Better Divorce Podcast Paulette Rigo

Join Paulette and Molly for this conversation on why therapy and coaching is so important during and after the divorce process. There is a beautiful life waiting for them on the other side of this storm.


About Molly:

I provide life coaching services specifically designed to open up lines of communication on difficult topics. My approach is designed with love and light – no judgment or criticism! Through my tailored program of action plans and personal growth techniques, I can help you feel seen, heard and find joy again.



Takeaways:


Divorce and loss are challenging experiences that no one signs up for, but with the right support and love, individuals can thrive.
When explaining divorce or loss to children, it's important to be open, honest, and transparent. Allow them to ask questions and express their emotions.
Co-parenting requires healing and letting go of hurt and anger. It's crucial to prioritize the well-being of the children and create a safe and loving environment for them.
Each child and situation is unique, so it's important to tailor the conversation and co-parenting approach to their specific needs.
Seeking professional help, such as therapy or coaching, can be beneficial in navigating divorce, blended families, and grief.



Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Background

03:56 Thriving Through Divorce, Blended Families, and Loss

08:59 Helping Children Understand and Cope with Loss

13:17 The Importance of Co-Parenting and Communication

23:16 Tailoring the Conversation and Co-Parenting Approach to Children's Needs


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Join Paulette and Bela for this conversation on The Secrets to Dating Successfully After Divorce. We can talk about:

Divorce statistics for 2nd/3rd marriages
How to create a dating plan
What you need to be successful in online dating
What a dating coach can do to help you
Red flags in dating!



About Bela:

Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy, is a nationally acclaimed dating & relationship expert. SDA offers the best tips to start to date smarter to help you find real and lasting love. Bela is a sought out correspondent and works with all major networks including Steve Harvey, NBC, ABC, FOX, CNN, JET, Essence, Forbes, WGN, and more...



Takeaways:

Dating after divorce can be daunting and overwhelming, but it is possible to have a successful and fulfilling experience.

Learning from past mistakes and not repeating patterns is crucial in starting a new relationship.

Having a support system and seeking guidance from experts can help navigate the challenges of dating after divorce.

Identifying red flags in potential partners and setting boundaries is important for creating healthy and fulfilling relationships.



Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Fear of Dating After Divorce

06:22 The Importance of a Support System and Expert Guidance

13:04 Identifying Red Flags and Deal Breakers

24:20 Success Stories and the Importance of Investing in Yourself




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Join Paulette and Brenda for this conversation on Knowing the approach that best suits your situation and family will give you more control over your process, ensure you are more likely to put together the team you need and ultimately lead to a better outcome. Remember the three P's - purpose, process professionals.



About Brenda:

Brenda's journey is nothing short of inspirational. After making it through the harsh realities and emotional challenges of her divorce, she transformed her experience into a catalyst for change, dedicating her career to guiding others through their own challenges and taking a fresh look at how we go about divorce.

Bridging Divorce Solutions is Brenda's vision, a beacon for those facing the daunting world of divorce. Her approach balances the financial complexities that often accompany it and the emotions that influence money decisions. Brenda's expertise lies in demystifying the financial implications of divorce, ensuring that her clients are well-informed and empowered to make decisions that safeguard their future.

Brenda's approach is unique; she combines empathy with financial savvy, offering a lifeline to those feeling overwhelmed by the divorce process. Her personal experience fuels her passion, making her not just an advisor but a relatable ally.



Chapters:



00:00 Introduction and Background

03:32 Brenda's Personal Experience and Career Transition

06:18 The Need for a Balanced Approach in Divorce

08:29 Brenda's Journey to Becoming a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst

12:50 Choosing a Career Path and Finding Fulfillment

16:24 The Importance of Working with Qualified Professionals

19:22 Understanding Options and Setting Goals in Divorce

22:12 Understanding the Rules and Requirements

23:11 Choosing the Right Mediator

24:23 Different Methods of Divorce

26:09 Considering Relationship Dynamics

27:06 Categorizing Elements of the Case

27:10 Matching the Process to the Situation

28:07 Financial Planning and Divorce Settlements

29:20 The Role of a CDFA

30:26 Financial Analysis and Future Forecasting

32:19 Avoiding Pitfalls and Mistakes

33:26 Understanding the Ramifications

34:21 Emotional Attachments to Assets

35:18 Ensuring Feasibility of Agreements

37:34 The Importance of Financial Education

38:08 The Benefits of Prenuptial Agreements

39:01 Revisiting Prenuptial Agreements

40:13 Planning for the Future

41:24 The Importance of Financial Awareness

42:30 Finding Support and Resources

43:28 The Book: Oh Shit, I'm Getting Divorced

44:23 Closing Remarks




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Join Paulette and Evan for this conversation on You don't have to change to find love. You have to change your choice in men.



About Evan:

Dating coach Evan Marc Katz is the author of 4 books and has been featured in hundreds of media outlets since 2003. His blog has over 35 million readers, his podcast has over 2.5 million downloads and 13,000 women have taken Love U, his video course that helps smart, successful women find love. Evan is happily married and lives in Los Angeles.



Takeaways:




Dating after divorce can be challenging, but it's important to approach it with confidence and a positive mindset.
Online dating platforms can be overwhelming, but success depends on how you use them and the effort you put in.
Many people carry limiting beliefs from past relationships, but it's important to recognize that there are healthy and functional relationships out there.
Love U is a platform that provides education and support for women navigating the dating world, helping them build confidence and make better dating and relationship choices. Take the leap and be open to dating after divorce
Feel and allow yourself to be vulnerable in order to find love
Make smart trade-offs and compromise on the right things in relationships
Don't compromise on important qualities like kindness and character
Seek resources and support to navigate the complexities of dating after divorce.



Chapters:



00:00 Introduction and the Topic of Dating After Divorce

03:07 The Challenges of Online Dating

06:10 Why Dating is More Complicated Now

12:58 Shifting Your Mindset After a Negative Experience

21:53 Taking the Leap: Dating After Divorce

23:09 The Importance of Vulnerability in Finding Love

24:06 Smart Trade-Offs and Compromises in Relationships

26:52 Don't Compromise on Kindness and Character

35:45 Navigating the Complexities of Dating After Divorce


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Join Paulette and Abbe for this conversation on Not to go through anything hard alone if you don't have to



About Abbe:

Abbe Feder (FEED-er) founded InCircle Fertility after emerging on the other side of her all-consuming struggle with infertility and pregnancy loss. Combining professional expertise, industry know-how, and an abundance of empathy and compassion, InCircle Fertility provides coaching to individuals and couples all over the world and wherever they are on their path to parenthood.



Takeaways:


Infertility can have a significant impact on marriage, causing strain and communication challenges.
Statistics show that infertility affects a significant number of couples, highlighting the need for support and understanding.
Different perspectives on family and desires for children can create tension and conflict within a marriage.
The dilemma of frozen embryos raises legal and emotional considerations that couples must navigate.
Seeking support from experts can help couples navigate the challenges of infertility and make informed decisions.



Chapters:

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:16 Abbe's Personal Journey

05:15 The Assumption of Easy Pregnancy

07:25 The Impact of Stress on Fertility

09:09 Supporting Clients in the Infertility Journey

12:33 Assessing Physical and Medical Factors

13:09 Balancing Physical, Financial, and Emotional Well-being

14:01 The Emotional and Physical Roller Coaster of Hormone Treatments

17:40 The Need for Control and Surrender in the Infertility Journey

18:46 Infertility and its Impact on Marriage

19:40 Statistics on Infertility

20:10 Communication Challenges

21:24 Different Perspectives on Family

22:25 The Impact on Marriage

23:49 Considering Different Paths

24:02 Options for Frozen Embryos

25:26 Strain on the Marriage

26:23 Seeking Support and Expert Help

27:09 Divorce and Frozen Embryos

29:40 Legal and Emotional Considerations

30:08 Litigation and Privacy Concerns

31:01 Conscious Choices in Marriage

32:27 The Brave New World of Technology

33:25 The Importance of Knowledge and Support

34:02 Contacting and Working with Abbe

34:27 Contacting and Working with Paulette


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Join Paulette and Bob for this conversation about Using Persistent Progress & Self Checks Can Change Your World.



About Bob:

Real Estate Agent And Motivational Speaker-WhatBobThinks.



Takeaways


Recognize the need for change in your career and personal life, and be willing to take risks to pursue your passions.
Overcome external pressure and imposter syndrome by focusing on your own goals and not seeking validation from others.
Practice persistent progress and self-check by setting small goals, celebrating victories, and continuously evaluating and improving yourself.
When going through divorce, make plans in the dark and seek support from online communities and professionals who can guide you through the process.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Welcome

01:26

Bob's Transformational Story

04:13

Recognizing the Need for Change

08:05

Overcoming External Pressure

12:34

Persistent Progress and Self-Check

23:13

Bob's Divorce Story and Takeaways

31:32

Making Plans in the Dark

34:13

How to Connect with Bob


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