sheila and Rebecca and her husband have my deepest respect for their courage in calling out the evangelical powerhouse. I’m sure it’s not been easy personally. I’ve learned so much from Sheila and it’s helped me tremendously in understanding God and myself and others. The only constructive criticism I have is I think R needs to let the guests speak more than herself.

8252ipod ,

Good info held back by liberal feminism

There’s good information here but it’s laced with liberal feminism. The host appears to have a good grasp with materials, but her daughter is a study for what colleges and universities are turning out today. No independent thought and just buy into the far left narrative.

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