Brave Widow Show

Emily Tanner

Inspiration for young widows to help heal their heart, find hope, and dream again for the future.

  1. 6d ago

    5 Widow Coaches Share What Finally Helped Them Heal (Faith + Real Stories) BW: 197

    Brave Widow Resources Mentioned  Join us for Renew: A Brave Widow Retreat: https://bravewidow.com/retreat Join the free Brave Widow Community: https://bravewidow.com/free Brave Widow Academy (apply): https://bravewidow.com/academy Schedule a free, no-pressure call: https://bravewidow.com/call   Description / Show Notes When you hear “widow,” do you picture old, sad, and alone? These 5 faith-based widows will change that perspective.   In this roundtable, Brave Widow coaches share raw, faith-filled stories of losing their husbands, feeling shattered, trying counseling, books, GriefShare, and groups… and still feeling stuck.    Then they talk about how finding a like-minded widow community, real tools, and tiny brave steps helped them rebuild confidence, purpose, and hope.     If you’re a widow who feels lost, lonely, and “not truly living,” this is for you.   In this episode you’ll hear: Why so many of us hated the word “widow” What life looked like before Brave Widow (brain fog, isolation, “walking in place”) How faith-based community felt different from therapy and generic grief groups Specific tiny steps that rebuilt confidence, identity, and friendships How tools like Grief Recovery Method created peace with “unsaid” conversations The choices widows make when they experience the biggest transformation What our coaches would say to the widow who thinks she’s “too broken” or “too late”   Chapters 02:00 – Meet the 5 Brave Widow coaches 10:30 – Life before Brave Widow: grief groups, therapy, and feeling stuck 22:00 – Finding a faith-based widow community online 32:00 – Tiny brave steps: leaving the house, trying new groups, asking for help 44:00 – Grief Recovery Method and completing “unsaid” conversations 55:00 – Rebuilding confidence, boundaries, and a new relationship with God 1:05:00 – What transformed widows do differently 1:09:00 – An invitation if you feel “too broken” or “too far gone”   Call to action If you’re tired of feeling lost and alone and want a structured, faith-based plan to move forward, book a free consult at BraveWidow.com and see if Brave Widow Academy is a fit for you.       💛 Ready for deeper support? Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy   Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows: @BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook   💬 If this episode helped you, please:  Hit Subscribe  Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person   If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy.   I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person.   By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world.    After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief.   Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again.   I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips.   I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again.   How I Got Here…   2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap.   2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different.   2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did.   Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice.   Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding.   Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs.    Today: My work is simple:   Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

    1h 12m
  2. May 18

    “You Don’t Have To Be Strong Here” | Renew Retreat For Widows In Oregon BW: 196

    Brave Widow Resources Mentioned * Join us for Renew: A Brave Widow Retreat: https://bravewidow.com/retreat * Join the free Brave Widow Community: https://bravewidow.com/free * Brave Widow Academy (apply): https://bravewidow.com/academy * Schedule a free, no-pressure call: https://bravewidow.com/call Description / Show Notes This conversation with Denise, a first-year widow and retreat planner, is a behind-the-scenes look at the Brave Widow Renew Retreat in Southern Oregon. We talk about the shock of “the business of widowhood,” surviving the first holidays, and why a quiet, beautiful place in nature can help your nervous system finally exhale. If you’re tired of being “the strong one” and want three days where someone else handles the logistics so you can rest, grieve, and re-center with widows who truly understand, this episode is for you. In this episode, you’ll hear: * Denise’s fast, heartbreaking loss and the “business of widowhood” that stole her space to grieve * How she found Brave Widow right before the holidays and finally let herself fall apart * Why this unexpected Oregon resort has become a place of deep peace and healing * The vision behind the Renew Retreat: rest, renewal, and baby steps into your next season * What to actually expect: travel, lodging, Crater Lake, spa time, stargazing, and more * How to know if Renew Retreat is the right next step for you Chapters (approximate): * 00:00 – Meeting Denise & “this was such a God thing” * 02:00 – Their love story, sudden cancer, and becoming a widow overnight * 05:30 – The business of widowhood: passwords, bills, and no space to grieve * 08:30 – Finding Brave Widow before the holidays & finally collapsing at mom’s house * 13:30 – Why this small Oregon resort became a place of peace and healing * 23:00 – The heart of Renew Retreat: rest, renewal, and baby-deer next steps * 34:00 – What you’ll experience: Crater Lake, spa, trails, stargazing, community * 39:30 – How to join us at Renew Retreat 💛 Ready for deeper support?Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows:@BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook 💬 If this episode helped you, please: * Hit Subscribe * Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support * Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy. I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person. By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world. After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief. Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again. I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips. I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again. How I Got Here… 2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap. 2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different. 2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did. Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice. Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding. Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs. Today: My work is simple: Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

    41 min
  3. May 12

    Hope Is Coming: What Your Future Self Wants You To Know About Widowhood [Brave Widow Academy Stories]

    Brave Widow Resources Mentioned Join the free Brave Widow Community: https://bravewidow.com/free Brave Widow Academy (apply): https://bravewidow.com/academy Renew: A Brave Widow Retreat: https://bravewidow.com/retreat Schedule a free, no-pressure call: https://bravewidow.com/call   Description / Show Notes What if your future self could send you a 30-second video today and say, “Don’t give up. Hope is coming”?   In this episode, I share real (anonymous) stories and reflections from our most recent Brave Widow Academy graduates. You’ll hear what they wish they could go back and tell themselves six months ago, what they’re most proud of, and why walking with others through grief changes everything.   I’ll also break down who is typically in the Academy, what actually happens over those six months, and a special bonus for those who join the next round starting July 13.   Whether you ever join the Academy or not, I want you to walk away believing this: your future can feel very different from today.    Hope is coming!   Chapters: 02:00 Why I’m sharing graduation stories (and your main takeaway) 04:45 What it’s like when life starts to feel lighter again 06:30 The visible shift from first call to graduation 08:30 The power of proximity: who you’re “in the room” with 11:00 The question I asked our graduates about their past selves 15:00 What they’re most proud of: hard choices, boundaries, firsts 18:00 Why “I care how I look again” is a massive win 21:00 No widow left behind: when you feel “behind” or overwhelmed 23:00 The real goal of Academy (for the rest of your life) 26:00 Who is usually in the room? Real stats from all cohorts 29:00 Details: July 13 cohort schedule & how to apply 34:30 Early enrollment bonus: 4 private 1:1 coaching sessions 36:00 Retreat invitation & why it pairs perfectly with Academy 38:00 Faith, grief, and a God who can handle your pain       💛 Ready for deeper support? Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy   Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows: @BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook   💬 If this episode helped you, please:  Hit Subscribe  Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person   If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy.   I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person.   By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world.    After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief.   Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again.   I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips.   I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again.   How I Got Here…   2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap.   2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different.   2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did.   Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice.   Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding.   Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs.    Today: My work is simple:   Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

    38 min
  4. May 6

    From Barely Surviving to Rebuilding: 5 Levels of Support for Widows - BW: 194

    Brave Widow Resources Mentioned Join the free Brave Widow Community: https://bravewidow.com/free Brave Widow Academy (apply): https://bravewidow.com/academy Renew: A Brave Widow Retreat: https://bravewidow.com/retreat     Description / Show Notes In today’s episode, I walk you through the exact ways you can get support inside Brave Widow – from completely free resources to the most personalized, hands-on coaching – so you can stop guessing and know which next step is right for you.   If you’re somewhere between barely surviving and starting to wonder if there’s more than just “getting through the day,” this is for you.    We’ll talk about: A totally free community where you don’t have to do this alone A gentle new space (Foundations) for deep grief and overwhelm Brave Widow Academy for widows who are ready to rebuild 1:1 coaching for the most tailored support Our in‑person Renew retreat for widows ready to recenter and rise   You do not have to do all of these. My goal is to help you see the “support ladder” and pick the one step that fits where you are right now.   Chapters: 02:00 – Why I’m creating a “support ladder” for widows 03:20 – Level 1: Free Brave Widow Community (what you get & who it’s for) 09:20 – Level 2: Introducing Brave Widow Foundations 22:40 – Level 3: Brave Widow Academy – when you’re ready to rebuild 46:00 – Level 4: 1‑1 coaching – when you want a guide just for you 60:00 – Level 5: Renew – the Brave Widow Retreat 66:00 – Feeling overwhelmed? Here’s the one step to take 69:00 – Final encouragement: don’t do this alone     💛 Ready for deeper support? Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy   Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows: @BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook   💬 If this episode helped you, please:  Hit Subscribe  Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person   If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy.   I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person.   By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world.    After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief.   Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again.   I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips.   I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again.   How I Got Here…   2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap.   2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different.   2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did.   Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice.   Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding.   Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs.    Today: My work is simple:   Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

    1h 7m
  5. Apr 28

    Stuck In Grief After Losing Your Spouse? 4 Steps To Rebuild Your Life | BW 193

    Brave Widow Resources Mentioned Apply for Brave Widow Academy (next group starts July) https://bravewidow.com/academy Join the free Brave Widow Community + weekly calls and prayer nights - https://bravewidow.com/free Schedule a no-pressure call with Emily to figure out your best next step - https://bravewidow.com/call     Description / Show Notes If you’ve ever thought, “Surely this can’t be the rest of my life… but I have no idea what’s next,” this episode is for you.   After coaching hundreds of widows, I’ve seen the same pattern over and over. It’s not “time heals all wounds.”    It’s a simple 4-step path: Stabilize Explore Build Expand   In this episode of The Brave Widow Show, I walk you through each step so you can find where you are and what to focus on next, without guilt, pressure, or rushing your grief.   You’ll hear: Why “being strong” is the opposite of what your heart and nervous system need in early grief What to do when life feels like a blurry maintenance mode and you’re just “walking in place” How to treat trying new things as experiments, not pass/fail tests of whether you’re “doing widowhood right” The shift from simply surviving each day… to actually feeling glimmers of excitement about your future again What “expansion” looks like (from new friendships to writing books to becoming a Brave Widow coach)   And I’ll invite you into our always-free Brave Widow community so you don’t have to walk this road alone.   Join the free Brave Widow Community: 👉 https://bravewidow.com/free   Learn about Brave Widow Academy: 👉https://bravewidow.com/academy   Chapter Timestamps 00:00 – Why I’m “on fire” today & my heart for widows 01:10 – My “secret agenda” behind the always-free Brave Widow community 04:05 – Time doesn’t magically heal: the real reason you still feel stuck 05:40 – Step 1: Stabilize (getting out of survival mode without guilt) 11:20 – Step 2: Explore (treating new experiences as experiments, not failures) 15:05 – Step 3: Build (creating a routine and life that finally feels like you) 17:40 – Step 4: Expand (growing into dreams you never thought possible) 22:20 – How long stabilization takes & why it’s different for everyone 24:00 – Your next brave step: free community & Brave Widow Academy   💛 Ready for deeper support? Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy   Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows: @BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook   💬 If this episode helped you, please:  Hit Subscribe  Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person   If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy.   I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person.   By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world.    After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief.   Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again.   I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips.   I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again.   How I Got Here…   2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap.   2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different.   2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did.   Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice.   Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding.   Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs.    Today: My work is simple:   Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

    27 min
  6. Apr 21

    BW 192: He Died On Our Dream Trip To Greece: Jen’s Widow Story & Finding Community Again

    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE   Connect with Jen Website & contact: https://www.itslifey.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61573198074373 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itslifeyco/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ItsLifey-co   Brave Widow Resources Mentioned Apply for Brave Widow Academy (next group starts July) https://bravewidow.com/academy Join the free Brave Widow Community + weekly calls and prayer nights - https://bravewidow.com/free Schedule a no-pressure call with Emily to figure out your best next step - https://bravewidow.com/call   What happens when your husband dies in front of you on your dream vacation in Greece… and you’re completely alone on an island with no 911?   In this episode, Jen Newberg, founder of It’s Lifey, shares the night her husband Jack died in their hotel room, the chaos of navigating police and embassies in a foreign country, the crash that came when she tried to “go back to normal,” and how that pain turned into a lifeline of retreats and community for widows who feel alone.   If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I normal? Will I ever feel like myself again?” this conversation is for you.   In this episode: The night everything changed on a “perfect” trip to Greece Trying to save Jack with CPR while medics were still being found Coming home to 850 people at the wake and an empty bed at night The panic attack that sent Jen to the ER and why she took short‑term disability Why “you cannot do this alone” became the heartbeat of It’s Lifey How retreats, support circles, and vetted resources help widows breathe again Practical ways to ask for the help you actually need (beyond flowers)   Chapters:  0:00 – Welcome & Brave Widow Academy July 13 invite 2:32 – Meet Jen Newberg, founder of It’s Lifey 3:18 – Jen’s blended family & “imperfect” but loving marriage 6:55 – “I think I’m having a heart attack” on a Greek island 7:40 – No 911, scrambling for help & Jack’s final moments 9:58 – Flying home alone & facing the wake and funeral 15:45 – Panic attack, ER visit & taking short‑term disability 18:20 – The retreat that inspired It’s Lifey for widows 19:15 – Widow retreats, support circles & community that “gets it” 22:30 – Building a trusted resource network for widows 27:55 – Becoming more whole and confident after loss 29:05 – How to connect with Jen & It’s Lifey 32:40 – Brave Widow Academy: next steps if you want a roadmap and community   💛 Ready for deeper support? Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy   Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows: @BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook     💬 If this episode helped you, please:  Hit Subscribe  Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person   If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy.   I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person.   By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world.    After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief.   Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again.   I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips.   I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again.   How I Got Here…   2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap.   2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different.   2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did.   Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice.   Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding.   Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs.    Today: My work is simple:   Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

    33 min
  7. Apr 14

    BW 191: Death Doula Shares How To Face Death, Grief & Love Without Fear | Julie Wright Halbert

    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE   Connect with Julie Website & contact: risingphoenixlife.com Email: Julie@risingphoenixlife.com Substack: “Live Awake” by Julie Wright Halbert Free meditation & book updates: link in the description   Brave Widow Resources Mentioned Apply for Brave Widow Academy (next group starts July) https://bravewidow.com/academy Join the free Brave Widow Community + weekly calls and prayer nights - https://bravewidow.com/free Schedule a no-pressure call with Emily to figure out your best next step - https://bravewidow.com/call Get updates on the RENEW in-person retreat and the new deep-grief space (Retreat + program updates coming soon on the Brave Widow website.)   New here? Start with the free community and let us walk with you. You don’t have to do widowhood alone.       What if death, grief, and love could all live in the same room… and it didn’t feel so terrifying? In this powerful conversation, I sit down with death doula, transformational soul coach, and grief-literacy advocate Julie Wright Halbert to talk about walking with our loved ones at the end of life, honoring our own grief, and why we are never as alone as we feel. Julie shares how the sudden death of her young husband shattered her old life as a national education attorney and led her into sacred work at the bedside of the dying. We talk about identity after loss, “living and dying awake,” and very practical ways to support someone who is transitioning… without losing yourself. We also wrap up with some big Brave Widow updates: our first in-person retreat, a new space for widows in deep grief, and what’s next for the Academy.   In this episode, we cover: Julie’s story: from national education attorney and young wife to sudden widow What a death doula actually does (and why this role matters for widows) How to sit with someone who is dying without trying to “fix” anything The difference between taking on someone’s grief vs. holding sacred space Why we avoid talking about death… and how that makes widowhood even lonelier How Julie talks to her own children about their dad’s death and legacy Simple practices to bring more presence, love, and peace into the room Practical Brave Widow updates: retreat, deep-grief space, Academy, and free support   Time Stamps 00:00 – Welcome + Brave Widow updates teaser 01:00 – Meet Julie: attorney, wife, widow, and now death doula 03:00 – Jim’s sudden illness, rapid decline, and death at home 05:00 – From “serious law career” to transformational soul coach 07:30 – What is a death doula and how do they help families? 10:00 – Planning for end of life: senses, setting, and spiritual support 12:00 – How Julie doesn’t “take on” every family’s grief 15:00 – Love at birth, love at death: a powerful bedside story 18:00 – Julie’s book Divine Ashes Ascending and how it guides your own healing 22:00 – Helping children say goodbye and capture legacy 24:00 – How to connect with Julie + her free meditation 25:00 – Brave Widow Retreat “RENEW” in southern Oregon (June 28–July 1) 27:00 – New space for widows in deep grief (no timelines, no pressure) 28:30 – Next Brave Widow Academy cohort (starting July – applications open) 32:00 – Always-free Brave Widow community + weekly calls 34:00 – How investing in yourself also blesses other widows     💛 Ready for deeper support? Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy   Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows: @BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook     💬 If this episode helped you, please:  Hit Subscribe  Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person   If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy.   I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person.   By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world.    After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief.   Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again.   I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips.   I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again.   How I Got Here…   2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap.   2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different.   2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did.   Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice.   Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding.   Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs.    Today: My work is simple:   Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

    35 min
  8. Mar 31

    BW 190: Is Year 2 Of Grief Harder? Widow Q&A On Timing, Triggers & “Time Heals” Myths

    MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE Apply for Brave Widow Academy: 👉 bravewidow.com/academy Book a free consult (no pressure): 👉 bravewidow.com/call Join the next free live training on the four seasons of grief: 👉 bravewidow.com/liveyt Is the second year of grief really harder? How long should you wait to go through your spouse’s things, make big decisions, or feel “ready” to rebuild your life?   In this power‑hour Q&A, I answer the most common questions widows ask me about grief and timing: “Shouldn’t I feel better by now?”, “Why do grief waves still hit me out of nowhere?”, and “Does time actually heal, or am I just… stuck?”   You’ll hear: Why I never tell widows “the second year is harder” What’s actually happening in your brain and body when grief “waves” slam you Why time by itself doesn’t heal your heart (it’s time + action) How to know when you’re ready to: Go through your spouse’s things Make big life decisions (moving, retiring, dating, etc.) Start rebuilding friendships, work, travel, and purpose What to do when family thinks you “should be further along” Why healing is possible even if it’s been 4, 10, or 25+ years   If you’ve been waiting on time to fix this… this episode will lovingly challenge that and show you a different way forward.   ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 Power Hour intro: grief & timing questions 01:00 “Is the second year of grief harder?” 04:00 The danger of self‑fulfilling grief prophecies 08:00 Why year one and year two feel so different 09:00 The myth that “time heals all wounds” 11:00 Time vs. time plus action in grief 12:00 When is the right time to go through my spouse’s things? 15:00 When is the right time to make big decisions? 17:00 Retiring, work, and not walking away into an empty life 20:00 A widow’s story: “I’m doing great and I’m excited again” 21:00 Why grief hits “out of nowhere” (triggers, seasons, and your nervous system) 26:00 Learning to surf grief waves instead of drowning in them 27:00 How to know if you’re ready to date, work, travel or dream again 29:00 “Why does everyone think I should be further along?” 32:00 Healing even after many years of being stuck 40:00 “I’ve waited 7+ years… should I just keep waiting?” 44:00 Time won’t rebuild your life, but you can 45:00 The Four Seasons of Grief framework & free class 47:00 What we do inside Brave Widow Academy   🎁 Free Resources for Widows Take the free Four Seasons of Grief quiz: find out which season you’re in and what to do next → bravewidow.com/quiz Join the free Brave Widow Community and weekly live calls → bravewidow.com/free Register for the next live Four Seasons of Grief class → bravewidow.com/liveyt   💛 Ready for deeper support? Brave Widow Academy is my 6‑month, faith‑based program to help you heal your heart and rebuild a life you can love again. Small group, step‑by‑step roadmap, and weekly support. Learn more and apply here: bravewidow.com/academy   Subscribe for more faith‑based, hopeful grief support for widows: @BraveWidow on YouTube, TikTok, Instagram & Facebook   WHO THIS IS FOR Brave Widow Academy is for widows (from a few months to 20+ years out) who are: Tired of waiting on “time” to magically fix things Done just surviving and ready to rebuild intentionally Longing for a faith-based, hopeful roadmap and real community Ready to take gentle, practical steps toward a life they can love again   If that’s you, apply at bravewidow.com/academy. Our next small cohort (under 20 women) starts Thursday, April 2.     💬 If this episode helped you, please:  Hit Subscribe  Leave a quick rating & review – it helps more widows find this support Share this with a friend who’s facing grief or the holidays without their person   If you’re new here, my name is Emily Tanner. I’m the founder of Brave Widow and Brave Widow Academy.   I help widows move from barely surviving their loss… to rebuilding a life they can actually love again without feeling like they’re betraying their person.   By day (and for 20+ years), I’ve led large teams and complex operations in the corporate world.    After my husband Nathan died in 2021, just shy of our 20-year anniversary, I took everything I knew about leadership, systems, and change — and started applying it to grief.   Since then, I’ve: Shared my story publicly to make widows feel less alone. Launched the Brave Widow podcast, now with 180+ episodes and listeners around the world. Coached hundreds of widows 1:1 and in groups, and talked with thousands more through the podcast, communities, and events. Built Brave Widow Academy, a 6-month coaching program with a clear framework for moving from deep grief to rebuilding a life you can love again.   I don’t teach “just think positive” grief tips.   I teach widows how to: Heal their heart. Stop waiting on “time” to fix everything. Take small, brave steps toward a life that feels meaningful again.   How I Got Here…   2021: My husband Nathan dies unexpectedly. I’m 4 kids in, overwhelmed, and drowning in paperwork, decisions, and pain. Therapy helps, but I still feel stuck with no roadmap.   2021–2022: I start devouring books, interviewing widows, trying grief groups, and studying coaching — desperate to find something that actually helps me feel different.   2022: I start the Brave Widow podcast, recording episodes while terrified and crying between takes — but determined that no widow should feel as alone as I did.   Year 1: I begin coaching widows 1:1. Word spreads quietly. The same patterns and problems keep showing up, so I start building frameworks instead of one-off advice.   Year 2: I launch Brave Widow Academy — a structured, 6-month coaching program with a step-by-step path: from deep grief, to stability, to rebuilding.   Year 3: Brave Widow has listeners around the world. I’ve personally coached hundreds of widows and spoken with thousands more through consults, lives, emails, and DMs.    Today: My work is simple:   Help widows stop surviving each day… and start rebuilding a life that makes them genuinely glad to be alive again.

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