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Break the Cycle with DSD Duane Robert
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The podcast focusing on recovering from toxic narcissistic relationships with specific help to break the cycle of abuse for yourself and children. All are welcome and this podcast, and YouTube channel, serve both men and women, moms and dads. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
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213. Why are dad’s rejected? How to cope with the pain!
Father’s always seem to be rejected by children, we discuss the reasons and how to cope.
Show Notes
A common problem people experience in high conflict narcissistic divorces and custody is being rejected by your children. This is a very painful thing to experience and it is very hurtful when you feel your own children “rejecting” you. In this episode Duane discusses the reason this occurs and ways to help you cope with the frustration and disappointment when your children are used as weapons.
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Table of Contents
🔗Links Mentioned During Show
DSD Discord
DSD Channel Memberships
Show Sponsor
This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis
Links to find out more!
DSD YouTube Channel
DSD Website
Hypnosis Downloads
The M.E.A.N Workbook
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212. Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse
Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse
Show Notes
DSD discusses the reality of it taking time to learn how futile it can be struggling to make a different in your life with a narcissistic ex. Duane shares how he continues to see people struggling with this concept. You get stuck in the mode EXPECTING justice and accountability. He shares how he hates to see people only learn this lesson after losing in court and then questioning why they even fought for it. Ultimately you have to take things slow and give yourself time to accept and see the reality of your situation. In the end focusing on your children and the relationship you have, and are building with them, is the key!
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During the show you can call in live at
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Table of Contents
00:00:00 - Start
00:01:49 - New Topic
00:01:58 - New Topic
00:18:46 - New Topic
00:25:18 - New Topic
00:31:19 - New Topic
00:36:13 - New Topic
00:46:15 - New Topic
00:50:19 - NEW CALLER
01:02:07 - CALLER END
01:03:39 - NEW CALLER
01:10:48 - NEW CALLER
01:12:16 - New Topic
01:19:05 - New Topic
🔗Links Mentioned During Show
DSD Discord
DSD Channel Memberships
Show Sponsor
This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis
Links to find out more!
DSD YouTube Channel
DSD Website
Hypnosis Downloads
The M.E.A.N Workbook
Channel Memberships
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211. Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important!
Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important!
Show Notes
In this episode Duane talks about the importance of having a hobby or something that you enjoy doing. He also talks about the struggles when you are down, depressed, and beaten with ways to push yourself to break yourself out of that downward spiral. He then fields questions from others on silver bullets, narcissists seeking control, being forced to spend time with the ex, and finally an update on his current medical situation.
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During the show you can call in live at
1 (424) 373-5483
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Web Interface - free dialing
You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website
Table of Contents
00:00 Start
02:55 - Welcome to the livestream
06:04 - Finding some positive to do hobbies
17:19 - Advice on handling message about school
21:20 - Narc fishing for control
29:57 - Supervised visits and lashing out
36:14 - Having to spend time with the ex
37:16 - When drop offs are late
39:54 - Silver bullet - supervised visits
47:02 - Don't respond immediately
52:49 - Worry about kids and narcissism
59:41 - Paranoia and narcissists
01:01:27 - Graduations with ex
01:08:03 - Realizing you have narc friends
01:12:03 - Getting to the other side!
01:13:03 - Our child as abusers?
01:21:48 - Ex should be normal around kids
01:25:31 - Narc mom blaming you?
01:31:32 - Medical update on me
01:35:21 - End of show wrap-up
🔗Links Mentioned During Show
DSD Discord
DSD Channel Memberships
Show Sponsor
This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis
Links to find out more!
DSD YouTube Channel
DSD Website
Hypnosis Downloads
The M.E.A.N Workbook
Channel Memberships
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210. You MUST deal with the pain!
Dealing with the pain is the only way to get through this
Show Notes
In this episode DSD starts with a clip from Brad Pitt talking about his experience of running from the pain and ultimately how he worked through it to take his like back! Duane has a discussion with the audience about their experiences and ways to approach things
Support the Channel
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Participate in the show!
During the show you can call in live at
1 (424) 373-5483
1 (424) DSD-LIVE
Web Interface - free dialing
You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website
Table of Contents
00:00 Start
03:24 New Topic
11:46 New Topic
28:56 New Topic
38:06 New Topic
43:07 New Topic
01:04:26 New Topic
01:10:17 New Topic
01:14:23 New Topic
01:16:18 New Topic
01:22:34 New Topic
🔗Links Mentioned During Show
DSD Discord
DSD Channel Memberships
Show Sponsor
This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis
Links to find out more!
DSD YouTube Channel
DSD Website
Hypnosis Downloads
The M.E.A.N Workbook
Channel Memberships
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209. Letting go and update on civil case
A deep dive discussion on the struggles of letting go with an update and review of the redacted Order Sustaining Demurrer on my civil case.
Show Notes
In this episode DSD talks about the struggles and importances of learning to “let go”. We discuss how difficult it is to actually do, being forced to learn the “lesson”, recognizing when you’re being pulled back in, and notice when you are stuck in the rumination cycle. Duane then shares how things really start to change ONCE you accept the situation and allowing yourself to “move on”. He also shares that unfortunately this process takes a LONG time and for some even years. DSD shares that it took him about 2 to 3 years for it to really sink in.
Duane then provides an update with a reading on the final Order Sustaining Demurrer that was finally sent and signed by the court. This leads into a discussion on various aspects of court.
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Participate in the show!
During the show you can call in live at
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You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website
Table of Contents
00:00 Start
03:17 - The Struggles of Letting Go
27:20 - Review of comments
50:05 - Order Supporting Demurrer
2:01:25 - End of show wrap-up
🔗Links Mentioned During Show
DSD Discord
DSD Channel Memberships
Show Sponsor
This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis
Links to find out more!
DSD YouTube Channel
DSD Website
Hypnosis Downloads
The M.E.A.N Workbook
Channel Memberships
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208. Getting Past Your Past
A discussion on how difficult it is to let of the past
Show Notes
The Healing Path: Navigate the path to healing with practical tips and strategies. Discover effective coping mechanisms and self-care practices to nurture your mental and emotional well-being.
Support the Channel
Donate through PayPal
DSD Channel Memberships
Participate in the show!
During the show you can call in live at
1 (424) 373-5483
1 (424) DSD-LIVE
Web Interface - free dialing
You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website
Table of Contents
🔗Links Mentioned During Show
DSD Discord
DSD Channel Memberships
Show Sponsor
This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis
Links to find out more!
DSD YouTube Channel
DSD Website
Hypnosis Downloads
The M.E.A.N Workbook
Channel Memberships
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Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/break-the-cycle-with-dsd/support
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Every Man should listen
Duane doing a great job. Without him I would probably be dead.
One of the Best Podcasts for Divorce/Custody Matters
You must subscribe to this podcast if you’re going through a divorce/custody matter. Duane is one of the best podcasts/YouTube channels that will help you with the emotional side of this stressful subject. He listens and provides constructive advice/feedback towards common scenarios dealing with a Narcissistic Ex. This podcast is headed for BIG things. Thanks for all you do, Duane.