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Paige Pritchard is a spending coach and the host of The Money Love Podcast. She is here to talk about the challenges women face with overspending and impulse shopping, particularly during an difficult time like divorce.
It is important to pay attention to your money, and Paige works with her clients to develop a “Money Map” to manage their spending. We talk about revenge spending during divorce, which is a common thing during divorce, but does not provide the desired satisfaction.. We discuss the emotions that drive our spending, and Paige gives her “3 Ds” method for getting impulsive spending under control.
Get Paige’s free masterclass, “Why You Impulse Shop and How To Stop” here: https://paigepritchard.com/free-training-sign-up-gpod
Find Paige on Instagram and TikTok: @overcoming_overspending
Work with Paige: https://overcomingoverspending.com/

Tami Wollensak, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional, is here to talk with us about the options and the challenges faced by divorcing women who want to keep the family home. She wants women to make informed decisions about the house, whether that is done by keeping the current mortgage or refinancing.
We discuss the process of assuming a mortgage and some important details that you need to know about mortgage assumption. Tami also helps us understand how you can qualify for a mortgage if you’ve been a stay-at-home mom and you are just getting back into the work world or only have child support and spousal support coming in.
Qualifying for a mortgage after divorce requires meeting credit, income, and asset requirements. We also talk about how important it is to consider all expenses related to home ownership, including major repairs and ongoing maintenance, before you make a final decision.
Tami’s free resource with information on mortgages during and after divorce: https://www.tamiwollensak.com/flipbook
To book a free consultation with Tami to talk about your mortgage options, visit her website: https://www.tamiwollensak.com/ 

Rebecca Stern, a divorce and family mediator, is discussing the concept and benefits of mediation for divorce cases. Mediation is a collaborative process that allows couples to control their own outcome and make informed decisions with the help of a neutral mediator who guides them in creating a lasting and equitable agreement.
You can mediate your divorce even if you have a high-conflict spouse, because a good mediator will know how to deal with the personality differences and potential sticking points in negotiations. Rebecca says that when there is an imbalance in power or knowledge in the marriage, it is important for the mediator to ensure that both spouses have access to information and are educated about their divorce negotiations.
You don’t have to use a mediator in your state, but Rebecca recommends that you still retain an attorney in your state who represents only you, and who will be able to review your mediation results.
You can find Rebecca here: https://rebecca-stern.com/

Jay Skibbins, a co-parenting coach, is chatting with Tracy about the emotional and financial challenges of co-parenting. When their children are affected, it can be tough for mom. Financial issues, such as non-payment of child support, are a common source of disagreement between co-parents. Jay says to focus on whether the kids are truly being negatively impacted by the financial issues.
Other things for moms to focus on: finding ways to become financially independent, reframing your mindset around money, and expressing gratitude toward your co-parent. So much of the conflict with the co-parent can be reframed in a way to reduce the animosity while still having accountability.
Jay’s free ebook, Break Free From the Immediacy Trap: https://jay-skibbens.mykajabi.com/pl/2148001650

Tracy Malone, a narcissistic abuse and divorce coach, is here to discuss strategies when divorcing a narcissist. She defines narcissism and explains the difference between someone with narcissistic behaviors and someone diagnosed as a narcissist.
Tracy highlights the financial and legal abuse tactics commonly used by narcissists during divorce, such as hiding money, cutting off financial support, and obstructing the legal process. She emphasizes the importance of protecting oneself financially and legally by including conflict resolution policies and consequences for non-compliance in the divorce decree.
Get Tracy’s parenting plan course here:  https://parentingplans.org/
Tracy’s book Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can’t Make This Shit Up! https://amzn.to/3PVtTBo

Marissa Baker, a certified life coach and host of the Sun Happens podcast, shares her experiences and insights on finding joy after divorce. At 29 years old, Marissa was going through her SECOND divorce, so she speaks from experience.
We talk about the shaming culture surrounding divorce and the need to acknowledge and process emotions. Marissa also highlights the power of turning divorce into something wonderful and creating a sense of community for divorced women. She encourages trusting one's intuition and finding what truly makes YOU happy. There is power in connecting with others who have experienced divorce, which is why she has helped launch XXO Connect and is their Chief Growth Officer.
You can find Marissa on TikTok: @themarissabaker
Download Marissa's chapter in the book You Can Overcome Anything! With Love: https://www.divorcemoneyguide.com/courses/downloads/2157044654/you_can_overcome_anything_divorce_happens-pdf