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Attaching to God connects relational neuroscience and attachment theory to our life of faith so you can grow into spiritual and relational maturity. Co-host Geoff Holsclaw (PhD, pastor, and professor) and Cyd Holsclaw (PCC, spiritual director, and integrative coach) talk with practitioners, therapists, theologians, and researchers on learning to live with ourselves, others, and God. Get everything in your inbox or on the app: https://www.grassrootschristianity.org/s/embodied-faith

Attaching to God: Neuroscience-informed Spiritual Formation Geoff and Cyd Holsclaw

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.9 • 29 Ratings

Attaching to God connects relational neuroscience and attachment theory to our life of faith so you can grow into spiritual and relational maturity. Co-host Geoff Holsclaw (PhD, pastor, and professor) and Cyd Holsclaw (PCC, spiritual director, and integrative coach) talk with practitioners, therapists, theologians, and researchers on learning to live with ourselves, others, and God. Get everything in your inbox or on the app: https://www.grassrootschristianity.org/s/embodied-faith

    087: Geoff's Second Half of Life "Crisis" and why the new name

    087: Geoff's Second Half of Life "Crisis" and why the new name

    The inaugural episode of season six, and all about "Geoff's Second Half of Life 'Crisis' and why we renamed the podcast" (and note, 'crisis' is in scar quotes).

    Welcome to Season 6, of what is now called the Attaching to God podcast.  We are going to be doing more episodes of just the two of us talking (Cyd and Geoff). But we will also have interviews with people, and hopefully a regular guest appearance (if we can get him to commit once a month).

    In addition to this, we are adding a regular segment called "Baggage Claim" where one or both of us notice the baggage we are bringing into relationships (big things or small things) See minute "27" for this new segment. 
    Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.
    Starting April 23rd (2024), and meets Tuesday, 4 pm -5 pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected:
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    • 34 min
    086: Non-Toxic Masculinity (with Zachary Wagner)

    086: Non-Toxic Masculinity (with Zachary Wagner)

    The problem of toxic masculinity is much bigger than contemporary expressions of Christianity. Mistreatment of women and men dehumanizing others is a feature of human culture fraught with sin.  But the church is called to be salt and light, so how can we foster a non-toxic masculinity?

    Our guest today is Zachary Wagner, a writer, researcher, and minister. He serves as the editorial director for the Center for Pastor Theologians. We’re talking about his book Non-Toxic Masculinity: Recovering Healthy Male Sexuality.
    Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.
    Starting April 23rd (2024), and meets Tuesday, 4 pm -5 pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected:
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    • 31 min
    085: Forming Spiritually Resilient Children (with Dr. Holly Allen)

    085: Forming Spiritually Resilient Children (with Dr. Holly Allen)

    Many children today are growing up amid adversity, whether brought on by family difficulties or larger societal crises. All children need to be able to deal with stress, cope with challenges, and persevere through disappointments. While we cannot protect children from all hardships, we can promote healthy development that fosters resilience.

    Our guest, Dr. Holly Catterton Allen, recently retired from her position as Professor of Christian Ministries and Family Science at Lipscomb University in Nashville, Tennessee. Dr. Allen’s books include Intergenerational Christian Formation and Forming Resilient Children: The Role of Spiritual Formation for Healthy Development.
    Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.
    Starting April 23rd (2024), and meets Tuesday, 4 pm -5 pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected:
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    • 36 min
    084: Mental Illness or Spiritual Issue? And how they connect (with Dr. Matthew Stanford)

    084: Mental Illness or Spiritual Issue? And how they connect (with Dr. Matthew Stanford)

    Research tells us that when people suffer from a mental health crisis, the first person they turn to for help is not a physician, a psychiatrist, or a social worker, but a pastor, a priest, or a minister. Unfortunately, many church leaders are not trained to recognize mental illness and don’t know when to refer someone to a mental health professional. And how do we know the difference between a mental illness and a spiritual issue?

    This is what we are talking about with Dr. Matthew Sanford, author of Grace for the Afflicted: A Clinical and Biblical Perspective on Mental Illness, and CEO of the Hope and Healing Center in Houston, TX.

    Other books by Dr. Stanford: 
    The Biology of Sin: Grace, Hope and Healing for Those Who Feel TrappedMadness and Grace: A Practical Guide for Pastoral Care and Serious Mental IllnessJoin Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.
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    • 38 min
    083: Does God Hate? Or, Making Sense of God's Emotions (with David Lamb)

    083: Does God Hate? Or, Making Sense of God's Emotions (with David Lamb)

    Does God hate? Is God emotional? Emotions feel irrational, impulsive, and problematic for God, especially when we think about hate, jealousy, or sorrow. But the truth is the Bible is full of all sorts of stories that express God expressing emotions. This episode focuses particularly on God and the emotion of hate.

    Our guest is Dr. David Lamb. He is the MacRae Professor of Old Testament and in 2017 the Dean of the Faculty at Missio Seminary. He is the author of "God Behaving Badly: Is the God of the Old Testament Angry, Sexist and Racist." And more recently has written "The Emotions of God: Making Sense of a God who hates, weeps, and loves." And Dr. Lamb spent twenty years on staff with InterVaristy. 
    Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.
    Starting April 23rd (2024), and meets Tuesday, 4 pm -5 pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected:
    NEED spiritual direction or coaching that aligns with this podcast? Connect with Cyd Holsclaw here. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

    • 37 min
    082: On Getting Out of Bed; Or, on Living with Mental Anguish (with Alan Noble)

    082: On Getting Out of Bed; Or, on Living with Mental Anguish (with Alan Noble)

    For many people, sorrow, despair, anxiety, and mental illness are everyday experiences. And while we have tremendous advancements in therapy and psychiatry, the burden of living often comes down to some mundane choices, like "Should I still bother to get out of bed?"

    Dr. Alan Noble joins us to talk about life with mental anguish and his book, On Getting Out of Bed: The Burden and Gift of Living. We talk about faith and hope in the goodness of life amid the struggles and pain.
    Join Attaching to God Learning Cohort: Quieting an Anxious and Avoidant Faith.
    Starting April 23rd (2024), and meets Tuesday, 4 pm -5 pm (EST). Link: https://www.embodiedfaith.life/attaching-to-god-cohortStay Connected:
    NEED spiritual direction or coaching that aligns with this podcast? Connect with Cyd Holsclaw here. Join the Embodied Faith community to stay connected and get posts, episodes, & resources. Support the podcast with a one-time or regular gift (to keep this ad-free without breaking the Holsclaw's bank).

    • 33 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
29 Ratings

29 Ratings

GraceInWinchester ,

Enjoy and learn

Geoff, enjoy your programming built around neuroscience so I’m always learning from you and your guests. Especially like the conversations with our mutual friend, Fred Liggin, about trauma and now Charles Kiser on trauma-informed evangelism. I’ve learned much from them and your other guests. Thanks for your work.

AuburnMick ,

Excellent Introduction to authors and books

Each episode is interesting and informative, but also typically introduces a book or two that can provide a deeper dive into the topic.

adculpepper ,

Answers to some of the toughest spiritual growth questions

There are barriers to your own personal spiritual, social, and emotional growth and barriers to the growth of people that you influence that seem so hard to move past. This podcast helps you understand (both biblically and biologically) why that is and how you can hope to move forward in practical ways. I also find as I’m listening that I can employ the strategies in the moment and become more grounded in God’s loving presence with me. This one is in my new top 5 for podcasts.

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