Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey and life in the closet.

Brian Janes and John Duerler
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Closeted Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey and life in the closet. Podcast

Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

  1. Ep. #17 - Brian appears as guest on - Out Late With David podcast and shares his coming out journey

    6 DAYS AGO

    Ep. #17 - Brian appears as guest on - Out Late With David podcast and shares his coming out journey

    As a guest on Out late With David #18 - Brian Janes shares coming out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community. Summary: Brian Janes, a successful real estate broker, came out as gay at age 50 after 26 years of marriage. He loved being married and had a strong connection with his wife, but deep down, he had a sexual desire that didn't match up with her. After years of therapy and self-help, his wife eventually told him she wanted a divorce. Brian knew he was gay from a young age but didn't know how to embrace it. He suppressed his true self and lived in fear of being found out. After his divorce, he made the decision to come out and started a podcast for men coming out later in life. Keywords: comingout, marriage, divorce, self-discovery, suppression, fear, loneliness, podcast, outlate, gay, alwaysgay, depression. Takeaways: Suppressing your true self can lead to frustration and strain in relationships. Coming out later in life can be a difficult and lonely process. Embracing your true self can lead to personal growth and a more fulfilling life. Sharing your story and being vulnerable can help others going through similar experiences. Titles The Journey of Coming Out Later in Life Embracing Your True Self and Finding Personal Growth Sound Bites "Don't Let Your Wonder Turn Into Closure" "Here I Am, a Proud Gay Man" "You're Not Alone, We're All Out Here" Chapters (video) 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:04 Suppressing True Self in a Marriage 07:50 The Decision to Come Out 10:43 The Power of Wonder and Curiosity 13:36 Coming Out to Ex-Wife and Children 17:23 Exploring the New World 19:17 Regrets and Self-Kindness 21:20 Loneliness and Self-Discovery 24:19 Starting the Podcast 27:37 Advice for Married Men Struggling with Acceptance 29:54 Summary and Closing Song Lyric Reflection: Ben Platt's "Older." Older lyrics: https://www.google.com/search?q=ben+platt+older+lyrics&oq=ben+platt+older+lyrics&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIKCAEQABiABBiiBDIKCAIQABiABBiiBNIBCDQ2NzdqMGo3qAIIsAIB&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 Older on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_sADbvPmzE Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/n3Iuqhu2K5M YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com Contact David: mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com

    31 min
  2. Ep. 16 Coming inside OUT - Gay Fathers - Sharing our coming out journeys and life in the closet.

    AUG 27

    Ep. 16 Coming inside OUT - Gay Fathers - Sharing our coming out journeys and life in the closet.

    Brian and John invite Jim Kennedy to share his coming out journey. Jim shares life inside and outside of the closet. We discuss depression, addiction and the joys of being out. As a member of Gay Fathers of Boston Jim has been blessed to share in the coming out of many fay fathers. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    38 min
  3. Episode #15 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads - Life inside and outside of the closet. Sharing our journey's.

    AUG 20

    Episode #15 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads - Life inside and outside of the closet. Sharing our journey's.

    Brian and John continue their conversation about finding joy and freedom after coming out. The unknown and fear of coming out. Navigating relationships after coming out. The loss and void after divorce. The loneliness of the gay lifestyle. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    42 min
  4. Episode #14 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads - Coming out to our wives and families. Gay Suicide. Closeted

    AUG 13

    Episode #14 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads - Coming out to our wives and families. Gay Suicide. Closeted

    Brian and John talk about finding joy and freedom after coming out. The unknown and fear of coming out. Navigating relationships after coming out. The loss and void after divorce. The loneliness of the gay lifestyle. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    36 min
  5. Episode #13 - Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Gay fathers journey out of the closet

    AUG 6

    Episode #13 - Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Gay fathers journey out of the closet

    Brian and John talk about the lingering shame and guilt, the pain and freedom associated with coming out as gay. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    33 min
  6. Episode #12 - Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Ralf Schumacher's coming out of the closet

    JUL 30

    Episode #12 - Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Ralf Schumacher's coming out of the closet

    Brian and John talk about the dating app Grindr, Ralf Schumacher's coming out, Elon Musk and Transgender. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #elonmusk #ralfshumacher #formula1

    36 min
  7. Episode #11 - Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Gay fathers journey out of the closet

    JUL 23

    Episode #11 - Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Gay fathers journey out of the closet

    Brian and John talk about the dangers associated with hookup apps., suicide, self harm and getting branded. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    41 min
  8. Episode #10 - Spider Bear. Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Gay fathers journey out of the closet

    JUL 16

    Episode #10 - Spider Bear. Gay fathers, gay dads, coming out. Gay fathers journey out of the closet

    Brian and John read letters from the audience and discuss the 3 stages gay men go thorough as outlined in the book The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs, Ph.D. Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone. Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #velvetrage

    34 min
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Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men. We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.

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