69 episodes

Hi, I'm Matilde, your host!
If, like me, you are a daughter of a narcissistic mother I know you have experienced some degree of abuse as a child, and more than likely these wounds are still controlling your life as an adult…
How do I know??
Because I experienced it first hand and went through years of inner work to see the light again!

What I learnt in my personal journey and in over 15 years of experience working with women is that:
Undealt with narcissistic mother wounds are the source of most, if not all the beliefs that are currently causing you to live a life of struggle, constantly in survivor mode.
I want you to know that you are not alone in this. Many women are daughters of narcissistic mothers and experience the same difficulties in life as you do.
The good news? You can totally transform your life starting now!

In this podcast I share my experiences, reflections and practical content to Support you and Guide you in this moment of Your Life. My invitation is to take what serves you and leave the rest.
From time to time wonderful Guests will join me here to share their beautiful message with us.
So, if you are ready to take back control of your life and Reclaim Your Fullness, let's go!

**No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper, my experience, lots of research and the questions and requests from all of you sharing with me!

With Love🤍

Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers Matilde Crocini

    • Education
    • 3.9 • 19 Ratings

Hi, I'm Matilde, your host!
If, like me, you are a daughter of a narcissistic mother I know you have experienced some degree of abuse as a child, and more than likely these wounds are still controlling your life as an adult…
How do I know??
Because I experienced it first hand and went through years of inner work to see the light again!

What I learnt in my personal journey and in over 15 years of experience working with women is that:
Undealt with narcissistic mother wounds are the source of most, if not all the beliefs that are currently causing you to live a life of struggle, constantly in survivor mode.
I want you to know that you are not alone in this. Many women are daughters of narcissistic mothers and experience the same difficulties in life as you do.
The good news? You can totally transform your life starting now!

In this podcast I share my experiences, reflections and practical content to Support you and Guide you in this moment of Your Life. My invitation is to take what serves you and leave the rest.
From time to time wonderful Guests will join me here to share their beautiful message with us.
So, if you are ready to take back control of your life and Reclaim Your Fullness, let's go!

**No AI was used to create any of the episodes on this podcast, just the good all-fashioned pen and paper, my experience, lots of research and the questions and requests from all of you sharing with me!

With Love🤍

    Attention seeking or real need with a narcissistic mother's demands? How to tell the difference & protect yourself

    Attention seeking or real need with a narcissistic mother's demands? How to tell the difference & protect yourself

    Does your mother ever ring you at crazy times to ask for things you know she could easily get done without you?
    Does she require you to do errands with her you know she could easily do by herself?
    Does she ever require you to sort and fix things for her, when you have no idea how to, and calling a professional was the only thing to do from the start?
    Is this constant stream of demands leaving you feeling:
    🔸 frustrated because her demands are getting more absurd, 
    🔸 confused about her behaviour, 
    🔸 bad about feeling she is an inconvenience to you, 
    🔸 exhausted because you are running everywhere to satisfy her needs and demands, 🔸 guilty when you can’t, 
    🔸 exasperated by her not respecting your boundaries… ???

    Of course, it is not universal that a mother who needs help with things is being a problem. It’s ok to need help and ask for support. 
    But with a narcissistic mother, this can be weaponize and transform into a whole different thing. 
    It can in fact be a manipulation tactic.

    In this episode we explore how to tell the difference between a genuine need for support and a manipulation tactic by a narcissistic mother. And I also share 5 tips to protect yourself from it!

    Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

    Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

    Apply for the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/

    Ask questions and share your experience with Matilde by emailing at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me

    With Love!

    #daughtersofnarcissisticmothers #maternalnarcissism #healingmotherwounds #childhoodtrauma #womencircles #narcissisticmanipulation #innertransformation

    • 40 min
    Wedding Planning with a Narcissistic Mother - What can happen & How to deal with

    Wedding Planning with a Narcissistic Mother - What can happen & How to deal with

    ❓Are you in the middle of planning your wedding and your mother is driving you crazy?
    ❓Are you in a committed relationship but afraid to take the next step as you don’t know how you could possibly handle a wedding with your mother being involved?
    ❓Was planning your wedding with your mother such a nightmare that you are terrified about planning anything else?
    ❓Or are you wishing more than anything that your mother would get involved, but she is dismissing your wedding as if it was just another day?

    There are so many expectations and social pressure and conditioning going on around weddings that it is an intense thing to navigate at best of times.
    But with a narcissistic mother in the picture, it gets even more intense!

    In this episode we talked about how & why a narcissistic mother will interfere with your wedding planning and what you can do to protect yourself!

    Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

    Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

    Apply for the 1:1 Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/

    Share your experience and ask your questions emailing Matilde at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me

    With Love!

    • 44 min
    Infantilization with a narcissistic mother - How to spot it & protect from it

    Infantilization with a narcissistic mother - How to spot it & protect from it

    Does your mother still treat you like a child?
    Does she regularly interfere with your life because she knows better?
    Has she resisted any signs that you were growing up, like moving out, going to college, going out with your friends, getting married etc?
    Do you ever have to tell her “I’m an adult now, I know what I’m doing!” only to be met with incredulity?
    If your answer is yes, you may have experienced a manipulation tactic called infantilization.
    In this episode you'll get clarity:
    - on what this is,
    - why a narcissistic mother does it and how,
    - the impact it has 
    - how to protect yourself from it.

    Access the Free Self Love Guided Practice here ⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

    Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

    Apply for the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/

    Ask questions and share your experience with Matilde emailing at Matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me

    With Love!

    • 36 min
    5 Steps to Survive Mother's Day with a Narcissistic Mother

    5 Steps to Survive Mother's Day with a Narcissistic Mother

    Mother’s day is coming up and it is a challenging time for daughters of narcissistic mothers, so I decided to do a special episode to address this topic before the date.
    At this time...
    Demands are going to be at unusual high.
    Expectations are going to be loaded.
    Guilt tripping will reach a new level.
    Social pressure is going to be as intense as ever.
    Bottom line is, this one day of the year has the potential of being the worst ever and the days approaching it can be a true nightmare.
    So, how can we go about it?
    In this episode I share 5 steps to survive Mother's Day.

    Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

    Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circles here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

    Apply for the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/

    Share your questions and your experience with Matilde by emailing at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me

    With Love!

    • 25 min
    Can a Narcissistic Mother Have Empathy??

    Can a Narcissistic Mother Have Empathy??

    Have you ever been confused by the fact that your mother fits in with a narcissistic mother description and yet she seems to have empathy?  
    Have you ever felt her empathy manifests somewhat out of place when directed at you? 
    If you felt that way, I get it! I've been confused over this for a while once finding out my mother was a narcissist, as she seemed to have some empathy at times. 
    In this episode we get to dive into what empathy is and, most of all, answer the question, can a narcissistic mother have empathy? Is it real empathy or something else??
    And how can you tell? 

    Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

    Apply for Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

    Apply for the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds Programme here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/

    Email your questions and share your experience with Matilde at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me

    With Love!

    • 31 min
    How Trauma & Undealt Wounds Impact Your Menstrual Cycle with Antoinette Mc Weeney

    How Trauma & Undealt Wounds Impact Your Menstrual Cycle with Antoinette Mc Weeney

    Is your cycle painful and difficult each month?
    Did your mother tell you not to talk about your cycle, and to just get on with it?
    Do you feel overwhelmed by emotions during your cycle?
    If your answer is yes, I truly feel you. 
    And I want you to know that it doesn't have to be that way!
    Reason why I invited our special guest, Antoinette Mc Weeney to share her expertise on the topic, and to explain how Homeopathy can help with so much when it comes to our menstrual cycle, the trauma that can go with it, and all the emotions that can emerge too. 

    Antoinette Mc Weeney is an Homeopath specialising in women's hormonal health, menstrual educator, lecturer at the Helsinki School of homeopathy and facilitator of online and in person courses since 2010.
    Mum of 3 healthy, wild children who've never had or needed antibiotics, steroids or Calpol/Tylenol.

    Get in touch with Antoinette here⬇
    https://www.instagram.com/antoinettemcweeneyhomeopathy/ 
    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjXhMFogNYQmgKZF2GHaBzw
    https://antoinettemcweeney.com/

    Apply to join Reclaim Your Fullness Women Circle here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/women-circles/

    Apply to join the 1:1 10 Weeks Inner Transformation Healing Mother Wounds here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/10-weeks-programme/

    Access the FREE Self Love Guided Practice here⬇
    https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/

    For any questions and to share your experience email Matilde at matilde@womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me

    With Love!

    • 56 min

Customer Reviews

3.9 out of 5
19 Ratings

19 Ratings

Anyaroz ,

good and useful for daughters of nmoms

I like how she explains everything. calmly.

RomeoHaven ,

Informative

Really enjoy this podcast, it provides clarity and insight into self awareness of daughters with narcissistic mothers.

changagarcia ,

Not it.

This podcast is a lot of woo-woo spiritual nonsense that maintains the cycle of abuse with magical thinking. It’s fine that Matilde doesn’t have the credentials to speak on the topic, but this pod is an advertisement to purchase her “program” of 120€/month. Take a look at her website before you invest any time on this podcast and you will see the clues of a grift. Save your money and listen to Mother Mayhem podcast (no purchase necessary) or invest in a therapist with real training and credentials.

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