205 episodes

T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

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Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica‪)‬ T.H. Irwin and Jessica Herzberg

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T.H. and Jess are best friends who lived parallel lives - engaged a month apart, married a month apart, and after 13 yrs found out their husbands were cheating and traveling with their girlfriends as couples...for years!

Divorce etc... is a funny, uplifting, no-BS conversation with best friends who know how important friendship is during hard times. We've lived it, so we get it!

We ask the hard questions to lawyers, financial advisors, therapists, dating experts and anyone who can help you get through divorce. You don't know what you don't know, but we do!

@exexperts (TikTok, IG, FB)

    Unhooking From Your Divorce Story | S4, Ep. 21

    Unhooking From Your Divorce Story | S4, Ep. 21

    If you ever feel like you're living two parallel lives while going through your divorce - you're not alone! It's very hard to separate yourself from everything that's happening in the divorce, but this episode teaches you exactly how to do that, and how to unhook from your divorce story so you can move on! (Guest: Cherie Morris, Dear Divorce Coach)

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    Protecting Your Financial Future After Divorce | S4, Ep. 20

    Protecting Your Financial Future After Divorce | S4, Ep. 20

    The financial implications of divorce aren't limited to how much the settlement is worth, or how much child support or alimony is being paid. The bigger implications come with how well you understand your own situation and how you prepare yourself - and protect yourself - moving forward. This episode tells you what you should be thinking about in order to make sure you're on the right track with your money. (Guest: Hazel Secco, Founder, Align Financial Solutions)

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    Mother's Day After Divorce with Michelle Dempsey Multack | S4, Ep. 19

    Mother's Day After Divorce with Michelle Dempsey Multack | S4, Ep. 19

    Mother's Day can bring up a lot of emotions when you're divorced, but this inspiring episode shows how good it can get. T.H. talks to Michelle Dempsey Multack about how their Mother's Day experiences have improved since they were married, to the first one after they were divorced up until now. It's an uplifting conversation that shows how resilient we all are, while also dealing with co-parenting, the emotional side of divorce and trying to stay focused on the kids when you're struggling yourself. (Guest: Michelle Dempsey Multack, Moms Moving On)

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    Cat & Nat on Friendship, #MomTruths and Unfiltered Shit! | S4, Ep. 18

    Cat & Nat on Friendship, #MomTruths and Unfiltered Shit! | S4, Ep. 18

    The ultimate girl gang leaders, Cat & Nat, join us for a lively and laughable episode all about real life, parenting, and being raised by single divorced moms. You'll walk away with both valuable nuggets you can apply to your every day, but also new friends who understand life has its ugly parts, but explain how that doesn't have to stop you from enjoying all the great ones! (Guest: Cat & Nat, Hosts of "Cat & Nat Unfiltered")

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    Hot Topics Around Divorce | S4, Ep. 17

    Hot Topics Around Divorce | S4, Ep. 17

    We've got another round-up of hot topics questions about divorce - this time we cover everything from why you need a QDRO to whether or not you need permission to change your name to common divorce mistakes. Don't forget to send us your questions to hello@exexperts.com if you'd like them answered in an upcoming episode! (Guest: Tracy Moore Grant, Divorce Attorney, Amicable Divorce Network)

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    • 28 min
    Important Divorce Questions Answered | S4, Ep. 16

    Important Divorce Questions Answered | S4, Ep. 16

    From who files first (and why it matters) to how to avoid being bullied by your lawyer, this episode goes through rapid-fire questions on what you'll want to know, for every step of the process. (Guest: Jennifer Lazor, Divorce Attorney, Lazor Rantas)

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Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
83 Ratings

83 Ratings

RegHess ,

On the Money!

Jessica & TH are a great resource for anyone even considering divorce. Their realistic advice is based on living through their divorce & it is extremely helpful!

LMMazur ,

Amazing Hosts!

Jessica & TH are the BEST! They ask thoughtful questions and offer powerful insights from their own personal experiences. Listen up!

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No nonsense information and guidance

TH and Jess have clearly been there, done that and Divorce Etc offers listeners the gift their experience and wisdom along with their guests’ expert knowledge. A great, well rounded podcast that provides comfort, insight and just the right touch of humor. It has been an honor to be part of this podcast and to share my expertise with your listeners!

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