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Enneagram and Marriage Enneagram and Marriage
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The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in two decades of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add another layer of understanding in how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect and shine together in marriage and relationships across the collective community.
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Subscriber Series: How to Build Diplomacy in Your Marriage Conflict
It’s so easy to try to get your own way in an argument and even to feel like this is the end goal. Instead of just getting your own way, however, healthy couples learn to look with true diplomacy to figure out what fostering true compromise looks like when you both win, at least a bit. This will not come with a brilliant argumentation case any more than it will come by ignoring an issue and being passive-aggressive. Instead, really great conflict repair will instead come with healthy boundaries, compassion, and diplomacy, and as we finish this series, we address the latter. Learn how to be healthily diplomatic in your marriage right here!
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What Every Spouse of a 2, 7, or 9 Partner Needs to Know About Processing Conflict
Many couples are frustrated by differing conflict styles and miss getting to resolution because of it. In this mini-episode, Christa assesses how to deal with conflict with someone who is positively-wired in the 2 (the Giver), 7 (the Enthusiast), or 9 (the Peacemaker) personality spaces. In this mini-episode Christa gives both general and type-specific tips for you to relate better with these types in your life and relationship! Come check it out!
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Working on Toxic Patterns in Your Relationship w/Psychotherapist Charisse Cooke, Type 2
How much emotional pain do couples have to endure before making the healthy changes that often feel so scary to initiate? This is a question many need to ask themselves since it's so vulnerable to break deep patterns of trauma together. Today Christa helps you to work through toxic relationship patterns with London-based psychotherapist and influencer Charisse Cooke as we talk about healing toxic bonding and trauma bonding. You CAN learn to find health and healing again or for the very first time and you're going to learn how right here!
Find Charisse:
Find Charisse's Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/charissecooke/
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Spread the Enneagram & Marriage love! 🥳💕 Leave your review of "The Enneagram in Marriage" book right here: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370
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Join Christa virtually on your own time in the Enneagram in Marriage 5 week course here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-enneagram-in-marriage-5-week-course-for-sale
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or sign up for coaching RIGHT HERE: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
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Subscriber Series: How to Actively Serve Up Compassion Together in Marriage
Have you been wondering how to extend a compassionate hand when you're busy and stressed? Studies show us that people are less likely to show compassion when they're rushing or feeling achievement needs pulling at them, and yet couples do MUCH better when they serve compassion up daily. Today's podcast helps you get regulated so you can become more compassionate together again and teaches you what compassion is really all about! You are healthier, stronger, and more resilient in your body, mind, and spirit when you're helping others with compassion and your marriage gets a needed boost as well. Make sure you tune into this deep dive episode to grab your compassion-boosting specific tips so you can deepen and depend on your love! Listen here!
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Post-Traumatic Growth Lyrical Lessons from TTPD, Taylor Swift's The Tortured Poet's Department Dark Night of the Soul Album
On this special surprise mini-episode for Swiftie fans and for inquiring minds otherwise, Christa takes you on a journey of finding ways through pain to post-traumatic growth, analyzing through the lens of The Tortured Poet's Department Album (TTPD) from Taylor Swift. Join us for therapeutic lessons, fun, and a few meaningful takeaways for healthy ways to process grief, love, loss, and angst. In this episode we analyze Taylor's vulnerable path forward to healing, adding tips for post-relationship hurt growth healing for you and yours as well! Bring your journal to this pod!
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Join Christa virtually on your own time in the Enneagram in Marriage 5 week course here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-enneagram-in-marriage-5-week-course-for-sale
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or sign up for coaching RIGHT HERE: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
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Bringing Minimalism to Your Marriage w/Diane Boden, The Minimalist Mom, Type 7 (7-5 Pairing)
How do you go from busy and overloaded to present in marriage and family, especially when we know that "turning towards" behaviors are what make relationships succeed or fail long-term, especially when we differ SO much after a long span of time together in marriage? As we strive to connect in a truly frenetic world when we have so much to do along with all of these differences, today Christa is sharing a meaningful and uplifting conversation with you and top podcast expert on the massively successful The Minimalist Mom Podcast and Instagram influencer, Diane Boden, Enneagram 7 (7-5) pairing on the pod! We analyze the 5-7 pairing deeply and then Diane to help us with the gift of her pairing as she gives realistic and life-giving tips for minimalism and experiences so you can truly simplify in an overly complex world!
Specific convos here are:
Diane's 5-7 pairing and what she's learning in her second decade of marriage about becoming less scattered with friendships
Setting systems into place to help everyone in the family, not just one person
Starting in spaces with less sentimental items
Talking with your spouse for 5 min each week to get settled into the rhythms
Finding what you're both on board with in terms of minimalism and getting focused and organized
Find more free mental and physical space with your systems
How to work with the busy chaos and say no more
How to find the jomo (joy of missing out!)
Find Diane's Minimalist Mom Podcast here on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/minimalistmomspodcast/?hl=en and on her website here https://minimalistmomspodcast.com/about
Can you spread the word on the book tour? 🥳🙏 Leave your review of "The Enneagram in Marriage" book right here: https://www.amazon.com/Enneagram-Marriage-Thriving-Together-Pairing/dp/1540903370
Join Christa virtually on your own time in the Enneagram in Marriage 5 week course here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-enneagram-in-marriage-5-week-course-for-sale
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or sign up for coaching RIGHT HERE: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
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I Just listened to the Jane Austen reference episode. I loved this one!! I would love if you did more like this with literature or pop culture enneagram evaluations/typing!!
Excellent Enneagram Resource
Christa and E+M - What a wonderful, informative and authentic space to learn more about the Enneagram and how it can be a tool to improve your marriage!
I highly recommend this podcast for counselors, coaches, and anyone looking to learn more about the Enneagram.
Later focused insight and super fun!
Christa and her team has done an incredible job sharing many years of experience in the area of enneagram and marriage. I have learned so much from her and continue to come back for more. I would definitely encourage anyone struggling in marriage or just needing a tune up to subscribe and listen to all the episodes. She is the best!