The Mindful Midlife Crisis

Billy Lahr
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Welcome to The Mindful Midlife Crisis, a podcast for people navigating the complexities and possibilities of life’s second half. I’m your host, Billy Lahr, an educator, personal trainer, meditation teacher, and overthinker who talks to experts who specialize in social and emotional learning, mindfulness, physical and emotional wellness, cultural awareness, finances, communication, relationships, dating, and parenting, all in an effort to help us better reflect, learn, and grow so we can live a more purpose-filled life. Take a deep breath, embrace the present, and journey with me through The Mindful Midlife Crisis. 

  1. MAR 26

    Episode 192--From Solo to Soulful: Why I'm Prioritizing Connections More Than Ever

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. In this week’s episode, I reflect on my recent travels to Okinawa and Taipei and how they reinforced a major shift in my perspective on solo travel. While Okinawa didn’t quite live up to my expectations, Taipei reminded me of what makes travel truly special—connection. Through serendipitous reunions and shared experiences, I realized that my most meaningful moments come from the people I meet along the way. This episode explores the evolution of how I travel, the role of community in shaping experiences, and why I’m embracing a new phase of connection over solitude. Plus, I introduce Five Essential Questions to help you reflect on how relationships add depth and meaning to your journey. Key Talking Points: The Reality of Solo Travel: Why my recent trip to Okinawa felt isolating and what I learned from it.The Power of Shared Experiences: Reuniting with friends in Taipei and how those moments reinforced the joy of connection.Outgrowing Solo Travel: Why independence was once essential, but now, meaningful relationships take priority.Finding Community in Travel: How groups like SeoulShare have reshaped my experience of belonging.All episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter!  Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. This Week’s Sponsors: The B.E.L.L. Center: Expand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.Kari Schwear: Explore what drives your habits, refocus what truly matters, and develop daily tools to start moving forward with Decide30.Genie Love: Schedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian Gallagher: Download your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!This Week’s Affiliates: Buzzsprout:  Launch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!Fiverr:  Get your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals and earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IO:  Simplify your online business.Riverside.fm:  Record your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Lahr Please leave us a 5 Support the show

    47 min

  2. MAR 19

    Episode 191--Zooming Out: How Gratitude Shifts Our Perspective

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. In this week’s episode, I explore how shifting our perspective can turn life’s challenges into something meaningful—even humorous in hindsight. Inspired by a conversation with a friend, a powerful quote from Charlie Chaplin, and the wisdom of Hollywood legend Henry Winkler, I reflect on how zooming out helps us see the bigger picture. Through personal stories and mindfulness insights, I discuss how gratitude changes how we view struggles, helping us navigate uncertainty, pivot from failure, and appreciate the moments that truly matter. Plus, I introduce Five Essential Questions to help you cultivate resilience and appreciation, even when things don’t go as planned. Key Talking Points: The Power of Perspective: Why life feels like a tragedy up close but a comedy when we zoom out.Henry Winkler’s Secret to Joy: How shifting from “being nice” to being grateful changes everything.Mindfulness as a Tool for Perspective: How small shifts in awareness help reframe life’s challenges.Turning Hardships into Growth: The role of gratitude in overcoming setbacks and finding hidden lessons.All episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter!  Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. This Week’s Sponsors: The B.E.L.L. Center: Expand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.Kari Schwear: Explore what drives your habits, refocus what truly matters, and develop daily tools to start moving forward with Decide30.Genie Love: Schedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian Gallagher: Download your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!This Week’s Affiliates: Buzzsprout:  Launch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!Fiverr:  Get your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals and earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IO:  Simplify your online business.Riverside.fm:  Record your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Lahr Please leave us a 5-Star Review! Support the show

    57 min

  3. MAR 12

    Episode 190--Stretching Beyond Limits: Embracing Growth, Imperfection, and Momentum

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com.  In this episode, I dive into my journey of overcoming stagnation and embracing progress, both physically and creatively. After a rough patch from July 2023 to March 2024, I felt stuck in many areas of life. My experience with yoga in Hanoi and Chiang Mai became a key tool for stretching beyond perceived limits. I share how small shifts, on and off the mat, unlocked growth and helped me appreciate imperfection.  I also share Five Essential Questions to help you break free from stagnation.  Key Talking Points: Overcoming Stagnation: A look back at my struggles with inertia and the impact of overplanning and rumination.Yoga and Personal Growth: How yoga became a tool for pushing beyond physical limitations and the mental breakthroughs that followed.The Ego and Progress: Navigating the discomfort of not being “good” at something right away and the value of consistent practice.The Power of Small Shifts: Using mindfulness and small changes to unlock creativity and relieve tension in both mind and body.Celebrating Small Wins: How I learned to focus on progress over perfection and the importance of acknowledging every step forward.All episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter!  Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. This Week’s Sponsors: The B.E.L.L. Center: Expand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.Kari Schwear: Explore what drives your habits, refocus what truly matters, and develop daily tools to start moving forward with Decide30.Genie Love: Schedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian Gallagher: Download your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!This Week’s Affiliates: Buzzsprout:  Launch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!Fiverr:  Get your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals and earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IO:  Simplify your online business.Riverside.fm:  Record your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Lahr Plea Support the show

    58 min

  4. MAR 5

    Episode 189--"Let Me Show You My City": 大阪の秋 (Osaka No Aki)

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. In this personal episode, I reflect on my time in Osaka and the unforgettable connection with Aki—an adventurous, sharp-witted local who made Japan special. From our wild food tour to izakayas, maid cafés, and teamLab Botanical Gardens, she showed me her city like no one else. More than that, she taught me a profound lesson on presence, joy, and embracing life’s challenges. This week’s Five Essential Questions will help you reflect on the relationships that have shaped you—what they’ve taught you and how to nurture them. Key Talking Points: Japan on the Bucket List: The long-awaited adventure and why Osaka became a defining stop on my journey.Meeting Aki: How a bold, hilarious, blue-haired tour guide turned into a lifelong friend.Osaka’s Culture & Energy: Why the Kansai region feels completely different from Tokyo.The Magic of Shared Experiences: From izakayas to Maidreamin to glowing neon nights at teamLab Botanical Gardens, Aki provided me with some of my favorite memories of Japan.Aki’s Legacy: The lessons she left behind and why sharing stories keeps memories alive.All episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter!  Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. This Week’s Sponsors: The B.E.L.L. Center: Expand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.Kari Schwear: Explore what drives your habits, refocus what truly matters, and develop daily tools to start moving forward with Decide30.Genie Love: Schedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian Gallagher: Download your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!This Week’s Affiliates: Buzzsprout:  Launch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!Fiverr:  Get your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals and earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IO:  Simplify your online business.Riverside.fm:  Record your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Lahr Please leave us a 5-Star Review! Support the show

    1h 10m

  5. FEB 26

    Episode 188--My Happiness Hangover: Cultivating Uncontainable Joy

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. In this week's episode, I share a recent experience that left me with what I call a Happiness Hangover—a night so full of connection, music, and belonging that I couldn’t fall asleep simply because I was too happy. Through personal anecdotes and the wisdom of past guests like Tom Cody, I unpack the difference between anxiety-driven restlessness and the kind of fulfillment that keeps you buzzing with excitement. In this week’s Five Essential Questions, I’ll guide you toward creating more moments of joy and belonging in your own life. Key Talking Points: What is a Happiness Hangover? The joy-filled exhaustion that follows an unforgettable experience.Top 10 Days: Why I categorize my most joyful days and revisit them for inspiration.The Power of Music & Community: How hosting a live music event with The Jonnybirds reinforced the importance of shared experiences.Belonging vs. Anxiety: Recognizing the shift from sleepless nights of worry to sleepless nights of pure happiness.Creating Space for Joy: Finding balance between spontaneity and intentionality in cultivating fulfilling experiences.All episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter!  Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. This Week’s Sponsors: The B.E.L.L. Center: Expand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.Kari Schwear: Explore what drives your habits, refocus what truly matters, and develop daily tools to start moving forward with Decide30.Genie Love: Schedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian Gallagher: Download your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!This Week’s Affiliates: Buzzsprout:  Launch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!Fiverr:  Get your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals and earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IO:  Simplify your online business.Riverside.fm:  Record your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Lahr Support the show

    1h 1m

  6. FEB 19

    Episode 187--How Conduits Create Community through Connection and Elevation

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. In this week’s episode, I explore what it means to be a conduit—someone who connects people, amplifies voices, and fosters meaningful relationships. Reflecting on my experiences with Link Crew, live music events, and professional networking, I share how small acts of connection can lead to powerful collaborations and transformations. Whether it’s bringing people together through events, sharing someone’s story, or simply making an introduction, we all have the ability to create spaces where people feel seen and valued. Finally, this week’s Five Essential Questions will help you reflect on how you can use your unique skills to connect and uplift those around you. Key Talking Points: What It Means to Be a Conduit: Connecting people, ideas, and opportunities to foster growth.Music, LinkedIn, and Community Events: How different platforms create opportunities for collaboration.The Value of Elevating Others: Why amplifying other people’s stories leads to greater impact.Balancing Boundaries and Giving Back: How to support others while maintaining personal well-being.All of our episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter!  Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. This Week’s Sponsors: The B.E.L.L. Center: Expand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.Kari Schwear: Explore what drives your habits, refocus what truly matters, and develop daily tools to start moving forward with Decide30.Genie Love: Schedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian Gallagher: Download your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!This Week’s Affiliates: Buzzsprout:  Launch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!Fiverr:  Get your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals and earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IO:  Simplify your online business.Riverside.fm:  Record your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Lahr Please leave us a 5-Star Review! Support the show

    46 min

  7. FEB 12

    Episode 186--On the Solo Tip: Balancing Independence with Feelings of Isolation

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. In this week’s episode, I explore the realities of living alone—the freedom it brings, but also the isolation and daily grind that can weigh on you over time. I reflect on how touch deprivation, solo responsibilities, and monotony impact our emotional well-being, and I discuss the importance of finding meaningful social connections while maintaining autonomy. Through personal stories and hard-learned lessons, I unpack how I’ve balanced independence with asking for help, built a support system, and learned to acknowledge struggles without minimizing them. Plus, I share 5 Essential Questions for creating sustainable routines, combating loneliness, and fostering deeper connections while preserving personal freedom. Key Talking Points: The Realities of Living Alone: The perks of independence vs. the challenges of isolation.Touch Deprivation & Connection: The importance of physical touch, social interaction, and emotional well-being.Managing Solo Responsibilities: Finding ways to lighten the load without giving up autonomy.Navigating Loneliness: Proactively integrating social interaction without compromising personal freedom.Balancing Gratitude with Acknowledging Struggles: Holding space for both privilege and personal challenges.All of our episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter! Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. This Week’s Sponsors: The B.E.L.L. Center: Expand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.Kari Schwear: Explore what drives your habits, refocus what truly matters, and develop daily tools to start moving forward with Decide30.Genie Love: Schedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian Gallagher: Download your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!This Week’s Affiliates: Buzzsprout:  Launch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!Fiverr:  Get your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals and earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IO:  Simplify your online business.Riverside.fm:  Record your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Support the show

    49 min

  8. FEB 5

    Episode 185–How Structure and Routine Create More Freedom and Flexibilty

    Text your questions, comments, & topic suggestions here! You can also email billy@mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. In this week's episode, I reflect on the shift from a nomadic lifestyle to a structured life in Seoul. From navigating cultural adjustments like setting up a bank account to cultivating a routine that prioritizes health, relationships, and creativity, I explore how stability and structure have transformed my well-being. Through personal stories, insights, and 5 Essential Questions, I’ll guide you in embracing routines that align with your unique values and goals. Key Talking Points: Arriving in Seoul: Adjusting to a structured life after years of digital nomadism.The Importance of Structure: How routine fosters creativity, well-being, and productivity.Overcoming Challenges: Navigating logistical hurdles in Korea and celebrating small victories.Shifting Perspectives: How stability and routine can coexist with personal growth and freedom.The Power of Routine: Creating habits that align with health, relationships, and fulfillment.All of our episodes are available at www.mindfulmidlifecrisis.com. Need a place to start? Check out our Fan Faves Page! Join the Mindful Midlife Community Newsletter!  Thank you for listening to The Mindful Midlife Crisis! If this episode resonates with you, please share it with your family and friends. Follow us! Instagram:  @mindful_midlife_crisis Facebook: The Mindful Midlife Crisis Podcast LinkedIn: Billy Lahr This Week’s Sponsors & Affiliates:  The B.E.L.L. CenterExpand your understanding of mindfulness and breathwork with their MindHacking Meditation Course.GrayTonic with Kari SchwearRe-examine your relationship with alcohol with Decide30.Beyond Coaching with Genie LoveSchedule your FREE consultation to empower your neurodivergent strengths!Brian GallagherDownload your Solo Business Blueprint and escape the 9-5 grind!BuzzsproutLaunch your podcast today and get $20 worth of credit towards your account!FiverrGet your next project done brilliantly by skilled professionals & earn 10% off your first purchase.Systeme.IOSimplify your online business.Riverside.fmRecord your podcast in studio-quality audio and video.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    54 min
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Welcome to The Mindful Midlife Crisis, a podcast for people navigating the complexities and possibilities of life’s second half. I’m your host, Billy Lahr, an educator, personal trainer, meditation teacher, and overthinker who talks to experts who specialize in social and emotional learning, mindfulness, physical and emotional wellness, cultural awareness, finances, communication, relationships, dating, and parenting, all in an effort to help us better reflect, learn, and grow so we can live a more purpose-filled life. Take a deep breath, embrace the present, and journey with me through The Mindful Midlife Crisis. 

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  • Creator
    Billy Lahr
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2025
  • Episodes
    139
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 The Mindful Midlife Crisis
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    The Mindful Midlife Crisis

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