30 episodes

Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.

BeThatHealingGirl Podcast bethathealinggirl

    • Society & Culture
    • 5.0 • 23 Ratings

Listen up Girlies!! Healing isn’t just a (hot girl) walk in the park, it’s a damn journey. The BeThatHealingGirl Podcast is all about busting old school dating myths, breaking down our childhood traumas, unlearning our bad habits and healing your way to your DREAM LIFE! Let’s keep it real and begin to heal because honestly… eff that guy not texting you back, stop worrying about being liked, it’s time to let go of anxious attachment behaviors, start getting comfortable with being vulnerable and know your damn worth! So stop wishing you were her, join the journey and BE that healing girl.

    Attachment Theory Basics

    Attachment Theory Basics

    Welcome back girlies! This episode is all about Attachment Theory basics. I’m breaking down everything you need to know and tips for navigating and healing your attachment style. If you’re new here, I’m Clare and I love helping overachieving, perfectionist girlies who are killing it in their careers but struggling in the love department. This episode is perfect if you’re looking to understand yourself and your relationships better. Grab a cup of tea or get ready for your hot girl walk because we're diving straight in!
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    • 18 min
    Anxious and Avoidant Style of Fighting

    Anxious and Avoidant Style of Fighting

    If you find yourself picking little fights, having the same argument over and over, or maybe it's like clockwork where every two or three weeks there's a big blowout—this episode is for you!
    What’s actually happening in these cycles is deep-rooted in our conditioning and subconscious patterns. When you're in these repetitive cycles, it's like a glitch in your relationship's source code. One of the first steps to breaking this cycle is getting radically honest with yourself.
    I’m also thrilled to announce the relaunch of The Confidence Code, a program I designed to help you heal your relationship anxiety and anxious attachment. This program walks you through the exact steps to stop overthinking, trust yourself, and stop self-sabotaging. 
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    • 16 min
    Relationship Intuition - What is Blocking Yours?

    Relationship Intuition - What is Blocking Yours?

    Hey girlies, welcome back! Today we're diving deep into relationship intuition and how you might be blocking yours.
    First, operating from a place of “should”—stop "shoulding" on yourself and let your intuition shine. Second, irritation—if you’re constantly irritated, it’s a distraction from your true feelings. And finally, overthinking—this is the biggest block. Overthinking takes you out of the present and away from your intuition.
    Ready to turn on your intuition? Join our Intuition Sprint to learn how to activate and trust your intuition in relationships. This closed group challenge is all about action, and I can’t wait to see you there!
    Let's turn on your relationship intuition on! Click here to signup: https://bethathealinggirl.myflodesk.com/intuitionchallenge2024
     

    • 16 min
    Is it Intuition or Are You Overthinking In Your Relationship

    Is it Intuition or Are You Overthinking In Your Relationship

    Have you ever found yourself wondering if that nagging feeling in your gut is real intuition or just another anxiety spiral? In this episode we're sorting out a massive mix-up: Is it intuition or just plain overthinking in your relationship?
    We're going to learn how to distinguish between genuine gut feelings and the noise of anxiety. And yes, there's a big difference!  Remember, your intuition is your superpower when you know how to listen.
    Let's turn on your relationship intuition on!
    Click here to signup: https://bethathealinggirl.myflodesk.com/intuitionchallenge2024

    • 12 min
    How to heal your anxious attachment and enter your soft girl era

    How to heal your anxious attachment and enter your soft girl era

    If you grew up in a home where the default was drama, you might feel like it’s hardwired into your soul to snap back. Healing your anxious attachment isn't about quieting your power—it's about rewiring those love life vibes from reactive to responsive.
    Choosing to be soft in a world that taught you to be hard is not just brave; it’s revolutionary. Press play and get ready to enter your soft girl era, where peace is the new power move! 
    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
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    • 13 min
    Communicating Your Needs & Common Mistakes

    Communicating Your Needs & Common Mistakes

    Today, we're unpacking all things miscommunication and diving into the do's and don'ts of expressing your needs without turning it into a full-blown drama series.
    If you've ever felt like you're speaking a foreign language when telling your S.O. what you need, or if the thought of having 'the talk' makes you giggle nervously because, let's be real, it's usually a disaster—then this episode is your new bestie. Let’s make sure you’re heard, understood, and totally in sync with your love life. 
    JOIN THE HEALING JOURNEY on Instagram, TikTok or YouTube
    HEALING FREEBIES:
    “If They Haven’t Texted” Flow Chart
    WORK WITH ME
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    • 13 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
23 Ratings

23 Ratings

AthenaP917 ,

If you’re anxious, just listen every day!

Clare knows what you’re going through. She gets it! Listen to her and the listen all over again. You can be at peace and feel less anxious but you have to do the work and make the shifts. She is our leader on this journey. Thank you!

kskels ,

Game changer

This podcast has truly helped me in my new relationship. Have related so much to everything she talks about in each episode. I always look forward to listening and learning.

cdunning82 ,

I needed this podcast!

It’s great to hear from someone who gets us anxious girlies! Claire is an absolute gem and I love listening to her insight!

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