
163 episodes

Divorce Conversations for Women Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA® | The Women’s Financial Wellness Center
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4.8 • 30 Ratings
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Divorce is the second highest stressor for women, second only to the death of a spouse.
Not sure where to even start? You're not alone. Divorce Conversations for Women helps women like you who are overwhelmed and looking for support. Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Rhonda Noordyk will help take you from crisis to closure by providing candid conversations, practical strategies, and positive encouragement so you can breathe easier and feel empowered every step of the way. Rhonda has spent over 17,000 hours helping women like you navigate divorce and come out stronger, so if you're ready for a new beginning, tune in and join the thousands of women growing every day through the podcast.
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Why you should consider Mediation.
Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski joins Rhonda for an in-depth conversation around Mediation. Mediation is a great option and can provide a safe place for both parties to be heard and understood. Lisa and Rhonda cover:
What mediation is and what it is not
Mediation CAN work, even in difficult circumstances
How to find the right Mediator for you
Assembling the right team is crucial to the outcome
About today’s guest:
Lesa Koski
I am an attorney based in Woodbury, MN with over 20 years of experience and have a strong desire to help people through difficult situations. That's why becoming a divorce mediator was the best fit for both myself and my clients. I am here to help you and I know all about what you’re going through.
In case we’ve never met before, let me tell you a little bit about me...
I help you throughout the process of a divorce through mediation. Together we will create your divorce paperwork or mediated agreement. I love sharing my knowledge and coaching people through the process.
Connect with Lesa:
Website
Social Media Links
Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center
Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.
For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.
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How to navigate being a woman of faith contemplating divorce.
Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you’ll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in!
What are some common beliefs women of faith have that hold them back from making a divorce decision?
How can they work to reframe those beliefs in a way that enables them to maintain their faith while also empowering them to make that difficult choice to end their marriage?
Many women of faith believe they are giving up on the power of God if they decide to call it quits and get a divorce. How is this actually not the case at all?
What can women of faith do about the feelings of guilt they might experience over ending their marriage?
How can women of faith respond to their faith communities when they are rejected due to divorce?
What are some of the ways you've seen women transform and thrive after divorce?
About today’s guest:
Natalie Hoffman is an Author, Podcast Host, and Director of The Flying Free Education and Support Community. Learn more about Natlie’s story HERE!
Connect with Natalie:
Author of Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage
Director of the Flying Free Education and Support Community
Advocate for women of faith in abusive relationships through the Flying Free podcast
Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center
Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.
For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.
Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!
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What makes a good divorce?
Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process?
Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you’ve got kids.
Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant!
Take the high road - easier said than done, but worth it.
Set a goal to never pack a bag.
Set the intention to delay your emotions
Sarah gives us some amazing real-life examples you won’t want to miss!
Buy Sarah’s book HERE.
About Sarah:
Sarah Armstrong, good divorce proponent and author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce, is vice-president, global marketing operations, at Google and proud mom of Grace, who graduated from high school in 2021 and is in her sophomore year of college. Sarah is a mentor to other women in business and longtime volunteer at various nonprofit organizations, including the Jack & Jill Late Stage Cancer Foundation, Georgetown Alumni Admissions Program and local soup kitchens.
Prior to joining Google, Sarah was a partner at McKinsey & Co. and worked at The Coca-Cola Company in global marketing for twenty years, where she led Worldwide Agency Operations across 200 countries. Sarah started her career at Leo Burnett (Chicago) in Media. Sarah’s work has been recognized around the world, resulting in her being named one of Ad Age’s “Women to Watch” and included in Ad Age’s Book of Tens (“Top Ten Who Made Their Mark in 2009”).
Sarah was raised in Birmingham, Michigan with two younger brothers and happily married parents (for over fifty years and still going strong). She attended Georgetown University, as a scholarship athlete, earning a Bachelor of Science degree from the School of Business Administration with a major in marketing. She was a four-year starter on the Georgetown University Volleyball Team.
Sarah loves traveling the world and has been fortunate to travel to 55+ countries. She enjoys exploring new cities with Grace whenever possible. Sarah lives in San Francisco.
Website: https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com
Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center
Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.
For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.
Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!
Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE!
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What if you choose joy?
Rhonda’s guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover:
Choose joy - joy is not happiness
You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion
Look for the gifts - gratitude can change everything
About today’s guest:
Donna Tashjian is the founder of Vibrant Living International, a non-profit organization. She is a Life Mastery Coach, an ordained minister, a podcaster, and an author. She helps bring accelerated transformation to people across the world. She empowers you to master life, spirit, soul, and body. Donna has been speaking and coaching for over 25 years.
She has developed powerful programs and workshops to help you through life's transitions and pain to achieve your goals or dreams. She also produces a podcast called “You Were Designed for Greatness” and has written 3 books.
Her clients say she has a knack for turning fear into excitement and exposing lies so the truth can shine through.
Website: https://www.ivibrantliving.com/ Free book available on home page
EMPOWERING HABITS LINK: https://www.ivibrantliving.com/empowering-habits-2/
Connect with Donna:
LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnatashjian/
Facebook
Vibrant Living page
https://www.facebook.com/VibrantLivingInt
Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/drtashjian/
Youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXMFNossw9VN2QwDtVitzKg
Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center
Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.
For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.
Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!
Interested in our Bridge Program? Apply HERE!
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Is keeping the house worth it?
Don’t miss this episode if you’re contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future.
Gather all of the information.
Evaluate your particular situation (things are not black and white!).
Get to a place where you can move forward.
Do not fall for a false sense of financial security!
Jeff’s new book: Divorce House Sense
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About today’s guest:
Jeff Landers is a seasoned real estate/mortgage and divorce expert with over 40 years of combined experience.
Jeff earned his BA degree in psychology from Columbia University and studied law at Pace University School of Law before becoming a divorce financial advisor. He is also a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA™), Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP™) and licensed real estate and mortgage broker.
In 2010, Jeff founded Bedrock Divorce Advisors, LLC, working exclusively with women going through a financially complicated divorce. Dealing with the marital home is almost always a major issue in any divorce. Jeff’s strong background and know-how has guided many hundreds of women all over the U.S. through the complex process of selling their marital home or buying out their spouse and refinancing the mortgage, so they can keep and remain in their homes.
To focus exclusively on the marital home, Jeff also founded Next Act Properties, Inc., which provides real estate and mortgage solutions for divorcing and divorced people (NextActProperties.com).
Jeff has written 7 published books with 15,000+ copies sold nationwide focusing on the marital home and the financial aspects of divorce, as well as contributing articles regularly to Forbes.com, The Huffington Post, DailyWorth, More.com, Lawyers.com, and many other online publications.
Be sure to pick up his latest book: Divorce House Sense
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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://nextactproperties.com/
LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/jefflanders
Twitter: https://twitter.com/NextActProperty
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Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center
Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.
For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.
Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!
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Coercive Control: How to Find the Answers You Seek
Rhonda and Clinical Therapist, Jennifer Parker discuss a topic we’ve been addressing a lot recently: Coercive Control. Today’s episode covers:
Ways to recognize you are being controlled
How to get the help and support you need
Why isolation is your worst enemy
Grab a copy of Jennifer’s book: Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers you Seek
About today’s guest:
Jennifer Parker obtained her Masters degree in Social Work at Wisconsin-Madison.She has over 35 years of mental health therapy experience and specials in intimate partner abuse survivors. Jennifer’s work with victims builds resiliency by helping understand who is responsible and address issues that interfere with creating the lives they want.
Jennifer’s book, Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers You Seek, includes knowledge from her training and research, as well as insights she gained from survivors on their healing journeys. Her accomplishments include a curriculum for IPV group work, workshops, professional newsletter articles, expert witness testimony, a blog, participation in a community DV and Sexual Assault task force, and awards from state and local agencies. Jennifer’s blog focuses on topics of interest to survivors, professionals, or family and friends concerned about someone.
Her mission is to enhance therapist and other professionals' knowledge about intimate partner abuse by imparting effective practices through her workshops, webinars, and publications.
Connect with Jennifer:
Jennifer Parker Therapy, Training, & Consultation LLC
Book links: https://linktr.ee/jennifercparkermssw
Website: http://jennifercparkermssw.com
Blog signup: https://madisonmentalhealthcounselor.com/blog
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JenniferCParkerMSSW
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenniferc.parker/
LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/company/jennifer-parker-therapy-training-consultation/
Your host is Rhonda Noordyk, CFEI, CDFA®, CEO of The Women’s Financial Wellness Center
Rhonda has dedicated her career to being an advocate for women and educating them on how financial strategies can impact their personal and professional success. Her work has shown women going through a divorce how to have a voice, be assertive, get results, be driven, and move forward with confidence.
For Rhonda and her company, the Women’s Financial Wellness Center, helping women isn’t just about running the numbers. It’s about asking the right questions, demystifying myths and biases around finances, and helping women walk in their power. Rhonda is passionate about helping her clients navigate a broken system and level the playing field so they can achieve success—pre, during, and post-divorce.
Grab our National Resource Guide HERE!
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So helpful
There’s a wealth of information here that helped me during this difficult time.
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I listened to 23 minutes of episode 152, as I am divorcing my covert narcissist husband. There was absolutely nothing helpful in the 23 minutes. I heard the sadness and anguish, and the story offered little hope. If you are hoping for help or hope, this is not the conversation you want.