Codependency Alchemy: The Podcast

Alyssa Zander
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Codependency Alchemy: The Podcast

Codependency Alchemy is for anyone who feels invisible in their relationships or like they’re always putting others first while their own needs go unmet. Join Alyssa, a codependency and relationship coach, as she shares real-life stories and her unique framework that bridges shadow work and inner child healing to help you heal, set boundaries, and feel truly seen—so you can finally create relationships that are authentic, balanced, supportive, and deeply fulfilling. alyssaaazander.substack.com

  1. Overcoming relationship anxiety: navigating intimacy through shadow work

    6 DAYS AGO

    Overcoming relationship anxiety: navigating intimacy through shadow work

    Do you ever feel anxious or inadequate in your relationship, especially when intimacy isn’t present? In this episode, I guide a member from our Codependency Alchemy membership through the shadow work and inner child healing to uncover the core wounds that are fueling her fear of failure in love (specifically around intimacy, or lack of). Together, we work to validate her inner child, release the need to make everyone happy, and reconnect with her gifts to build self-trust. This episode is for anyone who: * Struggles with anxiety or fear of rejection in relationships. * Feels unworthy or inadequate without constant reassurance. * Wants to learn how to manage triggers and reconnect with their authentic self. SPECIAL INTRO OFFER: Join the Codependency Alchemy Membership today and save 40% off! 👉🏾 Click here to join now! MASTERMIND WAITLIST: This Mastermind is for you if you desire to fast track your healing journey through letting go of the suffocating patterns that have held you back in your life and relationships. Over the course of three months, you will learn how to implement tools and practices that will shift the way you feel and respond in your relationships. 👉🏾 Click here to join the waitlist! “I was constantly anxious and shutting down in any conversation that I perceived as conflict. As a lifelong people pleaser I often put my feelings and needs after everyone else’s. After only 12 days in this Mastermind group I was able to calmly communicate boundaries to my husband and that was something I was never able to do before.” - Sarai (Spring 2024 co-hort) Read posts From My Journal ✍🏾 Check out The Gems 💎 where you will find the resources with practical insights, tools, and wisdom to guide you on your journey. This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    48 min

  2. JAN 8

    When you feel dismissed in your relationship

    Have you ever felt dismissed or unseen by your partner, especially during stressful times like the holidays? In this episode, I share real-life moments from my relationship with Justin, unpacking the triggers that surfaced during our trip home. Through shadow work and inner child healing, I reconnected with my younger self, gained clarity on my needs, and approached the conflict with more compassion and a deeper understanding of both myself and him. This episode is for anyone who: * Struggles with feeling dismissed or unimportant in their relationship. * Finds themselves triggered when returning home or navigating family dynamics. * Wants to learn how to use journaling, somatic practices, and inner child healing to navigate relationship challenges with empathy and self-awareness. SPECIAL INTRO OFFER: Join the Codependency Alchemy Membership today and save 40% off! 👉🏾 Click here to join now! Read the full post: "Triggered AF" and other posts From My Journal ✍🏾 if you want the raw and unfiltered thoughts, reflections, and lessons from my own healing journey. Check out The Gems 💎 where you will find the resources with practical insights, tools, and wisdom to guide you on your journey. If you benefit from Codependency Alchemy, the podcast or this community, you can become a paid subscriber and support me in my mission of making this work and these resources accessible for those who need it. This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    45 min
  3. How shadow work and inner child healing changed her life

    10/23/2024

    How shadow work and inner child healing changed her life

    STAY CONNECTED! Click here to join the Codependency Alchemy Membership Listen to Luce's Soul Retrieval session here. In this episode: * How Luce discovered codependency work and what led her to it * What her initial thoughts and hesitations were around codependency and inner child work * How the work we do in the Codependency Alchemy membership has transformed her life, and the breakthroughs she has had since joining * The insights and gifts that she has uncovered through inner child healing This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 9m
  4. When you need to have everything figured out before taking action

    10/16/2024

    When you need to have everything figured out before taking action

    Updates: Next week’s podcast will be the last episode of the year as I take a break to focus on our community here on Substack. I’m excited to create deeper connections and introduce new, fun ways for us to connect. If you haven’t already, download the Substack app to join in! Also, a quick reminder—membership is still just $9/month for now, but the price will increase in the new year so if you’ve been thinking about joining make sure you hop in now! 👉🏾Join the Codependency Alchemy Membership This week on our 1:1 session episode, Codependency Alchemy member Rachael came to the call experiencing a pattern of needing to have everything figured out before taking action— something I know I certainly relate to! You asked for it, here it is… I haven’t opened one-on-one sessions up to the public in a veryyyy long time, but it’s clear there is a huge need for it right now, as many of us are experiencing the HARDEST moments in our relationships— it kind of feels like a pressure cooker, doesn’t it? Let’s just say, in this session you’ll start to find the release valve. Spots are limited so make sure to grab one before they run out! Book a one-on-one Codependency Healing Session This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    50 min
  5. What I wish I would have known before I started dating

    10/09/2024

    What I wish I would have known before I started dating

    In today’s post, I’m sharing a few things I wish I had known at the start of my relationship with Justin, and honestly, even before I started dating anyone. These realizations have been game-changers for me, and I hope they resonate with you too. Download my free Shadow Work and Inner Child Guide to get a printable worksheet that you can use again and again! Upcoming Events for Codependency Alchemy👉🏾 GET 10% OFF ON MEMBERSHIP As a Codependency Alchemy member, you have access to a library of resources aimed at helping you bring deeper awareness to the root of your codependency tendencies. Members looking to get the most out of their membership and wanting to start making profound shifts in their life can access masterclasses, meetups, private podcast episodes, and guided meditations. This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    34 min
  6. Healing shame, fear, and the need for approval

    10/02/2024

    Healing shame, fear, and the need for approval

    This story is a powerful reminder that our healing comes from facing the uncomfortable emotions and beliefs we carry, even when they feel overwhelming. It’s through sitting with our pain and giving it space that we find freedom and peace. Download my free Shadow Work and Inner Child Guide to get a printable worksheet that you can use again and again! Upcoming Events for Codependency Alchemy👉🏾 GET 10% OFF ON MEMBERSHIP As a Codependency Alchemy member, you have access to a library of resources aimed at helping you bring deeper awareness to the root of your codependency tendencies. Members looking to get the most out of their membership and wanting to start making profound shifts in their life can access masterclasses, meetups, private podcast episodes, and guided meditations. This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 2m
  7. When you're stuck looping in the same pattern with your partner

    09/25/2024

    When you're stuck looping in the same pattern with your partner

    I’m excited to share a personal story today—one that has layers beyond what it seems. You’re definitely going to want to grab a drink, get comfortable, and enjoy. We're talking about boundaries, cookies, and the uncomfy parts of learning our own dysfunction through our relationship dynamics. Only 5 days left to get HTMW Workbook for 50% off! Download my free Shadow Work and Inner Child Guide to get a printable worksheet that you can use again and again! Upcoming Events for Codependency Alchemy👉🏾 GET 10% OFF ON MEMBERSHIP As a Codependency Alchemy member, you have access to a library of resources aimed at helping you bring deeper awareness to the root of your codependency tendencies. Members looking to get the most out of their membership and wanting to start making profound shifts in their life can access masterclasses, meetups, private podcast episodes, and guided meditations. Monthly Masterclass | September 5th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻 Monthly Meetup | September 12th | 10am (PDT) | Click here to RSVP on Zoom 💻 AMA Chat | September 19th | 10am-12pm (PDT) | Click here to RSVP for Chat 📱 Shadow Work Sunday | Every Sunday | Thread on Substack🧵 Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube! This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    44 min
  8. What if I pass my codependency to my children?

    09/18/2024

    What if I pass my codependency to my children?

    This week I get to sit down with a member from our Codependency Alchemy membership, Nicole, who is exploring the challenges of parenting while navigating her own inner healing journey. In this session I guide Nicole through shadow work and an inner child healing, validate her unmet needs, and help release the burdens of feeling "broken" and "not good enough." This conversation offers a roadmap for intergenerational healing and the courage to show up authentically, even in the midst of our own imperfections. Grab Healing the Mother Wound Workbook for less than $10 using promo code "ANNIVERSARY"! Buy a copy of "Healing the Mother Wound: With Mother Earth" Buy your copy on Amazon Download my free Shadow Work and Inner Child Guide to get a printable worksheet that you can use again and again! Upcoming Events for Codependency Alchemy👉🏾 GET 10% OFF ON MEMBERSHIP As a Codependency Alchemy member, you have access to a library of resources aimed at helping you bring deeper awareness to the root of your codependency tendencies. Members looking to get the most out of their membership and wanting to start making profound shifts in their life can access masterclasses, meetups, private podcast episodes, and guided meditations. Let's connect! Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and you can even subscribe and watch the full episodes on YouTube! This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit alyssaaazander.substack.com/subscribe

    52 min
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Codependency Alchemy is for anyone who feels invisible in their relationships or like they’re always putting others first while their own needs go unmet. Join Alyssa, a codependency and relationship coach, as she shares real-life stories and her unique framework that bridges shadow work and inner child healing to help you heal, set boundaries, and feel truly seen—so you can finally create relationships that are authentic, balanced, supportive, and deeply fulfilling. alyssaaazander.substack.com

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