Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

Brian Janes and Mark Dembo
Coming Inside OUT: An LGBTQ podcast uplifting gay fathers, men, and those exploring their sexuality.

Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, gay parent, gay podcast, gay men, personal growth, gay fathers, pride,

  1. Ep 7 - Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Personal Stories.

    2D AGO

    Ep 7 - Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Parents - Embracing Vulnerability: The Power of Personal Stories.

    In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark discuss their personal journeys of coming out, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community. They explore the significance of vulnerability, political diversity, and the need for authentic expression in leadership. The conversation also touches on the emotional complexities of navigating relationships and the journey of self-discovery. Listeners are encouraged to embrace their identities and support one another in their journeys. Mark Dembo: https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/from-suppressing-leading-journey-wholeness-mark-dembo-1ewke/?trackingId=Ep9IQtrESfOGGXesF67TdA%3D%3D Jim Fielding: https://jimsfieldnotes.beehiiv.com/p/the-privilege-of-difficult-choices Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout Keywords: LGBTQ+, coming out, community support, political diversity, personal stories, vulnerability, leadership, emotional challenges, identity, connection Takeaways: This podcast is a passion project for both hosts. Community support is vital for those coming out later in life. Vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with others. Political diversity should be embraced within the LGBTQ+ community. It's important to create safe spaces for civil discourse. Authenticity in leadership involves being true to oneself. Understanding the difference between hiding and lying is crucial. Loneliness can be a part of the journey after coming out. Expressing one's identity can lead to newfound freedom. Focusing on the journey and controlling what you can is essential.

    50 min
  2. Ep 6 - Gay Fathers & Parents - Navigating LGBTQ Rights in Today's Politics.  Joy in a Divisive World

    MAR 27

    Ep 6 - Gay Fathers & Parents - Navigating LGBTQ Rights in Today's Politics. Joy in a Divisive World

    In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the importance of love and acceptance in the LGBTQ community amidst a divisive political climate. They explore the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals, particularly in relation to the Republican party and its stance on LGBTQ rights. The conversation touches on the distractions created by culture wars, the impact of misinformation, and the importance of finding joy and support within the community. They also share personal anecdotes and insights on navigating these complex issues while maintaining a positive outlook. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join Brian and Mark as they candidly shares their journey's out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. Brian connects with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles while delving into the complexities of grappling with sexuality. Brian discusses his experience as a teen, husband and father aiming to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Email: cominginsideout@gmail.com (mailto:cominginsideout@gmail.com) #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #gayparent #comingout #gayfather Keywords: LGBTQ, politics, acceptance, culture wars, misinformation, joy, community, love, acceptance, political climate, Sarah McBride Takeaways: Having a front row seat to your life is empowering. Promoting love and acceptance is crucial in today's climate. The political landscape can be divisive and challenging for LGBTQ rights. Disrespect towards LGBTQ individuals is prevalent in politics. Culture wars distract from real governing issues. Misinformation is a growing concern in today's media. Finding joy in everyday moments is essential. Supporting others in the community can make a difference. It's important to stay informed without getting overwhelmed. Positivity can be cultivated through inspirational practices.

    38 min
  3. Ep 5 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Guest co-host Mark Dembo.  Living Authentically LGBTQ+

    MAR 23

    Ep 5 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Guest co-host Mark Dembo. Living Authentically LGBTQ+

    In this episode, Brian and Mark discuss the journey of coming out as gay men, the challenges they faced, and the importance of living authentically. They share their experiences with therapy, support groups, and the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies the process of coming out. The conversation emphasizes the significance of community, self-acceptance, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and empowerment. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join Brian and Mark as they candidly shares their journey's out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. Brian connects with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles while delving into the complexities of grappling with sexuality. Brian discusses his experience as a teen, husband and father aiming to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Email: cominginsideout@gmail.com (mailto:cominginsideout@gmail.com) #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #gayparent #comingout #gayfather Keywords: coming out, gay men, authenticity, support groups, personal growth, emotional balance, LGBTQ community, empowerment, therapy, self-reflection Takeaways: Mark came out to himself two years ago after being married for over 30 years. He emphasizes the importance of living authentically and not hiding one's true self. Therapy and support groups played a crucial role in Mark's coming out journey. There is no perfect time to come out; it's a personal decision. Mark found support through groups like Gay Fathers Worldwide and Howe. Living authentically brings a sense of wholeness and freedom. The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and involves untangling past experiences. Conflict resolution skills improved after coming out and embracing vulnerability. Overcoming guilt is a significant part of the coming out process. Community support is vital for those navigating their own journeys.

    40 min
  4. Ep 4 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out.  LGBTQ+ Community

    JAN 28

    Ep 4 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out. LGBTQ+ Community

    In this episode, Brian reflects on the evolution of his podcast, the importance of community connections, and the current state of diversity, equity, and inclusion within the LGBTQ community. He shares personal experiences and insights on consumer choices that impact the community, encouraging listeners to engage and share their own journeys. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your host Brian as he candidly shares his own journey out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as an openly gay father. Brian connects with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles while delving into the complexities of grappling with sexuality. Brian discusses his experience as a teen, husband and father aiming to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Email: cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #gayparent #comingout #project369 #realestate #realtor Keywords: LGBTQ, podcast, community, diversity, inclusion, support, coming out, consumer choices, personal growth, relationships Takeaways The podcast has evolved significantly since its inception. Community connections are vital for personal growth and support. Diversity, equity, and inclusion are critical issues in 2025. Consumer choices can impact the LGBTQ community positively or negatively. Listening to others' stories can provide valuable insights. Support for the LGBTQ community is essential during challenging times. Engagement with listeners fosters a sense of belonging. Personal experiences shape the understanding of community dynamics. The importance of kindness and support within the community. The podcast aims to provide a platform for diverse voices.

    11 min
  5. Ep 3 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out.

    JAN 21

    Ep 3 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Navigating the Journey of Coming Out.

    In this episode, Brian discusses the challenges of recording solo, the impact of wildfires in Southern California, and shares personal reflections on his coming out journey. He emphasizes the importance of support networks for LGBTQ individuals and highlights listener stories that resonate with the themes of self-acceptance and community. Brian also mentions the upcoming podcast-a-thon and the Trevor Project, encouraging listeners to engage with supportive organizations. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your host Brian as he candidly shares his own journey out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as an openly gay father. Brian connects with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles while delving into the complexities of grappling with sexuality. Brian discusses his experience as a teen, husband and father aiming to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Email: cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #gayparent #comingout #project369 #realestate #realtor Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, support, community, personal journey, Gay Christian Men, Trevor Project, podcast, mental health, self-acceptance Takeaways: Brian shares his experience of recording solo due to John's absence. The wildfires in Southern California have affected many in the community. Support networks are crucial for those navigating their coming out journey. Brian reflects on the similarities between weight loss and coming out. The journey of coming out is unique for everyone and takes time. Listener stories provide a sense of community and shared experience. The importance of organizations like the Trevor Project is highlighted. Brian expresses gratitude for the podcast's listeners and their support. The podcast aims to create a safe space for discussions around LGBTQ issues. Engagement with listeners is a key aspect of the podcast's mission.

    8 min
  6. Ep 2 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey Complexity & Intimacy

    JAN 14

    Ep 2 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey Complexity & Intimacy

    In this episode, Brian and John discuss the challenges faced by gay men during the holidays, the complexities of intimacy beyond sexual encounters, and the importance of caution in online dating. They delve into the dangers of sharing personal information on dating apps, explore new social media platforms like Blue Sky, and reflect on the impact of political climates on mental health within the LGBTQ community. The conversation also touches on feelings of loneliness, the struggles of coming out, and the rejection faced by individuals from their religious communities. Finally, they highlight resources available for the LGBTQ community, including a new transgender suicide hotline - (877) 565-8860 Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #gayparent #comingout #project369 #realestate #realtor Keywords: gay community, online dating, coming out, LGBTQ loneliness, gay parent Takeaways: Intimacy can be expressed in many forms beyond sex. Online dating apps can be risky; caution is essential. Sharing personal information can lead to dangerous situations. New social media platforms may not be what they seem. Political climates can significantly impact mental health in the LGBTQ community. Loneliness is a common feeling among those in the LGBTQ community. Coming out can lead to rejection from religious organizations. It's important to seek acceptance in more inclusive spaces. Resources like suicide hotlines are crucial for support. Manifesting positivity can help combat feelings of loneliness.

    41 min
  7. Kicking Off Season Two: Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the Closet

    JAN 7

    Kicking Off Season Two: Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the Closet

    In this episode, Brian and John kick off Season Two of their podcast with reflections on their journey, family interactions during the holidays, and the importance of coming out conversations. They discuss personal growth, navigating relationships, and the exploration of polyamory. The episode culminates in a humorous recounting of a 'Naked Game Night' experience, emphasizing themes of self-acceptance and openness. Transgender Suicide Hotline (877) 565-8860 Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #project369 #realestate #realtor #funny #nudist Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, family, holidays, polyamory, self-love, podcast, gay men, personal growth Takeaways This was a miniature vacation. We served each other our divorce papers. I think that is so good. We are a vessel for that. You navigate it the way you want. I want to be an open book. I was naked in front of a group of people. I think it's a one and done. I love that song. I kept covering myself with my napkin.

    39 min
  8. Ep. #35 - Gay Fathers, Reflections on 2024.  Navigating the Journey of Gay Self-Acceptance

    12/31/2024

    Ep. #35 - Gay Fathers, Reflections on 2024. Navigating the Journey of Gay Self-Acceptance

    In this final episode of 2024, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes reflect on their podcasting journey, discuss personal growth and New Year's resolutions, and navigate the complexities of coming out and relationships. They share insights on loss, acceptance, and the importance of authenticity while also addressing the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-kindness, connection, and the power of positive thinking. Agapelive.com / 369project.com Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #agapelive #agape #project369 #happynewyear Keywords: podcast, LGBTQ, coming out, personal growth, New Year's resolutions, spirituality, relationships, self-acceptance, gay men, mental health, project369 Takeaways: This is our final episode of 2024. We have had 36 episodes and 21,000 downloads. New Year's resolutions can focus on self-kindness and awareness. Coming out can lead to feelings of loss and change. It's important to adapt to new family dynamics after coming out. Married men often seek connections outside their marriages. Karma plays a role in relationships with married individuals. Seeking genuine connections is more fulfilling than casual hookups. Books on personal development can provide valuable insights. Authenticity is crucial for mental health and well-being.

    42 min

Ratings & Reviews

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Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, gay parent, gay podcast, gay men, personal growth, gay fathers, pride,

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