26 episodes

Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast bethathealinggirl

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 22 Ratings

Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.

    How to heal your anxious attachment and enter your soft girl era

    How to heal your anxious attachment and enter your soft girl era

    If you grew up in a home where the default was drama, you might feel like it’s hardwired into your soul to snap back. Healing your anxious attachment isn't about quieting your power—it's about rewiring those love life vibes from reactive to responsive.
    Choosing to be soft in a world that taught you to be hard is not just brave; it’s revolutionary. Press play and get ready to enter your soft girl era, where peace is the new power move! 
    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
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    • 13 min
    Communicating Your Needs & Common Mistakes

    Communicating Your Needs & Common Mistakes

    Today, we're unpacking all things miscommunication and diving into the do's and don'ts of expressing your needs without turning it into a full-blown drama series.
    If you've ever felt like you're speaking a foreign language when telling your S.O. what you need, or if the thought of having 'the talk' makes you giggle nervously because, let's be real, it's usually a disaster—then this episode is your new bestie. Let’s make sure you’re heard, understood, and totally in sync with your love life. 
    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
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    • 13 min
    Healing Your Anxious Attachment - Ways You're Hurting Your Healing Journey

    Healing Your Anxious Attachment - Ways You're Hurting Your Healing Journey

    This episode is all about turning relationship information overload into actual healing. We're cutting through the noise and getting down to the nitty-gritty of what works. Because let’s face it, collecting self-help tips without a plan is like expecting a Band-Aid to fix a broken leg—it’s just not gonna cut it.
    We’re diving deep into why your venting sessions might just be stirring the pot instead of serving the tea, and why all that advice you’re soaking up might not be the right shade for your personal palette.
    Plus, don’t miss out on the exclusive spring special I’m dropping at the end of this episode—limited spots for those ready to leap from learning to living their best life.
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    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
    “If They Haven’t Texted” Flow Chart
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    • 16 min
    Meditation for Healing Relationships

    Meditation for Healing Relationships

    If you told me six years ago I'd be a meditation queen, I would’ve LOL’d so hard! I was too booked and busy, convinced that meditation just wasn’t my jam. But girlies, let me tell you, hitting rock bottom with my relationships changed EVERYTHING, and now meditation is my secret superpower!
    Today, we’re diving deep into that magical “blip” - you know, that precious millisecond of peace between your turbo thoughts. It’s tiny but mighty, ladies! And if you’re thinking, "Clare, I’ve never meditated in my life!" then I’m so excited to be your first. Seriously, it’s an honor to pop your meditation cherry haha 🍒💥
    P.s. don’t worry if you feel like you’re not doing it "right" – if you've meditated for 20 minutes and only found peace for a split second, that’s a win in my book!
     
    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
    “If They Haven’t Texted” Flow Chart
    WORK WITH ME
    VIP 1:1 Session

    • 12 min
    How To Stop Overthinking Relationships

    How To Stop Overthinking Relationships

    This week we're diving into a topic that I know way too well, and I bet you do too: overthinking in relationships. You know the drill - analyzing texts, second-guessing feelings, and playing out scenarios in your head that haven't (and probably won't) happen.
    So, grab your headphones and gear up for your hot girl walk and let's get into it! Trust me, by the end of this episode, you'll be ready to tackle love head-on, with a clear mind and an open heart! 💖✨
     
    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
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    • 16 min
    A Sneaky & Early Sign of Anxious Attachment

    A Sneaky & Early Sign of Anxious Attachment

    Hey Girlies! This week we're diving deep into the world of anxious attachment... we're uncovering those sneaky, early signs you've probably been overlooking. If you're the queen of overthinking every text (or lack of), constantly spiraling into a black hole of "what ifs," or just feeling that tug of insecurity in your relationship, then this episode is made for YOU!
    We're chatting about that early sign of anxious attachment I noticed in myself and my clients (and it's probably not what you're thinking!) 🚩 Plus, I'm dropping some real talk on how to shift from self-abandonment to putting yourself first (because you're the main character, babe!)
    Whether you're killing it in your career, entrepreneurship, or academics but finding love to be that one puzzle piece that's just not fitting, this episode is your must-listen. 
    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
    “If They Haven’t Texted” Flow Chart
    WORK WITH ME
    VIP 1:1 Session

    • 17 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
22 Ratings

22 Ratings

AthenaP917 ,

If you’re anxious, just listen every day!

Clare knows what you’re going through. She gets it! Listen to her and the listen all over again. You can be at peace and feel less anxious but you have to do the work and make the shifts. She is our leader on this journey. Thank you!

kskels ,

Game changer

This podcast has truly helped me in my new relationship. Have related so much to everything she talks about in each episode. I always look forward to listening and learning.

cdunning82 ,

I needed this podcast!

It’s great to hear from someone who gets us anxious girlies! Claire is an absolute gem and I love listening to her insight!

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