Big Fat Negative: TTC, fertility, infertility and IVF

I recently had a very discouraging moment with my IVF treatment and really needed someone who understands. I found this podcast, and it’s just been so comforting and normalizing to hear about others’ similar experiences.

Thank you for making me laugh out loud and feel seen and heard with this podcast. I am only four episodes in and I feel lighter. ❤️

I discovered this podcast in the depths of despair during a very unexpected cancelled cycle. Over the course of the last 11 weeks, I’ve steadily made my way through every episode. Gabby and Emma’s laments of their own disappointments through the first few episodes were EXACTLY what I needed at the time and made me feel so seen. It also made me laugh during times when I thought it was the last thing possible. I’m only sorry I’ve now made it through all the episodes! They had so many interesting interviews from all angles of “the trials of trying for a baby” that made me realize I’m not alone and/or I haven’t gone through nearly as much as some women. One of my favorite parts was Prof Tim and the “old wive’s tales” and eventually “IVF what the F?!” and his medically backed knowledge and thoughtful responses even to some of the silliest of questions. Being an American, (and not listening to the episodes in real time) meant that some references were lost on me and any information about the NHS wasn’t relevant, but I don’t fault them for that since that’s where they are! And it was interesting to hear how things are done a bit differently elsewhere in the world. I do hope they come back with more episodes but… being that I just entered yet another TWW maybe I’ll just got back to the beginning. Absolutely so much love and gratitude to Gabby and Emma - I wish you both the best.

Emma and Gabby are exactly the TTC support I needed—helpful insights, humor, and solidarity during a very hard and otherwise isolating time.