Big Sexy Chat Podcast

Chrystal & Merf
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Big Sexy Chat: 2 Rad Fatties Unapologetically Sitting Around Chewing the Fat!  Current Events, Hot Topics, Viewer Questions, and Vibe of the Week. Fat Politics, TV Shows with fat characters, ditching diet culture, #sexnotdiets, sex, sex toys, relationships, mental wellness, sex toy reviews, cannabis, cbd, medical fatphobia, glorifying fat bodies, movies, current events, hot topics, fashion, lingerie, Black Lives Matter, and pretty much anything under the big fat sun! Email: bigsexychatpod@gmail.com

  1. Embodied Sovereignty: Healing, Ritual, and Reclamation with Rawiyah Tariq

    NOV 7

    Embodied Sovereignty: Healing, Ritual, and Reclamation with Rawiyah Tariq

    Send us a text This week, we’re honored to sit down with the brilliant Rawiyah Tariq; a Black, fat, disabled, and neurodivergent artist, writer, and healer whose work reclaims space for marginalized bodies and spirits through ritual, storytelling, and embodiment. In this conversation, Rawiyah shares the wisdom behind their practice, A Sovereign Embodiment, and speaks candidly about navigating medical trauma, reclaiming pleasure through kink, and redefining beauty and power on their own terms. Their story is one of survival, sovereignty, and softness, a reminder that liberation begins in the body. We talk about: ✨ The spiritual and emotional layers of embodiment ✨ How medical trauma and fatphobia intersect ✨ Kink as a space of reclamation and healing ✨ The balance between ritual, magic, and practical self-care ✨ What it means to hold yourself, and others, through pain and pleasure This episode is a tender, powerful reminder that healing isn’t linear; it’s embodied, sacred, and deeply human. Connect with Rawiyah: 🌐 mammyisdead.com 📸 Instagram 📘 Facebook 💼 LinkedIn 🩵 Bluesky Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    56 min
  2. Mary Lambert’s Tempest of Liberation: Same Love to Self-Love

    SEP 26

    Mary Lambert’s Tempest of Liberation: Same Love to Self-Love

    Send us a text Mary Lambert joins us for a powerful, intimate, and joyful conversation that bridges music, activism, and radical self-love. From her breakout with Same Love to her new anthem The Tempest, Mary shares how art becomes resistance and why fat liberation is at the heart of her work. We dive into: The story and politics behind The Tempest and why every lyric matters.How Mary’s journey through poetry, community, and visibility shaped her fat liberation voice.Building the Fat Friendly Medical Provider Directory and fighting for healthcare access.Intimacy, desire, and why pleasure isn’t an act of charity, it’s liberation.The power of workshops like Everybody Is A Babe to dismantle shame and spark joy.Mary also gets candid about sex toys (yes, “The Boss” makes an appearance), queer joy, playlists for pleasure, and how choosing authenticity has transformed her life. ✨ This episode is a reminder that liberation isn’t just personal, it’s collective, messy, sexy, and revolutionary. Learn more about Mary at marylambertsings.com Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    1h 4m
  3. Jeff Jenkins And The Weight Of Representation

    SEP 12

    Jeff Jenkins And The Weight Of Representation

    Send us a text What does it mean to carry the weight of representation as a fat, Black traveler on the global stage? In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf sit down with Jeff Jenkins, award-winning travel and food personality, speaker, podcast host, and creator of Chubby Diaries. Jeff is also the former host of Never Say Never with Jeff Jenkins on National Geographic, where he brought inclusive, joyful storytelling to audiences worldwide We dive into: Jeff’s journey from personal travel diaries to global advocacy for fat travelers.The realities of airline seats, resort furniture, and clothing access - and the small fixes that make a world of difference.How representation in media and tourism changes not just experiences, but lives.Jeff’s philosophy on confidence, self-acceptance, and finding joy outside your comfort zone.What’s next: new projects, a documentary in the works, and his mission to humanize fat people worldwide.This conversation is about more than travel; it’s about visibility, belonging, and the power of living fully in your body, wherever you are. 🔗 Connect with Jeff Jenkins: Website: chubbydiaries.com Instagram: @chubbydiaries Facebook: Chubby Diaries Travel YouTube: Chubby Diaries LinkedIn: Jeff Jenkins Pinterest: Chubby Diaries TikTok: @chubbydiaries 🎧 Tune in and feel the weight of representation transform into fat joy. Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    45 min
  4. Confessions of an Amazon: Fetishes, Fat Desire & Power

    AUG 29

    Confessions of an Amazon: Fetishes, Fat Desire & Power

    Send us a text Chrystal and Merf welcome back Amazon Amanda, towering fetish icon, professional Amazon, and founder of BBW XXX Adventures, for Confessions of an Amazon: Fetishes, Fat Desire & Power. Amanda takes us inside her world of fetish, where “no nudity, no sex, no release” still means high intensity. From lift-and-carry sessions and scissor holds to the creation of BBW XXX Adventures, she shares how she built a career that celebrates fat desire, supersized BBWs, and true body diversity in porn. We also dive into boundaries, burnout, softness in a hypersexualized industry, and why representation matters. And just when you think it couldn’t get wilder, we drop in a Listener Mail Break featuring one of the strangest texts we’ve ever received, and Amanda’s unfiltered reaction says it all. ✨ What you’ll hear in this episode: Confessions from Amanda’s 20+ years as a professional AmazonLaunching BBW XXX Adventures and spotlighting supersized BBWsBurnout, boundaries, and keeping space for softnessListener mail: when kink meets chaosFetishes, fat desire, and representation in pornToys, f**k machines, and sex-tech on tour📌 Find Amanda online: AmazonAmanda.comBBWXXXAdventures.comTwitter: @AmazonAmanda & @BBWAdventures 📌 Find us online: Website: BigSexyChat.comInstagram & socials: @BigSexyChatEmail: bigsexychatpod@gmail.com Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    52 min
  5. More Than Just The Tip w/Sheri Winston

    AUG 6

    More Than Just The Tip w/Sheri Winston

    Send us a text This week on Big Sexy Chat, we’re joined by the incomparable Sheri Winston — award-winning author, wholistic sexuality teacher, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center — for a deep, delicious, and occasionally freaky conversation that peels back layers (literally and figuratively) on pleasure, anatomy, aging, and so much more. We’re talking foreskins, pelvic floors, prostate play, menopause, masturbation, and why spontaneous arousal is a myth worth retiring. In this episode, we explore: Why foreskin matters (and what was taken from many penis-owners at birth)What Sheri calls the “sliding sleeve effect” and how it changes vaginal intercourseHow to build your own erotic fire — especially after menopauseProstate pleasure, pelvic floor strength, and underrated erogenous zonesHow to become an erotic virtuoso at any age, with any bodyCircumcision history, hygiene myths, and medical gaslightingWhy your genitals aren’t dirty — and your bidet might save your sex lifeSheri’s go-to metaphors: crockpots, firewood, and penis-hand puppets (yes, really)From anatomy to arousal, Sheri brings humor, insight, and unfiltered truth in a way only she can. Whether you’ve got a penis, play with one, or just want to understand bodies better, this episode is a must-listen. 🔗 Connect with Sheri Winston: 🌐 Website & free ebook: intimateartscenter.com📸 Instagram: @intimateartscenter🐦 X/Twitter: @SheriWinston📘 Facebook: facebook.com/intimateartscenter🎥 YouTube: youtube.com/user/juicygoddesssheri📚 Featured Books: Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried PleasureSucculent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and PracticeSecrets of the Sex Masters (contributor)Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    1h 6m
  6. Leather, Lube & Liberation: BDSM, Fat Joy & Sex Signals

    JUL 23

    Leather, Lube & Liberation: BDSM, Fat Joy & Sex Signals

    Send us a text In this juicy new episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are back with updates, laughter, and deep dives into fat pleasure, power exchange, and the ways we signal our sexy truths to the world. 🎙️ Merf shares her exciting new job and consulting biz helping survivors of trauma, plus her upcoming debut as a dominatrix (meet Madam Cyn)! 💬 Chrystal talks about her recent seminar, and the joys of building body-positive merch from scratch. 🔥 Together, they explore BDSM dungeon dynamics, ethical non-monogamy signals like black rings and bandanas, and how kinky elders are still getting it on (and passing STIs). 👵 From perimenopause to progesterone, hormones to Hustler Store finds, the duo doesn’t shy away from real talk about aging, joy, and sexual freedom. 💥 They also discuss the recent viral stories of fatphobia, weight loss discourse, and why fat joy is a form of resistance. ✨ Stick around for plans to interview legends like Joan Price, Amazon Amanda, and possibly… a dominatrix roundtable?! Yes, please. 🖤 Episode keywords: BDSM, Dominatrix, Non-Monogamy, Fat Joy, Menopause, Sex Toys, Fatphobia, Signaling, Bandana Code, Black Ring, Ethical Kink, Sex Over 60, Body Liberation, Fat Liberation, Health at Every Size Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    42 min
  7. Hot Thigh Summer: Traveling Fat with Jen McLellan

    JUN 13

    Hot Thigh Summer: Traveling Fat with Jen McLellan

    Send us a text Traveling while fat? Oh, we’re going there — and we’re taking the aisle seat and the window. In this episode of Big Sexy Chat, Chrystal and Merf are joined by the incomparable Jen McLellan: author, speaker, certified childbirth educator, and the force behind Plus Size Birth and the Plus Mommy Podcast. Together, they dive into the joys and frustrations of navigating the world in a fat body when it comes to planes, cars, and hotel beds — with zero shame and maximum honesty. From seatbelt extenders and compression socks to airplane bathroom acrobatics, car rentals, TheraGuns, travel-friendly sex toys, and awkward TSA moments, no topic is off-limits. There’s laughter, a little rage, a few fan recommendations (hello, perimenopause), and a whole lot of empowerment packed into this juicy ride-along. And just when you think the episode's winding down — surprise! We've got a breaking update from Tigress Osborn, Executive Director of NAAFA, with an exclusive message for our listeners. This one’s for the babes who refuse to shrink themselves, in size or spirit. Guest Info: 🌐 PlusSizeBirth.com 🎧 Plus Mommy Podcast 📸 @plusmommy on Instagram 📘 Facebook Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    54 min
  8. Inclusive Kink, Fat Pleasure, and Adaptive Sex Gear - with Sportsheets’ Rin Musick

    MAY 22

    Inclusive Kink, Fat Pleasure, and Adaptive Sex Gear - with Sportsheets’ Rin Musick

    Send us a text In this juicy, gear-loving episode, Chrystal and Merf sit down with Rin Musick—award-winning road warrior, longtime adult retail expert, and current Brand Ambassador for Sportsheets. Together, they dive into fat-positive and accessible design in the world of BDSM and sex gear, including the now-iconic Plus-Size Doggy Style Strap and the groundbreaking Pivot Collection. This episode is overflowing with laughs, sex-nerd joy, and real talk about body diversity, kink, and pleasure innovation for every body. Rin shares how Sportsheets is reimagining what inclusive intimacy tools can look like—and how fat folks, disabled babes, and kinky cuties are finally being centered in design. 🎁 Use code BIGSEXY20 at Sportsheets.com for 20% off your order! Topics Covered: The story behind the Plus-Size Doggy Style Strap (and why it’s a game-changer)The Pivot Collection: positioning support for fat, disabled, aging, or tired bodiesDesigning sex gear for real bodies (no airbrushing here!)Why fat liberation and kink often go hand-in-handAddressing ableism and sizeism in the adult industryTips for finding inclusive play parties and navigating kink communities safelyA few too-relatable tales of accidental anal, clapping bellies, and creative strap-on techniquesFeatured Product Highlights: Plus-Size Doggy Style StrapPivot Positioning PartnerConvertible Toy MountDeluxe Door Jam Sex SlingSaffron Strap-On Harness CollectionVelvet Noir Nipple Suction ToysGuest Links: 🌐 Website: Sportsheets.com 📸 Instagram: @sportsheets 📘 Facebook: Sportsheets International 📺 YouTube: Sportsheets Official Listener Question: Megan asked about finding non-fetishizing fat-friendly play parties. The hosts share tips for exploring local kink scenes, finding community via FetLife and Facebook groups, and understanding the culture of ethical non-monogamy and munches. Don’t forget: Fat joy is resistance—and we’re here for all the hot, affirming, body-inclusive pleasure you can find. Support the show BigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com. You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat. Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPod Check out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!) Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

    1h 9m
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Big Sexy Chat: 2 Rad Fatties Unapologetically Sitting Around Chewing the Fat!  Current Events, Hot Topics, Viewer Questions, and Vibe of the Week. Fat Politics, TV Shows with fat characters, ditching diet culture, #sexnotdiets, sex, sex toys, relationships, mental wellness, sex toy reviews, cannabis, cbd, medical fatphobia, glorifying fat bodies, movies, current events, hot topics, fashion, lingerie, Black Lives Matter, and pretty much anything under the big fat sun! Email: bigsexychatpod@gmail.com

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  • Creator
    Chrystal & Merf
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    30
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Big Sexy Chat Podcast
  • Show Website
    Big Sexy Chat Podcast

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