201 episodes

T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

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Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica‪)‬ T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg

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    • 4.8 • 83 Ratings

T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)

    Hot Topics Around Divorce | S4, Ep. 17

    Hot Topics Around Divorce | S4, Ep. 17

    We've got another round-up of hot topics questions about divorce - this time we cover everything from why you need a QDRO to whether or not you need permission to change your name to common divorce mistakes. Don't forget to send us your questions to hello@exexperts.com if you'd like them answered in an upcoming episode! (Guest: Tracy Moore Grant, Divorce Attorney, Amicable Divorce Network)

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    • 28 min
    Important Divorce Questions Answered | S4, Ep. 16

    Important Divorce Questions Answered | S4, Ep. 16

    From who files first (and why it matters) to how to avoid being bullied by your lawyer, this episode goes through rapid-fire questions on what you'll want to know, for every step of the process. (Guest: Jennifer Lazor, Divorce Attorney, Lazor Rantas)

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    • 31 min
    Why Do People Cheat? | S4, Ep. 15

    Why Do People Cheat? | S4, Ep. 15

    It's the oldest question in the book...why did my spouse cheat on me? We think we know the reasons, but there is so much more involved. And since both of us (T.H. and Jess) have been there - both of our husband's had affairs - we want to help you process the feelings you have for your cheating ex and move on with your life. This is a must-hear for anyone who's been cheated on! (Guest: Erica Bennett, Empowerment Coach)

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    • 45 min
    The No-Man Diet | S4, Ep. 14

    The No-Man Diet | S4, Ep. 14

    How long do you need to take a break in dating after a breakup? A month? 6 months? A year? Is there actually a "right" or "wrong" amount of time? In this episode, we talk to Luke Entrup and Kendra Cunov, both of whom offer courses on either male or female cleansing, aka taking a break from dating. You'll hear both the guy's and girl's perspective on what every person needs after a relationship ends, to understand how they can actually find the relationship they want. Luke and Kendra have some great advice and insight that will help you understand where you are and what you actually need. (Guests: Luke Entrup, Coach and Kendra Cunov, Coach)

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    • 41 min
    Divorcing Because Your Spouse is Gay | S4, Ep. 13

    Divorcing Because Your Spouse is Gay | S4, Ep. 13

    It's one of those situations that sounds shocking and also probably happens more often that you think. How do you get through a situation like this? How do you work through the betrayal or feeling like you never even really knew your spouse - and most importantly, how can you move forward in a way that still allows for a productive relationship and co-parenting situation? We speak to Jessica Frew, who has been through this, and has some valuable tips and wisdom to help anyone else in this position. (Guest: Jessica Frew, Relationship Crisis Coach, The BOLD Logic)

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    SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Hello Divorce. Founded by an attorney with over 16 years of experience, who was sick of the broken family law system, Hello Divorce was created to make divorce easy, kind, and affordable and completely online. Their guiding principles are to make sure both spouses feel heard, supported, and set up for success as they move into their next chapter in life. To learn more go to ⁠⁠⁠www.hellodivorce.com⁠⁠⁠. And to get a FREE call with Hello Divorce, go to www.HelloDivorce.com/exEXPERTS


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    • 33 min
    Getting Unstuck in the Divorce Process | S4, Ep. 12

    Getting Unstuck in the Divorce Process | S4, Ep. 12

    It's easy to get caught up in dealing with the divorce settlement, and oftentimes the lawyers can even rile you up and set you off down a path that you hadn't intended. It's complicated and can get messy and emotional. But there is a different way to divorce, if you aren't planning to litigate, and we find out exactly how in this episode! (Guest: Heather MacKenzie, Hello Divorce)

    Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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    SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Hello Divorce. Founded by an attorney with over 16 years of experience, who was sick of the broken family law system, Hello Divorce was created to make divorce easy, kind, and affordable and completely online. Their guiding principles are to make sure both spouses feel heard, supported, and set up for success as they move into their next chapter in life. To learn more go to ⁠⁠www.hellodivorce.com⁠⁠. And to get a FREE call with Hello Divorce, go to www.HelloDivorce.com/exEXPERTS


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83 Ratings

83 Ratings

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Jessica & TH are a great resource for anyone even considering divorce. Their realistic advice is based on living through their divorce & it is extremely helpful!

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TH and Jess have clearly been there, done that and Divorce Etc offers listeners the gift their experience and wisdom along with their guests’ expert knowledge. A great, well rounded podcast that provides comfort, insight and just the right touch of humor. It has been an honor to be part of this podcast and to share my expertise with your listeners!

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